Guy settles on dating an obese woman

[ThisNThat]

I was scrolling through that 4 page "sleeping with a fat chick" thread, and I have a friend that..who is kind of average built himself, definately not overweight...6 feet tall, dresses nice (works in IT)...that showed me a pic of his new g/f

She was an obese woman, sadly.

He actually does know this, and said he simply got tired of any attractive woman games that they've been playing with him. That dating this woman, he had none of that to worry about.

I was like "ooookaaaay? if you say so. lol"

Is there some trend where thinner men are giving up on dating who they are attracted to because they are sick of the games by hot women? Do they just roll over and throw up their arms and say, "at least fat chicks are a sure thing!" ?

 

[marmel75]

I couldn't do it because I find fat women repulsive to the point I don't want to see them with their clothes off

 

[The Duke]

I have a buddy that used to date a $tripper for several years. Girl had a decent head on her shoulders and was an easy HB8. They broke up when she decided she wanted to be a showgirl in Vegas.

That was the last hot girl he dated. Everyone since has been a fattie. He is no beta and is good with women, but I think he saw a fattie as less stress. He didn't have to worry about guys hitting on her, he didn't have to worry about keeping himself fit. Nowdays he is married to a fattie, but he still slips off and screws some hot looking bar sluht every now and then.

The fat girl/skinny guy trend has been going on for 25years that I am aware

 

[peterm]

Fat girl are much easier to approach, and they make less drama then hotties.

 

[wolf]

Have you ever been down on a fat girl during Summer? If you can get below the belly button then bonus points to you.

That's one tee shirt I don't brag about owning..

 

[EverSure75]

The wildest sex I've ever had was with a fat girl. My toes curl with delight just thinking about it. Lol.
It wouldn't/couldn't last though. More than a attraction thing...I prefer women who share an interest in exercising, working out, cooking healthy meals.

 

[cola]

Y'all tripping.

Fat girls got some of the best coochie
..
Its some cute fat girls out here too.

 

[Plums]

I was scrolling through that 4 page "sleeping with a fat chick" thread, and I have a friend that..who is kind of average built himself, definately not overweight...6 feet tall, dresses nice (works in IT)...that showed me a pic of his new g/f

She was an obese woman, sadly.

He actually does know this, and said he simply got tired of any attractive woman games that they've been playing with him. That dating this woman, he had none of that to worry about.

I was like "ooookaaaay? if you say so. lol"

Is there some trend where thinner men are giving up on dating who they are attracted to because they are sick of the games by hot women? Do they just roll over and throw up their arms and say, "at least fat chicks are a sure thing!" ?

May be he just wants a companion first. Its not unnatural to be fat because it serves a purpose. Women put weight on easier than men because in famine it is the fatter women who will survive longer to keep the population going. Thin women are not fertile.
So its natural. But that doesn't mean that its a good thing because in our society there is plenty of food all the time, being obese is bad for her health. She may be a lovely person and they could have a devoted relationship. But she could be cutting years off of her life.
The good thing is that she can lose weight. Maybe if she feels loved and valued by him and he is gentle with her she will do this. If she does it slowly, it may be a wonderful thing because he will feel relaxed enough to give himself to her and she him, and then when she is slim she may well become the stunner that he always wanted. I have seen some really fat women who have lost weight and become absolutely beautiful.
I was friends at work with a good looking man who had a really fat wife and I asked him why he loved her. He said because she was beautiful and kind. I mentioned that it was unusual because men seemed to hate fat women. He told me that their sex life was incredible. She was soft and making love to her was really sensual, he also told me she was very tight which was better for him as he was quite small and slim in the male tackle department. He explained that he noticed fat girls were like this in his dating days so they were always his preference sexually.
So if you are a man on the small side, it may be worth putting your prejudice aside and giving bigger girls a go.

