Sausage Fests: Why You Can't Avoid 'Em

[aura]

They're definitely not invisible. They are very easy to spot, since they are staring intently at any couple, or any guys who are there with attractive women.

It's a combination of jealousy, sadness and anger. It's a creepy vibe.

Yeah dude, I know what you mean by that. The stupid looking dudes are kind of invisible too, just something that you have to push aside to get to the girl you want to talk to.

 

[handle]

Even if the gay guy doesn't think you are, girls aren't so smart when it comes to that and who's to say the gay guy will help you when he figures it out (If he does at all.)

Have you been to a gay bar? Most of them are full of straight girls accompanying their gay friends. That might not seem obvious if you've never set foot inside one, but it's generally true.

 

[f283000]

Have you been to a gay bar? Most of them are full of straight girls accompanying their gay friends. That might not seem obvious if you've never set foot inside one, but it's generally true.

Even if that were true WHY?????? I can go to any college campus and be surrounded by beautiful women. If you have to go to a gay bar to meet women there is something horribly wrong here.....

 

[handle]

mixing it up sometimes is fun.

 

[f283000]

mixing it up sometimes is fun.

Being seen coming out of a gay bar by friends/family/people that know you is not.

 

[JCballin88]

I went to a gay bar one time (just a dumb college shenanigan with some buddies), and all we saw were flaming gay guys and super butch lesbians.

Needless to say we did not linger.

 

[handle]

Being seen coming out of a gay bar by friends/family/people that know you is not.

To each his own. Maybe you're from a more conservative upbringing, but nobody I know would care. Of course gay bars aren't for everyone (and you don't go to the super-gay ones, you hit the more "mainstream" ones to meet straight people)

 

[aura]

One of my "friends" continues his ****blocking mission on-line. He starts up a discussion stating that he was laughing at the guys at the party.

None too subtle attempt to curry favor with the ladies by portraying himself as mr. cool while taking value from the other guys he personally invited as being socially awkward.

This guy is a backstabbing prick, snake in the grass.

 

[f283000]

One of my "friends" continues his ****blocking mission on-line. He starts up a discussion stating that he was laughing at the guys at the party.

None too subtle attempt to curry favor with the ladies by portraying himself as mr. cool while taking value from the other guys he personally invited as being socially awkward.

This guy is a backstabbing prick, snake in the grass.

call him up on it.

 

[aura]

^^I was warned by others about the sleazeball, but since I hadn't noticed anything terribly amiss myself, I decided to let it go. It took a couple of months, but he's finally shown his true colors.

 

[nismo-4]

there is male over population right now so for every 1 woman looking for sex there are usually at least 5 or 6 males looking for sex and that is what gives women the power to be *****es even when they are ugly

THE SOLUTION???

Well its harder now for all men but as usual the better looking you are or richer or popular the better you lay rate will be. just get as many numbers as you can and run strong game to try and turn them into Fs very few men have a better than 10% conversion rate so you will have to work had most of the time..

The average guy sees that most women are taken, snobby, bi**hes, play lots of games, and hate sex. Yet they love money!

The rich or handsome guy sees that most women are available and genuinely sweet and love to get f**ked!

Nightclubs are always in favor of women and popular guys with money. There is indeed an overpopulation of desperate men. Sad but true.

Now everyone cold approaches in the daytime. You may get a number, but you still need to actually get a date. I've noticed guys go in clubs with their sisters, cousins, and mother (If they're attractive) and have a much better shot of getting a chick.

Men these days hate loneliness and know that their life would be a lot greater if they have at least ONE girl.

 

[Zodiac]

Have you been to a gay bar? Most of them are full of straight girls accompanying their gay friends. That might not seem obvious if you've never set foot inside one, but it's generally true.

I'm not gay so I have no interest in doing this. I tend to be where the girls go when their emotional tampon friend you described is done shelling out a few drinks to them.

Even if that were true WHY?????? I can go to any college campus and be surrounded by beautiful women. If you have to go to a gay bar to meet women there is something horribly wrong here.....

Exactly.

mixing it up sometimes is fun.

I have to ask; Are you gay or bi?

 

[aura]

Desperate times call for desperate measures, I suppose.

 

[Sh0t]

Girls go out a lot. They just go to better places than you do. They get invited everywhere. You don't.

General population statistics are useless because men die earlier. Are you sarging 70 year old widows? More men are born, but toward the end of life, there are many more women living.

