I have known this woman for 2 months. Long story short:
I knew she was attracted to me to some level. I asked her if she has a boyfriend, she answered uncomfortably that she broke up with her ex 3 months ago.
Now fast forward to the week of Valentine's Day, also her birthday. I asked if she had any plan for Valentine's Day and her birthday (same day), she answered no and would probably stay home, but she had a dentist appointment at 1PM. So, I asked her if she wanted to go out on that day. She laughed and said maaaaaybe and she said she had to asked her friend first because she wanted to bring her.
A day later, she asked me if I was coming on Friday (aka Valentine's Day). I said yeah, but she said her friend wanted to go out for a dinner, and she told her friend that she didn't have enough time to meet up for a dinner because we had to met at college at 8PM for a class, so she didn't know what the plan for Friday was.
The day before Friday. I asked her if we're still going out on Friday, she said no. Her excuse was that she had to go to two different dentist offices, one to remove her teeth brace and other for an examination or procedure that required anesthesia or whatever the heck the name was to numb her mouth, and back the the first dentist office to put back her teeth brace. What the heck, she didn't mention that two days ago.
Judgement day (aka Valentine's Day and her birthday). We met at the college's library for final study. She came with a "big brown bag." It was filled with gift wrapped presents and a red rose sticking out of the bag. I asked her if she went on a shopping, she muttered that she went on a dating (WHAT!?). And while my brain was processing what she just said in shock, my mouth worked faster than my brain and asked "what's in the bag"? She muttered again, but this time I didn't hear what she was saying and I said "huh"? She muttered again, and I thought she said shoes, but I was pretty sure that wasn't what she said. I said to her, "shoes"? She went silent.
Then she sit down on the computer next to me and started browsing clothing on Bloomingdales. When I turned my head over and looked at her computer screen, I saw she was browsing for man clothing. She giggled awkwardly and said to me "I told you not look," which I didn't remember she told me. Then I unconsciously asked her in an irritated tone "why"? She went silent for the second time.
From the moment she sit down next to me the atmosphere changed drastically. I was pretty sure she felt it too. I became really silent and didn't talk to her unless she asked me a math problem that she didn't understand, and I would teach her how to solve it in a calm manner. About 30 minutes later, I guessed she felt uncomfortable in that situation and she said she was tired and headed to the class 20 minutes earlier. I said "ok I will see you in class."
Now my story continued from there but I will end it here because it's not related to my questions. And before you answer, I will provide you with signs that she has a boyfriend. There were many times I saw her talking angrily on the phone with someone. I didn't understand their conversations because it was in a different language. Yes, I should had seemed the signs faster, now it was too late.
1. Why did she hide the fact that she's already dating someone?
2. Why did she hide the fact, but at the same time she showed me evidences that she's dating someone? Recall big brown bags with gifts and rose, and muttered to me she went on a dating.
I knew she was attracted to me to some level. I asked her if she has a boyfriend, she answered uncomfortably that she broke up with her ex 3 months ago.
Now fast forward to the week of Valentine's Day, also her birthday. I asked if she had any plan for Valentine's Day and her birthday (same day), she answered no and would probably stay home, but she had a dentist appointment at 1PM. So, I asked her if she wanted to go out on that day. She laughed and said maaaaaybe and she said she had to asked her friend first because she wanted to bring her.
A day later, she asked me if I was coming on Friday (aka Valentine's Day). I said yeah, but she said her friend wanted to go out for a dinner, and she told her friend that she didn't have enough time to meet up for a dinner because we had to met at college at 8PM for a class, so she didn't know what the plan for Friday was.
The day before Friday. I asked her if we're still going out on Friday, she said no. Her excuse was that she had to go to two different dentist offices, one to remove her teeth brace and other for an examination or procedure that required anesthesia or whatever the heck the name was to numb her mouth, and back the the first dentist office to put back her teeth brace. What the heck, she didn't mention that two days ago.
Judgement day (aka Valentine's Day and her birthday). We met at the college's library for final study. She came with a "big brown bag." It was filled with gift wrapped presents and a red rose sticking out of the bag. I asked her if she went on a shopping, she muttered that she went on a dating (WHAT!?). And while my brain was processing what she just said in shock, my mouth worked faster than my brain and asked "what's in the bag"? She muttered again, but this time I didn't hear what she was saying and I said "huh"? She muttered again, and I thought she said shoes, but I was pretty sure that wasn't what she said. I said to her, "shoes"? She went silent.
Then she sit down on the computer next to me and started browsing clothing on Bloomingdales. When I turned my head over and looked at her computer screen, I saw she was browsing for man clothing. She giggled awkwardly and said to me "I told you not look," which I didn't remember she told me. Then I unconsciously asked her in an irritated tone "why"? She went silent for the second time.
From the moment she sit down next to me the atmosphere changed drastically. I was pretty sure she felt it too. I became really silent and didn't talk to her unless she asked me a math problem that she didn't understand, and I would teach her how to solve it in a calm manner. About 30 minutes later, I guessed she felt uncomfortable in that situation and she said she was tired and headed to the class 20 minutes earlier. I said "ok I will see you in class."
Now my story continued from there but I will end it here because it's not related to my questions. And before you answer, I will provide you with signs that she has a boyfriend. There were many times I saw her talking angrily on the phone with someone. I didn't understand their conversations because it was in a different language. Yes, I should had seemed the signs faster, now it was too late.
1. Why did she hide the fact that she's already dating someone?
2. Why did she hide the fact, but at the same time she showed me evidences that she's dating someone? Recall big brown bags with gifts and rose, and muttered to me she went on a dating.