For about 4 years - I've been single (a few flings, a few close calls, but no one to introduce to mama.)
During this period - I've been a male s!ut. I’ve fvcked at least 20 women each of these years. Some single and some not. Some very attractive; some not so much so.
My standard “date” is them coming over my house – us drinking and talking (call this foreplay).
I always turn the conversation to sex quickly. At first – the women are normally bashful or fake in their answers. I don’t approve of this, and I’ve developed ways to get to the truth.
The first is – alcohol. The more she drinks – the more honest she becomes. This is fact.
The second is – always have a story/answer that makes her stories/answers seem tame. It does not have to be true! I’ve never been in an orgy – but sometimes if you tell a woman you have been – she’ll tell you about the time she fvcked 2 guys at once (Or the time she fvcked three guys in the same day.)
The third is – absolute non-judgment. You have to not judge what she says if it’s extreme, or at least be able to hide it well. For example: I hate the idea of a pissing on each other! Yet, I’ve had women tell me “My ex used to love to piss on me in bed”. And while my stomach is turning to that idea – I just grin and…
The fourth is – act like the s!utty stuff she’s talking about is turning you on…. “oh that’s hot that your ex used to pee on you.”… “oh that’s hot that you fvcked your boyfriends best friend while your boyfriend was asleep on the couch 10 feet away.” … “tell me more…” (you can’t get more information unless you’ve already approved of the previous information)
So from this formula – I’ve had over 100 conversations with women about absolute sex and s!uttiness.
Nothing I read on here makes me mad. I’ve already been numb to it from hearing it from other women. Or doing it with them…
This stuff has made me realize that as a man – worrying about these things in a negative way – is a waste of a frame. I’d rather spend my thoughts on something productive. We are not going to change this. At our core – we are what we are…. And this current society allows for more primal acts.
There’s very few species that have sex when the female is not ovulating – we are one of the few.
There’s very few species that the women normally don’t know when they are ovulating – we are one of the few.
Why?
The same reason there’s little evidence that females of other species have orgasms (especially multi-another worldly explosive orgasms). It’s a bonding experience for a woman. It’s approval. It’s a natural anti-depressant to a woman. Your sex is her validation. Forever and always will be.
It’s even more of a win when the woman is getting hot amazing sex…
How many of you have ever fvcked a woman you didn’t think was anything great, but just fvcked her because she was there and available?
I know I have. And I NEVER give them good sex. There’s a whole host of average women walking around out there that probably don’t think much of me in bed. Yet, there’s a whole host of hot women that know what I’m capable of.
And I think women know this. I think they instinctually know when you’re disconnected from the sex. When all you’re trying to do is get a nut and go vs. when you’re going to fvck her over and over all night.
Women need amazing sex. They ache for it. They literally ache for it! And part of that amazing sex will be that she desires you so bad that she almost orgasms from any sexual attention you give her.
If you are the man that she seeks, if you are giving her your all in bed – that’s the best way to keep her in line. To keep her from drifting away.
But that’s hard work. Fvcking a woman 3-4 times every night – will leave most men depleted of resources to do much else.
Yet, I’ve heard this many times as the reason women are cheating.
“He puts no effort into pleasing me anymore. He used to be so good in bed, we’d have sex all night, but now I’m lucky to get 3 minutes and a good night kiss.”
When she stops getting that amazing sex from a man she wants – her psyche desires it. They need it in a more powerful way than most men understand.
There is a very powerful reason for this. You’ve all heard it before. It helps keep the man around as provider (her subconscious knows nothing of the difference between a one night stand and a husband). And if he’s still fvcking her good – he’s still putting in effort to remain attractive in her eyes – that is beneficial to her and her off-springs survival. Add in that natural selection benefits the s!utty women (the women who could keep sex interesting to a man with wars and fields on his mind produced more offspring than the ones who couldn’t.)
However, society has tried to control female sexuality because female sexual anarchy is a threat to the stability of patriarchal societies (this is why religions always make rules against sleeping with other men’s women.)
Women who are untamed are an absolute threat to the fabric of gender wars between the intergenders (women themselves). S!ut shaming was not a product of men. It was a product of women who recognized that a s!ut is more of a danger to her household than a good “wholesome” married woman who would remain faithful.
This is why when a woman is jealous of another woman’s attractiveness – her first insult is always that the woman is a s!ut/wh@re/sleeps with everyone.
Yet, how quick are these same women to tell you “I’m a dirty bad little s!ut” in bed? (hopefully some of you know what I mean.)
This is because their own underlining desire to be ravaged and given amazing, wild, sex is always there. And as long as you can fulfill that – you can override all the advertising, all the conditioning, all the programming, all the fears… they all disappear….. And her s!utty instincts take over….
Animalistic sex? I’m a fan of that sh!t….
There’s a switch inside of her; if you flip it – she will come out. Her inner s!ut will come loose. It’s just waiting for the right guy to come alone and give her that touch. Give her that grin. So... Give her that; prove you can provide that to her. Then you can… swim in women who will love you for it.
Yet, here we are in another thread, worrying about what we cannot change…
Fidelity is mostly an unnecessary artifact of the past.
You can adapt, or nature will take care of your bloodline itself.
