Will I ever achieve my dream of being a DJ? Not in this lifetime.

[Viper]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Ok...do what youve been doing, thats why your retarded ass is here posting stupid shyt trying argue with everyone. Get off the internet and do somethign about it and stop being a b*tch. You whine SOOO GODDAMN MUCH, youre not a 4 yr old girl. One day youll understand where we're coming from, until then, yea.

Me whine? I think it's clear that I'm not the one whining here. I didn't say I was leaving the site, I just said I'm going to stop making topics, why? I think I would find better information by browsing the DJBible and searching through old topics. Plus, I'm tired of hearing about friends, unless I can get "Friends" that are girls, getting friends(Not Girlfriends, simply "Friends" that are "Girls") won't do **** to improve my confidence.

 

[Inquire]

**** dammit man, go meditate.

 

[08aisaac]

Originally posted by Viper
Me whine? I think it's clear that I'm not the one whining here. I didn't say I was leaving the site, I just said I'm going to stop making topics, why? I think I would find better information by browsing the DJBible and searching through old topics. Plus, I'm tired of hearing about friends, unless I can get "Friends" that are girls, getting friends(Not Girlfriends, simply "Friends" that are "Girls") won't do **** to improve my confidence.

Wow good idea. I mean I like responding to your posts in the mean time, and I would like to help you, because you remind me, of me, a few years ago. And I have quite a few friends, that are girls, and damn fine I might add, and they bring up my confidence, knowing that someone cares.

If you are truly there friends, and don't seek anything from the relationship, the benifits can be great, and not even sexual, just great.

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by 08aisaac
Wow good idea. I mean I like responding to your posts in the mean time, and I would like to help you, because you remind me, of me, a few years ago. And I have quite a few friends, that are girls, and damn fine I might add, and they bring up my confidence, knowing that someone cares.

If you are truly there friends, and don't seek anything from the relationship, the benifits can be great, and not even sexual, just great.

Well ofcourse, my intent wouldn't be to **** them after all, just to establish a friendship with them, as long as we just stay in the friend zone and nothing more is established, I could have hundreds of friends that are girls.

 

[08aisaac]

I am talking about real friends, not fake ones. Girls that know you don't want to hook up, you just enjoy there company.

 

[Inquire]

i think u need someone physically to help u, like a mentor or somethang. but u need to know tat no one can help u but urself. Never be a follower, always LEAD!!!

this is wut i want u to do. go fight someone and lose.

or

bootcamp!

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by Viper
Well ofcourse, my intent wouldn't be to **** them after all, just to establish a friendship with them, as long as we just stay in the friend zone and nothing more is established, I could have hundreds of friends that are girls.

I wasnt gonna respond anymore but this caught my attention.Why would you honesty want so many friend to be girls?? Thats not gonna make things better. Either theyre gonna be ugly loser which you dont like, or theyre going to be hot and youre gonna wanna sex them up. One or the other, not grey area. So please explain what so liberating about have "hundreds of friends that are girls.

 

[08aisaac]

Yeah while friends that are girls, is awesome, and the more friends, the better, imo, you also need some guy friends. Work towards both. It really depends on your game, and stuff. It depends on how you want to re-establish yourself, but I have always had about a 50:50 ratio of guy to girl friends.

It all depends, because while it's really badto have only friends that are girls, because you will slowly turn into a girl, I **** you not. lol. It's also bad to have only guy friends, obviously because it is just not a good idea.

Try to get both guy friends, and girl friends.

 

[Void]

I'm sick of hearing this shyt from you dude. EVERY post of yours is really negative. Why?

Because you sit here regurgitating your frikkin loneliness. Why do you think you have no friends? Because you don't make them. Are you on a sports team? Join one. Ask your band members to come over and chill. Dude you can do WHATEVER you want. Why are you SO desperate to do this anyways? A lot of times I don't even feel like hanging out with friends. I just want to sit at home and play guitar and watch some family guy. Sleep.

You have the damn will to do anything. And you decide not to. Your fault? Yes. So how about you go to the mall and meet some people. Or T A L K to people in class and after you get a connection, ASK them to do something.

