I think a couple needs to be somewhat matched in SMV. Don't expect to be a guy with a SMV of 7 and date girls with SMV's of 9.
Not all attention has the same value. Highly attractive women register that attention, but they're not attracted to those men so they don't feel much of a response to that attention.
Realistically, less attractive women will not 'get used to' the constant attention the highly attractive women get. Therefore, she will be much more susceptible to being flattered by the attention of strangers.
Nah. You should be trying to date on your level rather than dating down.I've noticed that most seemingly successful couples have one thing in common: the man has more smv than the woman. Significantly more. A smv 8 dude = a hb5/6.
If you want " the nuclear family life " including the dog and the child and the lavish backyard, you might wanna reconsider punching above your weight.
Sometimes I'd like to ask such a man if he deliberately picked one with less sexy features, but seemingly more reliable ones..
Lets say you're a 35 y.o bottom 80 % dude.That means your bracket contains: fat women, older women (45 and up) obviously less attractive ones( sub hb6) or simply clinical confirmed crazy women.
A (35 +) man who chases a long term relationship and yet wants nothing but "hb7 and up approximately around 25 y.o" is equally decisional as some Lakvisha type of hoodrat who thinks she deserves an NBA player.
A. Be happy single and alone. Game or pay to play.
B.date down. Keep the upperhand.
C. Be delusional. Wonder why you keep getting played while the writing is on the wall.
An ox which pulls a wagon or the plough on a field also oozes peace and security. Take a few of photos of a serene looking ox and show them to a mustang while telling it about the security the ox has. See how that works if you then try to put a saddle on it.
That's not true. Take your favourite rich, super duper alpha guy and see who he is with. You can start with Jeff Bezos and Marcus Jordan.
BINGO nothing else to add
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What if you want the player life and sleep with good-looking women under 35?
yeah, this is key.
speaking of pills, redpill sosuave is straight up mailing it in the last few weeks
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I do think that if you are seriously dating someone outside your league, it is likely to cause problems. Because she will have better options than you. And if you are dating a girl above your league, you are by definition saying she is better than you. This is not the proper frame. Guys seem to want to brag about punching above your weight, but I've never understood it. I guess they feel they're getting away with something, they're getting one over on somebody? Because I would think a more worthy goal would be to improve yourself to the point where you are in a better league where you can get the women that you want.
Wise wordsAn ox which pulls a wagon or the plough on a field also oozes peace and security. Take a few of photos of a serene looking ox and show them to a mustang while telling it about the security the ox has. See how that works if you then try to put a saddle on it.
In other words, one has to be true to one's own nature.
That's not true. Take your favourite rich, super duper alpha guy and see who he is with. You can start with Jeff Bezos and Marcus Jordan.
Yes I was going to make a post like this soon. Notch Count Theory matters, High Score Theory matters but what really matters is Ugly Girl Theory. Date an ugly girl and she will never leave.I've noticed that most seemingly successful couples have one thing in common: the man has more smv than the woman. Significantly more. A smv 8 dude = a hb5/6.
If you want " the nuclear family life " including the dog and the child and the lavish backyard, you might wanna reconsider punching above your weight.
Sometimes I'd like to ask such a man if he deliberately picked one with less sexy features, but seemingly more reliable ones..
Lets say you're a 35 y.o bottom 80 % dude.
A (35 +) man who chases a long term relationship and yet wants nothing but "hb7 and up approximately around 25 y.o" is equally decisional as some Lakvisha type of hoodrat who thinks she deserves an NBA player.
A. Be happy single and alone. Game or pay to play.
B.date down. Keep the upperhand.
C. Be delusional. Wonder why you keep getting played while the writing is on the wall.
I get those looks too. My kittens are all better looking than me, as they should because they're younger and female. I'm not handsome like a male model, but I don't have to be. I'm attractive to my kittens, that's all I need.
Ugly duckling? Ugly when she was very young? Grew up to be a hottie?
Have you been called out already? You are a 60 year old man with a pirate eye and a cat . You might be eccentric, but I don't believe that you have MULTIPLE hot women throwing themselves at you. I am sorry I just don't .
There's fat,ugly and there's HOT.
I agree on this, a woman with very attractive looks is usually a problem.
