Lexie
Don Juan
Haha, yes! This made me laugh.DJVladdy said:Lol okay everybody:
Whenever we make a facebook/myspace profile or whatever, dont forget to write "I have a sexy personality" haha!
Haha, yes! This made me laugh.DJVladdy said:Lol okay everybody:
Whenever we make a facebook/myspace profile or whatever, dont forget to write "I have a sexy personality" haha!
LOLOLOLOLOLLovelyLady said::yes:
In my house it is both seats down so the dog doesn't drink out of it.
If you have ever been 8 months pregnant and gone into the bathroom in the middle of the night and fallen into the toilet because the seat is not down, gotten stuck with baby wedged between you, cold water and cold porcelain and had to hollar to wake your man to help you get unstuck - well.. now you know why...
Why is that?? You lost me here... Urinals are great if you´re not going to sit down to take a p1ss (not in a million years, mom . Well buy a pink one or with some flowers or bambies on it))Rollo Tomassi said:To which she said "oh no, I'm not having guests and family use our bathroom when it has a urinal in it!" And I said "right, because then you'd have to explain why it was there."
If it's all the time, I'd have to say they just don't like you. If this is a one time thing, she could just be in a bad mood or not want to be hit on.KontrollerX said:Lexie why do you think some women put up a front of meaness?
What is that bullsh!t all about?
Thanks.
I don't mean to beat this to death, but Lexie has now answered DevanE's question, and it helped how exactly? She told him the obvious, that the girl isn't interested, but did not point out what he did that so clearly lowered her interest.Ripper said:Dude, for someone that has over 1000 posts I'm surprised that you couldn't see the intention/purpose of the original post... There's a reason he asked for only female response...
As a woman, I'd like to think that my opinion on what women think is 10 fold more informed than all the men on this site. Women act mean for a lot of reasons and, depending on where you meet them, it is not ALWAYS because they're not interested, this is why I asked for specifics on his situation. If you're in a bar, ok sure, the meaness is to get you to back off. I was not telling him to "plow on", rather giving him reasons as to why he shouldn't always take it personally.Nighthawk said:I don't mean to beat this to death, but Lexie has now answered DevanE's question, and it helped how exactly? She told him the obvious, that the girl isn't interested, but did not point out what he did that so clearly lowered her interest.
And now we have a bunch of other posters leaping on this real-life woman to ask her vague questions that she is answering to the best of her ability, but with no real insight and occasionally misleading advice (If a girl is acting mean she is almost definitely saying she's not available, giving men hope that if they plough on to show that they are genuinely interested is going to be mostly counter-productive. It could be a ****-test, but Lexie hasn't given any helpful advice as to how to 'pass' this test.
This site rightly says that most women don't understand what they want and will usually fall back on what they think they would like from a man rather than understanding or admitting what they really fell for. If someone was to base their actions around this woman's point of view they might come away thinking sending chocolate might be a good idea, that being respectful and courteous is key to attraction (whereas it's icing on the cake at best).
Her advice hasn't been horrible, but there's a reason this site advises not to listen to most women's advice on relationships.
Lexie, I don't mean to give you a hard time, your opinion is welcome here. It's just less informed than you and some other posters might think.
Yes women want sex, I'm not denying that. Some women want sex more than some men. But to approach a woman with the assumption that she wants to have sex with you, and to touch her sexually based on this assumption, shows no respect for that woman and a very low understanding of women in general.ABC said:<<To sum it up, this one quote reveals exactly how little you know about women: "In short - you didn't touch her sexually? Why not? Women want sex.">>
WHat do you mean by this, Lexie? Can you please elaborate?
Sex is the same mean to different ends for men and women.Lexie said:...Are there women who just want sex? Yes. Should you treat all women like they just want sex? No. Most of the time, you'll be wrong...
I doubt it. Maybe if you asked 1000 women. If this worked, then alot of what we talk about here would be obsolete.Lexie said:If you go up to ten random women and ask them to have sex with you, you might get one that says yes.
Is it better to give women this illusion. Of course everyone is one in a million, but if a given woman doesnt have something extraordinary about her (looks, or some kind of talent, or an incredible personality) then she's not really "one in a million," "she is one of a million."Lexie said:Like I've stated in a previous post, they want to feel like they are one-in-a-million, and that you're not hitting on them just because they're the best looking chick in a bar.
Don't you mean 'Lucky cofo'?!Dongfu said:Lucky mofo.
I prefer honesty, so that might actually work for me. It's really important that he not come across as creepy or desperate, both of which are deal-breakers. And a sincere smile is a must. The thing about having a random guy come up to you is, girls are always looking out for themselves and trying to stay safe, so they have to quickly assess the guy, and if anything about him registers as "unsafe" on the meter then it's no-go. My reaction would probably be something along the lines of flattery, but it's really completely about the vibe I get from the guy.smooth guy said:Lexi what's your take on direct game and what would more likely be your reaction if a guy approached you out of nowhere with something along the lines 'hey you seem interesting and I just had to get to know you.'
Let's say his looks were average but he seemed confident enough.
Or do you think some small talk before exchanging numbers would be a better approach?
I can totally see this. It makes a lot of sense.LovelyLady said:Can I play too?
Insecure men can suck the life force out of a woman.
Thanks!Lexie said:Yes women want sex, I'm not denying that. Some women want sex more than some men.
There is no way the good looking women want more sex than men. The non good looking ones sometimes do.
But to approach a woman with the assumption that she wants to have sex with you, and to touch her sexually based on this assumption, shows no respect for that woman and a very low understanding of women in general.
I agree, but its not worth it for a guy to wait 9 months, spend alot of money and time, treat her nicely, do whatever she wants so he can get sex on the 10th month and only when she is in the mood.
If you go up to ten random women and ask them to have sex with you, you might get one that says yes.
No way, it would be more like 1 in 1000 as mentioned. Most of the guys on here do not look like or are built like firefighters or policeman. We are average joes when it comes to sex.
Plus, the women the guys on here are looking for have to be at least 7/10. Anyone can pull a 5/10, fat or old women on here to have sex with
Conversely, you'd probably get a higher number if you had a woman ask ten random men. Why? Most of the time (there are exceptions) women don't want "just sex", meaning they want more than just the physical pleasure. They want the emotions that come along with it.
OK.
Why do you think romantic novels and chick flicks sell so well? It's porn for women - emotional porn. They love it when the girl gets swept off her feet by the dashing suave millionaire who also happens to be a really great guy.
You have a point expect for the "millionare" part. Money does not matter unless the girl is over 25 and I assume you are over 25.
Like I've stated in a previous post, they want to feel like they are one-in-a-million, and that you're not hitting on them just because they're the best looking chick in a bar.
That's pretty much the only reason we do. Guys are visual, we don't get turned on by personality, we only want a hot, young girl by our side. No one on this site has ever said "closed with a 5/10" or "closed with a fat chick - thanks guys for all your help"
We are only on this site because we want to talk to the hot, young girls. That's why we get nervous with the hot ones and have no problem talking with the fat, ugly ones. Again, I'm not Brad by any means.
Are there women who just want sex? Yes. Should you treat all women like they just want sex? No. Most of the time, you'll be wrong.
The hot ones don't want sex. The non-hot ones do.