Check out a link like this:
http://www.latimes.com/theguide/la-icumap,0,2003683.htmlstory

Look at how skewed things are in the prime ages.

And like those famous articles about UNC chapel hill, even if a college has 65% women, the bars are still sausage fests because the women don't want those guys. They go to better/exclusive parties where guys without connections will not be.

 

[Kerpal]

Girls go out a lot. They just go to better places than you do. They get invited everywhere. You don't.

General population statistics are useless because men die earlier. Are you sarging 70 year old widows? More men are born, but toward the end of life, there are many more women living.

Check out a link like this:
http://www.latimes.com/theguide/la-icumap,0,2003683.htmlstory

Look at how skewed things are in the prime ages.

And like those famous articles about UNC chapel hill, even if a college has 65% women, the bars are still sausage fests because the women don't want those guys. They go to better/exclusive parties where guys without connections will not be.

+1

Naturally, there are 105 boys born for every 100 girls. And this is before sex-selective abortion, infanticide and artificial pre-birth gender selection, all of which skew the numbers even more toward a higher proportion of boys. So right off the bat the numbers are against us and we're at a huge disadvantage. Combine that with women's programming to be hypergamous and you've got a real problem if you're not in that top tier of the hierarchy - women would rather share a top-tier man between them than settle for someone lower in the hierarchy.

I noticed this when I was in college - supposedly, my school had more women than men. Yet, EVERY SINGLE bar and house party I went to were total sausagefests, and I went out multiple nights a week. I'm talking a 2-4:1 guys per girl ratio or worse. Clubs were a little better, but consisted mainly of groups of hot girls hanging out with the alphas they came with and not open to talking to anyone else. My classes were the same ratio or worse; I'm assuming all the girls were in sociology, psychology, or whatever other hobby degree since they don't have to get real jobs after they graduate.

It's even worse once you're out of school. I feel like I'm surrounded by guys 24/7 with no real way to meet women. Going out by myself is going to be even less productive than going out with my college friends, since I'll just be that "creepy guy by himself". There's online dating, but the numbers are even worse there and the girls are very low quality. I'd rather masturbate to porn than have sex with a fat girl.

I know guys on here say not to have a "scarcity mentality", but how can you not when you've got so many guys competing over so few women? The same way I've been out of school for 6 months and can't find a decent job - every job I apply to I'm competing against THOUSANDS of other people. When the numbers are stacked against you this badly, it's impossible to make any progress.

****, this is depressing as hell

 

[JCballin88]

Kerpal, I'm right there with you man - my college experience was similar, and the job searching thing too. I just graduated in May, and after completing a really cool internship in a different city, I've had to move back in with my parents and am now completely jobless. Obviously I'm shooting resumes around like crazy, but it seems like world just took a cruel twist against a guy who really means well!

 

[element0]

Kerpal, I'm right there with you man - my college experience was similar, and the job searching thing too. I just graduated in May, and after completing a really cool internship in a different city, I've had to move back in with my parents and am now completely jobless. Obviously I'm shooting resumes around like crazy, but it seems like world just took a cruel twist against a guy who really means well!

Where in PA are you located, if you don't mind me asking.

I'm in Pittsburgh, and the job market sucks for recent grads, as does the population of eligible young women, no matter when I go I can't find them.

 

[JCballin88]

I actually graduated from school in the Pittsburgh area (but am from Upstate NY). This summer I did an internship in Williamsport PA, which is pretty different area than what I experienced in Western PA.

So now I'm back in NY but looking into moving to Pittsburgh where I have some family as well as friends from school...just can't find anything I can live on full-time yet.

 

[Vice]

I'm not gay so I have no interest in doing this. I tend to be where the girls go when their emotional tampon friend you described is done shelling out a few drinks to them.

*sigh*

This is EXACTLY why there is no competition when I go out to gay bars to meet straight girls. I can lead him to water, but I sure can't make him drink.

Girls go out a lot. They just go to better places than you do. They get invited everywhere. You don't.

I think this may be a root cause for guys on this forum whining about there not being any girls when they go out, it's because they go to places like f*cking sports bars where women aren't really interested in being.

 

[Zodiac]

*sigh*

This is EXACTLY why there is no competition when I go out to gay bars to meet straight girls. I can lead him to water, but I sure can't make him drink.

Considering you are the ONLY one doing this its not a wonder why. I really don't see the benefits of going to a gay par since every girl I've talked to that sees a guy at a gay bar instantly thinks he's gay.