"We have to talk. I'm moving out."

[cordoncordon]

I fvcked the hell out of bpd girl two nights ago. It was the best sex I've ever had in my life. She has learned a lot of new tricks since I last did her five years ago. She reminds me a lot of the $5,000/night hookers on the HBO show about the Bunny Ranch. It was amazing.

Then the next morning we agreed to both go back to our relationships. BPDs have a remarkable way of being able to turn off emotions like a switch, which is part of what make them perfect mistresses. She and I both got our revenge fvck. For her, it was over her man getting locked up for beating her up. For me, it was about my gf moving out, screwing the girl who is her worst nightmare. She said we needed to get it out of our system.

BPD girl has given me a lot of advice about how to handle my gf. And she is quite insightful. She has been taunting my gf over facebook, because she knows the gf is obsessed with looking at her page. She made a post about cooking dinner for an old friend, and within an hour my gf was texting me that it must be me. BPD girl also made her fb default pic one of her in my truck. "Be a man and don't take any sh!t" is what bpd girl told me. That's how I've been handling it, with no apologies at all, and my gf is still eating out of my hand.

BPD girl is spending this week in jail for an old domestic violence charge against the murderer who killed a guy over her. Her current man in jail, who is the murderer's former best friend, should get out of jail any day. I am going to try to just disappear from her life when he gets out. We will see how that goes.

BB i think you should contact the Jerry Springer show so that you can appear with your two crazy chicks and all of your stories. You would fit in perfectly.


Is that what you want out of life? To be known for? If so, you are doing a helluva good job achieving it.

I really think you have gone over the deep edge.

 

[Married Buried]

Bible Belt,

Thank you for sharing.

If any of you guys haven't had some variation of this situation, then you haven't loved anyone.

Sure, you love now but what about the future when she is obese and *****y, and owns your balls with child support payments? Makes abortion sound pretty good doesn't it.

 

[Franco Jimbo]

BPD girl is begging me to move away with her. The biggest thing that keeps me from being with only her is not that she's pregnant, but that someday, her man is coming back

The biggest thing that should keep you from being with her is her being crazy and a slut. You can't seriously be contemplating a LTR with a broad like this. Just, no. She will draw you down into She'ol.

If he beats her up, which I won't do, then I think I have to beat him up, which I'm not in a hurry to do. I'm not scared of anyone in a fair fight, but he's also a gun nut, and I'm also not in a hurry to be the second dead boyfriend from fighting over this girl

If you end up paralyzed and/or disfigured, it's likely she won't even want to remember who you are or what you've done for her. Just trust me, man. I'm not being a d!ck, either. I can't stand my fellow man being in deep with any woman like that, let alone a BPD.

What the other poster said about BPD mind-control? It's not something I'd recommend taking lightly. One minute, you'll be relaxing with a bowl of Cheerios, and there'll be gunshots screaming through your house. I'm not telling you to cower in fear, but the woman has no consideration for your plight or your fight. Zero.

I recall my ex-BPD asking me if I'd fight another man for her (it turned her on, I could tell). Do not be her attack dog. It's mindless and below you.

BPD girl was telling me tonight that she needs to get laid. It's going to be hard to say no if she agrees to be secret fvck-buddies. I would feel like a heel, cheating on my girlfriend. But she is damn sexy, and a lot of fun.

Stop being weak for her. She's got you and she knows you'll tolerate near anything. Hell, it's probable she even thinks she could get her friends to **** in your mouth and you'd forgive her.

If she wants to f***: set a time, deal with her, and go. Don't waste time fantasizing about it, and don't fawn over her. You should know all this by now, man. Regain control.

 

[BudaBing]

If most guys on here are full of sh!t, then the ones who aren't will seem like they are. Like Abe Lincoln said when he was called two-faced, if I had two faces, then I wouldn't be wearing this one.

I forgot to mention, bpd girl's convict man, who is a broke, jobless, homeless, car-less, woman-beating, heroin-smoking repeat guest of the criminal justice system...is also a don juan. She said every time they went to a party, she learned that he'd had sex with most of the women there, many of them half his age. It makes me cringe every time I read on sosuave about a guy being convinced that he can't get laid because he doesn't make enough money; that is a ridiculous excuse.

BPD girl is begging me to move away with her. The biggest thing that keeps me from being with only her is not that she's pregnant, but that someday, her man is coming back. The bail hearing put off his release at least another two months. Even if she wants to leave him now, it will be different when he's knocking on the door. If he beats her up, which I won't do, then I think I have to beat him up, which I'm not in a hurry to do. I'm not scared of anyone in a fair fight, but he's also a gun nut, and I'm also not in a hurry to be the second dead boyfriend from fighting over this girl.

