"We have to talk. I'm moving out."

[ThunderMaverick]

Fine, as long as you are 100 percent positive she is not doing sh!t behing your back, like these crazy American b!tches are well known for.

Posting on this forum for so many years, it would be next to impossible not to see the signs.

 

[sodbuster]

I spent some time reading the last few pages. More money doesn't make you happy? I'm happy to be able to pay my mortgage, buy myself furniture,drive a decent vehicle, and not excessively worry about paying my bills.

There is a point of decreasing marginal utility.... after 100k or so. Does 2 vehicles make you happier? yes... a car for driving and a pickup for hunting. Would a THIRD do much for me? meh, not so much. Would a 5000sq ft house make me happier than 2500? not really. You don't seem to be at that level. If You were, maybe GF moving out and taking all the furniture wouldn't be the blow it seemed to be.

 

[Married Buried]

Posting on this forum for so many years, it would be next to impossible not to see the signs.

Well I posted here since 1999, and I still got blindsided by a b!tch sucking **** behind my back. I'm just saying, you never know.

 

[Bible_Belt]

More money doesn't make you happy?

I have made the equivalent of over $100k/yr. Honestly, it was not for very long, and I just got lucky with a few things. But the money just sat there. I live in a part of the country where most people are poor. Even when I had the money to do expensive things, none of my friends could afford to join me. The money was more alienating than anything else. People see you with shiny things, and they start to be jealous and resentful, even if they never admit it. I bought a fast car, a fast motorcycle, martial arts lessons and a law degree. Then I got bored. Lately, my interest is building greenhouses and living the quiet life of a farmer. My idea of wealth is being able to do what you want to do. I think I could go back to the stock market and make a million bucks, but the money and stress would consume my life, and I would not feel very wealthy.

There was a study done recently about the amount of money required to meet one's needs and the point at which more money did not bring more happiness. They only gave one number, though, $50K/yr, and that obviously would have to be adjusted a lot for different areas of the country. NYC is probably double that number; where I live is closer to half. My gf, whom this thread is about and who is also asleep in my bed right now, will make $100k/yr within three years. That is plenty of money for two people to be happy.

 

[Married Buried]

Posting on this forum for so many years, it would be next to impossible not to see the signs.

This doesn't sound like someone who is 100 percent sure now does it?

Eliminate all doubt and hire a private investigator to follow her around for a week or two. Why the hell not? I would do it in a heartbeat before committing to a western woman.

I can say 100 percent WITHOUT A DOUBT my woman is faithful. No need to hire a PI, but if I had one tiny shred of doubt I would.

As for "seeing the signs?" My ass. They are hollywood actors, and hide the signs.

See the above post as an example.

 

[Zarky]

I can say 100 percent WITHOUT A DOUBT my woman is faithful.

That's fantastic, I'm not 100% WITHOUT A DOUBT sure of anything.

 

[Married Buried]

That's fantastic, I'm not 100% WITHOUT A DOUBT sure of anything.

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[ThunderMaverick]

This doesn't sound like someone who is 100 percent sure now does it?

Eliminate all doubt and hire a private investigator to follow her around for a week or two. Why the hell not? I would do it in a heartbeat before committing to a western woman.

I can say 100 percent WITHOUT A DOUBT my woman is faithful. No need to hire a PI, but if I had one tiny shred of doubt I would.

As for "seeing the signs?" My ass. They are hollywood actors, and hide the signs.

See the above post as an example.

I don't have issues with her being faithful or not. Did you understand my post? I would have to be an idiot not to see signs, subtle or overt. There nothing she does that makes me feel like she's unfaithful. Her actions are not congruent with someone I have to worry about being unfaithful. You would have to be an idiot to post here this long and not know the signs.

I'm not going to waste time hiring a detective . If she cheats she cheats. If I find out then she gets dumped. That's it. I don't dwell on thoughts like that. Maybe it works for you but I can't do that.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

This doesn't sound like someone who is 100 percent sure now does it?

What? When someone says "I'd have to be an idiot not to see the signs" it usually means they can be sure know what the signs are. 100 percent sure is an exaggeration. Only a perfect human being is 100% sure about things like this.

