Will I ever achieve my dream of being a DJ? Not in this lifetime.

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Originally posted by Soniq_red
You piece of ****, nobody wants to hear your complaing.

"oH, why can't i get *****, I've read so susuave for so long"

"I do have confidence, i just don't know how to keep interest"

Grow some balls, or quit and go gay it wont be a big stretch.
Complaing, heh. I said you were a presumative ***** because I NEVER said my purpose was to get *****. If you read the first post, which you clearly didn't, you would know there is alot more too it than that. Don't be lazy and then complain.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
The **** dude, I just said "Hey, How's it 's going" sounds corny when talking to a girl you already know and yes, it does. Plus, really, why would I want to know "How's it going?" that's like hiding my intentions or something, I'm NEVER going to get to know her with a line like "How's it going?", it also sounds a little bit too "soft" for me, like I need a more tough, aggresive opener.
Other than that, I really liked the advice. I'm going to stop crying and moping about this bull**** and do something about it.
Ok smart guy how would you get the convo started?? Here some alternatives: Whats up?, HEY! Whats your AIM sn?? PM me or something, we're gonna straighten this all out.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Ok smart guy how would you get the convo started?? Here some alternatives: Whats up?, HEY! Whats your AIM sn?? PM me or something, we're gonna straighten this all out.
You're right, well, I guess even though it does sound stupid, you're the DJ here, so I'll take your word for it. Even if I did get a conversation started with the girl, where do I start building INTEREST? I'm not interviewing this girl you know, I want to build interest in her, not question the **** out of her.
 

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Viper, you cant say that you cant pick up chicks if you are in band, girls love guys who play instrments (I know because I am a trumpet player, we ooze confidence) depending on where you live and what you play, band can be the number one tool you use to getting women, but you have to belive that you can get them.

Getting on here every night and telling us about how you can never be a DJ because you dont have the confidence is a load of BS, I dont understand how you can walk onto the football field at friday night's game and not be intimidated, but you cant hit on a chick?:confused: :confused:
 

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Originally posted by brenbaus
Viper, you cant say that you cant pick up chicks if you are in band, girls love guys who play instrments (I know because I am a trumpet player, we ooze confidence) depending on where you live and what you play, band can be the number one tool you use to getting women, but you have to belive that you can get them.

Getting on here every night and telling us about how you can never be a DJ because you dont have the confidence is a load of BS, I dont understand how you can walk onto the football field at friday night's game and not be intimidated, but you cant hit on a chick?:confused: :confused:
I don't see the audience the same as woman, when I walk out there infront of a huge crowd, I'm confident, not nervous or intimidated(Okay, maybe just a little) and the audience cheering for us, only gives more motivation to put on a good show and you know what? I don't even care what the crowd thinks, I just focus on marching, music and putting on a good show.
So, you mean, if I believe I can get Roxanne(Or any girl in band), our sqaud leader, I can get her? Without knowing **** about gaming girls? That's what it seems like your telling me.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
when I walk out there infront of a huge crowd, I'm confident, not nervous or intimidated(Okay, maybe just a little)
This is the same way you have to feel when you are approaching a woman, and the only way to learn how to game girls is to actually do it, get a few female friends, take them out on dates, sitting and reading all the articles on here will not teach you how to use your own personal style to game girls, you have to go out and find what works for you.

seriously man, women can be intimidating (think of the first time you walked on for half-time), until you learn that they are just like the rest of us, even the hottest chick you know, i can tell you with complete confidence that she has a problem right now, just like you do.
 

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"hey.. how are you" is a great way to start a convo. It doesn't seem cheesy at all. Ask any of the other guys on the board for their opinion about it.
As David D. says, "are you going to do it your way or the best way?
If something isn't working are you just going to try harder, or are you going to try soemthing else?
 

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It's all good. Viper, they are only trying to help you, you just need to listen, and humble yourself to there advice.
 

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ok it looks like you are pretty physically fit but you are not mentally, socially or emotionally fit

that basically means that you don't have many friends, you are insecure and have low self esteem it also means you fail to often recognise reality...

start by getting friends I mean seriously, who cares about girlfriends or 1 night stands for now? you just want friends so you can go to parties and hang out with friends so you can get those 1 night stands and all... also friends will make you feel more secure.

Is it hard for you to say "no" to somebody? gotta change that get ya self esteem up, for weekdays join a sports team at least for practice... I'm the worst guy on the soccer team but I still have a roll playing, great fun.

weekends are the time for going out... call one of ya cool friends n go out EAZY

oh ya and also quit trying to get ***** when you can't even say "hi wassup" to a girl and continue a conversation...
 

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Originally posted by Nexxus
ok it looks like you are pretty physically fit but you are not mentally, socially or emotionally fit

that basically means that you don't have many friends, you are insecure and have low self esteem it also means you fail to often recognise reality...

start by getting friends I mean seriously, who cares about girlfriends or 1 night stands for now? you just want friends so you can go to parties and hang out with friends so you can get those 1 night stands and all... also friends will make you feel more secure.

Is it hard for you to say "no" to somebody? gotta change that get ya self esteem up, for weekdays join a sports team at least for practice... I'm the worst guy on the soccer team but I still have a roll playing, great fun.

weekends are the time for going out... call one of ya cool friends n go out EAZY

oh ya and also quit trying to get ***** when you can't even say "hi wassup" to a girl and continue a conversation...
Yeah, so your telling me to get a bunch of loser friends, act like I like them just to get into parties and then ditch them when I finally start becoming a DJ, works, because I certainly wouldn't be hanging with these poeple if I liked them.
 

