initiatorhater06
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man, women are something else
Its not about being perfect. It's all about the mindset. It's and attractive Mindset. Guys who are succesful with girls and success itself have a certain mindset. It goes back to survival and replication.initiatorhater06 said:Seriously, it's like in order for men, guys to be successful with women, girls, we have to be perfect everything, it's like the list of positive qualities that women look for in men is way longer than the list of positive qualities that men look for in women. Seriously, women, girls they just have to be hot, pretty, cute, look good and automatically they are girlfriend material for us guys. Us guys, we have to have a life, we have to have things going for us in our life, we have to love ourself, we have to have confidence, we have to have goals, have a passion for something, it comes down to the way we talk to people and socialize, social skills and conversation skills, have the right attitude, or just a good, great attitude, the right way of thinking, the right mentality, we have to walk right, sit right, stand right, breathe right, think right. We can't be clingy, needy, desperate. Most of us guys don't care if a woman, girl is a bratty person, boring life or boring personality, has no life, have no goals, have no passion for anything, they can be clingy, needy or desperate and still get a boyfriend or get action. I'm not saying that being needy, desperate, clingy is good thing, it's just ****in' hard to not come across like that.
Things like this and all the other stuff many men(AFC men) do is what allows women to behave this way. I scoff every time I see one of my attractive friends put a provocative pic up just because she knows all these chumps will tell her how sexy she is. We gota be above those typical compliments they fish for.Craig Reeves said:lol. Man I can't STAND IT when some hot girl puts a sexy pic of herself up and a whole legion of dudes tell her how "beautiful" she is....and then she puts up more and more and more and they keep coming back and telling her how hot she is. Ugh....
Keep in mind that this laundry list of things men need are just intended to compensate for lack of looks or just average looks. The hot guy needs very little on that list. They are just a bonus.initiatorhater06 said:I just hate how us guys, men, it always or usually comes down to our attitude, social skills, conversation skills, mentality, way of thinking, the way people view and perceive us that determines our success with girls, because it is a lot of ****in' work in order to become that way, meanwhile girls, they can be bratty, boring, have no life, be immature, be a Harry Potter nerd or geek as long as they look like a Supermodel
Only a low quality man wants a trophy girlfriend on his arm.initiatorhater06 said:I just hate how us guys, men, it always or usually comes down to our attitude, social skills, conversation skills, mentality, way of thinking, the way people view and perceive us that determines our success with girls, because it is a lot of ****in' work in order to become that way, meanwhile girls, they can be bratty, boring, have no life, be immature, be a Harry Potter nerd or geek as long as they look like a Supermodel
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Guys should work on themselves regardless of women.playergamehater said:I'm with him, thats what pisses me off too, us guys have to work on ourselves more than girls do
There is no such thing as a perfect human being.lili19771 said:Guys only have to be perfect to get the perfect or close to perfect girls. In general, a guy can get a girl without being perfect...
Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
That's a very good point and also something I want to stress with all the BPD talk going on on this forum (which isn't surprising as many hot girls are insecure narcissists). You don't end up with a BPD girl or a an immature girl who screws you over, because she tricked you. On some level you always knew. In order to get a good girl, you have to have self esteem.perseverance said:Only a low quality man wants a trophy girlfriend on his arm.
I want a high quality woman, in my eyes a girl being pleasing on the eye doesn't automatically mean she is a high quality woman.
No man in his right mind would want a boring, immature, selfish woman on his arm regardless of her appearance.
If a man wants a woman like that, then he has insecurity issues.
Yeah, something I've recently noticed in myself as well. I used to go for the 9's and 10's. But after all the drama they have given me and the little they have provided in return, I tend to appreciate 7's more. And let's face it, most of those 9's are 7's, it's just that they spend hours a day on their appearance and thus become uninteresting.LoneWolf said:i definitely do NOT go for those kind of girls. i always go for the down to earth type. the ones with straight perfect hair, caked on make up, big fake boobs or whatever with snotty attitude. eww, not my type. i always go for 6 or 7's.
You don't. Only if you want all the women. The one's that like you, are gonna like you and they are going to be as obvious as can be. There will be no doubt when a chick likes you.initiatorhater06 said:Seriously, it's like in order for men, guys to be successful with women, girls, we have to be perfect everything, it's like the list of positive qualities that women look for in men is way longer than the list of positive qualities that men look for in women. Seriously, women, girls they just have to be hot, pretty, cute, look good and automatically they are girlfriend material for us guys. Us guys, we have to have a life, we have to have things going for us in our life, we have to love ourself, we have to have confidence, we have to have goals, have a passion for something, it comes down to the way we talk to people and socialize, social skills and conversation skills, have the right attitude, or just a good, great attitude, the right way of thinking, the right mentality, we have to walk right, sit right, stand right, breathe right, think right. We can't be clingy, needy, desperate. Most of us guys don't care if a woman, girl is a bratty person, boring life or boring personality, has no life, have no goals, have no passion for anything, they can be clingy, needy or desperate and still get a boyfriend or get action. I'm not saying that being needy, desperate, clingy is good thing, it's just ****in' hard to not come across like that.
not really, because a lot of guys can't read a girl's subtle hintsleeraconteur said:You don't. Only if you want all the women. The one's that like you, are gonna like you and they are going to be as obvious as can be. There will be no doubt when a chick likes you.
One night I had a few beers, I went to plenty of fish in a different city than mine, cut and paste a pic of a hot sluty Asian chick, then cut and paste anothers really bratty written profile and mashed it up into a women looking for men ad in my home city.Craig Reeves said:lol. Man I can't STAND IT when some hot girl puts a sexy pic of herself up and a whole legion of dudes tell her how "beautiful" she is....and then she puts up more and more and more and they keep coming back and telling her how hot she is. Ugh....
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.