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needimprovement250

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But do you really have a porn addiction / pied problem or do you have a problem with women in the first place?

Chads look at porn too and they have enough women who like them naturally and they never seem to have PIED/ED problems.
That's quite a burden to put on yourself to say that you are not successful with women because of PIED/ED.

The issues with ED with a woman might be more related to the anxiety that you are not used to dealing with women in the first place and feeling nervous. Do you see someone like @GoodMan32 or @MatureDJ complaining about getting ED when they are dealing with escorts?
They probably don't just rely on escorts but likely also watch porn/fap too. If you are not dealing with real women, then you are not going to feel comfortable or feel wired, regardless of whether you watch porn or not. Therefore, what you need to do is get more experience with real women and use Viagra or some other herbals if you feel insecure about the ED issues.

I haven't looked at porn/fapped for a while because of this video below:


There is something about this lady, that when you hear her speaking, then you don't want to look at any porn or fap. Probably because she doesn't do it either and is a good example of someone who is not doing that.

Maybe if you look at this video too you'll lose the desire to look at porn or fap if anything of whatever she is saying makes any sense.

If this video does not work, then you can try the Utah thing.
I feel like I do have PIED, but it is also difficult to say with 100% accuracy since my two sexual encounters I’ve had were very unconventional. The first one was in the back seat of my car at a lookout point, it happened late at night and that day I had to get up at 5AM for work, so I was exhausted by the time we got to it. There were also other cars in that lot and some of them had their headlights on and shining into my car, so other people could see what we were doing and were probably watching us.

The second one happened during all of the pandemic lockdowns, me and a longtime friend went out for drinks and neither of us wanted to go back to our parents house that night since we both needed a break from being around them all day every single day. So we decided to just find a cheap hotel room in town so that we both could have a night away. While we were drinking, he admitted to me that he likes to watch people have sex and has done that a couple times. I joked that we’ve been friends so long that it probably wouldn’t be awkward if we did that, I had no idea he would then take that seriously. We found a hotel room and stopped by a liquor store for more drinks on the way there. By the time we get into the room, I’m about 8-10 drinks in and he tells me that he’s having a former coworker come over so that he can watch us have sex. I was not expecting to have sex that night and didn’t even have the opportunity to get myself cleaned up beforehand. So she gets there and we eventually start going at it, but again I can’t get it up. This could be from the alcohol and the fact that I had my friend staring at us from across the room if it wasn’t PIED. But since I wasn’t having any luck getting it up, I started fingering her instead and she started bleeding all over my fingers and the bed! I got off the bed and went to thoroughly clean my hands. She got dressed and left, and my friend took videos of us on his phone without our consent.

So yeah, they’re both unconventional and I do wonder if I was to try and have sex again in a completely private and relaxed environment where its just me and her if it would go better.
 

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This is a thread made by @needimprovement250 who, like me is an incel, and has issues with porn or fapping.
Actually I’m not the OP of this thread. I just came across it and replied. @Hamurabimbi is actually the one who started this thread. I also do not consider myself an incel since the incel community is so toxic and has gotten innocent people killed. A lot of people in that community are also delusional like the incel I’ve posted about on here before named Marshall Mathers the 4th (now known as DarthNihilus)

 

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I dislike you hijacking a thread with Christian anti-masturbation rhetoric.
Normal people have no issues with masturbation.
In the context that fapping IS a substitution from dealing with real women with us, and in your case it is not, that is incredibly tone deaf and selfish on your part.
 

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Actually I’m not the OP of this thread. I just came across it and replied. @Hamurabimbi is actually the one who started this thread. I also do not consider myself an incel since the incel community is so toxic and has gotten innocent people killed. A lot of people in that community are also delusional like the incel I’ve posted about on here before named Marshall Mathers the 4th (now known as DarthNihilus)

It means you want to he intimate with a woman but have challenges with that.
 

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Unfortunately for many men, it may as well be St. Virgin Day. :mad: :mad:
Those men do not have sufficient Game. They are not so suave.

