nateistoraw
Don Juan
It was that all the jerks were getting all the ladies while I had few.
Dude, you are my man... Exactly the same development happened/happens for me.Nexus Polaris said:A friend of mine told me about this place a long time ago, but I was in a long term relationship at the time so I didn't think I needed it. Little did I realize at the time how unhealthy that relationship actually was.
Three years ago, a different friend of mine was killed in a tragic accident. He was the classic fearless adventurer type. Everyday was filled with excitement for this guy. After this happened, it made me realize how short life could be. It got me thinking. If I were to die tomorrow, what would I regret? And it dawned on me that I had never been happy with the quality or quantity of women I was pulling. Then I remembered this place. And since I was single at the time, I decided to start reading through here. The next three years completely changed everything I thought I knew about life. I had no idea how confused, messed up, and unhealthy I actually was. As it turns out, lack of women was just a symptom of a much greater problem. What I truly wanted was to grow up and become a man. Something I had no clue how to be.
Now I'm in a better place than I've ever been in my life. And women aren't even all that relevant to it.
PairPlusRoyalFlush said:First love turned out to be an HPD wh0re. In fairness I was such an AFC in spite of everything that if not for a hyper-aggressive HPD I might have never broken out of my shell with women. So there is something positive there. I just have to remember that there are quality women out there.
All future readers of this forum should pay attention to Lateluvr. You don't have to become a Pick-Up Artist, or a Dear John, or whatever silly phrase circulates to mean an azzhole. You don't have to compromise your morals or personal integrity just to survive the awful loneliness that American women put you through. American women are the most unmarriageable in the world because they were raised by mothers who couldn't cook, sew, clean house, talked back to their husbands and divorced them. They couldn't even understand why they should do those things. American men are the most marriageable in the world because not only do they tolerate this behavior, but they give their wives cars, cell phones, nice clothes, let them get jobs, let them make dates on the Internet, and let them go out alone with the credit cards all night long. Then they gladly give them their homes, children, and 50% of their property just to get rid of them. Wow! No wonder that every man I know says to cut off your peter and throw it in the trash before you ever even think of getting married. Take one look at an American woman. She dresses like a streetwalker, has tattoos and tons of jewelry like trash, puts ugly yellow and orange in her hair and cosmetics on her face like a streetwalker, shaves her body like a drug addict in a pron video, uses filthy language and vulgar manners, and even on her best day acts and sounds like a "lesbian" who wants nothing but to disrespect every man around her. It's a common saying among American men that there's really no difference between a porstitute and a wife. Well, what does that make you for associating with them? You got it: a John. In this case, a Dear John. Why debase yourself just to crawl down to her level? Why play the stupid, ultimately antisocial and self-destructive, American woman's game of using someone for sex and good times then dumping him before he rejects you? It's wrong and you know it's wrong. There are millions of women -- not Americanized defacto wh0res but real women with moral character -- of all colors, religions, languages, and origins who would gladly be your wife, bear your children, keep your house, and serve you (wouldn't that be a refreshing change). You say you made a big change in your life, but all you did was to convert to masculinist sexism rather than the feminist sexism you were indoctrinated with before. You're total failures if you settle for a streetwalker just because she was less successful at tramping than some others. You're total failures if you accept the (feminist/faggotty) mantra that semen is a pathogen that people must be "protected" from and that men who have children are deviants ("eww, breeders"). Even if you are an azzhole and you know it, your life will improve if you stop acting like one and get a woman who wants to be a woman.lateluvr said:I'm still a nice guy. However, my army year in Korea/Okinawa showed me how many millions of lovely, sexy Asian ladies will do nearly anything to come to the US. That spoiled me, badly, against US women who are WAY out of line when it comes to relationships. After trying 10 of them, I went back to Asia where I could take my pick of those millions, and found a real princess of a lady. I really don't care if she "only means it" for the 5 years it takes her to become a US citizen". There will still be millions more just like her (and every one of them knows that very well, too).That knowledge is a big help, if you know what I mean?