BPD girl was telling me tonight that she needs to get laid. It's going to be hard to say no if she agrees to be secret fvck-buddies. I would feel like a heel, cheating on my girlfriend. But she is damn sexy, and a lot of fun.

BwaHAHAHAHAHAHA!

My original theory is GUARENTEED now.

 

[Bible_Belt]

BPD girl just had a miscarriage. Do you think I would make that up? Maybe dead babies are funny to you, so laugh all you want.

 

[BudaBing]

BPD girl just had a miscarriage. Do you think I would make that up? Maybe dead babies are funny to you, so laugh all you want.

Ah, lets see, YES.

Are you the -->blonde or the -->brunette?

Be honest now.

 

[Bible_Belt]

which is why you both suck with women and are on a how to get girls site in the first place. Thanks for demonstrating how to be pvssy repellent.

 

[Married Buried]

BPD girl just had a miscarriage. Do you think I would make that up? Maybe dead babies are funny to you, so laugh all you want.

You sure she was really pregnant?

 

[Bible_Belt]

She was showing quite a bit. I felt the baby kick.

 

[Married Buried]

She was showing quite a bit. I felt the baby kick.

Damn. Now you can't hit it raw and give the baby a head poke.

 

[BeDJ]

This thread is like finding your childhood superhero doing gay porn.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I shouldn't laugh at this.

 

[Paintballguy]

BB seems to like torturing himself.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Trying to figure out how this could possibly apply to me and not you...

I remember you had a thread about you almost this bad back in the day.

Almost THIS bad? Miscarriages, juggling BPD women, psycho ex con boyfriends and the possibility of STDs? It might have been a different bad, but this is a complete mess. I wanted to change my behavior and see changes in my GF's. I didn't want to just settle on the fact that "oh, it's just the way she is. Let's get into more stupid sh!t and see what happens. I think Bible knows there's an issue, but he's letting it define who he is as a man. I think he feels that this is all he knows, and therefore deserves things like this.

Read the update on my situation: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2065597#post2065597

 

[lifeislearning]

Ok gents; lets stop the d!ck measuring contests, calling each other out, and petty insults. PM that crap for all our sakes.

BB, wow buddy. If you were a friend of mine all I would say is: watch out for yourself. Things can get dangerous for you in every sense of the word. Physically, mentally, socially, financially, you name it. Sounds to me like you're still hurting from the initial break, and now you're trying to figure it all out, albeit in a way few of us would advocate. Is it unusual or shameful to feel like this? No. I've been there in my own way, we all have; that's how we learn. Just be careful.

I'm wondering if you foresee any problems that might arise from choosing a path with either of these women. You've mentioned some past issues with both of them. True all options have risks, including forgoing both ladies and looking for the "perfect 24 yr old." What makes the risk worth taking, knowing that these problems may come back?

 

[guru1000]

When you lack convictions, you chase all pleasures. Nevertheless ...

To reach your potential, sometimes you need to hit rock bottom first. BB, right here, right now--a place, a time--you can grow the most.

Pay attention to the lessons.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I think yours had drugs and S+M porno shoots involved if I remember haha. It helped me get over my HPD ex for what it's worth.

Ah yes...that was a mess. God forbid I get into another relationship I would have to be a complete dumba$$ to go through something like that again. Growing has helped me see that it wouldn't be worth it.

 

[Married Buried]

Ah yes...that was a mess. God forbid I get into another relationship I would have to be a complete dumba$$ to go through something like that again. Growing has helped me see that it wouldn't be worth it.

You are with a different b!tch now?

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I've been with the same girl for 3 years. The first year and a half was rough because of habits, not understanding each other, etc. There was more there to make me want to put the effort forth to make it work. She felt the same way and we did what we could to make the relationship better.

What I'm saying is me and here were both fixer uppers, but neither one of us would go through that again. We're too old for that sh!t now. lol

 

[Married Buried]

I've been with the same girl for 3 years. The first year and a half was rough because of habits, not understanding each other, etc. There was more there to make me want to put the effort forth to make it work. She felt the same way and we did what we could to make the relationship better.

What I'm saying is me and here were both fixer uppers, but neither one of us would go through that again. We're too old for that sh!t now. lol

Fine, as long as you are 100 percent positive she is not doing sh!t behing your back, like these crazy American b!tches are well known for.