Will the pessimists on this site please f.uck off?
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Nexus Polaris
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So true! I still struggle with this. My foundation still sucks. It tends to hinge on how many prospects I have in the works. And when I hit a snag and it dwindles to zero, my confidence disappears with it.Answers said:
That's why I'm taking a break right now. I'm trying to work on me. If the foundation sucks, anything you pile on top of it will just make it crumble.
nightcrawler
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Wu tang how tall are you and do you have a pic? I really what to see a male that is considered a 5.
And yes, I'm gonna compare myself to you because I have the same issues as you have
And yes, I'm gonna compare myself to you because I have the same issues as you have
Rollo Tomassi
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"an optomist is just a pessimist with no job experience."
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nightcrawler
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I'm 5'8" as well and the fact is that we are indeed short. But we are not THAT short. Also we are taller than most girls. Also most girls won't mind our height.wutangfinancial said:
You're not ugly.
Also you're white..I'm not going to get into a race issue here but it's obvious that the guy with the white **** gets play from any chick.
Look at Tom Cruise..the guy is 5'7" and he has all sorts of women around him. the fact that he could get into the movie industry being such a "little man" is even more admirable. The guy has charisma and women love it.
My height doesn't bother me btw...it's my face. Now if you'll excuse me I'm going to do the same self loathing you do, but I'll be mad at my face.
Luke Skywalker said:
Go shovel a sidewalk and you'll get paid for it. Go clean some windows, you'll get paid for it. Clean more windows, you get more money. And you can always get the skills that someone wants in a job. To be a plumber, go to school and learn. To be a pilot, take flying classes. To be a good at an interview can also be done because you are talking about technique and mathematics and logic.
When trying to sleep with a girl, you are talking about emotions, not logic. You can be there best there is and the girl can still refuse because she is not in the mood. She has the power to say yes or no in any situation because she has something we all "want" and can change her mind in 2 sec.
It's apples and oranges.
Maxtro
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What the hell, thats you? I thought you were some 5'2 ugly looking Asian dude. (No offense to the 5'2 ugly Asian dudes out there)wutangfinancial said:
Dude I'm 5 fucking 6 and comparable to you on the looks scale. You have no reason at all to complain about your looks. Start exercising and try to work on your self-confidence and you will be fine.
As long as chicks can consider you cute, all that matters is your personality.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
i swear, after his last response that s the same f***ing question i ask myself too...krazyboy99 said:
what f***ing light at the end of the tunnel do you need donjuan11? a p.ussy is not good enough for you? What do you want? an a$$hole maybe? she ll give that up too if you got enough game so man the f**** up!
I kind of understand what DonJuan11 is saying though.
He's saying that as males we've been created and put in a position where we have to, somehow, 'get' sex from women and it's not a logical and solid route to getting it. There's all sorts of logistics, luck and emotionally-contrived rubbish involved.
There's also some confusion regarding supplication. You have to supplicate on some level to get good with women. For 99.9%, it's gonna be a lot of supplication. Gym, clothes, money, education etc etc all essentially for one thing; getting tail. As DonJuan11 said, even if you do all this you still may not be having tail. There's some 'flaw' in your convo skills or flirting or whatever.
I think that's all he's saying. That end of the day, he can bust his ass doing x, y, z day in, day out and still get a woman saying 'no' because she 'isn't in the mood' along with her position of power over men (options and afcness = major overpricing).
MM
He's saying that as males we've been created and put in a position where we have to, somehow, 'get' sex from women and it's not a logical and solid route to getting it. There's all sorts of logistics, luck and emotionally-contrived rubbish involved.
There's also some confusion regarding supplication. You have to supplicate on some level to get good with women. For 99.9%, it's gonna be a lot of supplication. Gym, clothes, money, education etc etc all essentially for one thing; getting tail. As DonJuan11 said, even if you do all this you still may not be having tail. There's some 'flaw' in your convo skills or flirting or whatever.
I think that's all he's saying. That end of the day, he can bust his ass doing x, y, z day in, day out and still get a woman saying 'no' because she 'isn't in the mood' along with her position of power over men (options and afcness = major overpricing).
MM
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
iqqi
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I think Wutang is really cute. What do you look like on a regular day? You keep posting the same pic, it is hard to tell that you don't get play from that pic. And are you white?? You look ethnic.
I also want to state for the record, that if you don't look that hot, I would tell you. I do this on the regular for cats that PM me for an honest opinion. I think Wutang is in the top percentile at least here on this site. He has an "interesting" look.
I also want to state for the record, that if you don't look that hot, I would tell you. I do this on the regular for cats that PM me for an honest opinion. I think Wutang is in the top percentile at least here on this site. He has an "interesting" look.
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IF any of you actually read my posts.. I am actually guilty 100 % of what the O.P says.
I am not mentioning any names of people who've actually called me out on this .. ahem Plastic
but..you know.. its trying to get to the facts that we pessimiists are about !
I am not mentioning any names of people who've actually called me out on this .. ahem Plastic
but..you know.. its trying to get to the facts that we pessimiists are about !
drak_ool said:
It is good enough for me. But who said she'll give it up to me if i get some game?
Ex: After a while of courting this girl and spending some money and time, she said "ok" to sex on a Tuesday in June. I finally set everything up perfectly in my place getting ready for the big night. Unfortunately, the police called me that night because someone broke into my business and I had to be there at the station. I asked her "can we do it tomorrow?" She said "absolutely not". She only was ready for sex at that specific time and day and that was it. I didnt' get the sex that Tuesday at 9:30 pm and that was it, no more whatsoever.
So please don't say "get some game" and you'll get sex. This is not like "money = a chocolate bar"
You have to say "get some game, get some muscle, be interesting AND hope she's in the mood on any certain day"
wutangfinancial said:
Oh I desire it, although sometimes the stuff you see in porn makes you think twice.
Self pity doesn't get you anywhere. OK, so we're short or looks matter or whatever, how does that help us in the end?
We can pity ourselves all we want but it doesn't help us get any action.
