I rest my case!
(all this is said in a flirting and C&F way) Please you're only 18, just becasue you can't buy a girl a drink (or even get into a bar for that matter) does not mean offering a girl a drink is a bad way to get a girl to talk to you.
1) I have been going to bars/clubs/etc since i was 14 years old...Originally posted by PRMoon
Please you're only 18, just becasue you can't buy a girl a drink (or even get into a bar for that matter) does not mean offering a girl a drink is a bad way to get a girl to talk to you.
Girls are very money driven, to show them that you are willing to dis out even a little money on them, like for a drink, goes a long way. It gets you a little opening and some room to work with. I don't just go up to EVERY girl and ask to buy her a drink, but sometimes I want an instant in and it really is a good way to go about it. It's not the drink it's the guesture.
But I wouldn't expect people who are under aged to understand this... even less people who were in elementary school while I was heavily focused on my gaming
You should try it sometime So you havnt really proven anything by "macking" a chick by buying her a drink.... and if you start off with buying her a drink, she will EXPECT it from u at a later stage if you still know her or want to keep her around for a while longer... And thats a bad way to start things with a girl...
I misstyped that.
What state do you live in? If what you say is true those places can't be all that great if the bouncers let in 14 year olds to associate with people who are actually of age. It's a maturity thing.
Usually I don't open with getting a girl a drink, infact often its well into the conversation that I'll bring up buying a round for both of us. That isn't to say that I won't use it to work my way in becasue it just makes good sense. If a girl is having a bad day and a guy wants to buy her a drink to cheer her up there's definately nothing wrong with that.
It's a tool to get to know the girl, the goal of the conversation is a user by user situation. I might want to get her into bed, I might want her number, I may just be finding a way to kill time. And there is no way a girl will EXPECT me to continue buying her drinks forever. Usually its that way with dinners on a first date but not drinks on a first meeting.
Ordinarily I'd agree with you, but I live in Vegas. I'm sure where ever you're from is pretty exciting
letting 14 year olds into bars and clubs and all. I'm exposed to about 16 million girls (really) from out of town with a 4% growth rate of fresh local women every year. Seeing as you're only 18 and you've been in the game for 4 years vs my 10.5 I'd say I have a the experience edge (Sorry experience IS the best teacher), coupled with the fact that I'm a Bartender at one of the best locals bars in town and I rent out Ferarris (I rented one to Ice-T last week), and have some of the best hook ups to some of the most expencive/ new social places on the planet.If I came to vegas, could you hook me up man? I'm not 21 yet... gimme two years!Originally posted by PRMoon
Ordinarily I'd agree with you, but I live in Vegas. I'm sure where ever you're from is pretty exciting
That makes a whole lot MORE sence than your original post of just "buy her a drink".
This is only true with SOME women... You cant really tell, but i still think that buying her a drink is not nessecery.
You have 10.5 years experiance... and what maked u think that in my 4 years of experiance i havnt had AS much experiance as you? You think that just because you live in Vegas you are the sh!t? lol... buddy... You dont know me, i dont know you, and i dont judge you.. so dont do the same for me... but if you are SO sure that u are ALL THAT, then when i go travelling in a year or 2, i'll meet up with you, and i garantee you, that i'll double your number of chicks. yes.. thats a challenge
If you are all that you say you are, then you shouldnt have a problem with this challenge, but when i DO make you look like a fool in your own "territory" (Vegas) then maybe you will learn to stop judging people based on their age or where they come from. Thats what the other guy said... and now guess what he is doing? he emails me regularly to get advice from little old me!
*G*I just did.. deal with it!
10.5 years experiance... and what maked u think that in my 4 years of experiance i havnt had AS much experiance as you? You think that just because you live in Vegas you are the sh!t? lol... buddy... You dont know me, i dont know you, and i dont judge you.. so dont do the same for me... but if you are SO sure that u are ALL THAT, then when i go travelling in a year or 2, i'll meet up with you, and i garantee you, that i'll double your number of chicks. yes.. thats a challenge If you are all that you say you are, then you shouldnt have a problem with this challenge, but when i DO make you look like a fool in your own "territory" (Vegas) then maybe you will learn to stop judging people based on their age or where they come from. [/QUOTE
If you want to "throw down the gauntlet" then that's fine by me but don't puss out and say you'll show up in two years. If you're as good as you claim then you should be able to smoke me now right? But you'll need an ID first, my door men don't care what you look like, no ID no way. Trust me when I say you'd be writing your own warrent coming here and challanging me of all people though, my game is beyond solid. Plus coming here and trying to do what I do without knowing anyone will only have you standing in two hour plus lines watching me go in the VIP enterance(s). Oh and I have done more in my 10.5 years then in your 4 so lets not kid ourselves about that one. Like I said, I was gaming girls while you were in grade school.
I don't know who this "other guy" is but If he were in my situation he wouldn't need to email anybody... if he even exist.
I don't know why you STILL think you've got something on me, I've out matched you in just about every area, excluding your whole "I look older" speal which frankly I feel is pretty weak and a lame excuse for living in... well you still haven't said where you're from, but apparently its rural enough where they go on looks instead of ID's which will get your liscese taken away in any well populated area.
Is that all you've got for me son? So far the talk I've heard has been less than convincing
and the fact that i wont know anyone doesnt botrher me at the least, hell, i dont know 99.9% of all the chicks i mack Anyways... I'm not here to argue with you, if u want to continue this argument, please feel free to PM me.... otherwise... I guess the bottom line is that we just dont see things in the same way, its as simple as that.... yet BOTH of our ways have proven to us work, so u have fun doings things YOUR way, while i do things MY way 
