Women believe their own lies.

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Its tiring reading the same old "evil women, poor men" knee-jerk response to every malfesance done by a member of the opposite sex. Men cheat, lie, and kill too. I never see any fist-shaking when men start unneccesary wars or financial crises resulting in way more societal damage than some floozy who wants something on the side.

If we're going to demand morality from our women, we need to start with ourselves. Lead by example. Plenty of you guys would sleep with a married woman if given the opportunity.....pretty hypocritical to sit here and judge when you're not exactly a shining beacon of morality yourselves.
 

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f283000 said:
The reason for women and their bad behavior is due to a lack of strong men to check their bad behavior!

Women are running wild because we are in a society full of beta's that lets them run wild.
BINGO, and the PUA ain't helping a damn thing, instead of raising women up MOST Pua's are only worried about fuccing, the Mack/DJ on the other transcends the game


sstype said:
Its tiring reading the same old "evil women, poor men" knee-jerk response to every malfesance done by a member of the opposite sex. Men cheat, lie, and kill too. I never see any fist-shaking when men start unneccesary wars or financial crises resulting in way more societal damage than some floozy who wants something on the side.

If we're going to demand morality from our women, we need to start with ourselves. Lead by example. Plenty of you guys would sleep with a married woman if given the opportunity.....pretty hypocritical to sit here and judge when you're not exactly a shining beacon of morality yourselves.
Don't say that our guys will think your a feminist and label you Beta for trying to "shame" other men

:rolleyes:
 
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You can justify her adultery if you want, but IMO it was wrong of both her and the guy she was with (again I don't sleep with married women). It wasn't ok for her to cheat just because some guys are willing to sleep with married women. That's either a woman talking or a guy who is trying to justify his own infidelity.

And sure, what she did was not as bad as starting a war (again sstype really sounds like a woman), but my girlfriend and I both think she was wrong, and we hung out with them both as a couple every weekend. I'm not siding with him because he's my gender.

And for the record, men don't start wars, banks do.
 

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bigneil said:
You can justify her adultery if you want, but IMO it was wrong of both her and the guy she was with (again I don't sleep with married women). It wasn't ok for her to cheat just because some guys are willing to sleep with married women. That's either a woman talking or a guy who is trying to justify his own infidelity.

And sure, what she did was not as bad as starting a war (again sstype really sounds like a woman), but my girlfriend and I both think she was wrong, and we hung out with them both as a couple every weekend. I'm not siding with him because he's my gender.

And for the record, men don't start wars, banks do.


Banks are run mainly by men, so what exactly is your point here? You made a sweeping generalization that "Women will believe their own lies" and I responded in kind. Obviously not all men are warmongers or financial con artists, but how would you feel if you were demonized as such simply because of your gender. Your friend's wife cheated because she made the choice as an individual to do so, not because she's a woman and by default her actions speak for the entire gender.


Yes what she did was wrong and disrespectful. Her airing her dirty laundry to her enabling friends on facebook was extremely disrespectful . Women who think they are entitled to behave like children because they are women need to be held accountable for their actions. Your friend did the right thing walking out.

And that's the root of the issue. Until men as a whole stop treating women as precious little flowers or sexual goddesses, this sort of bad behavior will continue. Undeserved attention will make anyone turn in to a b*tchy diva. Look at male celebrities and athletes and their enablers.

People (both men and women) need to stop giving undeserved respect and attention just because someone is hot, famous, a woman, whatever. This is a societal problem, not gender-specific.

If that makes me a woman/weak/beta, well I could honestly care less what some anonymous internet poster thinks.
 

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That's Fokked up. They have a little one 1 year old.

This is why you can't turn a slut into a house wife...

The sad thing is that she Planned that shyte, It wasn't the spur of the moment, I couldn't controlled myself I was weak. She setup a whole plan and lied about it.

It's over. If he forgives her, She'll do it again next year...
 

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sstype said:
Its tiring reading the same old "evil women, poor men" knee-jerk response to every malfesance done by a member of the opposite sex. Men cheat, lie, and kill too. I never see any fist-shaking when men start unneccesary wars or financial crises resulting in way more societal damage than some floozy who wants something on the side.

If we're going to demand morality from our women, we need to start with ourselves. Lead by example. Plenty of you guys would sleep with a married woman if given the opportunity.....pretty hypocritical to sit here and judge when you're not exactly a shining beacon of morality yourselves.
Give this guy a medal since he figured out and put us all in our places by generalizing us DJs just as we have generalized women. Do you not see the irony?

Also anyone that sleeps with married women (I don't at least) deserves the bullet to the head the husband most likely will do earn he figures out what you have been doing with his wife. Its pathetic really.

