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Violent V

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How can you think you will eventually partner the most desired girl of them all- the beauty, the intelligence, the honesty, the loyalty, the respect and dignity- when you yourself can't even show one of these characteristics? Don't expect a queen when you treat yourself willingly like a slut.

If your aim now is to sleep around with as many women as you can and play the numbers game much as you can, then rest assured the only girls you will be attracting in your life, and wasting your precious time on and bragging about on these boards are the ones who play games and sleep around themselves.

Where do you want to be in five years, and where will you be in five years? Still on these boards probably? Or running your own successful business, making your own money? Perhaps travelling the world? What are you doing today to get to where it is you think you want to be in a year to five years? What changes have you made/are making? Have you sat down and got it all down on paper- what you want, where you want to be? Or are you too busy writing/reading stupid questions on this board?

What are you doing with your income? Where is it being spent, and does it really need to be spent where it is being spent? What is it being invested in? What about your free time, what are you investing that in, and can it be invested in something more worthwhile perhaps?

Can you look yourself in the mirror and and deep deep deep down be proud and thrilled with who you are looking at? If not, what needs to be done to make it happen? It is the only thing that matters, because when your death is near, you come to realise it is just you and yourself, and it always has been.

People, ideas, material things, habitat, come and go, but you and yourself are constant. I'd rather be proud of what i am then desperately try to be something or someone I'm really not.

The point to all this is that it is time to start taking REAL control of life. Time. Money. And start investing it. It is time to go on the desired path, rather than stumble aimlessly around in life bumping into and reacting to whatever might be around the corner and in the way. By taking control, i mean making sure that every action I make, every movement i make, every single thing that i do during the day, is an investment. The master of of my destiny, not a victim of the circumstances. I decide where i am going, how, what time and know why. i decide what i am to eat and when and know why. I decide what haircut i am going to have, and how frequently. I decide what i am going to wear, when and why. I am responsible for the tailoring. Making sure the clothes are a perfect fitted or not is my choice- not my chance. Making sure i am always sitting upright and not slouching is my choice, not my circumstances. I pick the girl i desire, not whoever happens to fall for me.

By taking control i am talking about ultimate self-reliance. The decision- every decision- for every little thing, is mine. Taking the bus? From now on i will drive. Not hungry anymore? Then i stop eating, regardless of how much is left on my plate. Feeling bored? Lets make it more fun.

I am on a set path, and will deviate off it for no one. Others may come along if they wish, but i will not be side tracked. I take responsibility for all and every single moment, action, and emotion in my life. Because if i don't, then other will take control for me.

Self reliance is the ultimate confidence. The rock on which i lean on is myself. The most important company in which i keep is myself first. Others come, but when they leave i still know and love me first. if I form an opinion, i will share it out loud not because i want others to know, but because i am sharing it with myself. Fvck the world, and fvck you. I said and meant it, and most probably i am right, because it was from the gut.

I move with a purpose, because i have a purpose. I speak loud and firmly, because i truly mean what i say. I like what i do, because i like who i am, because i am who i am. There is no reason to act or behave differently.

I move through a room full of slvts because i am in tune with my soul, with my being. Because i am beauty, intelligence, honest, loyalty, respect and dignity. I am in another league. It is called the league of Violent V, and its a one horse race. I am on my way to a good life, a life where my hopes and dreams are going to be fulfilled. And i am in control of every step. It is destiny. It can't be helped. It can't be stopped. I am the chosen one. And everyone knows it.
 

Violent V

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What reason do i have, what excuse do i have to be walking so tall, speaking so firmly, behaving so confidently? How dare i dress so well, smell so fresh, and assume my success .

Becoming the prize in my own mind, the man I dream of so much requires work of course. The work, and the desired results allow me to justify in my mind that I am that being i want to be. But willpower is not enough to see out this work. Maintaining the required effort, and then sustaining it when i have reached my target comes down to me already seeing myself as the prize- the worthy being who is already that prize, and therefore has no choice but think the best, behave the best, and basically be the best. It needs to already be a self-fulfilling prophecy, a cycle.

One can't say they will one day be rich, when they are currently stuck in a poverty conciousness. One can't call themselves a PUA, or say they will become a PUA when they still think and act like a AFC.

My self image has to change- has already changed.

Why am i amazing? I am young (24), intelligent, hot and assertive. I am on the move. I am seeking to improve, learn and grow. There is not a day to spare! Every one else i know stumbles statically through life, spends their time, spends their money, and don't seem to even mind. While they sit around indoors playing xbox, i am out learning to box, speak another language, dance, bulk up, socialise. While they use their work holidays to stay indoors in bed, I refuse to use mine for no reason other than to travel!

It perplexes me. Boggles my mind. I don't understand how they so willingly spend their time and money on NOTHING. I can't fathom it. I have also noticed they are quick to criticise anyone amongst themselves. Like b!tches they gossip and blame whoever is at fault. But put them in front a stranger or a some HB, and they choke.

But I guess its all life's way of reminding me I am different.

We are all in a position where the opportunity to think and grow bigger and escalate in life rapidly is there for the taking. But the difference is, most importantly of all, I DESIRE to take that opportunity.

Most encouragingly of all, to be the most confident person i can be and talk so firmly, walk so engagingly and behave so carefree is a CHOICE, not a circumstantial state i just might or might not be in. The choice is mine to achieve that chiselled body. The choice is mine to speak assured and firm. And they are choices i will not pass by. This is what makes and will make me the prize.
 
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