Unplugging

[zekko]

Very good point. I know two guys who are "naturals" at chatting up women and of course they close and date a lot of women, BUT those same guys cannot sustain a relationship, as hard as they try, with women much past the 4-6 weeks point.

They run out of effort, energy and ammo real quick.

They are always " back on the hunt" .

Like I touched on in an earlier post, I think it's all about what motivates them. They're always looking toward that next piece of ass.

Some of these guys do get into relationships, but as you might expect, they cheat on them. And of course that can eventually blow up their marriages or whatever, unless they get one of those women who are just resigned to the idea "men cheat" and look the other way. Or they overlook it so they can cheat themselves.

Okay, so we agree that for the most part, the guys that mostly screw the vast majority of women ARE losers, so then why does this site preach to be Don Juan?

A fair question. As Jitterbug noted, this site isn't just about getting laid.
I probably wouldn't keep coming back here if it weren't for the self improvement aspect, which I find inspiring. It's also nice that it's free.

He's also right there are other sites that focus more on just getting ass.
To be one of these "loser" player types, I think the key is just to be comfortable with women (and yourself), and to be willing to go for what you want.
And be sexual. Someone will take you up on it.

 

[JT7890]

Lol, okay I'm sorry. But the title of the site is "Hundreds of Free Articles on Meeting, Attracting, and Dating Women - Tips and Advice" it's not "Self Improvement For Men."

Let's just be honest okay. We came to this site after doing a google search on "how to attract women" or something similar, this site came up, we read through the forum and found alot of very good posts, and decided to join the community. Right?

I'm wondering when you guys will be honest with me for a second. Here's some facts of the REALITY of the shyt we are dealing with:


1.) Your self improvement as a MAN, has nothing to do with women. NOTHING. Graduate college, get your masters, make $100k a year, come from nothing to something, be wise, be an honorable man in the community, WOMEN don't give a fvck about NONE of this shyt. Of course they say they do on TV and on Oprah, but when you interact with these people they can give a fvck about it.


2.) Women as a whole, favor the bottom of the barrel men OVER men with their shyt together, despite women getting on TV and on Oprah talking about "where have all the good men gone?" Women will TAKE CARE OF, support, feed, nurture a thug, dope dealer, gangsta, and any similar bottom of the barrel "homie" over a man that has his shyt together. Not saying all women, but a damn majority of them.



3.) Women as a whole, have no true qualities. They have a.ss, tits, and pvssy, they look good on your arm when you go out, after that, most of these chicks are brain dead. They can't put two sentences together, the only real world knowledge they have is from the fvcking REAL WORLD on MTV. Cspan? Current state of politics? Current state of world affairs? They have no idea about none of it and don't give a fvck about none of it. All they care about is what Snookie is going to do on the next Jershey Shore episode and what ghetto BET show is coming on next. Oh yeah, and what Tyrone is gone do when he gets out of jail next week because the main topic of conversation with her girls is about those lower bottom of the barrel "homies".



4.) Women don't respect men with success. They actually get offended and jealous of men with success. They start hating on you talking about, "oh so what you think you better then somebody?" And please, don't let me start comparing my life to that of Tyrone's life, how Tyrone threw his life away and I saved mines, women get HIGHLY, HIGHLY offended by the shyt. "How dare you talk about Tyrone! You don't know him!" No I don't know him, because he's been LOCKED UP for the last 10 years!



5.) Educated women claiming they want a good man, yet, STILL laying up with those bottom of the barrel homies.


So look guys. Talk about your C&F, being the prize, being a challenge, all the fvck you want to. We are in a crisis. Majority of these women are prefering bottom of the barrel men over ANY MAN. Period. A guy that says otherwise is lying and in denial.

So no matter how much of a good man I become, it will do SHYT to increase my attractiveness to women and in alot of ways considering this dating market, it will make me more of a liability to them as they will become jealous of me and start hating on me.

Pook made a thread called "The Secret of the Jerk," lmao. We need a "Secret of the Thug" thread for 2011, and the main "advice" in there will go a little something like, "if you want to get laid, drop out of college, be dumb, sell drugs, speak ebonics, and be a thug" THEN you might have 99 problems but a BYTCH will NEVER be one of them.

 

[zekko]

Lol, okay I'm sorry. But the title of the site is "Hundreds of Free Articles on Meeting, Attracting, and Dating Women - Tips and Advice" it's not "Self Improvement For Men."

You are absolutely correct. Guys come here because of women.
But the philosophy of the site has a large self improvement component to it. It's almost like they trick you into the door with the "attract females" stuff, then tell you the women aren't important. "Okay, here's why we're really here".

Women as a whole, favor the bottom of the barrel men OVER men with their shyt together

Okay, I'm not going to agree with this.
I know I said that the guys I know who get the most ass are the loser types with no future. But that's just because of the effort they put into it, and because it's natural for them. Their brain tells them to breed like rabbits and they don't have enough sense to filter it.

Put yourself in the female's place. For the most part they're passive, waiting for the man to make the move. The loser guy comes over and touches them, gives them attention, makes them feel good about themselves. So they go off with them. They don't stay with this guy, she's just a dalliance for him. When they do want to stay, it's because of the "I had sex with him so now I'm emotionally attached" phenomenon.

Girls DO want the alpha guy, the successful guy, the captain of the football team, the leader, all that stuff. But if that guy is too busy making money and doesn't come around her, she'll go off with the guy who does. And if the successful guy does come around buts acts like a stumbling nervous creep that's not a turn on either. The loser guy is at least congruent because he's out for fun.

Pook made a thread called "The Secret of the Jerk," lmao. We need a "Secret of the Thug" thread for 2011

Lol, yes, maybe so. It would probably be refreshing after all the talk about the "bad boy" and the "jerk" and such.
Maybe even a "Secret of the Loser" article.

 

[Marellus]

I had two bad relationships with women. It left me emotionally stunted. So what I did then, is I started acting more callous with women. And then they started responding to me. From this and other forums, I'm beginning to understand why.