 

[cola]

May be he just wants a companion first. Its not unnatural to be fat because it serves a purpose. Women put weight on easier than men because in famine it is the fatter women who will survive longer to keep the population going. Thin women are not fertile.
So its natural. But that doesn't mean that its a good thing because in our society there is plenty of food all the time, being obese is bad for her health. She may be a lovely person and they could have a devoted relationship. But she could be cutting years off of her life.
The good thing is that she can lose weight. Maybe if she feels loved and valued by him and he is gentle with her she will do this. If she does it slowly, it may be a wonderful thing because he will feel relaxed enough to give himself to her and she him, and then when she is slim she may well become the stunner that he always wanted. I have seen some really fat women who have lost weight and become absolutely beautiful.
I was friends at work with a good looking man who had a really fat wife and I asked him why he loved her. He said because she was beautiful and kind. I mentioned that it was unusual because men seemed to hate fat women. He told me that their sex life was incredible. She was soft and making love to her was really sensual, he also told me she was very tight which was better for him as he was quite small and slim in the male tackle department. He explained that he noticed fat girls were like this in his dating days so they were always his preference sexually.
So if you are a man on the small side, it may be worth putting your prejudice aside and giving bigger girls a go.

Telling you man fat girls r a whole untapped market.
Not too fat but like an Adele.

 

[bigneil]

That would be fine if I could get it up for fat girls.

Even with my current girlfriend it took me months before I trusted her enough that I could get 100% turned on.

In the meanwhile, I've been working out for 6 months and suddenly (especially after the trimmers) my body looks like a Cabana boy body. This will translate to more hot women, not more fat women.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Telling you man fat girls r a whole untapped market.
Not too fat but like an Adele.

That's some funny shyt.

 

[lizardking82]

May be he just wants a companion first. Its not unnatural to be fat because it serves a purpose. Women put weight on easier than men because in famine it is the fatter women who will survive longer to keep the population going. Thin women are not fertile.
So its natural. But that doesn't mean that its a good thing because in our society there is plenty of food all the time, being obese is bad for her health. She may be a lovely person and they could have a devoted relationship. But she could be cutting years off of her life.
The good thing is that she can lose weight. Maybe if she feels loved and valued by him and he is gentle with her she will do this. If she does it slowly, it may be a wonderful thing because he will feel relaxed enough to give himself to her and she him, and then when she is slim she may well become the stunner that he always wanted. I have seen some really fat women who have lost weight and become absolutely beautiful.
I was friends at work with a good looking man who had a really fat wife and I asked him why he loved her. He said because she was beautiful and kind. I mentioned that it was unusual because men seemed to hate fat women. He told me that their sex life was incredible. She was soft and making love to her was really sensual, he also told me she was very tight which was better for him as he was quite small and slim in the male tackle department. He explained that he noticed fat girls were like this in his dating days so they were always his preference sexually.
So if you are a man on the small side, it may be worth putting your prejudice aside and giving bigger girls a go.

LOL, you're probably a woman who's overweight and here;s why: biologically speaking, no matter how fat you are, you need 9 months to bring a baby to life and if there is close to nothing to eat, you are going to die much sooner than 9 months from starvation anyways.

Furthermore, put this into context today where a big part of the world does not suffer from lack of food and it suffers from oversupplies of it and your claim is out of context completely. Now, add to this that overweight and obese women are slow (biologically bad), they sweat more and that means they are less likely to be lady like since they accumulate smells in their body much quicker and personally, I find that repulsive psychologically.

In my personal experience, slim chicks are agile, they look and feel much more handable = feminine and soft and move better and easier in bed. Moreover, fat chicks come packed with higher chances of several diseases related to high blood pressure and heart diseases mainly and why the **** would I want to infuse my possible future baby with the genes of someone who has overweight/obese tendencies in her genes? No reason.

There is a fine line between curvy and overweight/obese. In general, guys who like overweight women do so because their mom was/is overweight. Personally, if the chick is not quiet and slim/fit, she doesn't even qualify for me and yes, I have tried bangin' overweight/obese chicks and no, not for me.

