You Will Always Pay for Sex

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Are you guys saying women don't need sex, or are their opportunities so abundant that they can just move on to the next guy? From my experience, it's when I show a want for sex that I'm suddenly paying in some way.
 

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MR_PERFECT said:
Are you guys saying women don't need sex, or are their opportunities so abundant that they can just move on to the next guy? From my experience, it's when I show a want for sex that I'm suddenly paying in some way.

I think it means you pay in some way directly or indirectly. Women don't just seduce you with sex just because you're male with no effort on your part. Even if you're the proverbial rockstar and a girl is throwing herself at you, your payment is in the effort against all odds to become a rich and famous rockstar. Some guys are more fortunate, accomplished or lucky than others and pay little to nothing directly, while other's are so unfortunate that only direct payment will acquire them sex.

On the other hand, more sex is available to most women than they'd ever want due just to the basic fact they have a vagina.
 

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As a Man you will ALWAYS pay for sex in some way. You may finance it, you may buy it retail or wholesale, you might rent it and you might just beat off to the advertising, but rest assured, you WILL pay.
I'm very surprised at this statement. It's inacurate at best.

Has no one ever had a one night stand?

Have you never meet a girl that just wanted to fvck?

Granted, it's happened to me only a handful of times - but it does exist. The gold diggers out there, will be with you in the HOPE that they will receive such benefit's.

Unlike commodities, the difference here, is that some women NEED sex. If you come accross one of these situations (lucky enough) you've hit a rare seam of gold. It'll dry up fast, but it's there.
 

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NewMan said:
I'm very surprised at this statement. It's inacurate at best.

Has no one ever had a one night stand?

Have you never meet a girl that just wanted to fvck?

Granted, it's happened to me only a handful of times - but it does exist. The gold diggers out there, will be with you in the HOPE that they will receive such benefit's.
I think the point is you didn't just walk into a bar pick out which girl you wanted and took her right out the door no problems no delays. Yes, I've met the drunken girl and sometimes she was desirable that wanted to hook up with little or no effort on my part. But it never happened as I just described. It was after a few hours at the bar and I wasn't exactly just minding my own business and she came onto me. I had to approach several girls through the night. Let's be honest the real reason I spent all the time, getting ready, driving to the bar and the couple hours spent there and money for drinks was primarily to get laid. We can debate whether it was necessary to buy drinks for myself. Then I had to spend time and effort dealing with obstacles. then I had to provide transportation to her place. No, I didn't spend a lot of time and money directly on the girl, but the point is I payed time, money and effort indirectly on what was an easy lay. contrast this with a woman. She could be dropped off at a bar with no money and without any effort on her part could be out the door to have sex with pretty much any guy of her choosing.



Unlike commodities, the difference here, is that some women NEED sex. If you come accross one of these situations (lucky enough) you've hit a rare seam of gold. It'll dry up fast, but it's there.
I don't know there's a lot of commodities people basically need and to get them they have to pay. Women may need sex but the thing is it's freely and readily available to them.
 

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bootless discussion. should be locked and modded. it helps very few and just causes arguments. You'd think a mod would know better than to let this sort of rot fester.
 

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I wonder how many women accept dates with guys they have very little interest in just to be entertained and feel validated?[/QUOTE]

D$mn near every women I met. I see this all day at work and boy do the dudes at work fall into their little traps.
 

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I think the point is you didn't just walk into a bar pick out which girl you wanted and took her right out the door no problems no delays. Yes, I've met the drunken girl and sometimes she was desirable that wanted to hook up with little or no effort on my part. But it never happened as I just described. It was after a few hours at the bar and I wasn't exactly just minding my own business and she came onto me. I had to approach several girls through the night. Let's be honest the real reason I spent all the time, getting ready, driving to the bar and the couple hours spent there and money for drinks was primarily to get laid. We can debate whether it was necessary to buy drinks for myself. Then I had to spend time and effort dealing with obstacles. then I had to provide transportation to her place. No, I didn't spend a lot of time and money directly on the girl, but the point is I payed time, money and effort indirectly on what was an easy lay. contrast this with a woman. She could be dropped off at a bar with no money and without any effort on her part could be out the door to have sex with pretty much any guy of her choosing.

And you have to spend time driving to the store - gas in your vehicle, wear on the car etc. etc.

It's a mute point.

There's always intangables.

But if your going out 'Just to get laid' - then good luck to you.

My point was, your not buying dinner, or drinks, or trips away. You don't have to do those things in order to get laid.
 

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ketostix said:
On the other hand, more sex is available to most women than they'd ever want due just to the basic fact they have a vagina.
It's funny how the reason sex is so much harder for us to aquire(from hot women particularly speaking), is because they hold so many more requirements that we have to meet, whereas, with us, all she has to do is be SEXY and HOT. In order to aquire sex from a hottie, the guy must have solid game..or with some chix, such as those within the underground scenes, have status(be a DJ, be in a band, be a promoter, etc.). It's amazing how much differently attraction works for women, than it does for men. This is why it's a struggle for guys to get laid. Had attraction for women worked the same way it does for us, we'd be getting laid literally around the clock; whenever and wherever we wanted to, and more importantly, with WHOMEVER we wanted. But unfortunately we live in an imperfect world and that's not the way things work.
 

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I've acknowledged the value of sex shortly after coming to this site. I can't deny that sex has a price tag, and if you think about it, you can work out the actual cost in dollars. Rent, clothes, effort broken down at an hourly rate, dates, cologne, gas, etc. can all be factored at some extent as "cost of sex".

