Guy settles on dating an obese woman

[ThisNThat]

I don't think you read my post, try again think about it and come back and give it another go.
Also if you are needing any historical evidence. The people of the South Pacific would become very obese before they set sail to find other lands because they did not know when they would find land again and needed fat to survive.
Fat is the easiest food source for a human to process successfully to retain health. Most modern (weight industry led) science avoid allowing people to learn of this fact because they make more money selling the high protein myth.
Not that I am saying at all that obesity is healthy in a society that has plenty of food at all times. Just that, you are believing the lies that are FED to you. They make money because idiots buy the lies.

Interesting, funny how fat people in USA make excuses for their obesity, yet when you go overseas, oveweight people are few and far between.

I recall some guy coming back from Europe, and when he returned and arrived at a US terminal the amount of fat men and women were all over, compared to the thinner people overseas. He could see a noticeable difference.

 

[Plums]

Interesting, funny how fat people in USA make excuses for their obesity, yet when you go overseas, oveweight people are few and far between.

I recall some guy coming back from Europe, and when he returned and arrived at a US terminal the amount of fat men and women were all over, compared to the thinner people overseas. He could see a noticeable difference.

Yes Americans are very fat indeed. Its ironic that they end up preaching about something that is essentially their problem.

 

[Plums]

Dear Plums, whoever you are, I will adress your "worries".

Yes, I know quite well where and why women store fat. That said, we are talking about a reasonable amount of fat that might be used to nourish a second body being created inside of her, especially during the last two trimesters of pregnancy. However, a lot of overweight and obese women do not fit into this description since they are storing way too much energy and some of these do so even at early ages of before 20. You told me something I know and it was biased not to present an argument, but to make a point against mine. Half failed. And the "point" you make where women are more reacting to danger LOL yes, they are, but doesn't mean they are more EFFECTIVE, which is the thing that counts the most in eleminating danger.

I didn't imply I never had sex with an overweight woman, I explicitly said I did and I did not enjoy it at all. Read better or use glasses. And nowhere did I say that slim/fit women are immune to illnesses related to overweight women. Empty point overall.

And of course my taste regarding women is subjective, how should it be? Scientific? LOL

You don't need to get upset and defensive. I am saying that storing fat is a natural phenomena, If it wasn't natural it wouldn't happen, is that a simple enough explanation for you to understand. Unlike you I am not making a value judgement on obese people. You don't like having sex with fat women? So what. Who cares except you. I don't care. You can shag a table for all I care. There is a very subtle form of bullying that occurs amongst men which is probably why so many on here are incapable of maintaining a happy relationship with a woman. It seems to be that the priority for a man is to find a mate who is acceptable or impressive to other men. They want a trophy to make other men jealous. How shallow.
Being explicitly hostile to the idea that a man could find happiness with a woman who does not fit into your impossible narrow view of perfect womanhood. You are neutering the possibility of happiness for other men who are stupid enough to follow your misguided rules and advice about women.
You should try not taking yourself so seriously and getting to know the real you. Make your choices on what you really want and don't worry so much about what you male friends would be impressed by.
Top-Tip, Women are people too, not cars or video games.
Hey Yank, get your face out of your bargain bucket of KFC and try eating something natural for a change, you will feel better for it.

 

[Plums]

Dear Plums, whoever you are, I will adress your "worries".

Yes, I know quite well where and why women store fat. That said, we are talking about a reasonable amount of fat that might be used to nourish a second body being created inside of her, especially during the last two trimesters of pregnancy. However, a lot of overweight and obese women do not fit into this description since they are storing way too much energy and some of these do so even at early ages of before 20. You told me something I know and it was biased not to present an argument, but to make a point against mine. Half failed. And the "point" you make where women are more reacting to danger LOL yes, they are, but doesn't mean they are more EFFECTIVE, which is the thing that counts the most in eleminating danger.

I didn't imply I never had sex with an overweight woman, I explicitly said I did and I did not enjoy it at all. Read better or use glasses. And nowhere did I say that slim/fit women are immune to illnesses related to overweight women. Empty point overall.