"Hey do you want to go see The 40 year old virgin with me next weekend?"

Perfect.

Friends who are girls? Basically worthless. You want Platonic Friends. Girls you can hook up with. I'm still getting the hang of this myself but just use a lot of kino and flirt with the girl.


BREAK DOWN THOSE FVCKING BARRIERS IN YOUR HEAD. YOU'RE FREE.

AND STOP FEELING BAD FOR YOURSELF. IT'S YOUR FAULT.

I'm not being mean, I'm telling the truth. I use to be their. Now I'm not.

I'm about to say something that everyone disagrees with, in a juiced up way.

BE YOURSELF...WITH CONFIDENCE! TALK YOUR PERSONALITY AND JUST BE CONFIDENT WITH IT. FOR INSTANCE I PLAY GUITAR AND LIKE THE SIMPSONS...OKAY. AM I SCARED OF WHAT PEOPLE THINK? NO! SO FVCKING BE YOURSELF WITH CONFIDENCE!

good luck...

that wasn't anger, it was power talking. haha. ;-). just sick of hearing you complain

 

[oakraiderz2]

^^^ Thanks yo...im waiting for him to say something bad about your advice.

 

[Inquire]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
^^^ Thanks yo...im waiting for him to say something bad about your advice.

haha, well i got another thang for u VIPER i thought of it up when reading VOID's post. dont ever use anythang negative again! never say not, no or wutever is negative. dont say "i can't do tat" say "in time i can"

 

[08aisaac]

Originally posted by Void
I'm sick of hearing this shyt from you dude. EVERY post of yours is really negative. Why?

Because you sit here regurgitating your frikkin loneliness. Why do you think you have no friends? Because you don't make them. Are you on a sports team? Join one. Ask your band members to come over and chill. Dude you can do WHATEVER you want. Why are you SO desperate to do this anyways? A lot of times I don't even feel like hanging out with friends. I just want to sit at home and play guitar and watch some family guy. Sleep.

You have the damn will to do anything. And you decide not to. Your fault? Yes. So how about you go to the mall and meet some people. Or T A L K to people in class and after you get a connection, ASK them to do something.

"Hey do you want to go see The 40 year old virgin with me next weekend?"

Perfect.

Friends who are girls? Basically worthless. You want Platonic Friends. Girls you can hook up with. I'm still getting the hang of this myself but just use a lot of kino and flirt with the girl.


BREAK DOWN THOSE FVCKING BARRIERS IN YOUR HEAD. YOU'RE FREE.

AND STOP FEELING BAD FOR YOURSELF. IT'S YOUR FAULT.

I'm not being mean, I'm telling the truth. I use to be their. Now I'm not.

I'm about to say something that everyone disagrees with, in a juiced up way.

BE YOURSELF...WITH CONFIDENCE! TALK YOUR PERSONALITY AND JUST BE CONFIDENT WITH IT. FOR INSTANCE I PLAY GUITAR AND LIKE THE SIMPSONS...OKAY. AM I SCARED OF WHAT PEOPLE THINK? NO! SO FVCKING BE YOURSELF WITH CONFIDENCE!

good luck...

that wasn't anger, it was power talking. haha. ;-). just sick of hearing you complain

That was actually pretty good. I learned something from it.

I have been needing something to do with people, and I just realized, I have a ****ing awesome mall. I was thinking of something to do, because all I can think of is party, adn drink, but now I have an idea. lol.

Just moved and all, so looking for some **** to do.

 

[i am me]

Originally posted by Void
I'm sick of hearing this shyt from you dude. EVERY post of yours is really negative. Why?

Because you sit here regurgitating your frikkin loneliness. Why do you think you have no friends? Because you don't make them. Are you on a sports team? Join one. Ask your band members to come over and chill. Dude you can do WHATEVER you want. Why are you SO desperate to do this anyways? A lot of times I don't even feel like hanging out with friends. I just want to sit at home and play guitar and watch some family guy. Sleep.

You have the damn will to do anything. And you decide not to. Your fault? Yes. So how about you go to the mall and meet some people. Or T A L K to people in class and after you get a connection, ASK them to do something.

