first day of college = lots of possibilities
well today was my first day of college (as u can see from above) and it was pretty cool. i feel like college just has me written all over it and this uni is right up my alley. wow today was a very long day. earlier wen i got my room all sorted i met a few guys from my dorm. they all seemed nice and wil be good to have to relax with (probably not take out with me though, idk if they would be the best wingmen). later i met up with a few of my old friends. two of which are pretty attractive 8's. i guess when i was with them (and everyone here) i have been trying to give off a fun and free spirited kind of vibe. i want to be decisive and not supplicating like most people are as freshman. id like to be the leader of men while seeming chill at the same time, but i dont htnk it will be easy.
anyways here was my post from the b'c : haha nexus, where are you goin to school?! id love to join your for 70 percent, thats crazy man. must be a predominately nursing college im guessing?
well anyways i finished week 2 already, actually did more than finish it... i got about 15 conversations at least. but honestly it almost isnt fair for me because A) it was the first day of college where everyone talks to everyone in a stupid attempt to make friends and B) i have always felt good starting conversations and keeping them kinda fun. i will say though, even though i thought i had confidence in the past, i can tell that i am getting even more now that i make it a point to do it.
i can detail the bigger conversations that i had (with HBs, of course):
first (and best of the day) was a HB 8 who was sitting alone at a bus stop. i sat down next to her and asked her if she knew where a certain bus went. so that went to college talk and i found out that she is my age, what she is studying (psych), and that her dorms are very close to mine. she really seemed like she enjoyed the conversation, which was nice. there was never a pause, and most of the time when it felt like a pause was coming on, she kept the convo going with the common interview question type of thing. we must have talked for atleast 35 minutes bcz i was with her from the bus stop all the way to the dorms, but i still feel like i wasnt on top of my game at all (not that it seemed to matter). the BIG problem was that there wasnt really any flirting going on at all, and it seemed like she was more into friendzoning me. but who knows it is still very early. im sure i can make a better impression when i take her to a few parties with me (used that as my excuse to get her number). so yea... with this HB i number closed and she enjoyed the convo... not bad but i still have a way to go so that i can make the convos flirty and with a sexual vibe about it.
my other main convo was with a girl that i was very attracted to, my type all the way. most people would probably rate her a 7, but to me she was an 8.5. anyways we talk the normal beginning thing 'where u from' etc (which i hate btw, trying to get away from) and it was just kinda a casual convo. i threw a few negs at her and she would laugh and joke around a bit. unfortunately she has a bf but im not giving up hope on her. she lives one floor above me so that would be nice to have!
thats the basics, im going to go into a little bit more detail in my journal in a sec
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another time that should be noted was when we were having our 'mandatory meeting' crap. well there were all the people from my dorm there and like kids it seemed like all the guy were staying together and all the girls were staying together too (not completely, but u get hte idea). i said fvck that and i kinda crept my way into the girl group... starting with the end ones to eventually working them on either side of me (both different groups). it was awesome. even though they were probably just 7's, they were really into me. laughing at my jokes etc. i could tell that they were feeling the vibe that i was trying to give off. sh*t, one girl i even caught throwing glances at me a couple times during the presentation.
all in all, good start. but i NEED to do everything. thats one thing im worried about. falling behind into the comfortable zone. oh and another thing i havent really decided on doing yet either - going to freshman activities (which i really enjoy and make it super easy to meet women) or going with the hb8s who want to party. you would think its an ez choice to go with the hot ones (very popular type, people want ot be their friend). they are actually asking me to go with them, but i dont really like it so far bcz i def do not feel like the alpha of that group. and with so many people in the uni, it seems stupid to stay caught up on one group, ya know?