backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Nice to see somewhat of an intelligent convo going:
Let me answer some of the questions that were posted:
I guess I have a different mindset, but staying tied down to one chick for the rest of my life without "ever" being able to "look" at another woman just doesn't make much damn sense.
There is nothing wrong with me if I find too women attractive enough, in every way shape or form, to date.
Even if I was to be with one person for the rest of my life, I won't get married.. I don't believe in marrage, someone assumed I did... someone posed the question that "why don't I marry 5 different women" or something about that.
From a legal standpoint, marrage is a losing propisition. You have, at every second at for the rest of your life, to loose half of everything you have.
Secondly, marriage, in the grand scheme of things, is something that is entirely new to civilization. Marriage has been around as long as religion has been around, which, again, hasn't been all too long. Marriage is tied to religion, and I am not religious.
If a girl loves me enough, she will be with my under my terms, otherwise, I will be being with her under her terms.. Main reason why me and my last real GF aren't together.. she told me we "had" to get married and I was going to hell for not wanting to get married.. I told her she can hit the door. Any girl that makes you marry her doesn't want to marry you, she is sold on the idea of being married, not sold on the idea of being with you.
I don't have one "special girl"... all girls are special in their own way. Every week I see a girl that I say "damn, she is nice". About once a month I see a girl that has the entire package... Why should I just pick the first one who looks back at me? Why not be with all (or at least some) of them?
Actually, i am not a proponet of cheating. That's antother reason why my ex (last real one) and I aren't together. I wanted to **** more women, and I told her I wanted to **** more women, and she wasn't okay with it... actually we had a threesome with a chick we met at a bar, but I knew her enough to know she really wasn't okay with it.
Every girl I see now, as of now It's really 2 with 1 on a semi constant basis, know I am seeing other women as well. I make no bones about it, even when we first met. Some girls dont' like it.. if they don't, that's cool, I don't have anything against them, they just dont' fit my lifestyle.
I could see myself when I 'settle down' with 2 or 3 women, all living in the same house, not married to either of them. All of the girls would have to be attracted to each other and like each other enough to live under the same roof. You would never have to worry about a girl loosing interest.. it's a constant battle everyday for your attention. Sex is pretty much guaranteed every night.
And that's just simply becuase to me that's the way it should be. Not becuase you have to have multiple women to be a man, but becuase that's the reason why women get pregnant and men dont', men aren't necessarly made to be monomogus.
Let me answer some of the questions that were posted:
I guess I have a different mindset, but staying tied down to one chick for the rest of my life without "ever" being able to "look" at another woman just doesn't make much damn sense.
There is nothing wrong with me if I find too women attractive enough, in every way shape or form, to date.
Even if I was to be with one person for the rest of my life, I won't get married.. I don't believe in marrage, someone assumed I did... someone posed the question that "why don't I marry 5 different women" or something about that.
From a legal standpoint, marrage is a losing propisition. You have, at every second at for the rest of your life, to loose half of everything you have.
Secondly, marriage, in the grand scheme of things, is something that is entirely new to civilization. Marriage has been around as long as religion has been around, which, again, hasn't been all too long. Marriage is tied to religion, and I am not religious.
If a girl loves me enough, she will be with my under my terms, otherwise, I will be being with her under her terms.. Main reason why me and my last real GF aren't together.. she told me we "had" to get married and I was going to hell for not wanting to get married.. I told her she can hit the door. Any girl that makes you marry her doesn't want to marry you, she is sold on the idea of being married, not sold on the idea of being with you.
I don't have one "special girl"... all girls are special in their own way. Every week I see a girl that I say "damn, she is nice". About once a month I see a girl that has the entire package... Why should I just pick the first one who looks back at me? Why not be with all (or at least some) of them?
Actually, i am not a proponet of cheating. That's antother reason why my ex (last real one) and I aren't together. I wanted to **** more women, and I told her I wanted to **** more women, and she wasn't okay with it... actually we had a threesome with a chick we met at a bar, but I knew her enough to know she really wasn't okay with it.
Every girl I see now, as of now It's really 2 with 1 on a semi constant basis, know I am seeing other women as well. I make no bones about it, even when we first met. Some girls dont' like it.. if they don't, that's cool, I don't have anything against them, they just dont' fit my lifestyle.
I could see myself when I 'settle down' with 2 or 3 women, all living in the same house, not married to either of them. All of the girls would have to be attracted to each other and like each other enough to live under the same roof. You would never have to worry about a girl loosing interest.. it's a constant battle everyday for your attention. Sex is pretty much guaranteed every night.
And that's just simply becuase to me that's the way it should be. Not becuase you have to have multiple women to be a man, but becuase that's the reason why women get pregnant and men dont', men aren't necessarly made to be monomogus.