Why do you guys care so much about sex and women?

[ElStud]

Seriously though. With all the problems going on in the world today, I find it hard that a lot of you guys are focused on nothing else but getting girls and getting laid. But guess what dudes, you're young you're gonna get laid some day. As well I and as well as EVERYONE. But seriously, who cares if a girl rejected, BOO HOO! There are bigger problems in the world such as the economy, genocide and war. Or why don't you focus on something that's actually important like education? Something that actually means something. Women will be around forever and you've got your whole life to get laid. And wanting to get laid is perfectly natural, but just don't let that be your only freaking focus in life. There are bigger things in life than women. It really doesn't matter if a particular girl isn't interested in you or you get rejected, life goes on and there'll be other girls. What DOES matter is the economy, what DOES matter is that you get grades, what DOES matter is that you pass college.

 

[Apocalypse Now]

Some of the guys here put all of their focus and passion into getting girls, which is unhealthy and a bad idea.

I tend to gravitate more towards bettering myself as a person while grabbing some poon on the side (and, conveniently, they both go hand-in-hand).

 

[goodfoot]

I don't.

 

[Kevin Feng]

I understand where you're coming from, there are some top PUAs out there, well all of them in my personal opinion don't live a balanced lifestyle. It really isn't a matter of NOT caring about real issues in the world, but rather, living a life in balance.

Sex/relationships ARE an important part of everyone's life, so I'm not saying spend 5 nights a week for the rest of your life going out, but if you are to get good at the "game" you do need to spend an ample amount of time for at least 6 months to hone your skills.

It comes down to Masow's hierarchy of needs. One must provide himself with food shelter, then material wealth, then sex and relationships.

As a matter of fact, if you don't care enough about sex/relationships, I'd say you're out of balance. It's natural to act on your instinctual urges. If you really break it down, our evolutionary purpose here on this planet is to survive and reproduce.

-Kevin

 

[The Logical Player]

before all of the guys who don't know who ElStud is start posting on here, let me just say this:

SHUT YOUR VIRGIN TRAP UP

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1161774

that right there is 275 posts of absolute virgin frustration and waste of time

why do YOU Elstud case so much about approaching girls for no reason?? You say its "practice".....practice for what???

YOU WANT TO GET LAID, YOU ARE JUST IN DENIAL YOU CREEPY CRAZY LITTLE BOY

you of ALL people have done NOTHING important to benefit the world around you, all you do is play video games, approach, and jerk off all day - so why dont you SHUT UP you know-it-all creepy little virgin

did i mention that this ElStud character avoids all advice that has been given to him over the years?? AND he has the e-balls to be such a hypocrite to post this shyt over here

dude **** off already, what a useless peice of trash you are

 

[I'm in the Mood]

There isn't anything bigger in your life than being happy.
Good relationships make people happy, sex makes people happy.

I'd rather find a woman to make me happy than stress over the fvcking economy or how screwed up much of our world is. I'd rather be happy and chill with friends than get straight As.

What makes you happy Elstud?

 

[Maxtro]

Why do you guys care so much about sex and women?

That's a very good question and frankly I don't have a clue why.

I really don't know why women/sex are the most important thing to me.

OMFG I looked at Maslow's hierarchy of needs look at what #4 at the bottom is right between water and sleep.


Sex.

Sex is a fundamental human need?! Hell it even shows up AGAIN as sexual intimacy on tier 3 Love/Belonging. Sex is also a big part of Self-esteem, confidence and achievement on the Esteem tier.

Wow so I'm missing big chunks on three tiers of my needs. No wonder I'm depressed. I swear that if I had a regular sex life I'd be a much happier person.

I'm actually a little shocked.

 

[Aragon034]

What was it Frued said? the only abnormal sex life is none?

You have what's known as Selective Perception. You refuse to see anything beyond what you've already surmised. My fear is you'll eventually go completely insane over it and go and shoot up your school.

Kthxbai! ^_^

 

[Captain]

Getting women shouldn't be the focus of your life, having fun should be.

Even so, reproduction and survival are the strongest biological urges in humans. Don't try to argue with me there.

I could say more, but others have already said it better.

 

[ElStud]

before all of the guys who don't know who ElStud is start posting on here, let me just say this:

SHUT YOUR VIRGIN TRAP UP

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1161774

that right there is 275 posts of absolute virgin frustration and waste of time

why do YOU Elstud case so much about approaching girls for no reason?? You say its "practice".....practice for what???