I needed to come up with a reasonable rate that I would charge in order to compare it to a woman's efforts and worth. Why? Because, I wanted to establish a way to determine if a woman was worth my efforts, or was extorting me through sex.

My going rate is:

$2.oo, per pound, per hour.

You'll notice, I've factored in some compensation for the willingness on my part to ƒuck as well.

If a 100lb. chick wants to get her ƒuck on for an hour, it's going to cost her $200. If a 175lb chick wants to ƒuck for the same half hour, it's going to cost her considerably more: $350.

Everything has a price tag.

And, I can use this logic to explain why I don't need to bother with going longer than 5-10 minutes: fat, broke-as$ høes just can't afford to pay me for longer.

:D :cool:

But, unfortunately, it's nowhere near the going rate that AFC's have allowed women to charge. For example, if a plumber made a house call to fix a leaky faucet, he'd likely waive the $100 if the woman gave him a good BJ. What's a good BJ? Like, 15 minutes? So, you can figure that $100 = 15 minutes of a woman's sex. Therefore, you could deduce that this particular woman's going rate is $400 an hour.

Fun with logic, huh?
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
As a Man you will ALWAYS pay for sex in some way. You may finance it, you may buy it retail or wholesale, you might rent it and you might just beat off to the advertising, but rest assured, you WILL pay.

I'm curious, how do you married men pay for your sex?

Saying that sex is always paid for is oversimplifying and implies that women have all the negotiating leverage.

I really think it's more of an exchange, whether it be willing or begrudgingly accepted. The real question we should be asking is, who is making the profit? Can it be a fair trade, a mutual exchange? Or does one party always come out on top...
 

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"Free" sex is really just paying for sex with sex. The purest form of sex.

The idea that you have to pay something OTHER than sex for sex is where supplicating behavior comes from. "Oh, girls aren't interested in sex, so I have to buy her jewelry, do nice things for her, get her flowers, kiss her ass, etc so I can get sex".

It all stems from the false understanding that women don't love the cawk. Once you understand that women do, indeed, love the cawk, then the need to "pay" something other than your sex for her sex goes away.
 

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squirrels said:
"Free" sex is really just paying for sex with sex. The purest form of sex.

The idea that you have to pay something OTHER than sex for sex is where supplicating behavior comes from. "Oh, girls aren't interested in sex, so I have to buy her jewelry, do nice things for her, get her flowers, kiss her ass, etc so I can get sex".

It all stems from the false understanding that women don't love the cawk. Once you understand that women do, indeed, love the cawk, then the need to "pay" something other than your sex for her sex goes away.
Which is precisely why my prostitution career isn't taking off.:(
 

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It all stems from the false understanding that women don't love the cawk. Once you understand that women do, indeed, love the cawk, then the need to "pay" something other than your sex for her sex goes away.
They might love to get fukked, but the realization of sex as a commodity most often results in an indirect exchange of money for sex.

But I don't think that was Rollo's point. Even if "she wants it" and she pay for everything and whatnot, there are almost always costs involved, be it monetary, time, opportunity, etc.
 

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Lets see, how do married men pay for it? sex the day before she wants to go furniture shopping,3diamond 10th anniversary ring[4000 dollars and I didn't even get a BJ]time at soccer fields[kids are a part of the reason they want sex,the onlly reason to get married]Houses that are bigger than you need, and 115,000 dollars to pay her off in the property settlement.
 

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^^^ That's interesting. My boss was talking about how he got laid one time because he had just closed a deal on a new house and his wife was feeling "happy" about it all. Most other times he mentions it, she's like pushing him away, lol.
 

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^^^ That's interesting. My boss was talking about how he got laid one time because he had just closed a deal on a new house and his wife was feeling "happy" about it all. Most other times he mentions it, she's like pushing him away, lol.
That's why you should always marry a horny gal, a horny gal. She should Look like she masturbates in her spare time.

I've found one like that. It's just a matter of me reeling her in closer. All these other superficial women can kiss my ass!
 

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Tazman said:
^^^ That's interesting. My boss was talking about how he got laid one time because he had just closed a deal on a new house and his wife was feeling "happy" about it all. Most other times he mentions it, she's like pushing him away, lol.
That's actually pretty funny, but at the same time it's really not. It sux to be in a situation like that. But if he's gonna stay in a situation like that, then he gets what he deserves. That's why, the second the b*tch stops putting out, I'm out the f*ckin' door. The least a woman can do if she isn't horny or in the mood, is lay there as a dead f*ck and let the husband pound away. It's only the right thing to do as a partner. I know if I wasn't in the mood to fool around with my girlfriend or wife, I'd still do it, just to please her. Of course I don't mean "please" her in an AFC way. It so happens that I'm not a fan of having sex with the vagina(I prefer all the other forms of sex with a woman), but I'll do it anyway, just to satisfy her sexually.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
That's why you should always marry a horny gal, a horny gal. She should Look like she masturbates in her spare time.

I've found one like that. It's just a matter of me reeling her in closer. All these other superficial women can kiss my ass!
They're all horny, she just most likely isn't horny for him. Yeah, there's some exceptions where the wife really isn't a horny woman, but most of the time they're horny. She's probably a gold-digger who doesn't mind being with a guy she's not attracted to(as long as she's financially sound) and is "getting it" from someone else. See guys, this is what happens when men marry gold-diggers..they end up like this guy; no sex.
 

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Na that is wrong...if you're in a relationship with a woman and the sex is negotiated then ur with the wrong woman or you've allowed her to use sex as a leverage poin / bargaining chip. It really is unhealthy and the man is better off being alone than to be in a relationship where sex is not freely given from both sides.
 
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