 

[The Duke]

. Its not unnatural to be fat because it serves a purpose. Women put weight on easier than men because in famine it is the fatter women who will survive longer to keep the population going. Thin women are not fertile.

LMFAO, this is hilarious. I don't know where you are from but its been almost 100yrs since we've had anything close to a famine in the United States. The reason women put on weight easier is because they have less muscle mass and produce less testosterone. Once you start to put on more muscle your body burns more calories. Also women tend to eat more carbs and less protein than men.

I can see it now, Plums starts a thread called "FAT GIRL GAME":
Step 1. Show up at her house with chocolates and edible flowers.
Step 2. Take her to McDonalds for a BIG MAC, LARGE COKE, AND LARGE FRIES.
Step 3. Head to Dairy Queen for a ice cream triple chocolate brownie fudge sundae.
Step 4. Take her home and tell her how VOLUPTUOS and CURVY she is!
Step 5. Dip your weiner in gravy.
Step 6. Hook her up to your crane so you can take her panties off.

All you need for sechs toys is a stick with a piece of chocolate cake hanging off the end!

ps. how do you take a fat girls panties off? lol I like to move my chic around, I think I'd end up hurting myself with a fat girl.

 

[Plums]

LMFAO, this is hilarious. I don't know where you are from but its been almost 100yrs since we've had anything close to a famine in the United States. The reason women put on weight easier is because they have less muscle mass and produce less testosterone. Once you start to put on more muscle your body burns more calories. Also women tend to eat more carbs and less protein than men.

I can see it now, Plums starts a thread called "FAT GIRL GAME":
Step 1. Show up at her house with chocolates and edible flowers.
Step 2. Take her to McDonalds for a BIG MAC, LARGE COKE, AND LARGE FRIES.
Step 3. Head to Dairy Queen for a ice cream triple chocolate brownie fudge sundae.
Step 4. Take her home and tell her how VOLUPTUOS and CURVY she is!
Step 5. Dip your weiner in gravy.
Step 6. Hook her up to your crane so you can take her panties off.

All you need for sechs toys is a stick with a piece of chocolate cake hanging off the end!

ps. how do you take a fat girls panties off? lol I like to move my chic around, I think I'd end up hurting myself with a fat girl.

You know what the funniest thing of all is? You will be dead a lot sooner than I am. Why? Because you are a man.

 

[Plums]

LOL, you're probably a woman who's overweight and here;s why: biologically speaking, no matter how fat you are, you need 9 months to bring a baby to life and if there is close to nothing to eat, you are going to die much sooner than 9 months from starvation anyways.

Furthermore, put this into context today where a big part of the world does not suffer from lack of food and it suffers from oversupplies of it and your claim is out of context completely. Now, add to this that overweight and obese women are slow (biologically bad), they sweat more and that means they are less likely to be lady like since they accumulate smells in their body much quicker and personally, I find that repulsive psychologically.

In my personal experience, slim chicks are agile, they look and feel much more handable = feminine and soft and move better and easier in bed. Moreover, fat chicks come packed with higher chances of several diseases related to high blood pressure and heart diseases mainly and why the **** would I want to infuse my possible future baby with the genes of someone who has overweight/obese tendencies in her genes? No reason.

There is a fine line between curvy and overweight/obese. In general, guys who like overweight women do so because their mom was/is overweight. Personally, if the chick is not quiet and slim/fit, she doesn't even qualify for me and yes, I have tried bangin' overweight/obese chicks and no, not for me.

I don't think you read my post, try again think about it and come back and give it another go.
Also if you are needing any historical evidence. The people of the South Pacific would become very obese before they set sail to find other lands because they did not know when they would find land again and needed fat to survive.
Fat is the easiest food source for a human to process successfully to retain health. Most modern (weight industry led) science avoid allowing people to learn of this fact because they make more money selling the high protein myth.
Not that I am saying at all that obesity is healthy in a society that has plenty of food at all times. Just that, you are believing the lies that are FED to you. They make money because idiots buy the lies.

