TIC said:
Why is it OK for women to use the system to theri advantage and have loads of options/attention, but when guys find a system where they could have a happy social life they get shamed?
American society is sick and women are the main culprits. I don't want american women and no, there is no such thing as a quality 1st world woman. They are all narcissistic consumer trash
No WE are the main culprits. Women get to do what they do and control the dating and sex game because of OUR behavior. You want the case and point? Men going to other nations with the primary objective being pvzzy. WHAT HAPPENED TO THIS FORUM.
I look at posts from the early days and many more men were above prostitutes, head games, AFC pedestal-ing, traveling vasts distances for tail, etc. But now the board looks like its just filled with guys who will do anything and everything for a lay. Its gone from being a place where a man makes the most of who he is and not accepting defeat, to a place where you advise one another to lower your standards and take whatever piece of azz whichever girl throws at you.
This is why women control things, they know guys like this will always be in supply. They feel that a man can never say no to them, even if he is above their league. And this is why when I have shown a girl that I am above that crap, they chase me until they can pass MY tests. Or if I dont want them whatsoever, they pathetically try and slander me by telling people I must not like women since I wouldnt **** her....lmao @ the ego on broads like that. But that thinking was created by all the men who never say no.
Yes I know our biology is different and sex is a huge driving force. Yes testosterone is a bitxh to deal with because it makes us infinitely horny at times. But guys, we could learn a lot from girls in terms of standards and being picky. If we just learned to use our relationship standard of women when judging who we screw, even if its only half the time, then things would even out like hell. Because we know as men we wont compromise who we will date, but there are times where you think "oh well, puzzy is puzzy"
SharinganUser said:
You are kidding right. Having been all over the US I can easily tell you the women are not the same everywhere.
And btw, my mentioning of Toronto and NYC was a separate but related point. I was referencing two metropolises that while not far from one another geographically, and both being general melting pots, that the women are very different.
So spare me, because an International Business major I know my geography =/
C-quenced said:
I stopped paying attention to that ****ing troll. She's so ****ing stupid. Perhaps one of the worse I've seen here.
Lol @ this forum. The group think here is crazy. Yeah as soon as someone posts an opposing viewpoint, he must be a troll. Dude its an open forum, and people are allowed to say what they want.
I gave my honest opinion on the matter, and I think men should be the best they can be and still strive for me here in the US, instead of accepting defeat and running away.
I dont see how you guys can cry so hard about me wanting my fellow men to better themselves. Its the choice of creating high value for yourself in one of the greatest nations in the world, vs accepting being average or sub par and creating false value in poor nations. I feel by being great here, you can be great anywhere. Thats just me though.
LiveFreeX said:
Ok really Jaylan, this arguing is pointless and if noone is interested in the thread then it should just disappear naturally right? I'm not interested in hearing anything you have to say anymore unless its a request, question or personal travel/live abroad experience... I forgot there was an ignore button. Your posts suck anyway.
This thread is for and about North American born expats and those wanting to expat, if you know any of those then send them along... maybe you should have read my original post. Having a Brazilian tell me and the others about Brazil really doesn't help. They have no idea about the dynamic of BEING a NORTH AMERICAN MALE, BORN IN NORTH AMERICA. Its no different from having a woman give you dating advice..
Get an ESL teacher who was born in the USA and expated to Brazil for over a year to come on a talk about it. There's more than two on SS alone and they've been here a lot longer than you.
I honestly think you are a woman... I can't believe any man who hears
"Its easier to live abroad and effortless to meet girls"
thinks
"fvck that! I like living here where life is hard, boring and stressful and the women suck ass! It's a dogs life for me baby!".
Read my above responses. Then you might finally understand where I am coming from. I am about never accepting a loss and constant betterment of oneself.
And where did I say that American women "suck ass"? I never said nor thought that. I actually do quite fine with women overall, and am seeking to improve all aspects of my life in the good ole USA. But yeah I must be a woman since I dont desire to move my entire life to another country just for puzzy.
Why would I move when I just fine here? So your accusation is therefore baseless. I dont sit and incessantly cry in threads about how horrible women are like a lot of folks do in these forums now. Like I said before, this place used to be about being the best man you can be and maintaining high standards in all aspects of your life. Now its reduced to complaining about women, instead of changing the things about our collective manhood that will make women shape up.
davewe said:
You say that like it's a bad thing!
Let's face it, most every guy attracts women for superficial reasons. Humans (women especially) are superficial.
Guy A: Young, good looking, big muscles, gets all the bar girls he wants because of his youth, looks and muscles.
Guy B: Late 30s. Successful, bit o' money, nice house with matching mortgage. He gets all the 35 year old, desperate to get married and drop a kid women he can handle.
Guy C: Older, maybe barely hanging on. Has a bit more money, a certain calm, been there-done that attitude. Travels because he wants to see other places and cultures before he's too old. Is treated like a superstar not because of his youth, beauty or muscles, but because he's Western, and a mature Westerner. How's he any more or less real than Guys A or B.
Am I Guy C - you bet. Just back from an international trip, accompanied by 23 year old who's totally into me. Is it because I'm Western? I'm sure that's a big factor. How's that any more superficial than Guy A who gets the girl because he's ripped. Actually, long after Guy A is no longer quite so ripped, Guy C will still be a mature Westerner, able to travel and meet beautiful girls.
Everyone builds his own life. Don't shame those of us who choose a different way. Isn't that what women (American women) do?
Id rather a girl want me sexually for my personality and looks, then because of simply where I was born.
The thing is she can find another Westerner easily, because being Western is not unique. However, my personality and the way I look is unique to myself. It says to me that even if shes only down for a one night screw, or a relationship, she wanted me for me.
And that to me is attractive and worth value. And spare me about the whole shaming thing. If you want to take that route, by all means, but my opinion stands. Because you all are shaming me for simply sharing an alternate viewpoint, let alone a viewpoint that tells me to never accept defeat.