YOU WANT TO GET LAID, YOU ARE JUST IN DENIAL YOU CREEPY CRAZY LITTLE BOY

you of ALL people have done NOTHING important to benefit the world around you, all you do is play video games, approach, and jerk off all day - so why dont you SHUT UP you know-it-all creepy little virgin

did i mention that this ElStud character avoids all advice that has been given to him over the years?? AND he has the e-balls to be such a hypocrite to post this shyt over here

dude **** off already, what a useless peice of trash you are

You are sad man. So much anger. What's sad is you care so much about me. "VIRGIN TRAP", did I ever deny being a virgin? No. "YOU WANT TO GET LAID" did I ever say I didn't? No, I'm just saying that I'm not in any rush to get laid. I'm 18, 19 in a couple days, I got my WHOLE LIFE to get laid. Beautiful women will always be around and they're not going away anytime soon, there truly is no rush to get laid. You're a sad person.

Relationships are important, but there's no need to rush sex. You get laid, life goes on. Unless you're planning on having a baby or unless you actually like the girl, there isn't much of a point other than pleasure of getting laid. However, there IS a point in getting a job, there IS a point in going to college and getting good grades, there IS a point in becoming successful.

I know I will get laid one day and when I do it won't be that big of a deal. But I'm not necessarily rushing it and it isn't my main focus. Now say I do see a girl that I find is attractive that I can't pass up, I'll go up to her and talk to her, but whether I want it to go anywhere depends whether I'm really in a sexual mood that day or if I'm just chatting with her to chat.

My point is, a girl doesn't like you big deal, people are dying every day. Your girlfriend breaks up with you, big deal, the economy is failing right now. Some girl rejects you, be happy that you're still in college and can get an education. In the end, what I'm saying is you shouldn't care so much about whether girls like you or not. If they do, great! If they don't it's not a big deal. Now if MOST girls reject you, then that means you should work on your game, but even then, you shouldn't really care.

 

[Leporello]

Um.

It's a dating and sex forum.

You might as well go to a fishing discussion group and ask 'Hey, why are you people so obsessed with fishing?'

 

[I'm in the Mood]

My point is, a girl doesn't like you big deal, people are dying every day. Your girlfriend breaks up with you, big deal, the economy is failing right now. Some girl rejects you, be happy that you're still in college and can get an education. In the end, what I'm saying is you shouldn't care so much about whether girls like you or not.

Why are you trying so hard to shift focus away from women?

A girl doesn't like me, big deal, I'm disappointed but move on.
People are dying everyday, big deal, today nobody I know has died.
My girlfriend breaks up with me, I'd naturally be sad.
The economy is failing because past governments fvcked it up, I'm angry at them but I could care less.
Some girl rejects me, big deal, she's not worth my time anymore.
I'm in college getting an education, big deal, eventually I'll graduate.

Do I want to get laid? Hell yeah, who doesn't want sex, it's human nature.

In the end I think you're saying that you shouldn't go into a situation seeking a certain outcome. That mentality is alright because it prevents disappointment, but you should keep it neutral so you don't feel negative all the time.

If you like a girl, I think you most definitely should care whether she likes you or not, because if you ever want a relationship with her you definitely want some love thrown back at you. Otherwise, a one-sided thing is pretty much a waste of time because only one side gets the truth out of it, however unwanted you are.

You don't want to persue a girl that doesn't like you, and that should be common sense to everyone on this board.

 

[ElStud]

Why are you trying so hard to shift focus away from women?

A girl doesn't like me, big deal, I'm disappointed but move on.
People are dying everyday, big deal, today nobody I know has died.
My girlfriend breaks up with me, I'd naturally be sad.
The economy is failing because past governments fvcked it up, I'm angry at them but I could care less.
Some girl rejects me, big deal, she's not worth my time anymore.
I'm in college getting an education, big deal, eventually I'll graduate.

Do I want to get laid? Hell yeah, who doesn't want sex, it's human nature.

In the end I think you're saying that you shouldn't go into a situation seeking a certain outcome. That mentality is alright because it prevents disappointment, but you should keep it neutral so you don't feel negative all the time.

If you like a girl, I think you most definitely should care whether she likes you or not, because if you ever want a relationship with her you definitely want some love thrown back at you. Otherwise, a one-sided thing is pretty much a waste of time because only one side gets the truth out of it, however unwanted you are.