 

[lizardking82]

I don't think you read my post, try again think about it and come back and give it another go.

I refuse to talk to your emotions. Take out your logic, if any available LOL

 

[Plums]

I refuse to talk to your emotions. Take out your logic, if any available LOL

You would have a hard time communicating to any level of debate. SNOWFLAKE.

 

[lizardking82]

You would have a hard time communicating to any level of debate. SNOWFLAKE.

I am still waiting for you to debate the points I brought up. When/if you can, go on and I will debate you about anything.

 

[Plums]

LOL, you're probably a woman who's overweight and here;s why: biologically speaking, no matter how fat you are, you need 9 months to bring a baby to life and if there is close to nothing to eat, you are going to die much sooner than 9 months from starvation anyways.

Who said anything about there being no food available at all. Of course you would die if there wasn't any food for 9 months. During famine there is usually food available but it is scarce. A person going through famine could survive on 300-500 calories a day. A fat woman would be fertile for much longer than a thin woman without fat reserves. Very thin women don't ovulate.
Fat is stored energy. The liver produces fat from unused energy. (When the body consumes too many calories for the daily requirement).

[/QUOTE]Furthermore, put this into context today where a big part of the world does not suffer from lack of food and it suffers from oversupplies of it and your claim is out of context completely. Now, add to this that overweight and obese women are slow (biologically bad), they sweat more and that means they are less likely to be lady like since they accumulate smells in their body much quicker and personally, I find that repulsive psychologically.[/QUOTE]
Your emotional response to obesity is subjective and not logical. Women produce oestrogen during their fertile years. This increases fat supplies around the hips, tummy and breasts because in women the liver will lay fat near to areas that may need energy before any other part of the body. Hips and tummy for pregnancy, breasts for feeding the baby. Oestrogen also affects the psychology of a woman. It makes her thoughtful, nurturing, and mindful of danger. that is why women will often react far sooner to threats than a man would. A woman's reaction will be instant because she has a baby to worry about. A man will take longer to assess the danger before reacting.
The over abundance of food in any one part of the world does not change the physiology of a human being. That is an illogical notion.

[/QUOTE]In my personal experience, slim chicks are agile, they look and feel much more handable = feminine and soft and move better and easier in bed. Moreover, fat chicks come packed with higher chances of several diseases related to high blood pressure and heart diseases mainly and why the **** would I want to infuse my possible future baby with the genes of someone who has overweight/obese tendencies in her genes? No reason.[/QUOTE]
You implied that you would never have sex with a fat women so how would you know? You don't know any thin/slim people with high blood pressure and heart disease. Pop along to your local cardiac hospital. You will be surprised. Guess what, slim people also get high cholesterol and fatty liver disease. Also your emotional reaction to preferring slim women is irrational and not worthy of argument in this discussion.

[/QUOTE]There is a fine line between curvy and overweight/obese. In general, guys who like overweight women do so because their mom was/is overweight. Personally, if the chick is not quiet and slim/fit, she doesn't even qualify for me and yes, I have tried bangin' overweight/obese chicks and no, not for me.[/QUOTE]

Subjective.

 

[lizardking82]

Dear Plums, whoever you are, I will adress your "worries".

Yes, I know quite well where and why women store fat. That said, we are talking about a reasonable amount of fat that might be used to nourish a second body being created inside of her, especially during the last two trimesters of pregnancy. However, a lot of overweight and obese women do not fit into this description since they are storing way too much energy and some of these do so even at early ages of before 20. You told me something I know and it was biased not to present an argument, but to make a point against mine. Half failed. And the "point" you make where women are more reacting to danger LOL yes, they are, but doesn't mean they are more EFFECTIVE, which is the thing that counts the most in eleminating danger.

I didn't imply I never had sex with an overweight woman, I explicitly said I did and I did not enjoy it at all. Read better or use glasses. And nowhere did I say that slim/fit women are immune to illnesses related to overweight women. Empty point overall.

And of course my taste regarding women is subjective, how should it be? Scientific? LOL