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I think Viper is describing a situation that a LOT of people on here are in, but they are afraid to admit it.

Anyways, rent "Fight Club" you'll have a "I dont give a ****" attitude. Once you do this, go to some town or place where you never been (so you won't see anyone you know) and YOUR GOAL IS :
-SAY "HI" TO EVERY PERSON YOU WALK BY (young, old, man, woman, child, etc.)
-GET REGECTED BY AT LEAST FIVE GIRLS (HB 5 OR MORE) <-- if your goal is to get regected you won't feel bad because you did what you wanted too.


Everyone gets in that depression state of mind sometimes, BUT you won't get girls by just expecting them to come to you!!! Some people, they just snap out of the AFC and start apporching because they get to a point where they say "FVCK THIS SH*T!!! I DON'T CARE ANYMORE!!!" Well if seems that your on the verge of doing that. You really need to have a passion to get out of where you are. Do you like the way your living know?.........Fine then change it. Do you want to apporch girls?...........Fine, apporch the ugly, i mean the HB1. You just have to do this.

There is a point when you let so many opportunities pass by that your just like,"FVCK THATS THE LAST ONE!!!!" <---SO YOU FORCE YOURSELF.

Just go out the a different town or whatever where you don't know anyone. You don't have a ride? ASK YOUR MOM TO GO SHOPPING AT A DIFFERENT MALL, YOU TWO CAN SEPARATE THERE!!, Ask your neighbor, brother, sister, teacher, whoever.

Going to the beach is good too, you don't see people you know!!

All of us didn't write this, just so you can read it. TRY IT OUT!!! AT LEAST YOU TRIED, YOU WON'T HAVE ANY REGRETS.!!!

GOOD LUCK PLAYBOY
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Yeah, so your telling me to get a bunch of loser friends, act like I like them just to get into parties and then ditch them when I finally start becoming a DJ, works, because I certainly wouldn't be hanging with these poeple if I liked them.
God, what is wrong with you? Are you just one of those kids that hates people or something? Go out and enjoy life with some friends. Parties are fun.
 

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God, what is wrong with you? Are you just one of those kids that hates people or something? Go out and enjoy life with some friends. Parties are fun.
Hates people? Hell no. I just only want to hang with a certain crowd. No geeks, anti-social people or dorks for me. Why? They're just like me and if I hung out with these people, I wouldn't be becoming more social, I would just have someone to be anti-social with, which is not what I want.
 

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, I wouldn't be becoming more social, I would just have someone to be anti-social with
Paradox anyone?

Just go out and live. You're making things far too complicated.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Hates people? Hell no. I just only want to hang with a certain crowd. No geeks, anti-social people or dorks for me. Why? They're just like me and if I hung out with these people, I wouldn't be becoming more social, I would just have someone to be anti-social with, which is not what I want.
You just wanna turn into what you wanna be overnight dont ya?? You dont seem to understand that everythings not gonna happen your damn way all the fuccin time. I dont really think youre gonna change cause its easier to complain and *****. I know this is a waste of time because youre lazy and dont wanna work for anything. Man up and grow som balls.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You just wanna turn into what you wanna be overnight dont ya?? You dont seem to understand that everythings not gonna happen your damn way all the fuccin time. I dont really think youre gonna change cause its easier to complain and *****. I know this is a waste of time because youre lazy and dont wanna work for anything. Man up and grow som balls.
You sir, are presumative. Just because I don't have time to waste pretending to hang out with people I don't like, just so I can have something to do over the weekend, make's me lazy, right. Well, anyway, I'm done posting topics, it's obvious I'm not going to find the answers I'm looking for here to improve MYSELF, I don't even ****ing care about being social, I just want to improve MYSELF. But yeah, I'm done with this ****, half the people who post here don't even read the damn first post. Seems if I want the girls I want, want to live the life I want and want to be the person I want to be, I must come up with my own solution.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
I don't see the audience the same as woman, when I walk out there infront of a huge crowd, I'm confident, not nervous or intimidated(Okay, maybe just a little) and the audience cheering for us, only gives more motivation to put on a good show and you know what? I don't even care what the crowd thinks, I just focus on marching, music and putting on a good show.
So, you mean, if I believe I can get Roxanne(Or any girl in band), our sqaud leader, I can get her? Without knowing **** about gaming girls? That's what it seems like your telling me.
If you got out, got some friends, then they could be the audience, 'cheering you on'.
If you got more friends, they could introduce you to their lady friends, and hey! Also you get moral support!
 

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Originally posted by Viper
You sir, are presumative. Just because I don't have time to waste pretending to hang out with people I don't like, just so I can have something to do over the weekend, make's me lazy, right. Well, anyway, I'm done posting topics, it's obvious I'm not going to find the answers I'm looking for here to improve MYSELF, I don't even ****ing care about being social, I just want to improve MYSELF. But yeah, I'm done with this ****, half the people who post here don't even read the damn first post. Seems if I want the girls I want, want to live the life I want and want to be the person I want to be, I must come up with my own solution.
Ok...do what youve been doing, thats why your retarded ass is here posting stupid shyt trying argue with everyone. Get off the internet and do somethign about it and stop being a b*tch. You whine SOOO GODDAMN MUCH, youre not a 4 yr old girl. One day youll understand where we're coming from, until then, yea.
 
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