Why Girls like Pretty Boys

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To me this was always fairly obvious back when we were growing up that girls liked pretty boys. Then you get lost in the PUA rabbithole that looks don't matter. And you finally start getting laid, that you suddenly forget that simple fact. You even brag about not showering, not putting on cologne, or fixing your hair, and you still managed to get laid with a fairly attractive girl. Because you have frame, and passed all her sh1t tests, while you looked like sh1t. Yet the type of girls you really want to fvck, still allude you. So you focus on continuing to improve your game, work on your body language, seek out better PUA coaches etc, because your still stuck in the rabbithole of looks not mattering. It's only when you escape the rabbithole, that you return to what you already knew when you were a kid: Pretty girls like pretty guys. So then you become pretty yourself, and then suddenly you start getting these pretty girls that alluded you before, fairly easily. and realize it was never a game issue.
 

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To me this was always fairly obvious back when we were growing up that girls liked pretty boys. Then you get lost in the PUA rabbithole that looks don't matter. And you finally start getting laid, that you suddenly forget that simple fact. You even brag about not showering, not putting on cologne, or fixing your hair, and you still managed to get laid with a fairly attractive girl. Because you have frame, and passed all her sh1t tests, while you looked like sh1t. Yet the type of girls you really want to fvck, still allude you. So you focus on continuing to improve your game, work on your body language, seek out better PUA coaches etc, because your still stuck in the rabbithole of looks not mattering. It's only when you escape the rabbithole, that you return to what you already knew when you were a kid: Pretty girls like pretty guys. So then you become pretty yourself, and then suddenly you start getting these pretty girls that alluded you before, fairly easily. and realize it was never a game issue.
You put in the work mentally and improve what you can physically. It really isn’t hard.

There are dudes out there that don’t put in the effort and then complain. Ain’t no chick wanting your sperm that’s spoiled milk.
 

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So if you like a shirt, and she says "go change it you don't look good" you will change it cause of her opinion? That's how men lose $hittest and their relationship ends.
I have acquiesced to women regarding stuff like this. And it didn’t end my relationships. In similar fashion I have gotten some of my girls to change their clothes as well. Looking attractive to your partner is important in a relationship. It’s not a Sh!tests. Women don’t sh!ttest men they are horny for.
 

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I have acquiesced to women regarding stuff like this. And it didn’t end my relationships. In similar fashion I have gotten some of my girls to change their clothes as well. Looking attractive to your partner is important in a relationship. It’s not a Sh!tests. Women don’t sh!ttest men they are horny for.
I think a lot of men are rigid to protect their ego. People communicate in different ways, the medium’s in the message. If an attractive chick told me my shirt doesn’t look good, I would definitely consider altering my wardrobe. Constructive criticism.
 

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I learned that women aren't as receptive to the one directional hyper masculine male vs the pretty boy pretty early on. In addition, Chad is just a pretty boy with slight masculine features to make him appear more edgy. Some real-life examples, I think Travis Kelce & JJ Watt are the perfect example of Chads while Jalen Hurts & Joe Burrow will fall in the pretty boy category. The mistake I see most men making is that they neglect everything but muscles and end up looking like this guy: There's nothing wrong with him from a guy's point of view, but most women are going to find this guy either MID or unattractive compared to other men.

Men cannot control whether they’re pretty or not. My son has pretty-boy looks. He was born with them.
 

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I have acquiesced to women regarding stuff like this. And it didn’t end my relationships. In similar fashion I have gotten some of my girls to change their clothes as well. Looking attractive to your partner is important in a relationship. It’s not a Sh!tests. Women don’t sh!ttest men they are horny for.
Well if you change a shirt that you like cause she told you, you look ugly, then cool man, I won't do that, its my liking, not hers. Women $hittest the most when they're very attracted to you, its common knowledge.

I imagine that relationship you had with girl didn't work, cause that's called betatization by a thousand concessions, starts with the shirt...

I look attractive to women by doing attractive things, those things also make me a man.

I think a lot of men are rigid to protect their ego. People communicate in different ways, the medium’s in the message. If an attractive chick told me my shirt doesn’t look good, I would definitely consider altering my wardrobe. Constructive criticism.
Male competition has gotten that easy, imagine thinking an opinion of somebody you don't even know lmao this forum is hilarious.

In the first section, The Feminine Imperative, Tomassi explores the underlying motivations and strategies of women in relationships. He argues that society is driven by a feminine-centric agenda that prioritizes female empowerment and control over male behavior. By examining the feminist movement and its impact on gender dynamics, Tomassi sheds light on the power dynamics at play in modern relationships.

Way to contradict yourself my guy. The first section of your book literally relates to your book. Sit down and give it a rest lol.
Did you forget to take the medicine today? That $hit that you wrote doesn't relate to anything in this post, and I thought you were one of the wise ones when you posted about your girl wanting to marry you.
 

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Men cannot control whether they’re pretty or not. My son has pretty-boy looks. He was born with them.
You can control your hair, style, presentation, take good care of yourself, and etc. Arguably, this is easier than going to the gym and trying to build somebody that are against your genetic makeup.
 

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Did you forget to take the medicine today? That $hit that you wrote doesn't relate to anything in this post, and I thought you were one of the wise ones when you posted about your girl wanting to marry you.
"underlying motivations and strategies of women in relationships" applies to what women find attractive and what they don't find attractive.
 

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You can control your hair, style, presentation, take good care of yourself, and etc. Arguably, this is easier than going to the gym and trying to build somebody that are against your genetic makeup.
A jacked pretty boy with a beard is still a pretty boy. Being described as “pretty” regards hair and eye color, complexion, and facial structure.

You have it, or you don’t. I don’t.
 

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Well if you change a shirt that you like cause she told you, you look ugly, then cool man, I won't do that, its my liking, not hers. Women $hittest the most when they're very attracted to you, its common knowledge.

I imagine that relationship you had with girl didn't work, cause that's called betatization by a thousand concessions, starts with the shirt...

I look attractive to women by doing attractive things, those things also make me a man.
We are not at war with women. Relationships aren’t a zero-sum game. Women do not sh!test men they want to fvck. Women will simp for a hot guy with a good dvck.
 

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A jacked pretty boy with a beard is still a pretty boy. Being described as “pretty” regards hair and eye color, complexion, and facial structure.

You have it, or you don’t. I don’t.
Do women ever use the term ‘prettyboy’?
I’m fairly GL & women have called me ‘handsome’ ‘good looking’ ‘hot’…. But never once ‘pretty’
 

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Do women ever use the term ‘prettyboy’?
I’m fairly GL & women have called me ‘handsome’ ‘good looking’ ‘hot’…. But never once ‘pretty’
yes. although I would separate the two terms because I don't think of them as synonyms.

when a girl calls you a prettyboy - essentially she finds you attractive but knows you're probablly a hoe. i.e. a pretty fvckboy
when a girl calls you pretty it just means she thinks you're eye candy and nice to look at. without the 'hoe' attachment.
 

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Do women ever use the term ‘prettyboy’?
I’ve seldomly heard women use the word pretty for a male. I’ve heard “beautiful” a few times too.
 

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"underlying motivations and strategies of women in relationships" applies to what women find attractive and what they don't find attractive.
You know what they don't find attractive? Men who do posts like this posting how women like pretty boys. Imagine if your fiancee finds this thread, her respect for you would go to zero.
 

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Booohooooo girls like pretty bois and I'm not pretty booohhhoooo, I want my mommy to give me a hug, she always told me I was pretty but girls don't share the same opinion, now I live my life according to women's opinion.
It sounds like you are schizophrenic or you are having a stroke.
 
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