Truth From Solomon

[Vending Machine Veteran]

If she is over 21 I always assume she's dealing with other guys whether dating or just talking
I do not take online dating women seriously, in my experience, most women on apps are boring, socially awkward, unhinged, shady past, former party girls, ran through, delusional, entitled, etc

Even pretty women on apps can be very judgemental, uncouth, mean-spirited just nasty women. For me to take one seriously she has to make a genuine effort and meet my standards.

The hardest part of swallowing the red pill back in the day (before online dating) was coming to terms with how many options women had.

They have polls and graphs that show you now lol

You're basically fvcked as a man. The only thing that can save you is optimism

Confidence in yourself and the world in general.

You have to learn to be happy, first and foremost. Nobody wants to be around a Negative Nancy. And that includes family, work, friends, your online gaming buddies...

nobody likes a doomer

There are exercises that can make you a happier person: meditation, making a point of focusing on the the good, rather than the bad, having something to look forward to (i don't have many, i'm a negative person)

And learn that women are like children in their minds. You have to expect them to fvck up. And punish them gently, like children....

..unless they cross a line. Then you deal swiftly and remove them from your life. Never give them a second chance

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

I recently read a study (75,000 participants) that determined that optimism can extend your life

No, i'm not gonna link it. Google it

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

"…if the lives of men were relieved of all need, hardship and adversity; if everything they took in hand were successful, they would be so swollen with arrogance that, though they might not burst, they would present the spectacle of unbridled folly—nay, they would go mad. And I may say, further, that a certain amount of care or pain or trouble is necessary for every man at all times. A ship without ballast is unstable and will not go straight."


- Arthur Schopenhauer

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Your most valuable asset, as a man, is your attention. Women crave it. They love to get a reaction out of you.

You can distribute your attention as you please.

If a woman deserves your attention, give her all of it; if she doesn't...

You need to reach a point in your mind where you don't care if you get laid or not

Realize that there are more women in the world than men, and that any women can be replaced, with a potentially better one

Always be willing to walk away. Even if you don't want to leave the woman you're with. You have to convey you ngaf attitude occasionally, otherwise she will start to disrespect you

They used to call it dread game.

You need confidence to use it. That's why i started my thoughts with developing confidence in yourself. Everything stems from that

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Lifting weights is a cheat code to developing confidence

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Another cheat code is comparing yourself to your grandfather

Do you think he would be scared of what you're scared of?

I doubt it. He'd definitely call you a pvssy

Sack up, kid. Your betters are looking down on you

 

[pipeman84]

The hardest part of swallowing the red pill back in the day (before online dating) was coming to terms with how many options women had.

They have polls and graphs that show you now lol

You're basically fvcked as a man.

That's an illusion, not real options. Let's say a girl is interested in a relationship with a guy she finds attractive and who has his sh!t together. Goes on the apps or wherever these polls and graphs come from and she gets 100 likes from simps and fvckboys. How is that real abundance?

Nowadays, selling scarcity mindset is part of how red pill grifters make their money. In other words, the men are fvcked (the graphs, the polls, even the hoes on various podcasts say it). Their only chance is to join the hustlers university, buy BS courses 'how to be an alpha', go to boot camps etc.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

That's an illusion, not real options. Let's say a girl is interested in a relationship with a guy she finds attractive and who has his sh!t together. Goes on the apps or wherever these polls and graphs come from and she gets 100 likes from simps and fvckboys. How is that real abundance?

Nowadays, selling scarcity mindset is part of how red pill grifters make their money. In other words, the men are fvcked (the graphs, the polls, even the hoes on various podcasts say it). Their only chance is to join the hustlers university, buy BS courses 'how to be an alpha', go to boot camps etc.

Try 1000 likes, depending on the city, but it puts things in perspective.

That's why you create the "abundance" mindframe. It's all cope, honestly

But how else can you function in the world today? You need cope

And i'll say that i needed cope when i was cold-approaching and vetting shot down. Cope madee try again

 

[Vanderdonck]

Try 1000 likes, depending on the city, but it puts things in perspective.

That's why you create the "abundance" mindframe. It's all cope, honestly

But how else can you function in the world today? You need cope

And i'll say that i needed cope when i was cold-approaching and vetting shot down. Cope madee try again

Agree with you but also @pipeman84 . That is "abundance" is a "cope" but it still works.

And the abundance that women have doesn't necessarily serve their needs. It's been internalized since youth, same as thirst is for men since youth. That's why women are always trying to manifest the perfect guy while men are trying to get laid, period.

Yes she will go out and get fukked hard when she wants. It was like that in the "old days" too, don't kid yourself. But it's also like having 10,000 movies/shows on 5 different apps, you scroll and scroll and scroll and sometimes you just give up and read a book.

Anyway mindset matters, like you said, focus inwards and stop caring. The guys who lose frame are the ones who still hang on to the fairy tale, still get the jealous feelings, still hate on women for having options. Who cares dude. Not me, I have options.