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I could honestly care less what some anonymous internet poster thinks.
Welcome to how I and a few/most feel about your generalizations about Don Juans.
 

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bigneil said:
I don't sleep with married women for many reasons:

1) The woman is proving she is no good, so why would you want her?
2) Because men know women are crazy, men should not seduce women who are married to other men.
3) You might end up with a crazy husband on your hands (and you know she'll tell him about you).
4) It causes way more pain for the other guy than you gain in pleasure (it's not utilitarian).
5) If I cared so little about the institution of marriage, I'd have been married long ago.
^This. If it werent for men kicking each other while the other is down just for the taste of low quality trashy poon, then women wouldnt have the upper hand most of the time in the dating/love game. What goes around comes around.

I cant believe Im doing this to a big neil post btw xD
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Its tiring reading the same old "evil women, poor men" knee-jerk response to every malfesance done by a member of the opposite sex. Men cheat, lie, and kill too. I never see any fist-shaking when men start unneccesary wars or financial crises resulting in way more societal damage than some floozy who wants something on the side.

If we're going to demand morality from our women, we need to start with ourselves. Lead by example. Plenty of you guys would sleep with a married woman if given the opportunity.....pretty hypocritical to sit here and judge when you're not exactly a shining beacon of morality yourselves.
*in darth vader voice*

Yes, yes...the win flows strongly through this one. He will make a fine apprentice.
Solomon said:
Don't say that our guys will think your a feminist and label you Beta for trying to "shame" other men

:rolleyes:
LOL! I laughed mad hard when I read that. Epic humor haha
 

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That's the difference between men and women. And I'm the last guy to label a stereotype on any group, but let's face it: women and men are two different animals.

Women can justify anything, because they're emotional. No matter how wrong it was, it was justified because of a "feeling".

Woman: "Yeah, I cheated. But it was because I didnt feel safe (happy/attracted/fulfilled) in that relationship anymore."

Men will do wrong, know that it's wrong, and live with it.

Man: "Yeah I cheated. Probably shouldn't have done that.

Oh, and on Facebook, women will cheer damn near anything another woman says. It's like a bunch of chickens clucking. Not an independent thought in the group. A girl could write "A real man lets his woman do what she wants." and get 20 likes from her female friends. And the same girl could write "A real man knows how to lead his woman" and get 20 likes from the same female friends. Of course, bearing in mind that the only "real man" these women knew was the one who banged them for a month, and left their arse without saying goodbye. Heh.
Your so right about this its scary. I hate facebook and the sh*t woman can hide behind it. if they need a pick me up to their emotional support, they will do what you said and get a bunch of likes. "yay now i feel better". After a while i found out the woman i was going to marry had blocked me from seeing her chat online status. She claimed she was hardly on facebook but i found out she had me blocked so i couldnt see her. My friends GF could be doing the same to him but i dont tell him that to get any ideas in his head however,... i wouldnt be surprised. Social Networking sites like facebook open up a whole new world to secret messages and convo's. My ex tried justifying her breaking up by telling me the following.... "You dont communicate on facebook enough"..... Really.....
 

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Lol. I remember one time I cheated on a girlfriend 3 times in one night with 3 different girls at a party.

I justify it by saying that I invited her to it. She should've known the ladies love me :cool:
Oh you dirty pig lol
 

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women haze said:
We men stomp on each other...instead of keeping a hor in check.

If i know a woman is married and flirting with me..I am not going to take her, I am going to tell her "what's up with your husband" Disrespectful. Call these women out...and this wouldn't be a problem.
Crazy enough, that might turn her on even more. I once said something similar to a girl about her boyfriend and she kind of rolled her eyes at me.. later she upped her attempt to get me.
 

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Yeah but u know what sucks the most is that any confrontation or anything about it she will make herself seem like the victim. I wish women would at least own up more often to all the **** they pull.
 

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^I wish guys would too:rolleyes:

I just wish people would own up to things in general.

I see what Solomon and sstype have been saying lately is lost on most people.

But lets carry on, "women suck and are liars" Hear hear :rolleyes:
 
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Have had lots of opportunities with married women ad never took them &&&&& realized that marriage is a huge f*cking deal, fraught with dangers that could cost you a mint. Let some other guy bang the married chick, it doesn't mean sh*t they might be easier then single girls but it is sooooo wrong to their husband and I believe in karma, it's a ***** and will come back to haunt you.
 

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Yuppaz i agree. Any woman can walk into and find someone to **** almost instantly. In my opinion a married woman under the right circumstances is way more likely to be promiscuous than just a woman in a bf/gf relationship. Somewhere along the line they just get self entitlement to do it since they are so emotional.

