Tihash's Daytime Approach Journal

[tihash]

Approach #154

Super WM. See a hot body looking at cheese (the block kind of cheese). I open her on what kind of cheese to take to a house party to put with crackers. SHe has an accent. She is from Brazil. Face is ok. I'd bang her just for the change of scenery. I get her number. We shall see.

 

[tihash]

Composite Approach #155

This is today at B&N.

First one I open is in the cookbook section. SHe doesn't really talk much. Later I see her rejoin her bf in the store. That explains that.

Another one in the cookbooks. I open her fast, but she is married. Oh, well.

Later, at Target, I open a chick looking at dog beds. She doesn't like talking to strangers. Oh, well. Next!

 

[tihash]

Approach #156

This is the other day at a supermarket.

I see a hot girl in produce. Later on, I catch up with her in frozen foods. She is looking at ice cream.

"So what do you recommend?"

She LOOKS ME IN THE EYES then walks away and does not say a f-ing word. What a cvnt. Fellas, you wouldn't want a girl like that even if she did like you. Imagine what a POS she must be to be so discourteous!

Next!

 

[tihash]

Approach #157

I include this one for the same reason as the one above-- to show how WEIRD some people can be. BUt, so what? Most people are friendly or at least neutral.

This is at Marshall's. I see a HOT girl looking at the junk in the back in the pet section.

Now, I should have used an open-ended opener but failed to do so. I did, however, open within 3s which i am proud of.

"is that dog shampoo?"

She was looking at a bottle of pink dog shampoo. It was very girly looking.

She SNEERS at me and barely says "yes." What a biotch!

lol

I'm sure she will one day make a WONDERFUL wife. Yeah, right.

Next!

 

[escaleraroyal]

This is last week at a Super WM.

See an okish girl in the juice aisle. I open her on a recommendation for juice. Sounds lame, but you have to work with what you are given, right?

Transition out of the opener but you could see her physically get unconfortable with the covo. She didn't like talking to a "stranger" and started moving away physically. Oh, well. Next!

Hahahaha I tried this one in the past. Never succeeded.

 

[tihash]

Approach #158

This is at B&N. Pretty dead today. I see a young, ok-looking girl near the greeting cards in a chair. I look around, take a piss, still no one better.

So I go up to the greeting cards, then do my card opener. I transition fairly easily to normal convo. I got her number fairly easily. We shall see...

It did feel good to run fairly textbook game on her and have everything work smoothly. Just wish she was a few years older (mid-20's instead of like 20) and a bit hotter. lol

 

[tihash]

Updated Stats

Had a first date with #146 tonight. She gave me a BJ.

So....

Stats since i started the re-numbering in 9/2009:

Cold Approaches: 158
Phone Numbers: 52
Email Addresses: 3
Dates: 14 (only count once even if multiple dates same girl)
BJs: 2 (do not count if got BJ and lay, only count as lay)
Lays: 8 (only count once, even if she is a repeat customer)

 

[tihash]

Approach #159

I was out of town for the weekend. This was at a very crowded mall out of town on a Saturday.

Most girls are not alone, and the few that are seem logistically very difficult to approach.

I see a very sexy girl walk past... high heels, short skirt, and punk-like hair. I only see her from behind.

I begin to follow her and because she is walking slowly I eventually catch up. I get to where I am walking side-by-side next to her.

"Hey, I just had to meet you. I saw you walk by and you have a really awesome sense of style. You look like a total bad-ass."

She STOPS once I say this and has an enormous smile.

"Thank you!"

We talk for about 5-6 minutes. I get her number. I text her later and suggest we get together for a drink but she says yes and flakes. W.e, I was out of town.

It was a little awkward I guess, but this is a way to stop a hot girl in her tracks when you have no other way to approach. I've never done one quite like this before.

The only caveat is that she truly needs to be hot (as opposed to merely cute) or else I think you can't pull off this approach. It would be incongruent otherwise.

 

[tihash]

Approach #160

This is out of town at the same mall. I see a girl by herself on her phone (texting) with a big suitcase.

I open her and she is from Brazil. She is here by herself on vacation. She leaves the next day. Her English is passable but there was a bit of a language barrier. I opened her by acting like my phone did not have service and asked her if hers was working.

She was very discourteous in that she went back to texting while I was speaking to her. I have never had an American in daytime do that to me. Anyhow, I tried to instadate her to no avail. She was a biyatch anyhow. Next!

 

[tihash]

Approach #161

This is a a B&N out of town.

Slim pickings, but a cute girl walks in. I track her down and open her on a book recommendation. I eventually get the convo to personal talk. When I close she claims to have a bf. Next!

