bigneil said:
You can justify her adultery if you want, but IMO it was wrong of both her and the guy she was with (again I don't sleep with married women). It wasn't ok for her to cheat just because some guys are willing to sleep with married women. That's either a woman talking or a guy who is trying to justify his own infidelity.
And sure, what she did was not as bad as starting a war (again sstype really sounds like a woman), but my girlfriend and I both think she was wrong, and we hung out with them both as a couple every weekend. I'm not siding with him because he's my gender.
And for the record, men don't start wars, banks do.
Banks are run mainly by men, so what exactly is your point here? You made a sweeping generalization that "Women will believe their own lies" and I responded in kind. Obviously not all men are warmongers or financial con artists, but how would you feel if you were demonized as such simply because of your gender. Your friend's wife cheated because she made the choice as an individual to do so, not because she's a woman and by default her actions speak for the entire gender.
Yes what she did was wrong and disrespectful. Her airing her dirty laundry to her enabling friends on facebook was extremely disrespectful . Women who think they are entitled to behave like children because they are women need to be held accountable for their actions. Your friend did the right thing walking out.
And that's the root of the issue. Until men as a whole stop treating women as precious little flowers or sexual goddesses, this sort of bad behavior will continue. Undeserved attention will make anyone turn in to a b*tchy diva. Look at male celebrities and athletes and their enablers.
People (both men and women) need to stop giving undeserved respect and attention just because someone is hot, famous, a woman, whatever. This is a societal problem, not gender-specific.
If that makes me a woman/weak/beta, well I could honestly care less what some anonymous internet poster thinks.