"Hey do you want to go see The 40 year old virgin with me next weekend?"

Perfect.

Friends who are girls? Basically worthless. You want Platonic Friends. Girls you can hook up with. I'm still getting the hang of this myself but just use a lot of kino and flirt with the girl.


BREAK DOWN THOSE FVCKING BARRIERS IN YOUR HEAD. YOU'RE FREE.

AND STOP FEELING BAD FOR YOURSELF. IT'S YOUR FAULT.

I'm not being mean, I'm telling the truth. I use to be their. Now I'm not.

I'm about to say something that everyone disagrees with, in a juiced up way.

BE YOURSELF...WITH CONFIDENCE! TALK YOUR PERSONALITY AND JUST BE CONFIDENT WITH IT. FOR INSTANCE I PLAY GUITAR AND LIKE THE SIMPSONS...OKAY. AM I SCARED OF WHAT PEOPLE THINK? NO! SO FVCKING BE YOURSELF WITH CONFIDENCE!

good luck...

that wasn't anger, it was power talking. haha. ;-). just sick of hearing you complain

That was good. Also, I know it wasn't really what you were trying to say but watching The 40 Year Old Virgin might actually do something for Viper. It'd be a learning experience at least...

Viper, listen to oakraiderz too. I don't wanna seem like I'm kissing ass but I think he knows whats up.

Have fun in life man...you need to know what it's like to just chill with friends. Girls ain't your life. You made it this far without them right?

 

[arutha]

Originally posted by Viper
Plus, I'm tired of hearing about friends, unless I can get "Friends" that are girls, getting friends(Not Girlfriends, simply "Friends" that are "Girls") won't do **** to improve my confidence.

Friends = Social proof to others, and experience in social situations which you can later use when dating a girl.

You are looking for a simple solution, 5 lines of 'this is what to do'. That is simply not possible, there is no such thing. When you realise this fact, maybe you will be more open minded to the rest of the tips. You cannot simply improve one aspect and forget the rest, so no, getting just friends isn't useless. And neither is any of the other advice in the thread, it all helps to improve your life as a whole which is what you need to do. There is no overnight solution, you need to work at it and spend time and energy doing things that you may consider useless (like getting friends, for some odd reason) before you get what you ultimately want.

If you want a 3 line instant solution and nothing else regardless of what it is, give up now.

 

[Reborn Don Juan]

You know, reading all these posts, all these threads, makes me think that what everyone of us needs is someone pointing a gun at our crotch and demanding us to go out there and do what we learn here and stop trying to wuss our way out of action.

Or he will simply make us all eunuchs.

So what I'm saying is I think we need more than pep talks. We need military style motivation: do it like a Don Juan or kiss your schlong goodbye.

 

[08aisaac]

No one touches my pecker, except me, and chicks. And not if they have any sorts of weapons.

 

[MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO]

Originally posted by Reborn Don Juan
You know, reading all these posts, all these threads, makes me think that what everyone of us needs is someone pointing a gun at our crotch and demanding us to go out there and do what we learn here and stop trying to wuss our way out of action.

Or he will simply make us all eunuchs.

So what I'm saying is I think we need more than pep talks. We need military style motivation: do it like a Don Juan or kiss your schlong goodbye.

Im 15, an improved player, a highly advanced socializer, an extraordinary indiviual with great multi talents and awsome traits. Never once was i afraid of girls except for that time i was in fourth grade and meet this old meanass teacher. Therefore theres no reason for you guys to be so afraid of girls or rejection for that matter. I swear your guys would rather go jump off the worlds tallest building instead of facing a hamless girl. Theres 100% of different people in this world. 30 percent are girls-50 percent are geeks whom are in a trance infront of their screen sittin on their ass inside there room. 10% left are people on here tryin to change into somthing better or desent for the world to except. Other 10% are players(get laid) so the question is what do you want to be? Do you want to be that 50% at the house on there ass infront of the tv. or comp in there own little fantasy world of wizard and dragons or do you want to be that 10% thats tryin to chang their life and is 1 step closer to become a player and gettin laid every weeken? Enough said...Heres what you all can do.
1. sit on ur ass and keep readin diff. post thinkin it will chang you somehow.
2. u can get off your ass and do an experienment ,turn off your computer and t.v and try to survive a week without touching the tv or comp.

