V-day?

[Murk]

Work, cook, sleep.

I wouldn't bother getting any girl's hopes up if I didn't see longevity. Bigger fish to fry.

 

[corrector]

We are 8 days into the Valentine month, and I talked to a nice lady at work today. Quite an accomplishment. I got up from my comfort zone, and actually walked across to her tabel, chatted while standed out, motioned towards the chair, and she invited me to sit down and we continued chatting. She is like a mature Hb7 from India with a nice mixed complexion and we have been making eye contact for some time before (ie some subtle IOIs from her). The Tyrone guy who sat oppostie of me has been relocated to another part from the office and I'm going to be moving to another computer as well, so it doesn't have that social friction like before.

 

[corrector]

Visited the Manderin Buffet last week.

Did not overeat like I thought I would. Just had three plates and was in and out in less than half hour. This was before going to work, and I reported in 30 min late for work. When you know you have health issues and are older, you are going to be more restrained even in that environment. Spent like $ 30 and left right away.

First time, post-covid, of visiting a buffet, and there was a good number of people there and it was filling up. No covid issue after the fact and 2 days have passed. I don't wear a mask at work either (ie other co-workers use public transit). Maybe one of these days I'll visit a cinema again or not wear a mask while on public transit. All this covid paranoia is allot to take with a bulky n95 mask being put on and its hard to breathe with that mask on. If I don't really need it, I may wear it less often when going out.

 

[CornbreadFed]

are flowers a necessity?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I conveniently told the one gal that cared about vday to pound dirt two weeks ago. Ahhhh, freedom from stupidity.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

What was wrong with her?

Just was way too needy, was weird about holidays and petulant when I chose to be with my kids. Also intellectually challenged. More trouble than she was worth.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Just was way too needy, was weird about holidays and petulant when I chose to be with my kids. Also intellectually challenged. More trouble than she was worth.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Valentine's day is like any other commercial day, "50% off" "Sale event" "Buy this, buy that". And we already have enough of those here in the U.S: Black Friday, President's Day, Memorial Weekend, etc, etc, etc.

Keep it simple and unique, cook a bomb meal together. Maybe buy her a little gift, nothing expensive. Or even better, finish a project a home she's been wanting, build her something, take her somewhere you both would enjoy. The simple things in life are better.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

On average, I lose one FWB a year to VD day.

Just got a “happy Vd day, I miss you and I love you” text. Jeez.

Not going to respond which will create all its own set of problems…

One more for the bin. Fack, I like her too…

 

[holidayad_]

Those men do not have sufficient Game. They are not so suave.

I get laid for Valentine's Day most years. Some years I don't get laid on Valentine's Day itself but the weekend before so I count that as getting Valentine's Day pussie.

Do you think it’s a “loser” thing to spend the Valentine’s Day alone or it’s a not a big deal?

 

[Nitrozv20]

Happy V-Day lunch for me.

"can you go home for lunch, i want to suck you off, im on my period"

me- "sure"

her-"there's also protein bars in the refrigerator for you and your laundry is done"

That genuine burning desire is awesome.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Fack Valentine’s Day, it’s another day where a man has to measure up to some ridiculous expectations from a woman.

If it gets you laid, sure whatever. But you should be getting laid any or every day of the week and year, and if you’re not (and you’d like to) you have work to do.

I resent the idea of the holiday and this ridiculous standard men are expected to adhere to, many of them DO NOT GET LAID anyway. Fock dat.

I could ask any of my female friends over to get a bj and monkey sex right now if I want to, but I have shyte to do, maybe in a few hours…

I’m UTC-7.

 

[Nitrozv20]

Fack Valentine’s Day, it’s another day where a man has to measure up to some ridiculous expectations from a woman.

If it gets you laid, sure whatever. But you should be getting laid any or every day of the week and year, and if you’re not (and you’d like to) you have work to do.

I resent the idea of the holiday and this ridiculous standard men are expected to adhere to, many of them DO NOT GET LAID anyway. Fock dat.

I could ask any of my female friends over to get a bj and monkey sex right now if I want to, but I have shyte to do, maybe in a few hours…

I’m UTC-7.

I had to do nothing, like usual lol

 

[corrector]

Valentine's month has just passed. I was moved to another section at my office and seem to be having a nice rapport with the women who are there right now. Only visited one buffet that month on Feb 8th. I did wish to women at the office a Happy Valentine's day at the time and they responded back in same with one of them giving me a virutal hug over zoom (she worked another office but within the same organization).

I would be curious for an update of @needimprovement250 to see what he did.

I've noticed an interesting trend, @AmsterdamAssassin mentioned a curious thing about May being a fap-month (but it's not premised on having a selfish pity-party for not having a gf, unlike February), which was originally one day. Because I've perverted the nature of Valentine's day where it seems more of a selfish pity-party of the month for not having a gf, it looks like it was expanded from one day to a month as well. It looks like when there is something that's selfish, one day can turn to a week or turn to a month. Guess it's the Dopamine thing or something like that.