 

[tihash]

Approach #162

This is back home at B&N on Sunday.

See a hot-for-what-she-is blonde in very nice shape but late 30's or so. There was no one else worth opening, so I open her for the heck of it. She is looking at board games and what not. I get her number after a ten minute, easy conversation. I'd bang her for the sake of a notch. We shall see...

 

[tihash]

Approach #163

After getting #162's number, there is now a cutie in the cafe section. There is a table next to her so I grab a book and sit.

I let about 5 minutes go by, then i open her on one of the textbooks on her table.

"Excuse me... what class is that book for? It looks really interesting..."

Turns out she is a college grad and is studying for some state-required exam in her field. She is quite religious. She is a real cutie and about 22 or 23. We chit chat for a while, until I am 30 minutes late for a date so I close and get her number. We shall see...

 

[tihash]

Updated stats...

Banged #146 last night. That decreases the BJ count by one and increases the lay count by one.

So....

Stats since i started the re-numbering in 9/2009:

Cold Approaches: 163
Phone Numbers: 55
Email Addresses: 3
Dates: 16 (only count once even if multiple dates same girl)
BJs: 1 (do not count if got BJ and lay, only count as lay)
Lays: 9 (only count once, even if she is a repeat customer)

 

[tihash]

I f-ed up with a true hottie...

Went out with #142 last night. This is after a month of flakiness. She actually texted me out of the blue.

Bottom line: I did not kiss her. I should have. Got the crappy hug at the end of the date. I could have and should have kissed her. Damn, I can be so stupid.

And, of course, I am way more stupid with the girls I like more.

I started a separate thread on this:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178619

I can tell you this... If I get her out again, I am kissing her. Or getting the cheek. Like within 20 minutes so I don't again wind up with the awkward end of the date moment like last night.

Damn, I'm pissed.

I went over to #146's place after my date with #142 and banged her for the first time, but the new notch was spoiled by the fact I screwed up with #142, Ugh.

 

[Hikapo]

You are such a pimp, keep it up bro.

Hey, don't fret, you just learned a lot about yourself for screwing up #142.

 

[tihash]

Approach #164

I had not approached in about a week. I was rusty already. This was Monday at Super WM.

I see an ok-ish (cute) girl in HABA. I open her on a housewarming gift geared towards the bathroom. Very easy to talk to, she is all smiles, I am telling a story or two right there in the aisle. I close and she has a bf. Boy, that felt like a waste of 20 minutes. lol

Next!

 

[tihash]

Approach #165

This is Tuesday at B&N on the other side of town during the day. i see a cute girl sitting in a big, comfy chair. I sit next to her, then open her on what she is studying for.

We have a nice 20 minute convo about her school, halloween, and other various stuff. I close and...

#165: Well, do you have facebook? (As a counteroffer to my number close attempt)

Me: No. I had to close it down. I had a stalker.

#165: No way! (All intrigued)

Me: (I tell a BS stalker story). So, let me get your number. I'll text you and we'll hang out sometime.

Got the number. We shall see...

 

[tihash]

Approach #166

This is Wednesday at Borders across town. During the afternoon.

I see a real hottie walk in and sit in the cafe in what was (at that time) an inaccessible position.

She is in a table up against a wall and a fat dude is at the next table. No way to approach without making a big show of it (and probably having it go nowhere as a result).

I scope out the store and approach a cute but nowhere-near-as-hot girl elsewhere. She is not talkative. Her loss.

I go back to the cafe area and Mr. Fat Dude is packing up his laptop to move to a big, comfy chair in the cafe. So I grab a couple of mags and take his table.

I open her on what she is studying for. Then I do my magazine opener. It is a damn shame... this girl is like a living barbie doll (except she needs bigger boobs) but has the personality of a fish! What a waste.

She brings up facebook before I even try to close. I tell her I had a stalker. She does not seem the least bit surprised. I get her number. We shall see...

 

[tihash]

Approach #167

This is Thursday across town at the B&N during the afternoon.

Only thing worth sarging is a cute but kinda nerdy girl. Open her on a book suggestion. Transition to personal stuff and she is here from CO for the week to visit mom. At one point mom walks up and the 3 of us chit chat for about 5 minutes. lol. Mom gets the drift and leaves. I # close her and go for the same night meetup (She leaves Sat) via text about an hour later. She is busy but "maybe Friday." Whatever. I have plans Friday. Next!

 

[spinaroonie]

Solid bro. 9 lays in a year is better than most guys who hit the clubs every weekend get.

Check this out, could amp up your game:

http://krauserpua.com/day-game-model/