By emotional i mean they act on what they feel emotionally without giving it much thought. I've told a cousin of mine to not go backk to her baby's daddy once, reminded her of all the abuse he put her through and how he cheated on her and she said" Yeah, i know." Next day she comes back from his house, next week she finds out he was dating another woman all along.

As far as lies go, yes, women believe their own lies. They come up with far out rationalizations for why they do this and do that. Sometimes the reasons are almost legitimate. Other times they aren't. You back them up against the wall about it and they lash out at you.

You know what though, for all the negatives ive said about the mindset of women, i think its important for all of us to realize that us men have a hard time resisting temptation as well. People make mistakes its human nature. I believe faithfulness is more of a challenge of ones maturity and his ability to control his urges.
 

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So I was at the beach today, swimming in the ocean and who did I see setting up camp: the cheating wife, my forgiving friend, and the 1 year old boy who probably knows things aren't right. Oh, and one of her cheerleading friends was there.

When I walked up the guy had gone for a swim and I saw the ladies. I was introduced as "the guy from Facebook" which was ironically backward. I had written "Dislike" on her comment from the OP in defense of my friend. The girls basically held up a cross so I walked off.

Then the guy followed me and we spoke for 20 minutes. He said that he told her I was mad at her and that I knew what happened. He was telling me it's his fault because 2 years ago he walked out, blah blah (common occurrence - the man blames himself for not being perfect). I reminded him that's no excuse for her, but he is trying to make it work. He did admit that if someone better came along he'd jump on it. Sad.
 

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bigneil said:
Then the guy followed me and we spoke for 20 minutes. He said that he told her I was mad at her and that I knew what happened. He was telling me it's his fault because 2 years ago he walked out, blah blah (common occurrence - the man blames himself for not being perfect). I reminded him that's no excuse for her, but he is trying to make it work. He did admit that if someone better came along he'd jump on it. Sad.
The dude is defeated. He'll stay until she decides the alimony payments for X years is good enough then sue him for half his assets and jump ship to the guy she leaves him for. Its sad man and I hope he realizes the mistake he's making since he already has to pay for child support if she leaves him.
 

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Thundernuts said:
Yuppaz i agree. Any woman can walk into and find someone to **** almost instantly. In my opinion a married woman under the right circumstances is way more likely to be promiscuous than just a woman in a bf/gf relationship. Somewhere along the line they just get self entitlement to do it since they are so emotional.

By emotional i mean they act on what they feel emotionally without giving it much thought. I've told a cousin of mine to not go backk to her baby's daddy once, reminded her of all the abuse he put her through and how he cheated on her and she said" Yeah, i know." Next day she comes back from his house, next week she finds out he was dating another woman all along.

As far as lies go, yes, women believe their own lies. They come up with far out rationalizations for why they do this and do that. Sometimes the reasons are almost legitimate. Other times they aren't. You back them up against the wall about it and they lash out at you.

You know what though, for all the negatives ive said about the mindset of women, i think its important for all of us to realize that us men have a hard time resisting temptation as well. People make mistakes its human nature. I believe faithfulness is more of a challenge of ones maturity and his ability to control his urges.
Its funny how dudes conveniently forget the stories of the faithful wife who dealt with her self entitled husband cheating for years, but toughed it out for the sake of the family.

I have personally known two women like this. One guy cheated constantly, the other was secretly gay but didnt act on it and him and his wife stopped sleeping together.

Both sides of the coin my friends. Its all individual. There are both good and bad men and women.
 

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Jaylan said:
Its funny how dudes conveniently forget the stories of the faithful wife who dealt with her self entitled husband cheating for years, but toughed it out for the sake of the family.

I have personally known two women like this. One guy cheated constantly, the other was secretly gay but didnt act on it and him and his wife stopped sleeping together.

Both sides of the coin my friends. Its all individual. There are both good and bad men and women.
Nothing to say about the gay guy who pretend to be straigh and makes a woman unhappy but let me remind you something.

If a man cheat on her wife he comes back to her the same way he left, nothing changed he just dropped his load on some other woman he wont see or call again.

If a woman cheat on her husband is probable that she is coming back at him holding someone else bastard inside her and if you sum this to a law that is close to justice as much as hitler is close to tolerance you will realize that is not exactly the same thing.

In the first case she is receiving a minor damage that can be forgot just by leaving him, in the second case the poor moron is gonna pay money and giving check to his ex wife and her bastard son with obvious conseguences for his reputation and his wallet.

Is it clear or are you gonna starting your infinite replies warfare till you get the last word as usual?

I avoided the stds topic cause its mutual even if the "receiver" has a highter percentage of risk.

Double standards exist for a reason, here one that help women, they can cry and b1tch how much they want with minimum conseguences while you know what conseguences suffers a man who does the same instead of man up.
 

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