Who "enjoys" approaching women?

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Think exactly as you propose above the next time you approach a woman, then write out what emotions you experienced and how you behaved as a result of those thoughts
Even better, I can tell you about a time in 2021 when I thought those exact thoughts.

A woman I know was giving me what I thought was an approach invite. I was this close to making a move on her. Then, as a result of the thoughts I was thinking, I refrained from making a move.

My heart started racing a mile a minute at the mere thought of making a move on her.
 

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Even better, I can tell you about a time in 2021 when I thought those exact thoughts.

A woman I know was giving me what I thought was an approach invite. I was this close to making a move on her. Then, as a result of the thoughts I was thinking, I refrained from making a move.

My heart started racing a mile a minute at the mere thought of making a move on her.
Then it's wise to adopt more productive thoughts, which increase your chances of achieving your goal, isn't it?
 

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Then it's wise to adopt more productive thoughts, which increase your chances of achieving your goal, isn't it?
Not necessarily.

At times in my younger days, I was lower inhibition about expressing interest in a gal, yet I still was an abject failure.
 

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Continue on as you have been then
In college, shortly after losing my v-card, I temporarily went through a stretch where I was more confident with the ladies.

I asked a female classmate after class one day to be casual sex partners with me (and no, not the girl I lost my v-card to). I seriously thought she'd say yeah. Yet I got turned down.

As you can see, approaching a woman with confidence didn't help one bit.

That's one example of what I'm talking about when I say I'd still be a failure even if I were lower inhibition.
 

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In college, shortly after losing my v-card, I temporarily went through a stretch where I was more confident with the ladies.

I asked a female classmate after class one day to be casual sex partners with me (and no, not the girl I lost my v-card to). I seriously thought she'd say yeah. Yet I got turned down.

As you can see, approaching a woman with confidence didn't help one bit
Yeah, that "proves" your hypothesis is an unassailable truth, in the same way being slugged in a bar ONCE "proves" that the entire planet is out to harm you. It's not remotely possible that additional dynamics("The female classmate I asked to be my casual sex partner that one time and I had barely spoken prior... I had just wolfed down a raw onion when I put my face one inch from hers, then made this proposition. Come to think of it, she was also a lesbian" "Prior to being slugged at that bar, I walked up to the dude who slugged me, a 6'5 hard-core Crip, and shouted "Hike it back to your f-cking monkey tree, nig-er", then giggled. I thought it was cute, and assumed he would as well")may account for the results you've achieved

Poisoning your brain with a few billion hours worth of MGTOW and generically Red Pill content has left you incapable of thinking in anything other than polarities, and woefully inept at recognizing nuances
 

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Yeah, that "proves" your hypothesis is an unassailable truth, in the same way being slugged in a bar ONCE "proves" that the entire planet is out to harm you. It's not remotely possible that additional dynamics("The female classmate I asked to be my casual sex partner that one time and I had barely spoken prior... I had just wolfed down a raw onion when I put my face one inch from hers, then made this proposition. Come to think of it, she was also a lesbian" "Prior to being slugged at that bar, I walked up to the dude who slugged me, a 6'5 hard-core Crip, and shouted "Hike it back to your f-cking monkey tree, nig-er", then giggled. I thought it was cute, and assumed he would as well")may account for the results you've achieved

Poisoning your brain with a few billion hours worth of MGTOW and generically Red Pill content has left you incapable of thinking in anything other than polarities, and woefully inept at recognizing nuances
I had spoken with the female classmate quite a bit prior. In fact, she even belonged to the same extracurricular club as me.

One time at a club meeting, she mentioned using an IUD so she could have casual sex without getting pregnant. Being an autist, I misinterpreted her comment to mean she was open to casual sex with any guy who was present at the time she made the comment.

There was a somewhat popular TV show within the past decade called Superstore. On an episode of that show, one of the female managers mentioned liking sex. A 14 year old male employee then bought condoms from the store (and propositioned her for sex). Just like me, he thought her comment meant she was open to sex with any guy who was present when she made the comment about liking sex.

Being an autist, my 20 year old self was 14 on the inside. That's why I interpreted my female classmate's comment the same way a 14 year old would.

As for your hypothetical slugging scenario you described? No one has any right to respond to words with fists (unless the words are threatening). If someone insults you, no matter how insulting (and no matter what the historical context of the insult), the most you're permitted to do is throw insults back.

You don't get to throw fists just because someone said something you don't like.

In fact, if the hypothetical Crip threw insults back, that would make for a pretty funny comedy skit. Comedy used to be like that...until everyone became overly sensitive and got their panties in a wad.
 

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Comedy used to be like that...until everyone became overly sensitive and got their panties in a wad.
Conversations used to be possible... Now, whenever one points out to someone else portions of their thinking and behavior which are irrational, insane, or counterproductive they reflexively retort "You just don't understand...", rather than actually being receptive to what you said
 
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