Worst cities for picking up chicks?

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Are you trolling me?

Toronto. Hands down. Look it up online.

As bradd80 said, Toronto is the online dating CAPITAL OF THE WORLD. Think about the reason behind that.

Let me go further:

Toronto is the CAPITAL OF THE WORLD when it comes to FACEBOOK on a per capita basis. Think about why.

Toronto is the CAPITAL OF THE WORLD when it comes to speed dating.


ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

You might as well lock the thread now.
:crackup: cosign. Don't forget, where do you think the slutwalk movement started? yep you guessed it, Toronto!

sighsigh said:
Lol what's wrong with Toronto? I think it is not the city but the fact that you go to bars/clubs to pick up chicks (i.e. places with the highest chance of being turned down).
It comes down to the over all quality of women in Toronto which mainly composed of big city quasi feminists sluts & flakes sprinkled with golddigging bores. There is something toxic about the women in Toronto, its a good thing I moved to another part of the country where things are somewhat better although also messed up in its own way.
 

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am i crazy? or is every single girl in chicago a pot head?
No, you're not. I've fvcked a girl from Illinoise (I'm almost certain that she said that she was from Chicago too)...Definitely a bimbo pot head, but man, nice young body and tight po0n.
 

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Just to add that there is also a reason why there is a large DJ membership from Toronto, not to mention that Mystery himself is from Toronto as well as Keys to the VIP, a show dedicated for guys battling each other for picking up women in clubs was filmed in Toronto.

There is a reason for this madness.
 

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Miami is not too bad, you just have to get out and play the field for sure just like anywhere else. And the scale of quality of women here is astronomical. You do really get some perfect 10s here. And I don't mean pretty girls, i'm talking about genetically perfect creatures of beauty. Women that don't have to work a day in their lives and make it just on their looks alone.... that fine. Not just perfect features, but highly desirable features, there's a difference. Of course these girls know this and won't even consider you unless you really have your game on straight. Not 2012 new car and great job straight. Ferrari and Yacht on the bay ready to go, living in a 40 million dollar house kinda straight. And there's plenty of those people here.

But yeah with decent game here you can go out late at night and scoop up all the drunkies for quick sex fairly easily. The best way I have seen this done is to live very close to a popular place to hang out. Like that you can invite them up for a quick smoke and let things go from there. Among my friends we call this having your "watering hole" You go out and check the local hole and see whos drinking. Maybe catch a quick "bite"... ;)
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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the Midwest is not that great. Is it my imagination, or is Milwaukee horrible for game? (I get dates, but I have to really look hard.)

I remember Minneapolis being easier, but not that great either
 

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If you're not pulling in NYC, your game is off. It has one of the best m/f ratios of any city in the US. AskMen once rated it the #1 city for US men.
 

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you guys think living in a big city is bad, try moving to a small town and game the hoe's around here! the uglier you are, the more tattoo's you have, the more times youve been in jail, the sh!ttier the car, the more kids you have, the better off you're going to be. education, money, car/truck that was made in the last 5 years, owning your own house, having no kids be dammed. in other words the more of a catch you THINK you are the less success you're going to have. wear Areopostale clothing like it's going out of style? you'll fit right in. have a bunch of goofy no meaning tattoo's? you're good to go. have about 4 or 5 b@stard kids with 4 or 5 different girls? oh that makes you such the family man. work at Waffle House as a cook making $7.50 an hour? you'll pull more leg then a day trader on Wall Street that drives a BMW. live in a single-wide trailer with your mom, 7 ex girlfriends, and have one car to share between all of you? you're marriage material.lol i sh!t you not, everything i say is true! the hotter the girl the uglier the guy youll see her with.
 

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Zerro said:
And/or a g'damn hipster.



It could be a matter of taste. If a place is full of the type of women you like and you're the type of guy they like then of course it will be easier for you. Not everyone goes for the same stuff.
You're right, it could be a matter of taste but if you can't find a girl to fit your taste in NYC or Chicago, you're going to have a very hard time finding one anywhere.

