Really? We're going at it wrong? So it is all in our heads. Is this in our head:
http://www.nowtoronto.com/lifestyle/story.cfm?content=173613
Or this:
http://www.city-data.com/forum/toronto/1114459-why-toronto-women-so-reserved-flaky-8.html
Or this:
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts7037843.aspx
Or this:
http://tomenunite.blogspot.ca/2009/05/dealing-with-cold-and-aloof-women.html
I could go on and on and on. The experiences of ONE person posting on the forum does not represent all of Toronto. Nobody is saying that you CAN'T have fun in Toronto. Just that for a big city, it is a lot less fun than it should be.
Here are some facts again:
1) Toronto is a world leader in online dating
2) Toronto is a world leader in speed dating
3) Toronto has more Facebook users per capita than ANYWHERE else
4) Ashley Madison, a website dedicated to cheaters was founded in Toronto
5) Cougar life, a website dedicated to older women looking for young men, YOU GUESSED IT! Founded in Toronto
Does all of the above and #1-5 sound like a city that is a great and fun city for meeting women? Why would any one of those facts above exist in a swinging city that is great for people looking to date? Remember, people take the path of least resistance. When the dating scene in the city itself bombs, they look elsewhere and *bam*, you got fact #1-5.
This issue in Toronto is all too real. It is very well-known. We're not just nagging and complaining. We've been out there. We've sarged. We've picked up. We've been rejected. We've seen much of what anyone else has seen on here. But we just feel that something is not right in this city and there is plenty of facts and others to back it up.
I never said you CAN'T pick up in Toronto. Just that it is sh1t here IN GENERAL more so than it should be.