 

[needimprovement250]

I would be curious for an update of @needimprovement250 to see what he did.

So I did deliver for DoorDash on V-Day and made some good money delivering in the area nearby the casino. In my area, casinos are only allowed to be located in rural areas and the DoorDash delivery zone in this area is always busy due to all of the restaurants being in the center of town and all of the houses being further out, so I was getting assigned new orders constantly and got paid well. Then afterwards I went to the casino and decided to try an NFL slot machine that lets you set your own team. I picked the Chiefs since they just won the super bowl and I am a fan. After about 5 spins in, I won $225 after only playing $5 and this was right when I got there. So this V-Day wasn’t too bad.

 

[SW15]

So this V-Day wasn’t too bad.

Work on your no porn and no fap thing and then get some pussie.

 

[corrector]

So I did deliver for DoorDash on V-Day and made some good money delivering in the area nearby the casino. In my area, casinos are only allowed to be located in rural areas and the DoorDash delivery zone in this area is always busy due to all of the restaurants being in the center of town and all of the houses being further out, so I was getting assigned new orders constantly and got paid well. Then afterwards I went to the casino and decided to try an NFL slot machine that lets you set your own team. I picked the Chiefs since they just won the super bowl and I am a fan. After about 5 spins in, I won $225 after only playing $5 and this was right when I got there. So this V-Day wasn’t too bad.

Looks like Lady Luck graced your Valentine's Day and that was her way of saying Happy Valentine's Day. That $ 225 won must have felt sweet. You also said you got paid well. Sounds like you had a decent day. If the ladies aren't working out, at least you are earning some money and can at least use an escort if you wanted to (ie which means you have some access if you wanted to, but if you are like me will choose not to go there. It's just that money looks differently to us in that way). Did you wish any woman a Happy Valentine's Day or did anyone say that to you on that day? I exchanged Happy Valentine's with two women (they are both taken though, but it still felt good, and I'm still talking to them today).

 

[needimprovement250]

Work on your no porn and no fap thing and then get some pussie.

Yeah I know. I think it is a combination of that and also what my two sexual encounters were. I think I told you before how they played out, but I had no privacy with either of them and I was extremely drunk for the second one. So in addition to the no porn and no fap, I think I also need my next sexual encounter to be in a completely private and relaxed environment too.

You were also right about that singles mixer I was considering going to on V-Day. I saw a video recap of it on the radio station’s Facebook page and it was all people older than my age group, there wasn’t any millennials or gen z people there.

 

[needimprovement250]

Looks like Lady Luck graced your Valentine's Day and that was her way of saying Happy Valentine's Day. That $ 225 won must have felt sweet. You also said you got paid well. Sounds like you had a decent day. If the ladies aren't working out, at least you are earning some money and can at least use an escort if you wanted to (ie which means you have some access if you wanted to, but if you are like me will choose not to go there. It's just that money looks differently to us in that way). Did you wish any woman a Happy Valentine's Day or did anyone say that to you on that day? I exchanged Happy Valentine's with two women (they are both taken though, but it still felt good, and I'm still talking to them today).

Yeah it was sweet for sure and that was a great V-Day gift from Lady Luck and this V-Day was definitely better than my previous ones and like you said, if you can’t get women then you can still get money. I have thought about the escort route since I’m not that far away from Vegas where prostitution is legal outside of the city limits at state licensed brothels and there is an escort at one of them who’s specialty actually is inexperienced men. This brothel even has a bar/restaurant on site so she goes on a whole practice date with you there and then you two go to one of the bedrooms to have your sex session. I have considered hiring her, but the legal escorts are very expensive and state law does not allow them to discuss pricing with you until you are at the brothel and in the same room with her.

I actually didn’t come across any women that whole day, so I didn’t even get to say that to anyone. I’m not kidding when I say that I am never around any women and that’s definitely a reason why I’m still in this situation. But like I just said above, SW15 was right about that singles mixer the radio station was hosting. I saw a video recap of it on their Facebook page and it was nobody in my age group, there weren’t any millennials or gen z at that mixer.

 

[SW15]

what my two sexual encounters were....in addition to the no porn and no fap, I think I also need my next sexual encounter to be in a completely private and relaxed environment too.

It can be more difficult to perform sexually under those two sets of conditions. Do no porn/no fap, be mostly sober, and be private/relaxed.

You were also right about that singles mixer I was considering going to on V-Day. I saw a video recap of it on the radio station’s Facebook page and it was all people older than my age group, there wasn’t any millennials or gen z people there.

That sounds exactly as I would have expected. Good for you for skipping.