You don't want to persue a girl that doesn't like you, and that should be common sense to everyone on this board.

Not trying hard, a lot of days I'm just naturally not trying to get girls nor do I want to get one. On those days I can still admit if a girl is hot or sexy, but it just won't be that big of a deal to me. Like I said though, if I do see a girl who's really attractive, I talk to her, but even then, I'm not trying to get sex from her, most of the time when I'm NOT in a sexual mood and I approach, I eject EVEN if she's interested. Guess you could say I approach on those days out of sheer boredom.

And yes, it should be a BIG DEAL. The economy falters, you will no longer be able to buy food and will go hungry. The economy falters, you will become poor. Girl rejects you? That really isn't a big deal. You drop out of college, you can't get a degree, drop out of college, you probably won't be able to get a good job. So yeah, that should be a big deal.

And I do disagree that you should care. I mean, for me it's like if a girl likes me, that's great. And if we're having fun and all that stuff it's great. But you do have to realize that women will often times take away all interest and sometimes throw sh*t test. At this point, if you care that she's pulling away all interest, you'll probably fail the test. But if it's no big deal to you and you let it pass, you'll naturally pass the test. I mean it is OK to feel sad if your girlfriend rejects, just don't obsess over it and realize sh*t could be 1000X worse.

And yes, it is true that if I go up to a girl and I see that she doesn't want to talk to me at the moment, that I just move on. It's not a big deal, I just go and keep talking to girls, until I find a set that wants to talk. Because no matter how good you are at talking to girls, there'll always be those girls who will not want to talk for whatever reason. Even Mystery can't get interest 100% of the time; damn near, but not 100%. You can choose to either plow through those sets and see if she eventually becomes interested or you can move on.

 

[OTB]

Um.

It's a dating and sex forum.

You might as well go to a fishing discussion group and ask 'Hey, why are you people so obsessed with fishing?'

Hahahaha, ElStud!

Leporello just owned you and all your reasons for making this thread! :crackup:

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Not trying hard, a lot of days I'm just naturally not trying to get girls nor do I want to get one. On those days I can still admit if a girl is hot or sexy, but it just won't be that big of a deal to me. Like I said though, if I do see a girl who's really attractive, I talk to her, but even then, I'm not trying to get sex from her, most of the time when I'm NOT in a sexual mood and I approach, I eject EVEN if she's interested. Guess you could say I approach on those days out of sheer boredom.

The point of approaching isn't to get sex, it's to meet women.
Why do you approach with that "she's hot/sexy/attractive" mentality, though you are bored and don't want to interact with her at all even if she's friendly and open?

In my opinion you seem like you just want to look at beautiful women but aren't willing to put any effort into getting to know them.

And yes, it should be a BIG DEAL. The economy falters, you will no longer be able to buy food and will go hungry. The economy falters, you will become poor. Girl rejects you? That really isn't a big deal. You drop out of college, you can't get a degree, drop out of college, you probably won't be able to get a good job. So yeah, that should be a big deal.

The U.S. economy as a problem shouldn't be our concern as far as finding a solution, though if you're that worried I suggest you read up on the Great Depression and let FDR comfort you with some hope if Barack doesn't.

America is the land of many things, including cheap food, and I doubt that you'd be put in the place of a person with $0 in his pocket, home and bank accounts. If the food we like to eat goes up in price, we either must buy less food or cheaper food. Perhaps you're more worried about the quality of your meals than starving?

College dropouts are definitely misguided, and I'm saying misguided because they usually drop out because of their problems. I suggest solving your problems in a mature way is much more important than stressing over college dropouts. Man you're not dropping out, why are you so worried about dropouts?

Getting a job is a completely different area than education. I think that getting a job is an excellent achievement to strive for though. You don't have to go all out Ivy League, Ph.D program, wannabe professor/dr. stressed out because you're drowning in academics. I'm not saying you had exactly that in mind when you said education is a big deal, but I think that doing something you want to do trumps all possible roads to "making cash-money."

I'm going to community college next year, I am leaving my high school and leaving all of my friends. I don't know for sure what I want to be, maybe a lawyer, maybe a musician, maybe an economist, maybe an artist...

It's nothing to do with education in general, it's all about feeling good as a person, doing what you love and feeling passion for something.