 

[Viper]

I'm sick of hearing this shyt from you dude. EVERY post of yours is really negative. Why?

Because you sit here regurgitating your frikkin loneliness. Why do you think you have no friends? Because you don't make them. Are you on a sports team? Join one. Ask your band members to come over and chill. Dude you can do WHATEVER you want. Why are you SO desperate to do this anyways? A lot of times I don't even feel like hanging out with friends. I just want to sit at home and play guitar and watch some family guy. Sleep.

You have the damn will to do anything. And you decide not to. Your fault? Yes. So how about you go to the mall and meet some people. Or T A L K to people in class and after you get a connection, ASK them to do something.

"Hey do you want to go see The 40 year old virgin with me next weekend?"

Perfect.

Friends who are girls? Basically worthless. You want Platonic Friends. Girls you can hook up with. I'm still getting the hang of this myself but just use a lot of kino and flirt with the girl.


BREAK DOWN THOSE FVCKING BARRIERS IN YOUR HEAD. YOU'RE FREE.

AND STOP FEELING BAD FOR YOURSELF. IT'S YOUR FAULT.

I'm not being mean, I'm telling the truth. I use to be their. Now I'm not.

I'm about to say something that everyone disagrees with, in a juiced up way.

BE YOURSELF...WITH CONFIDENCE! TALK YOUR PERSONALITY AND JUST BE CONFIDENT WITH IT. FOR INSTANCE I PLAY GUITAR AND LIKE THE SIMPSONS...OKAY. AM I SCARED OF WHAT PEOPLE THINK? NO! SO FVCKING BE YOURSELF WITH CONFIDENCE!

good luck...

that wasn't anger, it was power talking. haha. ;-). just sick of hearing you complain

This is overall a good post, but I have a few things to say about it. I can't join a sports team because I'm in band, I don't know how other people manage to, but I simply don't have the time for it. That's another thing, alot of people in band do other things, like sports, after school activities, they wouldn't have time to jam and alot of people in band, just wouldn't be interested.
Besides, friends who are girls worthless? So you mean, I can't have something in common with a girl, without wanting to get in her pants? Haha, that's bull****. In my eyes, there's little difference between having a girl friend and a guy friend, except for the fact girls are more intimidating. Nothing bad about being in the 'friend zone' if you don't want to **** her.
Plus, be myself? Well, let's say one thing before you try that one on me, I don't really have much of a personality and don't know myself very well, sure I have hobbies and interest, but I couldn't honestly tell you what kind of person I think of myself as, heck, alot of people tell me I mutiple personalities, one minute I could be one person, the next I could be a whole nother. I think what I should do before I try this be myself stuff, is actually find who MYSELF is.

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by mizter6
dude ok first i need to know wheres ur school (by or in what major city) and currently how big ur band is (and ur grade level)


ok im a band nerd myself im a senior now im co section leader and i take charge and make myself the alpha male in my f-horn section. BAND is WHAT ACCELERATED MY GAME!!!!! i started as a freshman with some major AFC problems ( like stuck on one dam'n girl who didnt like me for almost 5 years ) and by the end of my freshman year i started to learn and change and BANG! sophmore band camp started and i instantly got to know more chicks then i did before. U CAN DO IT!! cuz I DID IT and I WAS EXACTLY THE SAME POSITION AS U BAND WAS ABOUT 85%-90% of MY GROWTH!! (my band started at 150 tho now we are at 240 i was able to pimped it at 175. and im in southern calif.

Well, I can't tell you exactly what city I live in, because then it would be too easy to find my school, but I live around the Cleveland area of Ohio. I'm not sure exactly, but I think our band has around 100 people in it, compared to other schools, our school isn't that big, we have around 700 students here.

 

[i am me]

Having girls as friends isn't worthless, but there's no reason to have a bunch of girls who are friends and no guy friends. Guys are a lot more fun to hang around with, just so you know.

Watch the 40 year old virgin if you can. Get some ideas on how to improve yourself