Why Girls like Pretty Boys

[CornbreadFed]

I learned that women aren't as receptive to the one directional hyper masculine male vs the pretty boy pretty early on. In addition, Chad is just a pretty boy with slight masculine features to make him appear more edgy. Some real-life examples, I think Travis Kelce & JJ Watt are the perfect example of Chads while Jalen Hurts & Joe Burrow will fall in the pretty boy category. The mistake I see most men making is that they neglect everything but muscles and end up looking like this guy: There's nothing wrong with him from a guy's point of view, but most women are going to find this guy either MID or unattractive compared to other men.

 

[GoodMan32]

Here's the thing though: You can simultaneously be a pretty boy and be super macho.

Take John Parker Wilson for example. He's totally a pretty boy. Yet at the same time, you have to be extremely manly to play college football/NFL.

Back in his football days, a lot of broads were extremely attracted to him (a lot probably still are now for that matter; he's not even 40 yet)

 

[Mike32ct]

RP guys focus on muscle because it’s easier to control on older guys than younger pretty boy features such as facial aesthetics and hair.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

 

[Hamurabimbi]

You can’t do much about your face. But you can definitely improve your body.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I learned that women aren't as receptive to the one directional hyper masculine male vs the pretty boy pretty early on. In addition, Chad is just a pretty boy with slight masculine features to make him appear more edgy. Some real-life examples, I think Travis Kelce & JJ Watt are the perfect example of Chads while Jalen Hurts & Joe Burrow will fall in the pretty boy category. The mistake I see most men making is that they neglect everything but muscles and end up looking like this guy: There's nothing wrong with him from a guy's point of view, but most women are going to find this guy either MID or unattractive compared to other men.

You are comparing a good looking ‘prettyboy’ with an ugly ogre. A better comparison would be with a masculine handsome man such as DD.

 

[New_Journey]

I've come to think a bunch of members in this group are closeted gays, they talk a lot a chads, men, height, alpha, beta, it slowly has become in admiring men and complain, than actually doing the work and improve.

Gentlemen, if you're gay (there is nothing wrong with it) you're in the wrong forum, this forum is to improve oneself, not to see what other men are doing. Stop with the fvcking bull$hit.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I've come to think a bunch of members in this group are closeted gays, they talk a lot a chads, men, height, alpha, beta, it slowly has become in admiring men and complain, than actually doing the work and improve.

Gentlemen, if you're gay (there is nothing wrong with it) you're in the wrong forum, this forum is to improve oneself, not to see what other men are doing. Stop with the fvcking bull$hit.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I've come to think a bunch of members in this group are closeted gays, they talk a lot a chads, men, height, alpha, beta, it slowly has become in admiring men and complain, than actually doing the work and improve.

Gentlemen, if you're gay (there is nothing wrong with it) you're in the wrong forum, this forum is to improve oneself, not to see what other men are doing. Stop with the fvcking bull$hit.

The only opinion that matters in attraction/dating is the woman's opinion. I am sorry that the truth sounds closet gay to you. You can go and hype up any bro with "go to the gym" and "be alpha" but he will just end up back here Red Pilled because it doesn't work. In addition, Y'all are over here trying to teach men to act like the women y'all are competing for with these mind games, push pull tactics, negging, and etc. At the end of the day, we are all trying to understand the woman's Point of view rather that be physically or mentally.

 

[zekko]

I've come to think a bunch of members in this group are closeted gays, they talk a lot a chads, men, height, alpha, beta, it slowly has become in admiring men and complain, than actually doing the work and improve.

Nah, it's more like guys want to improve in a direction that has the best chance of paying off. As can be seen from this thread, there are a lot of different approaches that can be taken.

One thing the pretty boy thing shows though, is that men are not the only ones who are attracted by signs of youth. The pretty boy look is definitely a boyish/youthful look.

 

[New_Journey]

Some mods may think I'm discriminatimg

 

[New_Journey]

The only opinion that matters in attraction/dating is the woman's opinion. I am sorry that the truth sounds closet gay to you. You can go and hype up any bro with "go to the gym" and "be alpha" but he will just end up back here Red Pilled because it doesn't work. In addition, Y'all are over here trying to teach men to act like the women y'all are competing for with these mind games, push pull tactics, negging, and etc. At the end of the day, we are all trying to understand the woman's Point of view rather that be physically or mentally.

Damn that really stroke a nerve. Chill brah, it was my opinion. Besides, you shouldn't live by any woman's opinion, when they change like the weather.

 

[New_Journey]

Nah, it's more like guys want to improve in a direction that has the best chance of paying off. As can be seen from this thread, there are a lot of different approaches that can be taken.

One thing the pretty boy thing shows though, is that men are not the only ones who are attracted by signs of youth. The pretty boy look is definitely a boyish/youthful look.

I mean, I get it, but have you seen recent posts, everything is I can't get a girl because:
1. I'm short
2. I'm bald
3. Im poor
4. I have trauma cause of my ex
5. I embarrassed myself in a speed dating
6. I'm awkward
7. Chad
8. Face is what matters and I don't have good facial features
9. Can't have good sex
10. I live in a small city
11. She took too long to text back

Sometimes this forum feels like a meeting "Men Survivors Of Testicular Cancer", where they don't have testosterone cause they cut their balls off and they meet to cry together.

Men, Be Courageous, improve your shortcomings and talk to women, its not really that hard.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Besides, you shouldn't live by any woman's opinion, when they change like the weather.

We all do rather we want to admit it or not.

 

[New_Journey]

We all do rather we want to admit it or not.

So if you like a shirt, and she says "go change it you don't look good" you will change it cause of her opinion? That's how men lose $hittest and their relationship ends.

 

[typical]

Feminine women do NOT like pretty boys !!! Stop letting garbage youtube channels tell you how the world works.

Women say one thing yet repond to another ................. we've all seen the ugly guy in a local band get with beautiful women all the time. You're letting your insecurties stopy ou from going for what you want.

 

[Ricky]

According to some studies it depends on what time of the month. Sometimes they go for more masculine, sometimes less.

You have to have game to go with the looks then you can have more options.

 

[Solomon]

I've come to think a bunch of members in this group are closeted gays, they talk a lot a chads, men, height, alpha, beta, it slowly has become in admiring men and complain, than actually doing the work and improve.

Gentlemen, if you're gay (there is nothing wrong with it) you're in the wrong forum, this forum is to improve oneself, not to see what other men are doing. Stop with the fvcking bull$hit.

A lot of guys aren't successful with women on here, it's very easy to spot when you hear them repeat these tired "2012 Redpill" talking points, the guys that do good tend have a different view it's very obvious to me

 

[BaronOfHair]

A lot of guys aren't successful with women on here, it's very easy to spot when you hear them repeat these tired "2012 Redpill" talking points, the guys that do good tend have a different view it's very obvious to me

Overthinking the ever living piss out of everything from the safe space of one's keyboard is easy. Walking out of your home, and being out in the wild, can be difficult and scary at times. Thus, more and more of us are choosing to do the former

 

[CornbreadFed]

So if you like a shirt, and she says "go change it you don't look good" you will change it cause of her opinion? That's how men lose $hittest and their relationship ends.

Then why are you on a fricking dating forum? Just be yourself then if no opinion of a woman matters to you.