You have to be a borderline Sociopath to get respect from modern women

[inasilentway93]

Unfortunately, if you are the type to lose some sleep over hurting someone's feelings or being a jackass then yes, you are not fit for this game. Showing empathy towards women is a recipe for ****ing disaster. If you aren't a natural sociopath then it's gonna be tough trying pretend to be something you are not. Instead try to suppress your empathic nature. If you are a natural sociopath though like me it's rather easy.

niceeee lmaoo

 

[PlayHer Man]

Everyone is selfish. Girls like a sense of adventure and guys like *****. Why make it so complicated by saying that they are "*****s"? Are you frustrated? Maybe you have a bad personality that girls don't find attractive.

I know b*tch talk when I see/hear it. You're a girl aren't you? Only a girl would say "Are you frustrated? Maybe you have a bad personality that girls don't find attractive."

Who told you that you could join a discussion with men?

 

[Zarky]

OP should look up the "Byronic Hero" and the tales of Ovid.

Bad boys have always been desired by women. To think there's anything "modern" about the phenomenon is to show a tremendous lack of historical understanding.

EDIT:

Though in reading the responses by OP in this thread, it's quite clear he has no desire for understanding anything. He's a typical "keyboard tough-guy" who lashes out from the safety of his mom's basement. Sad but typical here.

 

[PlayHer Man]

OP should look up the "Byronic Hero" and the tales of Ovid.

Bad boys have always been desired by women. To think there's anything "modern" about the phenomenon is to show a tremendous lack of historical understanding.

EDIT:

Though in reading the responses by OP in this thread, it's quite clear he has no desire for understanding anything. He's a typical "keyboard tough-guy" who lashes out from the safety of his mom's basement. Sad but typical here.

Looks like we have another lady among us gentlemen:

"lashes out from the safety of his mom's basement."

Yeah.. only a b*tch would say that. Typical female shaming and fear of male aggression.

 

[zekko]

Unfortunately, if you are the type to lose some sleep over hurting someone's feelings or being a jackass then yes, you are not fit for this game. Showing empathy towards women is a recipe for ****ing disaster. If you aren't a natural sociopath then it's gonna be tough trying pretend to be something you are not. Instead try to suppress your empathic nature. If you are a natural sociopath though like me it's rather easy.

I think that if your goal is to pump and dump, and bang as many women as you can, then you are correct that having empathy can stand in your way. But I don't think that lacking empathy is necessary to create attraction. Lacking empathy makes it easier for you to do the things you have to do to bang a lot of women. Because there are going to be hurt feelings involved, and the more you can innure yourself to that, the easier it's going to be for you.

For you younger people, "shopping" around by dating lots of different partners, either in quick succession or all at once, is just the nature of the beast. For men and for women. Relationships, if any, are likely to have a short shelf life as you try different things. That doesn't mean the guy is a sociopath or the girl is a BPD b!tch (as much as you might like to say that). It's simply the way things are.

 

[backbreaker]

Looks like we have another lady among us gentlemen:

"lashes out from the safety of his mom's basement."

Yeah.. only a b*tch would say that. Typical female shaming and fear of male aggression.

zarky probably has more game in his right hand then you have in your entire pathetic therorizing body.

calling someone a ***** for the simple fact that they disagree with you is the epitome of a *****

 

[( . )( . )]

zarky probably has more game in his right hand then you have in your entire pathetic therorizing body.

If you count 5+ years of her whining about the manosphere and shouting WOMAN HATER! in every post as "game".

What is this , some kind of union for the fraudsters of SS?

 

[Groovy]

Hey guys unfortunally I haven't read the thread yet but I wanna point something out.

It's true that to attract a girl you have to be a little agressive!

But to make her like you as a person, I think that is another story.

I wonder how overrated it is to be brash and loud in todays society, how many people mistake rudness for force. And what about humility is that stupid and unimportant?

I've been reading some taoist texts; let me just post chapter 76 from Tao Te Ching.

76
When a body is alive, it is soft and supple
- it is cold and rigid when it dies.

When plants are alive, they are tender and trailing
and burnt and brittle when they're dead.

What's iron hard is what is dead, then
And what is fluid and sensuous and rippling is alive . . .

And that is why a huge army
With all its strength and complacency will be defeated:
Like a great tree
axed down.

Everything hard and strong will come down,
And everything soft
shall rise, shall overcome.

 

[White Boy]

Sounds like a bunch of dudes whining in here.

That's the game. You need to change yourself when you interact with other people. It's called charisma, and it's called having social skills.

It isn't limited to women.

So people in here who think they're making some amazing revelation need to get a grip...

 

[Zarky]

It's interesting that all the folks I've put on my ignore list tend to post all in a row. I'm wondering if they're all sock puppets of one giant sosuave troll.

 

[zekko]

I don't know why everyone here seems to think you have to be a sociopath to get women. I'm simply not seeing this in my day to day life, I've never seen it, it's just not there.

