Wardrobe thread

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Square toes are ugly and there is a lot of revulsion against them in the fashion world.


@BeExcellent mentioned the miami vice influence this summer, and although summer is nearly over, there's still time for these outfits:

https://www.fashionbeans.com/article/best-hawaiian-shirts-men/
https://www.fashionbeans.com/2017/classic-summer-pieces-that-should-be-in-every-mans-wardrobe/



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So its basically a hawain shirt, (it doesn't have to be a loud one) and some smart shorts or chino shorts. Then some white canvas/ stan smiths type sneakers.

If its getting cold where you are or you are out in the evening, whack on a blazer over the shirt and some full length chinos. Make sure the colours don't clash.
 

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Fashion is important, but you dont need to be excessive. I believe a man that holds himself to high standards will cause his woman to mirror that behavior. I rarely leave the house looking like a slob, and 8f I do, its usually gym clothes. If I am going somewhere afterwards, I will bring a change of clothes.

I noticed this has a profound impact on women as well. They want to be the better looking person and they should be. By holding myself to a certain level, they will mirror my behavior and get themselves ready. And I'm not talking like this takes a lot of effort or time, it is merely the choices you make for clothing and bathing.

When I first started dating my girl, she would roll out in gym clothes or floppy pants and a tshirt. She sees me and is like... "your dressed so nice " in other words, not a slob. Now, she always takes the time to look good for me because she sees that I like to present myself well.

It doesn't take much effort to look sharp, so just take a couple extra minutes to distinguish yourself from everyone else.
 

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Fashion is important, but you dont need to be excessive. I believe a man that holds himself to high standards will cause his woman to mirror that behavior. I rarely leave the house looking like a slob, and 8f I do, its usually gym clothes. If I am going somewhere afterwards, I will bring a change of clothes.

I noticed this has a profound impact on women as well. They want to be the better looking person and they should be. By holding myself to a certain level, they will mirror my behavior and get themselves ready. And I'm not talking like this takes a lot of effort or time, it is merely the choices you make for clothing and bathing.

When I first started dating my girl, she would roll out in gym clothes or floppy pants and a tshirt. She sees me and is like... "your dressed so nice " in other words, not a slob. Now, she always takes the time to look good for me because she sees that I like to present myself well.

It doesn't take much effort to look sharp, so just take a couple extra minutes to distinguish yourself from everyone else.
Absolutely. I like how you put it, a man that holds himself to a high standard....your clothes are an extension of yourself. If you want to be perceived as a confident, high value type of person, you not only act/behave that way, but you must also dress the part. You have to dress/groom yourself in a way where it shows that you spent some time and take pride in your appearance.

You go out looking like a little boy, you'll get little boy results.

I have to wear dress pants & dress shirts for work. I met up with a female friend of mine recently (she's used to the jeans & t shirt version of me) I met up with her in my work clothes, she saw me, nodded her head and was like "wow, I didn't even recognize you at first". So it does matter and can make an impression.
 

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If you are anywhere from 20 to 35 you should definitely watch Alex costa on YouTube. Best fashion channel out there
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If you are anywhere from 20 to 35 you should definitely watch Alex costa on YouTube. Best fashion channel out there
Never heard of him until you mentioned him. I checked out his channel and saw a little of one video - seems like he does give pretty good suggestions for guys out there.
 
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