This morning I had to wake up early because I was going to this SAT prep thing that I knew nothing about, but my parents wanted me to go to so I could learn more about the specific standardized tests.
When I got there, I wasn't enthusiastic about getting up at 7:30 on a saturday so I didn't really wanna be there, but pulled up a chair in the back corner of the cafeteria next to a guy that I know.
The lady who was giving directions gave a small rant, said that this was only a practice test...blah blah...
Anyway, I raise my hand and ask her if the test would take up the whole time... She was like "Yes the test is three and a half hours...But you get two five-minute breaks."

I got the FVCK up outta there.

I just stood up and left because I wasn't wasting 3 hours of my time on a practice test at 8:00 am on a freaking saturday morning.

Some of the kids laughed when they noticed me walking towards the exit. I was pretty ****y back there but I value myself more than getting perfect ont he SAT and getting into a good college. I'm a smart guy, I'm going to community college next year. I have my priorities.

Elstud, to me you honestly sound like a person who is somewhat lost and in denial. It's probably because this whole board and its concepts "DJ, AFC, Man, Pvssy, Woman, Sex, etc." have partially warped your mind into somebody you don't want to be.

You gender is male, you are attracted to women, you want to fvck girls.
I know people try to put you down but you gotta start thinking straight: "What would happen if I called everybody out on a PUA forum on why they care so much about sex and women?"

This is where losers come to learn!!! They're going to get mad at you if you cross paths with them so many times and build a bad reputation among some of them!

I don't have a cure for you but I know that peace of mind is what you need, because I can vision a revolution going on in there, and that revolution is your personal life and beliefs vs. your social life and what people think of you.

 

[Aragon034]

Not trying hard, a lot of days I'm just naturally not trying to get girls nor do I want to get one. On those days I can still admit if a girl is hot or sexy, but it just won't be that big of a deal to me. Like I said though, if I do see a girl who's really attractive, I talk to her, but even then, I'm not trying to get sex from her, most of the time when I'm NOT in a sexual mood and I approach, I eject EVEN if she's interested. Guess you could say I approach on those days out of sheer boredom.

And yes, it should be a BIG DEAL. The economy falters, you will no longer be able to buy food and will go hungry. The economy falters, you will become poor. Girl rejects you? That really isn't a big deal. You drop out of college, you can't get a degree, drop out of college, you probably won't be able to get a good job. So yeah, that should be a big deal.

And I do disagree that you should care. I mean, for me it's like if a girl likes me, that's great. And if we're having fun and all that stuff it's great. But you do have to realize that women will often times take away all interest and sometimes throw sh*t test. At this point, if you care that she's pulling away all interest, you'll probably fail the test. But if it's no big deal to you and you let it pass, you'll naturally pass the test. I mean it is OK to feel sad if your girlfriend rejects, just don't obsess over it and realize sh*t could be 1000X worse.

And yes, it is true that if I go up to a girl and I see that she doesn't want to talk to me at the moment, that I just move on. It's not a big deal, I just go and keep talking to girls, until I find a set that wants to talk. Because no matter how good you are at talking to girls, there'll always be those girls who will not want to talk for whatever reason. Even Mystery can't get interest 100% of the time; damn near, but not 100%. You can choose to either plow through those sets and see if she eventually becomes interested or you can move on.

Here's a serious question. There is absolutely no offence or malice intended or given with this question.

You can choose to either plow through those sets and see if she eventually becomes interested or you can move on.

To the above quoted, what do you, i mean you Mike, what do you personally and specifically do once interest is established?

 

[Mars]

This thread was spawned from the one where he got banned from the student center. Clearly if his approaches had been successful this thread would not exist at all.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

Yes dude it is strange, millions throughout Africa don't even have shelter and food to eat, where by here we have young dudes blessed with these things and so much more, yet miserable because a hot young babe won't fvck them, whats wrong with these people. :yes: :nono:

 

[The Logical Player]

Here's a serious question. There is absolutely no offence or malice intended or given with this question.



To the above quoted, what do you, i mean you Mike, what do you personally and specifically do once interest is established?

I can answer for him!

he chalks up the interest as another notch in his belt, and moves on to the next girl

interest = sex to ElStud, and he is trying to gather as much interest as possible from as many girls as possible like a true Interest Playa!!

 

[x86]

There is a special term for people like ELStud.

So remember, don't feed the troll.