And of course my taste regarding women is subjective, how should it be? Scientific? LOL

Also I almost forgot to say. Yes a woman's reaction to perceived danger is faster. They scream, you react and do something to sort it out. That is your role. You are not supposed to just stand there with your thumb up your arse.

 

[Reykhel]

I was friends at work with a good looking man who had a really fat wife and I asked him why he loved her. He said because she was beautiful and kind. I mentioned that it was unusual because men seemed to hate fat women. He told me that their sex life was incredible. She was soft and making love to her was really sensual, he also told me she was very tight which was better for him as he was quite small and slim in the male tackle department. He explained that he noticed fat girls were like this in his dating days so they were always his preference sexually.
So if you are a man on the small side, it may be worth putting your prejudice aside and giving bigger girls a go.

What heterosexual man would talk about his wife in such as way to a nosey slag at work........

Never let the truth get in the way of a good story eh.

This feminist fat enabling troll will soon be banned.

I bet this troll is a tranny.

 

[Reykhel]

When/if you can, go on and I will debate you about anything

You'll learn.

She's trolling and attempting to shame men.

Hopefully the mods will ban it shortly.

 

[Plums]

What heterosexual man would talk about his wife in such as way to a nosey slag at work........

Never let the truth get in the way of a good story eh.

This feminist fat enabling troll will soon be banned.

I bet this troll is a tranny.

You poor SNOWFLAKE, are your lickle legs trembling at the thought of non-moronic debate. Go stuff your face with another pizza and have a little nap, that will make you feel better.

 

[Plums]

You'll learn.

She's trolling and attempting to shame men.

Hopefully the mods will ban it shortly.

If anyone should get banned its you, you are obviously far too young to be on here. Go get your homework finished and then brush your teeth.

 

[Reykhel]

28 mai 2017 - Plums is a member of SoSuave Discussion Forum. Don Juan, Female, from London.

Note the date and the sex: note even here one month. Doesn't know how to behave on a predominantly
masculine site.

Zero humility, enters a site predominantly for male self development and for men discussing woman and relationship talk from
a mostly red pill masculine point of view. Shows no humility or willingness to learn.

Simply wishes to push her female frame and feminist beliefs and shame any man that disagrees with her.

Not the best of impressions after three weeks. Can't imagine it's going to improve.

Not sure if it's a female or a disgruntled tranny.

Sure that it needs to be banned though.

 

[Plums]

28 mai 2017 - Plums is a member of SoSuave Discussion Forum. Don Juan, Female, from London.

Note the date and the sex: note even here one month. Doesn't know how to behave on a predominantly
masculine site.

Zero humility, enters a site predominantly for male self development and for men discussing woman and relationship talk from
a mostly red pill masculine point of view. Shows no humility or willingness to learn.

Simply wishes to push her female frame and feminist beliefs and shame any man that disagrees with her.

Not the best of impressions after three weeks. Can't imagine it's going to improve.

Not sure if it's a female or a disgruntled tranny.

Sure that it needs to be banned though.

LOL, you did that all by yourself? Well done. What's your next project, how to make jelly wobble?

 

[sazc]

@Plums WTF?

 

[Plums]

@Plums WTF?

What?

 

[sazc]

What?

You've personally turned this thread into a sh1t storm. What do you hope to accomplish by attacking members?

Refer back to your first use of "snowflake"

Learn how to take sometimes differing opinions with style and class.

 

[sazc]

My .02¢

To each his own in terms of weight. One guy likes them large, one guy doesn't. Cool. I refuse to date someone with bad teeth. It doesn't mean I think they are lesser than people, it just means I am not attracted to them.

As far as estrogen goes. Actually, without estrogen a females metabolism declines and it is then that she gains weight, especially in her belly. These are the years she needs to be extra diligent about taking care of herself.

Aside from hormonal issues, which are rare, there is really NO reason for anyone to consume more calories than they need to.