 

[Married Buried]

What? When someone says "I'd have to be an idiot not to see the signs" it usually means they can be sure know what the signs are. 100 percent sure is an exaggeration. Only a perfect human being is 100% sure about things like this.

You are SUPPOSED to say "my woman worships me, there is no way in **** she is cheating".

Anything less is unacceptable.

 

[BeDJ]

You are SUPPOSED to say "my woman worships me, there is no way in **** she is cheating".

Anything less is unacceptable.

Another level of retardation to this thread.

 

[CJ 101]

Bible, you can now start meeting slim, sexy females who take care of themselves.

 

[Married Buried]

Another level of retardation to this thread.

You just hate what you don't understand. I'm sure there are a few other guys who get it.

 

[Solomon]

Sad state of affairs

Part of me thinks that BB is trolling for the hell of it, I say that cause BB has giving me solid advice in the past not just on women but also legal issues. If this thread however is true it's truly sad how it got 20 pages and shows how far the site has gone down the dumpster (funny that the MM section is worse with the KJIng then the main discussion forum)

The game goes in cycles there are times you do well and times you are in a slump.

This thread does proof something I've said before, take advice on this site with a grain of salt. Guys can pretend be successful with women but they are really not. I've met guys of here who had no problems getting laid but because of how messed up they were mentally about other things women rarely stuck around.

 

[Bible_Belt]

take advice on this site with a grain of salt.

If you take the consensus advice of miserable people and then do the opposite, it's a good way to be happy, which is my idea of success.

 

[Married Buried]

Part of me thinks that BB is trolling for the hell of it, I say that cause BB has giving me solid advice in the past not just on women but also legal issues. If this thread however is true it's truly sad how it got 20 pages and shows how far the site has gone down the dumpster (funny that the MM section is worse with the KJIng then the main discussion forum)

The game goes in cycles there are times you do well and times you are in a slump.

This thread does proof something I've said before, take advice on this site with a grain of salt. Guys can pretend be successful with women but they are really not. I've met guys of here who had no problems getting laid but because of how messed up they were mentally about other things women rarely stuck around.

I can totally understand Bible Belt. Even when I thought I learned all the game, and was posting in this site for years, a few years ago I got oneitis for an overweight chic who was garbage. It can happen to anyone. Sure, she was beautiful before she got overweight, and I had this fantasy in my head I could get her skinny again by taking her to the gym. But after all is said and done, she is now an even fatter single mom. What was I thinking? Sometimes you can look back and laugh.

 

[ProDJ26]

Its a damn good thing this happened now your free man! I wouldnt sweat the stuff in her name as you can get the cable which is really kinda pointless these days. Now the internet is a different story. If you have good neighbors you should be able to use theyre wifi. Most woman today get the notion that they pay everything. Let life teach her the lesson of "The bird never strays too far away from home". Keep your head up man youve suceeded her before her and you'll do well after her

 

[Zarky]

I can totally understand Bible Belt. Even when I thought I learned all the game, and was posting in this site for years, a few years ago I got oneitis for an overweight chic who was garbage. It can happen to anyone who has no options.

fixed it for ya

If you got no women, you got no game.

There I said it.

 

[Married Buried]

fixed it for ya

If you got no women, you got no game.

There I said it.

You are wrong as usual. I had options when I got oneitis for the BPD. You lose interest in them and want to be with the BPD so you end up dropping your options.

 

[Bible_Belt]

So what ever happened with this story??

As soon as I started talking to (and occasionally fvcking) my bpd girl ex, the gf did a 180 in regard to her attitude. A typical night is going to her place, she buys beer, cooks dinner, does my laundry, and then we have sex for a couple hours. Then I leave. She has already asked me to move in with her.

BPD girl is tall, thin, hot, a lot of fun, and amazing in bed. But she's also a pillhead, which I can't stand. I won't be around her when she's fvcked up on pills. She asked me last week why I wouldn't marry her, and I told it was because she was a drug addict. I don't even mean that as a moral judgment; I just don't like the person she is when she's on pills. But when she's not fvcked up, she's more fun than any woman I've ever been around.

Like I said before, this is exactly where I was five years go, with the same two women. Back then I used to get off on fvcking both of them in the same night, but the thrill wore off eventually. Lately that just seems like too much work. Maybe it's me getting older.