Bad boys have a certain appeal, especially with certain women. But as a type, I don't see them winning out over other male types that women find attractive. In fact, overall, I'd say they have a weaker hand to play than most types. I've always thought that the reason PUAs focus so much on bad boys is that you can play that type even if you have nothing else going for you. It's an easy (lazy?) way to fake value. But it loses against actual value.

 

[floydb25]

Why are people always fighting on EVERY ****ING THREAD?

 

[Zarky]

I think it's a handful of major trolls who have no life just trying to rile people up in any way they can. I've gotta head to store to buy some wine for a chick who is cooking me dinner tonight, so I don't have the time to get into it. Nor the interest. I just ignore 'em.

 

[( . )( . )]

I think it's a handful of major trolls who have no life just trying to rile people up in any way they can. I've gotta head to store to buy some wine for a chick who is cooking me dinner tonight, so I don't have the time to get into it. Nor the interest. I just ignore 'em.

Which one of you is the bull dyke? Got 20$ that says Snarky's the submissive.

 

[PlayHer Man]

I don't know why everyone here seems to think you have to be a sociopath to get women. I'm simply not seeing this in my day to day life, I've never seen it, it's just not there.

Bad boys have a certain appeal, especially with certain women. But as a type, I don't see them winning out over other male types that women find attractive. In fact, overall, I'd say they have a weaker hand to play than most types. I've always thought that the reason PUAs focus so much on bad boys is that you can play that type even if you have nothing else going for you. It's an easy (lazy?) way to fake value. But it loses against actual value.

Sure.. if you're looking for some kind of long-term relationship. But that vast majority of modern women are only good for sex and nothing more. Therefore, it doesn't matter.

The guy getting laid easily and quickly is getting a better return on investment than the white knight fag who is getting dominated by his girlfriend (I know a lot of them).

 

[twentee]

the guy doing all the whoring around is going to catch an STD, and sooner rather than later. you can use all the condoms and dams you want, if you keep rolling the dice, with women who are rolling the dice, you'll get warts, etc, and you'll DESERVE them, too.

 

[SamTheHobit]

This thread is a load of bullsh!t.

Not all women are the same.
...

Treat each woman as a separate country/culture.

Stop applying the same techniques to different women.

Shut off your interior monologue and penetrate their way of thinking.

 

[Darth]

Guys, I don't see any reason to argue.

Not all women are the same, but the ones I want all share one characteristic: femininity. What that means is that if you are a strong man, she will mold herself into a suitable partner for you if she's the right girl.

I don't think being the "bad boy" is the way to go because that's faking it. My point is, why not get back down to basics? Why not be a strong man with a strong hand?

I don't mean just talk about it or puff yourself up or act tough or phony- I mean just run the woman's life. No fuss, no show- just do it. And if she turns out to be a nag or a complainer or a "strong woman", then find one who isn't.

That's my point.

P.S.
And strong values- which means you're on a forum not to peacock but to take in the good information and toss out the misogynist or "bang lots of women" BS which constitutes the majority of posts here. This is not a cult, gentlemen- just a place you can stop for 10 minutes a day (if that) for advice and brotherly encouragement. At least, that's what I'd like to see happen.

Rather than focusing on outward behaviors, work on your values inside. Question them. Get your values right, and behavior will follow. Introspection is undervalued today...

 

[zekko]

Sure.. if you're looking for some kind of long-term relationship. But that vast majority of modern women are only good for sex and nothing more. Therefore, it doesn't matter.

The guy getting laid easily and quickly is getting a better return on investment than the white knight fag who is getting dominated by his girlfriend (I know a lot of them).

Again, is there no middle ground here? I've never had the ambition to be a big time player, I just want to be able to get the women I want when I want. Usually the guys who complain about girls being sociopaths are the guys who want the LTRs, and they're wondering why they can't find suitable partners. If you're just looking for sex, what does it matter if they're sociopaths? If anything, that probably makes it easier.

And I am certainly not getting dominated by my girlfriend. Although you are right, there are a lot of them.

[QUOTESamTheHobit]Not all women are the same.[/QUOTE]
Right. The thing that has always driven me nuts about pickup circles is all the black and white thinking.

 

[Down Low]

Again, is there no middle ground here? I've never had the ambition to be a big time player, I just want to be able to get the women I want when I want. Usually the guys who complain about girls being sociopaths are the guys who want the LTRs, and they're wondering why they can't find suitable partners. If you're just looking for sex, what does it matter if they're sociopaths? If anything, that probably makes it easier.

And I am certainly not getting dominated by my girlfriend. Although you are right, there are a lot of them.

(QUOTE=SamTheHobit)Not all women are the same.(/quote)

Right. The thing that has always driven me nuts about pickup circles is all the black and white thinking.

It's only too easy to prove that animals evolved to have distinct sex characteristics and sex roles. Women are all the same in that they are women and behave as women do. It's the great strength of this forum that we hash out those female behaviors.

It is irrelevant that one particular woman is more nagging, while another is less so. What's important is to identify nagging as a trait that all women have in common.