There are 8 million people living in NYC and 3.2 million in Chicago. If you count the people living in the surrounding areas, that adds up to a few million more. Those cities also have a very high number of young people and they attract people from all around the world. Then there are people from all around the world that come to visit. By sheer statistical probability alone, there should be a huge variety of girls at any given time.

Then you also have to consider that both cities are major cultural, financial and educational centers. So they should attract a higher number of quality individuals (both guys and girls). There is a lot of trash too, but given that there is such a high demand to live there it would stand to reason that a high number of attractive, intelligent and creative people should be there.

People complaining that NYC and Chicago are the "worst places" to pickup chicks must have awful game or maybe they're stuck in the worst niches of those cities. Because there are plenty of chicks of all kinds to be picked up.

If you're having trouble picking up in NYC or Chi-town, then your game must be pretty weak. It doesn't get much better anywhere else. And I'd bet most of the places that are better are also big cities.
 

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Lexington said:
You're right, it could be a matter of taste but if you can't find a girl to fit your taste in NYC or Chicago, you're going to have a very hard time finding one anywhere.

There are 8 million people living in NYC and 3.2 million in Chicago. If you count the people living in the surrounding areas, that adds up to a few million more. Those cities also have a very high number of young people and they attract people from all around the world. Then there are people from all around the world that come to visit. By sheer statistical probability alone, there should be a huge variety of girls at any given time.

Then you also have to consider that both cities are major cultural, financial and educational centers. So they should attract a higher number of quality individuals (both guys and girls). There is a lot of trash too, but given that there is such a high demand to live there it would stand to reason that a high number of attractive, intelligent and creative people should be there.

People complaining that NYC and Chicago are the "worst places" to pickup chicks must have awful game or maybe they're stuck in the worst niches of those cities. Because there are plenty of chicks of all kinds to be picked up.

If you're having trouble picking up in NYC or Chi-town, then your game must be pretty weak. It doesn't get much better anywhere else. And I'd bet most of the places that are better are also big cities.
I figured we were talking only about the city itself, if you're going to include the suburbs then things get better in my opinion. The good chicks I've found have all been out in the suburbs, downtown Chicago though has been an utter waste of time.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Zerro said:
I figured we were talking only about the city itself, if you're going to include the suburbs then things get better in my opinion. The good chicks I've found have all been out in the suburbs, downtown Chicago though has been an utter waste of time.
I hung out some in River North and the Gold Coast area. I picked up quite a lot of tail there. Those tend to a little bit more snooty and upscale but the numbers game is your friend. Plenty of hotties hang out and live in Old Town. Rush and Division has a bunch of bars where you can find the "woo girl" crowd. Wrigleyville is full of early-20s party girls looking to get nailed. The Wicker Park area has a lot of hipster slvts, some of whom are quite attractive.

You've got UIC, Rush, Northwestern, University of Chicago, Loyola and several other colleges/grad and professional schools in the area too. Given that over 60% of higher education enrollments are made up of females and their age ranges from 18-30, sheer probability dictates that there must be a large number of hotties.

And I disagree about the suburbs. Suburbs are suburbs wherever you are....malls, chain restaurants and stores and cookie cutter people. Again, just by simple statistics, it's highly unlikely for a suburb to have more hotties than the happening parts of a large city like Chicago.

Seriously, if this is your idea of "bad" you must have some ridiculous standards. I don't know what you're expecting. A downtown area full of Victoria's Secret supermodels? Daytona Beach during Spring Break?
 

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Lexington said:
I hung out some in River North and the Gold Coast area. I picked up quite a lot of tail there. Those tend to a little bit more snooty and upscale but the numbers game is your friend. Plenty of hotties hang out and live in Old Town. Rush and Division has a bunch of bars where you can find the "woo girl" crowd. Wrigleyville is full of early-20s party girls looking to get nailed. The Wicker Park area has a lot of hipster slvts, some of whom are quite attractive.

You've got UIC, Rush, Northwestern, University of Chicago, Loyola and several other colleges/grad and professional schools in the area too. Given that over 60% of higher education enrollments are made up of females and their age ranges from 18-30, sheer probability dictates that there must be a large number of hotties.

