The mass media has entirely corrupted women's self-image, which is initially gained from outside sources anyway, making them extremely vulnerable to that influence. "The perfect storm", if you will.
Women by nature struggle with insecurity, and TV, magazines, and Hollywood have hit on the formula to pump them up with ridiculous ideas of superiority.
I always chuckle to myself when I hear women on TV say "I'm a strong, confident woman". Methinks thou protest too much... When you have to say that, you are actually a frightened little girl. They are fed the lie, in absolutely massive quantities, that they posess male characteristics and strengths. Therefore they walk around with an incredibly arrogant, delusional air.
I'm convinced that we are witnessing an entire gender going stark raving mad with delusion. Women have been sold the lie that they can do and be anything and everything a man can do and be, and they feel the pressure to be that, and also to be a woman. This is a social contrivance that is entirely against nature. They scream out the rally cry that men treat them as sex objects, that they don't want to be valued for the physical, all the while running around half naked with a face that is painted on. But of course, we appreciate them for their "minds".
All men know (but are deathly afraid to admit publically) that most women are emotionally driven, unstable and delusional. I'm telling you...these days, I'm just not meeting ANY stable women at all. Zero. As I said, I believe this is because they are fed these lies from the media. They are told that it is shameful to be a decent woman who is devoted to her man.
We are struggling with the opposite sex, men, like never before in history. The problem lies not with us, but with the absurd expectations of women, even the fatties. The proliferation of mass media has been steadily eroding the minds of both men and women since the 60s, and believe me when I say that except for a few exceptions here, most of you younger guys are the product of an extremely femminine educational and societal system.
We are here on this site because the natural order has been turned upside-down, and in many cases we are
erroneously blaming ourselves, myself included.
How many times in my life have I asked, "What is wrong with me?" Certainly I have flaws and baggage from the past like any other man, but we need to understand that there is less wrong with us than we think. All through history men and women have gotten together just fine, and here we find ourselves dealing with this incomprehensible issue of trying to figure out what is supposed to be as natural as it is for the birds and the bees.
Some may label me a misogynist, but I believe that only by stepping outside of the system can we analyze it, identify it for what it truly is, and then take action to normalize it.
I can't tell you how much I hate the battle cry, "Misogynist! The system is what it is, and we need to adjust to it. It has always been this way!"
You guys know that I maintain that it certainly has not always been this way, that younger guys who were brought up and educated in this femminized society literally, I mean LITERALLY don't have a clue that society used to be so vastly different that they would be shocked to go back in time and experience it. Respect from women? It used to happen, boys, without our having to play games and create these ridiculous techniques. I was there. I know.
Some of you are saying to yourselves, "What's the use of complaining about how things are now compared to how it used to be?"
The answer is that it's critically important. Like I said above, it is essential to step outside of a system in order to understand it and in order to contextualize it with history. Only then can we effect change.
You may think that there is nothing you can do from within this vast, all-encompassing system, but you are wrong. Discussion and education starts with YOU. We need to stand up as men, call women on their bullsh!t, write articles, use the web, and educate the world. We need to open their sleepy eyes to the incalculable damage that the damage the media has done to human relations.
The tide
WILL turn, though it will never fully normalize. I believe that soon a generation of women will arise who are aware of what I'm talking about here and collectivelly turn their back on their (usually divorced) parents' paradigms. Women will want to embrace their natural proclivities again, and will reject the idea of pretending to perform as both a man and a woman, which can only breed madness.
As I see it, the only way we can combat this, in a practical sense, it to become much more
selective ourselves. If you're just out to bang chicks, that's one thing. You're not even interested in what I'm saying. But if you're looking for a more meaningful relationship, like many of us are, then I suggest defining a standard for yourself, and not being afraid to reject women who don't adhere to your standard. It's also very important to tell them why they don't make the grade. They need to learn that they must meet
our standards. It
can be done!
I can't tell you how many times I've had discussions with women, and initially their jaw drops to the floor. But every single time, they come back either in writing or in-person, telling me how they respect me for what I'm saying, and that I'm the only man they know who has the backbone to stand up and tell the truth, even things that upset their sensibilities.
It's a fine line we must walk.... between carrying a chip on our shoulders (something we need to work to avoid), and being aware and educating, even at the cost of potential rejection. The sweet spot is obtainable. The result is respect.
