I do not enjoy approaching or the early stages of romantic relationships. I prefer the stage of relationships where the sex has been had, it is good, and the relationship is escalating or fully mature.
I've never enjoyed approaching. I prefer other parts of the interaction far more than approaching. Approaching is a rather unpleasant pain.
As an introverted, "Pleasure of Sex" man, I am not one who is going to enjoy the social aspects of approaching. I will approach when I need to get laid.I think this article below is insightful into who might actually enjoy doing approaches....
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Since I am a Pleasure of Sex man, I don't enjoy approaching strangers. It's still better than swiping, but it's a difficult path.
Assuming you're looking for sex, why would you approach the older, menopausal women? Although sometimes the older gals have more interesting things to say than the younger, prettier bubblehead types.I don’t enjoy it when the women is older and menopausal,
There are plenty of 50+ men approaching older, menopausal type women for sex. The typical 50+ man who is unattached is a pussie beggar who will settle for whatever mediocre to subpar pussie that he can get.Assuming you're looking for sex, why would you approach the older, menopausal women? Although sometimes the older gals have more interesting things to say than the younger, prettier bubblehead types.
Guacala!There are plenty of 50+ men approaching older, menopausal type women for sex.
And childlessI enjoy it when the woman is young and fertile and sexy.
No drugs are much better plus some guys are gay anyway. So it can not be the best feeling in general.I enjoy it
Can be a bit demoralising at times especially if you churn through a lot of the wrong women , but eventually when you get it right with the right girl at the right time
I'm telling you there's no better feeling on earth than a beautiful girl submitting to your will because you've been a man and confidently approached her you know she respects you and its probably made her panties a little wet in the process
Its one of life's true pleasures
Never understood why guys are so afraid of being rejected by girls, but on the same time they do not give single fvck when they get rejected by a potential prospect/customer on a sales call/cold call.I hate it with a passion, cause I have hardly any experience in even having female friends let alone girlfriends.
I'm afraid she'll reject me and embarass me, or I'll screw up.
It is not the same thing. Most guys are not approaching a girl because of wanting sex but because of ego. They want validation. Well when they don't get it it hurts the ego. For the guys who just want sex it is probably not that personal.Never understood why guys are so afraid of being rejected by girls, but on the same time they do not give single fvck when they get rejected by a potential prospect/customer on a sales call/cold call.
It just darn weird because it is exactly the same thing really.
I would argue it is exactly the same thing and the process of selling yourself to achieve some kind of goal whether is is a personal or professional goal is also exactly the same.It is not the same thing. Most guys are not approaching a girl because of wanting sex but because of ego. They want validation. Well when they don't get it it hurts the ego. For the guys who just want sex it is probably not that personal.
When you approach a girl for another guy does rejection hurt your ego more or less? If she says he is ugly does it hurt your ego more or less than if you approached for yourself?I would argue it is exactly the same thing and the process of selling yourself to achieve some kind of goal whether is is a personal or professional goal is also exactly the same.
Why do you think people HATE cold calling?
Because they are so afraid of being rejected and it hurts their ego. That's why.
Why do people HATE approaching girls?
Because they are so afraid of being rejected and it hurts their ego. That's why.
Same thing, just different versions.
Pulling girls in a bar or pulling customers?
Same process. You do cold calls and get loads "no's" until you get a yes.
Same thing, same techniques and you need to be certain of yourself and present (sell) yourself in a presentable and attractive manner to the receiving party.
I been rejected so many times in sales of to both girls and professionally that I do not give a single fvck.When you approach a girl for another guy does rejection hurt your ego more or less? If she says he is ugly does it hurt your ego more or less than if you approached for yourself?
Maybe you are wired differently. A little bit like a psychopath with no feelings. So you go for what you want right? Why not steal stuff? Why not? Why make it complicated? Fuuck morals. No?I been rejected so many times in sales of to both girls and professionally that I do not give a single fvck.
Actually I kinda like the rejections because it gets me closer to the "Yes'es".
It's only the "Yes'es" I give a fvcks about anyway.
Its those "Yes" also that I remember, like mostly all of them. I don't frigging remember all the "No'es", because they do not matter and are not worthy of giving fycks about.
In the end life is quite simple; don't overcomplicate stuff for yourself which is what most guys do in this scenario running all kinds of situations in their heads before they even taken action.
Just do it, don't think and take action; it is that simple.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.