I know what you mean and how it feels like but I think our ancestors had pretty ****ty lifes. No way I would want to live at that time. They were basically slaves who worked for 1 dollar a day basically. They belonged to the king etc. Pretty ****ty.I agree man. The issue is that the modern man is spending too much time trying to figure out a creature that has become too complicated. Back in our fathers era you didn't have to studying Phd level concepts in order to get laid. To get one decent girl these days you have to put in hundreds of hours of approaching, dating and screening.
This is not natural. At no time in human history were men at such a severe disadvantage in mating. Time spent chasing tail is better spent pursuing a passion. Magically the tail appears.
But I agree ours is hard as hell too. We have huge animal desires and a modern world that is very hard to handle with our primate brains.
If you put in your energie to learn and get better you become exhausted and miserable. I totally agree.
On the other hand you have to lower your expectations. In modern times you have the chance to get off the matrix. Nature was always quite cruel.
The modern world fires up our lust and greed. That is hard to process but one needs a escape plan.
Like I said a insurance for your animal lust is not a bad thing. I like being in a forum that mirrors me, another one that is more progressiv and one that is more conservative. This way I try to have a balanced view on things.
If you are able to communicate with people on the forum in a meaningful way that is huge. Life is basically communication.
People want to tell stories and listen to stories. That is basically our lifes. Like you said girl should be not so important. Take this forum as a hang out.