I personally would disqualify a woman from having a long-term-relationship with me (or even having a short one) if that woman was into ONS.Allaia said:I want to know what men really think about ONS and if you did have one, why did you?
Yes, I have been into several when I was younger (with women I just met). And I have been in affairs in which we had sex once (but she was not a random woman). So...I have no issues if a woman disqualifies me from a long-term-relationship too.
I don't want a woman that plays game. If she sleeps with me the first night we go out...I won't judge her...because I am also doing the same. My point? At this stage of my life, I won't sleep with just ANY woman. I am selective.Do men really want women who play hard to get?
If I sense she is playing games with me...I will simply feel inclined to start looking around. You see? I cannot allow my woman to use SEX as a negotiating bargain...and allowing her to play this game is kind of encouraging her to later use it as a negotiating bargain.Even if you have been seeing each other for, let's say 2 - 3 years... do you still expect her to pull back now and then? (I asked this on another forum and most said yes - answers and input came from women, just so you know).