And I disagree about the suburbs. Suburbs are suburbs wherever you are....malls, chain restaurants and stores and cookie cutter people. Again, just by simple statistics, it's highly unlikely for a suburb to have more hotties than the happening parts of a large city like Chicago.

Seriously, if this is your idea of "bad" you must have some ridiculous standards. I don't know what you're expecting. A downtown area full of Victoria's Secret supermodels? Daytona Beach during Spring Break?
Good stuff Lex...I'll actually be visiting Chicago in July for a week so i'll be sure to hit up Rush and try to catch a Saturday Cubs game at wrigley.
 

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J Roc said:
I live in Atlanta. Its very easy to pickup girls in this city.
Yeah I have heard the same, the broke guys don't seem to do well in the "A' I always found it suspect how Nismo and DonGorgon aren't dong well:kick: . When everyone on UPA is pratically begging other guys to come and I quote to atl too "help me with these females" cause it's over abdudant. Even my boy who went there recently said it was a "cake walk" and the guy is as thristy as they come

starfishandcoffee said:
the Midwest is not that great. Is it my imagination, or is Milwaukee horrible for game? (I get dates, but I have to really look hard.)

I remember Minneapolis being easier, but not that great either

Minneapolis is alright if your in decent shape + tight game. If your minortiy it's even more important to be in better shape and make sure you got your stuff togther. It's not hard but the women here are spoiled and entitled, because their is no competition. You got tons of 4's and 5's then you have hot chicks who everyone and their mother is chasing. Add the thristyness factor in and it's a nightmare

To those guys complaning about Tornoto gaming your doing it wrong, read this

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=179275

:rockon: :yes: :rockon:
 

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Solomon said:
Yeah I have heard the same, the broke guys don't seem to do well in the "A' I always found it suspect how Nismo and DonGorgon aren't dong well:kick: . When everyone on UPA is pratically begging other guys to come and I quote to atl too "help me with these females" cause it's over abdudant. Even my boy who went there recently said it was a "cake walk" and the guy is as thristy as they come




Minneapolis is alright if your in decent shape + tight game. If your minortiy it's even more important to be in better shape and make sure you got your stuff togther. It's not hard but the women here are spoiled and entitled, because their is no competition. You got tons of 4's and 5's then you have hot chicks who everyone and their mother is chasing. Add the thristyness factor in and it's a nightmare

To those guys complaning about Tornoto gaming your doing it wrong, read this

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=179275

:rockon: :yes: :rockon:
Really? We're going at it wrong? So it is all in our heads. Is this in our head:

http://www.nowtoronto.com/lifestyle/story.cfm?content=173613

Or this:

http://www.city-data.com/forum/toronto/1114459-why-toronto-women-so-reserved-flaky-8.html

Or this:

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts7037843.aspx

Or this:

http://tomenunite.blogspot.ca/2009/05/dealing-with-cold-and-aloof-women.html

I could go on and on and on. The experiences of ONE person posting on the forum does not represent all of Toronto. Nobody is saying that you CAN'T have fun in Toronto. Just that for a big city, it is a lot less fun than it should be.

Here are some facts again:

1) Toronto is a world leader in online dating
2) Toronto is a world leader in speed dating
3) Toronto has more Facebook users per capita than ANYWHERE else
4) Ashley Madison, a website dedicated to cheaters was founded in Toronto
5) Cougar life, a website dedicated to older women looking for young men, YOU GUESSED IT! Founded in Toronto

Does all of the above and #1-5 sound like a city that is a great and fun city for meeting women? Why would any one of those facts above exist in a swinging city that is great for people looking to date? Remember, people take the path of least resistance. When the dating scene in the city itself bombs, they look elsewhere and *bam*, you got fact #1-5.

This issue in Toronto is all too real. It is very well-known. We're not just nagging and complaining. We've been out there. We've sarged. We've picked up. We've been rejected. We've seen much of what anyone else has seen on here. But we just feel that something is not right in this city and there is plenty of facts and others to back it up.