There are people who have had trauma in their life, especially when young, and they are using food to soothe and self medicate. Those people need therapy, to help them overcome their issues, not necessarily a diet.

Everyone else is just a glutton.

 

[Plums]

You've personally turned this thread into a sh1t storm. What do you hope to accomplish by attacking members?

Refer back to your first use of "snowflake"

Learn how to take sometimes differing opinions with style and class.

I take no responsibility for stupid people not being able to make a rational contribution to a debate. If you study the threads more closely and without prejudice (which I doubt you will) you will find that the irrational hysteria was aimed at me and not the other way around.
Snowflake is a name for people who are incapable of accepting another person's conflicting view without becoming hysterical and abusive. It is not in itself a term of abuse, it is slang with a factual meaning. I could have stated that he lacked a fully developed theory of mind. But have you ever heard the phrase, pearls before swine?

 

[sazc]

I take no responsibility for stupid people not being able to make a rational contribution to a debate. If you study the threads more closely and without prejudice (which I doubt you will) you will find that the irrational hysteria was aimed at me and not the other way around.
Snowflake is a name for people who are incapable of accepting another person's conflicting view without becoming hysterical and abusive. It is not in itself a term of abuse, it is slang with a factual meaning. I could have stated that he lacked a fully developed theory of mind. But have you ever heard the phrase, pearls before swine?

You trigger easily.

This is an internet forum and there will always be keyboard warriors. Learn to not invest quite as much into what they say.

There was a tactful way to handle the comment about you being overweight,c which, iirc, is what triggered you. You got childish quickly.

May I also suggest that you hang out and read, and lean the types, styles and personalities of the members better, and lean the mission better.

@lizardking82 is actually one of the more mellow posters. The calamity that ensued was of your orchestration.

But... Do you the way you need to do you.

 

[Plums]

You trigger easily.

This is an internet forum and there will always be keyboard warriors. Learn to not invest quite as much into what they say.

There was a tactful way to handle the comment about you being overweight,c which, iirc, is what triggered you. You got childish quickly.

May I also suggest that you hang out and read, and lean the types, styles and personalities of the members better.

@lizardking82 is actually one of the more mellow posters. The calamity that ensued was of your orchestration.

But... Do you the way you need to do you.

Sorry, but your argument makes no sense and is not based on facts. You are just having an emotional outburst defending your friends who can't take their own medicine.

 

[sazc]

Sorry, but your argument makes no sense and is not based on facts. You are just having an emotional outburst defending your friends who can't take their own medicine.

Lol, I'm not interested in engaging you in a petty back and forth.

Do you girl!

 

[Plums]

That's inte

Lol, I'm not interested in engaging you in a petty back and forth.

Do you girl!

That's interesting. Do you not realise that is what you are doing?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Hey plums, I'm sorry but you are wrong about obesity being natural. It's natural to store fat, yes. But to BE fat? Not at all. Take young kindergarteners for example. They have no understanding of social dynamics and act completely off of their instinct, aka they are 100% natural. They are as insulting as they can be to fat people and find them repulsing without anyone telling them that fat people are. They only stop being insulting when people tell them to, i.e when they're socially conditioned to stop. And fat is NOT the easiest for your body to burn. If it was, your body would prioritize burning it over carbohydrates, which by the way is the easiest to burn. Allow me to explain it as simply as possible: sugar. Your body converts everything it needs for energy into sugar. Which is a carbohydrate. Everyone who took 8th grade health class knows this, which most people have. Furthermore, fat is not a carbohydrate. It is converted into sugar. Again, we learn this before high school. The reason why females are fatter than men is because of estrogen. In other words, your boobs and your butt and hips have more fat around it because of the estrogen promoting fat in those areas, which is a sign of fertility. Not fat around the calves, back, stomach, face. That is the ONLY reason why a woman should have a higher body fat percentage, because of their sexually dimorphic traits (again, rose are the boobs, but, and hips).

And a bit of advice, if you wish to not receive a ban/warning from the mods, you should stop while you're ahead. You are following the same path all other banned members have followed, even those who were regarded as top contributors among here.