I get laid for Valentine's Day most years. Some years I don't get laid on Valentine's Day itself but the weekend before so I count that as getting Valentine's Day pussie.
 

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I get laid for Valentine's Day most years. Some years I don't get laid on Valentine's Day itself but the weekend before so I count that as getting Valentine's Day pussie.
I started getting laid on Feb 14! (the moment I filed for divorce) :cool:
 

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I started getting laid on Feb 14! (the moment I filed for divorce) :cool:
That's why I've never gotten married. I want to keep getting laid on Valentine's Day.

It would stink to be married and not get laid on Valentine's Day.
 

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Work, cook, sleep.

I wouldn't bother getting any girl's hopes up if I didn't see longevity. Bigger fish to fry.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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We are 8 days into the Valentine month, and I talked to a nice lady at work today. Quite an accomplishment. I got up from my comfort zone, and actually walked across to her tabel, chatted while standed out, motioned towards the chair, and she invited me to sit down and we continued chatting. She is like a mature Hb7 from India with a nice mixed complexion and we have been making eye contact for some time before (ie some subtle IOIs from her). The Tyrone guy who sat oppostie of me has been relocated to another part from the office and I'm going to be moving to another computer as well, so it doesn't have that social friction like before.
 

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Visited the Manderin Buffet last week.

Did not overeat like I thought I would. Just had three plates and was in and out in less than half hour. This was before going to work, and I reported in 30 min late for work. When you know you have health issues and are older, you are going to be more restrained even in that environment. Spent like $ 30 and left right away.

First time, post-covid, of visiting a buffet, and there was a good number of people there and it was filling up. No covid issue after the fact and 2 days have passed. I don't wear a mask at work either (ie other co-workers use public transit). Maybe one of these days I'll visit a cinema again or not wear a mask while on public transit. All this covid paranoia is allot to take with a bulky n95 mask being put on and its hard to breathe with that mask on. If I don't really need it, I may wear it less often when going out.
 

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I conveniently told the one gal that cared about vday to pound dirt two weeks ago. Ahhhh, freedom from stupidity.
 

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What was wrong with her?
Just was way too needy, was weird about holidays and petulant when I chose to be with my kids. Also intellectually challenged. More trouble than she was worth.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Valentine's day is like any other commercial day, "50% off" "Sale event" "Buy this, buy that". And we already have enough of those here in the U.S: Black Friday, President's Day, Memorial Weekend, etc, etc, etc.

Keep it simple and unique, cook a bomb meal together. Maybe buy her a little gift, nothing expensive. Or even better, finish a project a home she's been wanting, build her something, take her somewhere you both would enjoy. The simple things in life are better.
 

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On average, I lose one FWB a year to VD day.

Just got a “happy Vd day, I miss you and I love you” text. Jeez.

Not going to respond which will create all its own set of problems…

One more for the bin. Fack, I like her too…
 

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Those men do not have sufficient Game. They are not so suave.

I get laid for Valentine's Day most years. Some years I don't get laid on Valentine's Day itself but the weekend before so I count that as getting Valentine's Day pussie.
Do you think it’s a “loser” thing to spend the Valentine’s Day alone or it’s a not a big deal?
 

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Happy V-Day lunch for me.

"can you go home for lunch, i want to suck you off, im on my period"

me- "sure"

her-"there's also protein bars in the refrigerator for you and your laundry is done"

That genuine burning desire is awesome.
 

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Fack Valentine’s Day, it’s another day where a man has to measure up to some ridiculous expectations from a woman.

If it gets you laid, sure whatever. But you should be getting laid any or every day of the week and year, and if you’re not (and you’d like to) you have work to do.

I resent the idea of the holiday and this ridiculous standard men are expected to adhere to, many of them DO NOT GET LAID anyway. Fock dat.

I could ask any of my female friends over to get a bj and monkey sex right now if I want to, but I have shyte to do, maybe in a few hours…

I’m UTC-7.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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