I never said you CAN'T pick up in Toronto. Just that it is sh1t here IN GENERAL more so than it should be.
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Really? We're going at it wrong? So it is all in our heads. Is this in our head:

http://www.nowtoronto.com/lifestyle/story.cfm?content=173613

Or this:

http://www.city-data.com/forum/toronto/1114459-why-toronto-women-so-reserved-flaky-8.html

Or this:

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts7037843.aspx

Or this:

http://tomenunite.blogspot.ca/2009/05/dealing-with-cold-and-aloof-women.html

I could go on and on and on. The experiences of ONE person posting on the forum does not represent all of Toronto. Nobody is saying that you CAN'T have fun in Toronto. Just that for a big city, it is a lot less fun than it should be.

Here are some facts again:

1) Toronto is a world leader in online dating
2) Toronto is a world leader in speed dating
3) Toronto has more Facebook users per capita than ANYWHERE else
4) Ashley Madison, a website dedicated to cheaters was founded in Toronto
5) Cougar life, a website dedicated to older women looking for young men, YOU GUESSED IT! Founded in Toronto

Does all of the above and #1-5 sound like a city that is a great and fun city for meeting women? Why would any one of those facts above exist in a swinging city that is great for people looking to date? Remember, people take the path of least resistance. When the dating scene in the city itself bombs, they look elsewhere and *bam*, you got fact #1-5.

This issue in Toronto is all too real. It is very well-known. We're not just nagging and complaining. We've been out there. We've sarged. We've picked up. We've been rejected. We've seen much of what anyone else has seen on here. But we just feel that something is not right in this city and there is plenty of facts and others to back it up.

I never said you CAN'T pick up in Toronto. Just that it is sh1t here IN GENERAL more so than it should be.

"Wah Wah Wah"

I leave the site for a couple months and yet the whiners are still here, tsk tsk tsk

Go to any city in America and the same case can be made, even guys from Chicago aren't agreeing as well as Atlanta, on this site. It's all about perception. One guy says he is winning the other says he isn't. You know what I would do? find out what the guy is doing that is winning and how and pick his brain. I have followed Real2's journal for quite some time now. The guy goes out 2- 4 times a week and puts in work, can you honestly say you do that? The guy has a social circle, can you honestly say you have one? and he has hobbies where he meets highly attractive women, once again can you say the same? not only that but he also is putting himself in a financial position to win. Right now this is what I'm trying to do, hence for myself "Game" is pushed to the back, because if this "new venture" I have comes through it will double my income and I'm not bragging just stating facts.

What are you doing to improve you situation? are you a man that women seek out when you go out or are you just "another guy"? Do you have a social circle? What are you doing to make your life more fulfilling that other people wanna be part of your life?


Quite frankly if your not succeeding where you're at then maybe it's time to move.

You been on SS for what 8 years? by now it shouldn't be rocket science maybe Basic Algebra but not rocket science :yes:
 

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DJDamage said:
Just to add that there is also a reason why there is a large DJ membership from Toronto, not to mention that Mystery himself is from Toronto as well as Keys to the VIP, a show dedicated for guys battling each other for picking up women in clubs was filmed in Toronto.

There is a reason for this madness.
This is too much. The biggest DJ membership on here is really from Toronto!

I've read writings from:

1) TilltheEndofTime
2) DJDamages
3) Evan12
4) Bradd80

If you do a search for the word "Toronto" as I have, almost nothing good is said about this blighted city.

This is so liberating. This means I can always blame this city if I not successful with women and have it more difficult than any other DJ on this board who doesn't live in this city.

But, as they say, necessity is the mother of invention -- where others see a problem, look at how this DJ sees an opportunity:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=63708&highlight=toronto
 

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perth is pretty slow. all perth is, is a place for big mining companies to house the documents in tall buildings in the city.

sure you can find hot girls but there not too many. most have bf's here those. i think it's a sleepy city. could love to move to melb when i'm a stock broker. would be epic
 

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