 

[SW15]

Female abundance is more pronounced now. A lot of females who use swipe apps and/or are active social media users getting DMs will acknowledge how many likes/messages that they get. However, many females tend to think their swipe queues, swipe app inbox, and social media DM inboxes are filled with weak options so many of them don't see it as true abundance.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Female abundance is more pronounced now. A lot of females who use swipe apps and/or are active social media users getting DMs will acknowledge how many likes/messages that they get. However, many females tend to think their swipe queues, swipe app inbox, and social media DM inboxes are filled with weak options so many of them don't see it as true abundance.

That’s why they say men’s attention is our best currency. If you increase its supply or give it to anyone that crosses your path it becomes worthless.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The hardest part of swallowing the red pill back in the day (before online dating) was coming to terms with how many options women had.

They have polls and graphs that show you now lol

You're basically fvcked as a man. The only thing that can save you is optimism

Confidence in yourself and the world in general.

You have to learn to be happy, first and foremost. Nobody wants to be around a Negative Nancy. And that includes family, work, friends, your online gaming buddies...

nobody likes a doomer

There are exercises that can make you a happier person: meditation, making a point of focusing on the the good, rather than the bad, having something to look forward to (i don't have many, i'm a negative person)

And learn that women are like children in their minds. You have to expect them to fvck up. And punish them gently, like children....

..unless they cross a line. Then you deal swiftly and remove them from your life. Never give them a second chance

Know what else makes you happier?

Deciding to be happy. It's a conscious decision you make or don't make.

 

[jhonny9546]

The hardest part of swallowing the red pill back in the day (before online dating) was coming to terms with how many options women had.

They have polls and graphs that show you now lol

You're basically fvcked as a man. The only thing that can save you is optimism

Confidence in yourself and the world in general.

You have to learn to be happy, first and foremost. Nobody wants to be around a Negative Nancy. And that includes family, work, friends, your online gaming buddies...

nobody likes a doomer

There are exercises that can make you a happier person: meditation, making a point of focusing on the the good, rather than the bad, having something to look forward to (i don't have many, i'm a negative person)

And learn that women are like children in their minds. You have to expect them to fvck up. And punish them gently, like children....

..unless they cross a line. Then you deal swiftly and remove them from your life. Never give them a second chance

The real issue is that the majority now tends to be like this.
So when you say "Nobody wants to be around a Negative Nancy. And that includes family, work, friends, your online gaming buddies..." you can see this a lot now in LTR's.

It happen bro, and the bad news is that you can be a very good man, and also **** she up when crossed the treshold, but you know what? She won't come back to you. She have so many options.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Any situation you're in, you can take the positive path or the negative path.

Don't take the negative path.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

Another cheat code is comparing yourself to your grandfather

Do you think he would be scared of what you're scared of?

I doubt it. He'd definitely call you a pvssy

Sack up, kid. Your betters are looking down on you

Street smart grandmothers as well. When I was 19, I remember one time I was having some slight tensions with my girlfriend. My nana overheard me saying something to my mother about how my girl was acting out and not being loving. My grandmother took me to the side and said something that was probably my first taste of the red pill. She said
“Girls often act out because they want you to punish them”
I ran with it.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Another cheat code is comparing yourself to your grandfather

Do you think he would be scared of what you're scared of?

I doubt it. He'd definitely call you a pvssy

Sack up, kid. Your betters are looking down on you

Our grandfathers were poor compared to us

They didn't have porn, video games or social media

They spent their time working hard and looking for a solid woman

You are the result of their "boredom"

Your grandparents were probably happily married, too

Resort back to tradition

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Know what else makes you happier?

Deciding to be happy. It's a conscious decision you make or don't make.

Yeah, you could spend hours every day, convincing yourself that you're really happy

I gave up on that a long time ago

I am who i am. I think the way i think

I do this because i'm a combination of those that came before me

There's no avoiding it, no matter how much you meditate

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

The real issue is that the majority now tends to be like this.
So when you say "Nobody wants to be around a Negative Nancy. And that includes family, work, friends, your online gaming buddies..." you can see this a lot now in LTR's.

It happen bro, and the bad news is that you can be a very good man, and also **** she up when crossed the treshold, but you know what? She won't come back to you. She have so many options.

They have more options than they know what to do with

So what?

The fact that you realize that puts you light years ahead of the rest

Internalize it. Make that sh1t a part of you. Laugh at it. If you can do that

Now you're ready to deal with women

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

They have more options than they know what to do with

So what?

The fact that you realize that puts you light years ahead of the rest

Internalize it. Make that sh1t a part of you. Laugh at it. If you can do that

Now you're ready to deal with women

The red pill is brutal, bro

There's no easy way to say that all women are the same

But once you get there, you're golden

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Street smart grandmothers as well. When I was 19, I remember one time I was having some slight tensions with my girlfriend. My nana overheard me saying something to my mother about how my girl was acting out and not being loving. My grandmother took me to the side and said something that was probably my first taste of the red pill. She said
“Girls often act out because they want you to punish them”
I ran with it.

All women want to be put in check

They won't admit it, but it's what their heart desires

No woman wants a man that lets them walk all over them. They find it gross