Worst cities for picking up chicks?

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I really don't have an extraordinary level of experience, but either Kansas City / Lawrence isn't too bad, or I'm just in general doing pretty well.

Probably not near as good as others here, but I'm beating my expectations and I'd peg it to inexperience.
 

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Lexington said:
You guys bashing the big cities must have TERRIBLE game. I've lived in Chicago before and I moved to NYC in January. Both cities have been all you can fvck buffets for me. You guys really have no idea how good you have it. Try living in a small town and you'll see what "bad" really is.
A ****ing men to this.

Try 'high altitude' training by trying to game where I live. Its harder when your here, but when you get to a normal city (Vegas, so cal, anywhere), its like god mode. Really. Living where I live, I go through periods where I don't have sex for 1/2 months. Its more difficult in every facet of the game from approaching, to getting their number, and god forbid actually meeting them. Go to a city, and its literally 10 times easier to do all of these things.

Example: The last two vacations I have taken were to cities in the southwest USA. On the first vacation I had no fewer than 9 numbers on my first two nights and had at least 3 women who wanted to meet up. On my second vacation, It was about 4 women who were talking to me and even sending pictures. In those two weeks, I had probably 15 women (good looking ones) who wanted to talk to me and meet up, 1 **** close, and one really hot date. Now lets analyze the numbers where I live - on a given weekend I will get between 0-2 phone numbers of which on average 0 will respond. After acquiring 50 + phone numbers, I had exactly 1-2 worthwhile dates and 1 subsequent lay from them ( most lays they were from out of town and never saw them again).

So you folks who talk about the city being bad to get women- not sure how this can be. Try coming to my neck of the woods, than maybe after some appreciation sinks in, it'll be easier to get women back at home..
 

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I only seriously try to score on vacation. That's WAY more fruitful.

I sarged in CT hardcore for nearly 8 years and got one BJ and two day-two almost lays lol.

NYC probably isn't that bad, but I would have no place to extract to since I don't live there.

Mike: Hey HBnyc, come back to my place, it's only a 110 minute train ride lol.

HBnyc: Eww. Go away CT creeper lol

So generally I get sex once or twice on a good year when I'm traveling and staying at a hotel in another city.

Heartford and New Havven are dangerous and awful for sarging.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Groten is no picnic. New Londone is worse.

Stamford is good.

NYC isn't bad at all. I don't even know why the hell I said that in my main post. lol There is though a lot of the sex and the city high society wannabees working and living down there.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Stamford is good.

NYC isn't bad at all. I don't even know why the hell I said that in my main post. lol There is though a lot of the sex and the city high society wannabees working and living down there.
Thanks man. I'll try Stamford. I've been toying with South Nor walk (So No) lately.

Despite some high society crap, I do think New York-type women are more chatty than reserved New Englanders. I like that part.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Thanks man. I'll try Stamford. I've been toying with South Nor walk (So No) lately.

Despite some high society crap, I do think New York-type women are more chatty than reserved New Englanders. I like that part.

Stamford bars area gets a lot of hot azz from CT and Westchester NY. I think the Crab Shell is still there or may still be good. It's by the water. I haven't been there in years so not sure if the name changed or if it was there or in Greenwich..
 

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corrector said:
This is too much. The biggest DJ membership on here is really from Toronto!
I've lived in Toronto for over 15 years and can attest that it's a very bizarre kind of place. One the one hand, there's lots of hot women around (especially downtown, where there's a large concentration of students and young people in general). On the other hand, it absolutely sucks for picking up women for some reason. It's like women here are from a different planet or something. Despite their good looks, they come across as very cold and almost asexual. Many are perpetually single. Maintaining eye contact is an unheard of phenomenon and as far as day game cold approaches, I am not exaggerating when I say that I have witnessed such a thing exactly twice in my 15 years here (both attempts were unsuccessful). Most guys don't even bother because they know it's a waste of time.
 

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i grew up in a city of only 25,000 people....ANY big city is easy for picking up...try living in the sticks and picking up...you get lucky to even see any really hot girls let alone closing them...don't see how in the world anyone is saying a place like NYC could be bad for pick....my goodness...big cities are a paradise of women for me
 

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starfishandcoffee said:
the Midwest is not that great. Is it my imagination, or is Milwaukee horrible for game? (I get dates, but I have to really look hard.)

I remember Minneapolis being easier, but not that great either
Not sure about MI, but SE WI is VERY easy for picking up women. Fake, easy women everywhere. Especially Watertown, and its 50 billion bars.
 

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sageproduct said:
What's bad about LA? I want to move there in a few years.
From my few years of experience in LA, it is not bad, you can get it in in LA, but the women are of a different breed in that it's common to flake out on plans, not call back, or have things fall through once you've pulled them.

But I would never say anything bad about LA in terms of women. When I lived in LA and travelled any place else, I couldn't wait to go to LA and see some *****es. My standards became astronomical when I lived in LA, if they're not 9s or 10s there's just no time, there's too many hott *****es walking around that fvck on the first date.


I will say, relocating the Minnesota after living in LA, has been absolute torture. Unless you're into that plain jane out of shape white girl who doesn't fix their makeup type of look, Twin Cities in general is not the spot to be if you have LA/Vegas/Miami tastes.
 

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Yes you do have to match the status of girls in Miami to typically get with them. The car, the house, the looks. Not that it's not like that in any city but in all honesty you do have to have the car in Miami. At least that to supplement your game.
 

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Interesting. The cities most frequently mentioned are the ones with the most Jews.

These are the biggest Jewish metro areas outside of Israel (rounded to thousands):

1970 New York
621 Los Angeles
514 Miami
310 Paris
276 Philadelphia
261 Chicago
227 Boston
210 San Francisco
195 London
175 Buenos Aires
175 Toronto
165 Washington
108 Moscow
95 Baltimore
95 Montreal
94 Detroit

It's just fascinating that some DJs find a city the worst, while others find it the best. It's almost as if your success depends on whether the local Jewish princesses are currently fawning over your physical type. Is this minority of super-slvts so loud and obnoxious in the dress shops and restaurants that their running mouths exert a constant influence on the other tramps? Could it be as simple as going where the girl-oriented local commercials just so happen to feature a man who looks like you? Or avoiding the general appearance / style of Eurasian refugees? I wonder.
 

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I posted on this thread back before it was recently resurrected, but I'll bring up Milwaukee again.

It absolutely blows in the wintertime, and you need to be really good at daygame to make it work. The weather's awful, so nobody's anywhere except the bars. I'm lucky I'm taking a class this semester...if I didn't, I'd have to pull at work, and I'm not doing that.

It's an all you can fvck buffet in the summertime, though; what with the frequent weekend festivals. Women from all over the country come to Summerfest, and people are actually outside.
 

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Zerro said:
Supposedly from statistics Chicago has an overabundance of single women. From what I've seen what it doesn't have is an abundance of desirable single women.
Chicago is amazing. That's total BS.
 
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Chicago is amazing. That's total BS.
My father lives there and I'm visiting him every chance I get.

Yeah. The women are out of this freaking world.

murder rate's through the roof, but I'd still move there
 

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It is, but most of it is on the South Side. Although it is higher across the board.

It all started with Rahm Emmanuel coming into power. He's horrible. Changed all police protocols and policies. Especially those that deal with gang activity in Southside.

Gotta make you wonder what he screwed up in the first administration with Obama.
 

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DonGorgon said:
atlanta GA jis full of hos prostitutes and sugar babies who all think they are celebrities so pickups are hard fro 90% of men..

ATL is super easy to pickup girls. I've been here for 3 years and am feasting on all these women.
 

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