They say the opposite of love isn’t hate but indifference.
I believe true indifference is an attitude, a skill honed over time.
You can’t be indifferent if you like a chick because you “like” her. That’s internal. But you can give the exterior impression that you are “indifferent” to her or indifferent to the outcome whether she likes you or not .
If she doesn’t like you, then you shake it off and move on to the next one. If she likes you then your indifference gives you power because she will do the chasing.
True indifference means not being outcome dependent and not being affected by the negative or positive outcome. It means going with the flow.
Too many guys get invested with a chick at the beginning. If you were indifferent you would go along for the ride with no preconceived notions even though you like her. This is kind of holding two opposing ideas in your mind at the same time. Bruce Lee said “ What is true stillness?” “Stillness in movement “.
You learn to be indifferent and desensitized to outcomes. You focus more on the process.
I believe true indifference is an attitude, a skill honed over time.
You can’t be indifferent if you like a chick because you “like” her. That’s internal. But you can give the exterior impression that you are “indifferent” to her or indifferent to the outcome whether she likes you or not .
If she doesn’t like you, then you shake it off and move on to the next one. If she likes you then your indifference gives you power because she will do the chasing.
True indifference means not being outcome dependent and not being affected by the negative or positive outcome. It means going with the flow.
Too many guys get invested with a chick at the beginning. If you were indifferent you would go along for the ride with no preconceived notions even though you like her. This is kind of holding two opposing ideas in your mind at the same time. Bruce Lee said “ What is true stillness?” “Stillness in movement “.
You learn to be indifferent and desensitized to outcomes. You focus more on the process.