Bump! Ignore all the women haters who run Wyld down, she gives great advice and this tip is spot on and has helped me a lot!
I admit, it took me some time to make my move on my gf (she had just finished with her bf and I was dating other women). I knew she liked me a lot, but she would often tell me about other guys hitting on her, how much attention she gets and talk about hot guys. Luckily I read this tip and what Wyldfire wrote appeared to be very true and helped give me the confidence not to get jealous or react.
The one time we were out in a group, she started talking about this hot guy behind the bar flirting with her. In fairness, he was a good looking guy and he was eyeing her up, but I didn't feel at all threatened. In fact, I decided to call her bluff and offered to pass on her number to him. She looked so pissed off at me and got really uptight, then started saying how he's ok, but not really her type etc.
I handled it well, but I knew that she was sending me a big time hint that I should make my move before I lose my chance. So I did.
We were talking recently and she admitted she'd been waiting and hinting all this time for me to make my move, and was starting to think we'd never be more than friends.
Great tip Wyldfire!
I admit, it took me some time to make my move on my gf (she had just finished with her bf and I was dating other women). I knew she liked me a lot, but she would often tell me about other guys hitting on her, how much attention she gets and talk about hot guys. Luckily I read this tip and what Wyldfire wrote appeared to be very true and helped give me the confidence not to get jealous or react.
The one time we were out in a group, she started talking about this hot guy behind the bar flirting with her. In fairness, he was a good looking guy and he was eyeing her up, but I didn't feel at all threatened. In fact, I decided to call her bluff and offered to pass on her number to him. She looked so pissed off at me and got really uptight, then started saying how he's ok, but not really her type etc.
I handled it well, but I knew that she was sending me a big time hint that I should make my move before I lose my chance. So I did.
We were talking recently and she admitted she'd been waiting and hinting all this time for me to make my move, and was starting to think we'd never be more than friends.
Great tip Wyldfire!