How long have you guys been broken up? Who initiated? Did she cheat or want to date others?
Either way. Email her. Be civil and handle your business. Make sure that you have closure. Realize and be sure that she isn't good for you. In time she will get out of your system. And you will meet another girl that (based on ur experience) should be better than the last.
I have to emphasize. No contact does work. But u gotta realize she is no good for you. Then day by day you start thinking about her less and less. You remmember the good times. Then u get tired of thinking about her. Then she turns into a memory or a story for your buddies over a beer.
Its not your fault that she may be BPD or whatever. Thats her battle. I know it sounds harsh but it isn't our job to fix broken women. You will most likely become broken yourself...because ur following her..like Adam did Eve..lol.
Either way. Email her. Be civil and handle your business. Make sure that you have closure. Realize and be sure that she isn't good for you. In time she will get out of your system. And you will meet another girl that (based on ur experience) should be better than the last.
I have to emphasize. No contact does work. But u gotta realize she is no good for you. Then day by day you start thinking about her less and less. You remmember the good times. Then u get tired of thinking about her. Then she turns into a memory or a story for your buddies over a beer.
Its not your fault that she may be BPD or whatever. Thats her battle. I know it sounds harsh but it isn't our job to fix broken women. You will most likely become broken yourself...because ur following her..like Adam did Eve..lol.