i see people are seeing this as something depressing and a reason to hate women.
while i admit this is not something desirable, the reality cannot be denied.
i could never game married women if they would be upstanding quality women. on the other hand, while it may make me a scumbag, if i don't do them they will find someone else with the difference that i will have my so called honor, while others get the poon.
if i would be a quality woman, i would never choose me as a quality man ( i am trying to be one, but sometimes i feel i will be a loser if i succeed), i am quite toxic for them, and sometimes they are for me.
while we strive for an ideal society where men are MEN and females aren't retarded slvts, in these times it is not really achievable. if you want to be successful now, you should live for yourself, go for a career, for the money and prestige, use women as disposable commodities, and go for your personal success. this is very hard for those who like like family values. i admit. i have a side that strives for a quiet life with a happy family. but that is a weakness in the current conditions, and just asking for trouble.
what i am really looking for is quality male friends who have the same ambitions as me, and we can motivate each other and can have fun together playing sports, talking and picking up broads. i see that as more value than dedicating your life to a woman you cannot even trust.