Yes, Girls Are CLOWNING (and SHARING!!) Your Text of Desperation

[Purefilth]

Okay that's fine but if I call up a 20 year old shed be like wtf and say text me instead .... you guys are in a different generation .

Sadly this is the case. Even a couple of my guy friends dont answer the phone, they'll send a text instead sayin whats up?
I call them out on it, and just say "answer the damn phone man, stop acting like a little girl!" But this is just how it is.

I think the main point Harry is making here is "Don't be that guy!"

 

[VladPatton]

My sister showed me sh!t like this from a chump that messaged her friend. Have no doubt, girls share and laugh about such chumphood with tears.

If you text minimally and with the idea that it is exposed to the world, you will naturally have a ceiling on it. Voice mails from guys they don't know seems creepy to them. Or they won't remember who the phuck you are anyway.

Text, set it up, knock it down on a date.

And all this of course with the golden 2 strike rule. It's a sad world when a girl smiles at you, gives you her number, and you STILL have to figure out if she's sincere about it.

 

[JohnChops]

Sadly this is the case. Even a couple of my guy friends dont answer the phone, they'll send a text instead sayin whats up?
I call them out on it, and just say "answer the damn phone man, stop acting like a little girl!" But this is just how it is.

I think the main point Harry is making here is "Don't be that guy!"

Personally I like calling but some women just will not respond via a call. Its stupid. Fvck this texting sh1t cause when I used to text a lot I didn't get laid very much. Now I barley even text a girl, set up a date and hit it. Point is fvck texting, fvck psssy

 

[incognito42]

Okay that's fine but if I call up a 20 year old shed be like wtf and say text me instead .... you guys are in a different generation .

Exactly.

 

[Leopold]

You don't have to leave a phone message if she doesn't pick the phone. Just text her that day and tell her you are going to call her later at a certain time. That way you are letting her know your expectations.

If she's unable to pick up the phone or answer back shortly after the missed call then that's a... STRIKE!

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Making fun of other guys for being AFC is one of the easiest ways to build rapport with a women. It's also a neg hit, an amog, and dhv all at once. The more attractive she is, the more that men will constantly make fools of themselves to her, so you always have something to talk to a hot girl about.

When a girl opens up about making fun of another guy, she is actually flirting with you. Inability to communicate attraction is usually the basis of male-female "friendships."

Sage advice right here.

For those of you who don't know what to talk about to girls on the first phone convo (keep it short), first meet up/date, etc., pay attention to BB post. I often milk this topic all the way to after I am banging them. She will always have new stories of chumps spitting game at her.

To make fun of afc's, and tease her about the choice of men she makes, is a genius way to get her laughing and making her feel a connection with you. It is one of the things that can make women feel like they have finally met somebody who understands what they go through in dating, and automatically makes you stand out as different than all the rest, after all, Who would make fun of those type of guys? Only a guy that gets it.

 

[DonGorgon]

she only told you about this dude cause she did not like him!!!! she meets many other dudes who use the same or worse tactics and she will F many of them if she finds them attractive enough

 

[incognito42]

she only told you about this dude cause she did not like him!!!! she meets many other dudes who use the same or worse tactics and she will F many of them if she finds them attractive enough

Yep, and prolly send nude photos and stay up half the night sexting him lol

 

[NobodyCares1]

Yup, girls ridicule desperate AFC guys, but they also despise them and dislike them. I've had good opportunity to see this on my own lately.

 

[zekko]

Sadly this is the case. Even a couple of my guy friends dont answer the phone, they'll send a text instead sayin whats up?
I call them out on it, and just say "answer the damn phone man, stop acting like a little girl!"

Lol, I wasn't aware that talking on the phone was a hallmark of masculinity. In fact, back in my day when we actually had to rely on phone calls, it was very much considered a feminine pursuit.

Texts are far more convenient, face it. The last thing I'm going to do is spend time on the phone, I freaking hate telephones. Most annoying invention ever.

The problem with the guy in the OP isn't that he texts, it's that he's a chump.

 

[marmel75]

Read the text advice from girlschase.net...its money and works well.

 

[Aristippus]

JohnChops:
"Okay that's fine but if I call up a 20 year old shed be like wtf and say text me instead .... you guys are in a different generation ."

The question is, are you going to lead and be the man or are you going to jump through her hoops?

 

[ARrocket]

This is it. A lot of women would much rather text than have a phone call. It says more about women than anything else.

*I* would rather receive a text than a phone call. I can't multitask and talk on the phone too well. Why waste my time on the phone?

Like others have said, if she likes you, the method of communication won't matter.

If you're a little b!tch, the method of communication won't matter either.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Okay that's fine but if I call up a 20 year old shed be like wtf and say text me instead .... you guys are in a different generation .

Well, I reward them with the c0ck the very same way, to 20 year olds, 50 year olds, and any broad in between. Also, I rarely talk on the phone, specially before meeting up the first time. I text a lot for days, throughout the day, and most, the ones I follow up on, end up getting exposed to my rod.

Yeah, because that "different" generation of women doesn't text! It's not the method of communication (texting), brotherman, it's you.

 

[headFirst]

I agree texting is more simplistic. Have you ever gotten a call from a person you like whether it is a girl you are interested in.. or just a good friend? And you just don't feel like answering the phone? I think whether the girl is interested or not that happens often. They just don't feel like answering the phone and will probably send you a text in a bit saying: "hey saw you called, whats up?"

I think unless you are pretty close with the girl calling is an option but shouldn't be the rule.. Now I do agree getting crazy with texting is ridiculous as well. But if you don't get too anxious, and play your cards right it can be just as effective.

So if you get a number.. before you do obviously you probably say something along the lines of hey, you should let me take you out some time what is your number?

After you get the number.. maybe pop in with a text like mid week saying, I was thinking maybe friday we can do such and such if you are free.. And if she gives a positive response.. Say something like alright sounds good.. and then the night before give her a call.. or something..

I think calling for the first interaction sometimes puts a lot of pressure on the girl.. so it's better to lead with a simple text (make sure it's your best stuff) and not just small talk.. and then go from there.

just my $.02..

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Acting like a complete AFC; whether it be through text messages or in person, or on the phone is going to kill your chances......

I like your point about getting the number. You're right. And any veteran around here knows the simple truth that girls will give you a number even if they are not interested. And it will more than likely be a REAL number. It doesn't mean anything!

 

[JohnChops]

JohnChops:
"Okay that's fine but if I call up a 20 year old shed be like wtf and say text me instead .... you guys are in a different generation ."

The question is, are you going to lead and be the man or are you going to jump through her hoops?

Obviously lead like a man brotha!

 

[Pair A Dice]

Texting is fine when done right. That guy obviously has no game and tries to compensate by throwing money around. Probably works a little bit, but not always.

 

[sylvester the cat]

some girls will sleep with you and it will mean absolutely nothing to them.

hell, some girls will marry you. it doesn't necessarily mean they're interested in you. lol

 

[the_stig]

Two days ago a very attractive blonde off PoF asked for MY number! I could tell she was an attention who're by the volume of messages I received from her, but her interest seemed high, she always initiated, however I have laryngitis and couldn't call.

My text game was tight, I could tell her IL was growing... Then I sent one text that wasn't quite perfect. Haven't heard from her since. LoL