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I feel like I do have PIED, but it is also difficult to say with 100% accuracy since my two sexual encounters I’ve had were very unconventional. The first one was in the back seat of my car at a lookout point, it happened late at night and that day I had to get up at 5AM for work, so I was exhausted by the time we got to it. There were also other cars in that lot and some of them had their headlights on and shining into my car, so other people could see what we were doing and were probably watching us.But do you really have a porn addiction / pied problem or do you have a problem with women in the first place?
Chads look at porn too and they have enough women who like them naturally and they never seem to have PIED/ED problems.
That's quite a burden to put on yourself to say that you are not successful with women because of PIED/ED.
The issues with ED with a woman might be more related to the anxiety that you are not used to dealing with women in the first place and feeling nervous. Do you see someone like @GoodMan32 or @MatureDJ complaining about getting ED when they are dealing with escorts?
They probably don't just rely on escorts but likely also watch porn/fap too. If you are not dealing with real women, then you are not going to feel comfortable or feel wired, regardless of whether you watch porn or not. Therefore, what you need to do is get more experience with real women and use Viagra or some other herbals if you feel insecure about the ED issues.
I haven't looked at porn/fapped for a while because of this video below:
There is something about this lady, that when you hear her speaking, then you don't want to look at any porn or fap. Probably because she doesn't do it either and is a good example of someone who is not doing that.
Maybe if you look at this video too you'll lose the desire to look at porn or fap if anything of whatever she is saying makes any sense.
If this video does not work, then you can try the Utah thing.
The second one happened during all of the pandemic lockdowns, me and a longtime friend went out for drinks and neither of us wanted to go back to our parents house that night since we both needed a break from being around them all day every single day. So we decided to just find a cheap hotel room in town so that we both could have a night away. While we were drinking, he admitted to me that he likes to watch people have sex and has done that a couple times. I joked that we’ve been friends so long that it probably wouldn’t be awkward if we did that, I had no idea he would then take that seriously. We found a hotel room and stopped by a liquor store for more drinks on the way there. By the time we get into the room, I’m about 8-10 drinks in and he tells me that he’s having a former coworker come over so that he can watch us have sex. I was not expecting to have sex that night and didn’t even have the opportunity to get myself cleaned up beforehand. So she gets there and we eventually start going at it, but again I can’t get it up. This could be from the alcohol and the fact that I had my friend staring at us from across the room if it wasn’t PIED. But since I wasn’t having any luck getting it up, I started fingering her instead and she started bleeding all over my fingers and the bed! I got off the bed and went to thoroughly clean my hands. She got dressed and left, and my friend took videos of us on his phone without our consent.
So yeah, they’re both unconventional and I do wonder if I was to try and have sex again in a completely private and relaxed environment where its just me and her if it would go better.