the SECRET to going from beta to alpha , OVERNIGHT

[death_wish. .]

Dominance Hierarchy has nothing to do with women, at all, it is about men testing other men and the men who are tested, displaying their reaction... If your reaction to being tested is "I don't care" that is a black pill mentality. Most men here, whether they know it or not, were not driven here by women, but other men, and once the other man is involved, she tests your reaction and you react badly, blame her, when in reality, it is the presence of the other man that invoked the test.

If your neighbor is a better prospect than you, you should not care, because you are self developing... Not caring without self development means you are defaulting and any man who is defaulting, is accepting death into his life, women can freely not care because their default is house wife, our default is death.

we not talkin about men here yo we talkin about women, not caring about what the woman thinks and letting it control how you live

 

[EyeBRollin]

I’ll add another:

Speak less.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Dominance Hierarchy has nothing to do with women, at all, it is about men testing other men and the men who are tested, displaying their reaction... If your reaction to being tested is "I don't care" that is a black pill mentality. Most men here, whether they know it or not, were not driven here by women, but other men, and once the other man is involved, she tests your reaction and you react badly, blame her, when in reality, it is the presence of the other man that invoked the test.

If your neighbor is a better prospect than you, you should not care, because you are self developing... Not caring without self development means you are defaulting and any man who is defaulting, is accepting death into his life, women can freely not care because their default is house wife, our default is death.

How does my neighbor putting up a new fence or buying a new f250 diesel make him a better prospect than me? We have totally different strengths and different careers and businesses.

 

[death_wish. .]

I’ll add another:

Speak less.

just heard alot from you

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

How does my neighbor putting up a new fence or buying a new f250 diesel make him a better prospect than me? We have totally different strengths and different careers and businesses.

Does social status not exist where your from?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

5 words or less.
Adopt your text game be willing to hear

SILENCE....needy members....

Heres another.

Obedience or NEXT

Swallow it Beta boys

Silence is not the same as residing in ambiguity, you have no real point to articulate, so you resort to this, we all see what you are doing, your not fooling anyone.

If your information isn't pointed and factual, it's emotional, these are emotional responses in ambiguity.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Does social status not exist where your from?

They do that keep up with the Jones sh1t here. They can live paycheck to paycheck I'll hold my money. I'm not going go purchase items I don't need just because someone else did.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

They do that keep up with the Jones sh1t here. They can live paycheck to paycheck I'll hold my money. I'm not going go purchase items I don't need just because someone else did.

Hey man, I am right there with you, in total agree, but at the same time, if there is a loud noise and I plug my ears and go lalalala does the sound go away?

It doesn't go away and for the people who listen, it's there and very loud, we need to recognize that persons insecurity and also recognize our own, ignoring it is visible insecurity, we should be congratulating our neighbor for their accomplishment, not ignoring them or diminishing them.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Hey man, I am right there with you, in total agree, but at the same time, if there is a loud noise and I plug my ears and go lalalala does the sound go away?

It doesn't go away and for the people who listen, it's there and very loud, we need to recognize that persons insecurity and also recognize our own, ignoring it is visible insecurity, we should be congratulating our neighbor for their accomplishment, not ignoring them or diminishing them.

As an individual I've never had an issue giving complements, it's because i'm secure in myself. I know a few characters who wouldn't give a complement or positive affirmation if you even put a gun to their head. I used to not understand their view, but now i really do. Those same types are likely to be quick to neg you especially behind your back.

 

[Spaz]

There's no such thing as being alpha.

It's either u r a dominant or a passive.

And u r born into that role, you can never chg it no matter how much you try to bullshiet ur own self abt it or to others.

Anyhow, the good news is, masculinity is a learned trait, forget abt being a dominant.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

There's no such thing as being alpha.

It's either u r a dominant or a passive.

Some people were wired that way from young, or their family members were on that wavelength, so that's how a young one can get it. Dominant vs passive is a bunch of habits. People get into jobs where they have to be dominant and they do just fine.

And u r born into that role, you can never chg it no matter how much you try to bullshiet ur own self abt it or to others.

Anyhow, the good news is, masculinity is a learned trait, forget abt being a dominant.

No one here is asking men to "bullshyt" their way into anything. In every area or attribute in life there is a "staircase of growth". If it's that important to you, you will have to take the time and travel the path.

 

[Spaz]

Some people were wired that way from young, or their family members were on that wavelength, so that's how a young one can get it. Dominant vs passive is a bunch of habits. People get into jobs where they have to be dominant and they do just fine.



No one here is asking men to "bullshyt" their way into anything. In every area or attribute in life there is a "staircase of growth". If it's that important to you, you will have to take the time and travel the path.

No.

U r born with it, if u r born as a dominant, even if ur entire family is passive, even if ur entire community is passive, u will always display dominant personality traits.

Same goes for those being born a passive, doesn't matter if u r born into an aggressive family or an aggressive society, you will display passive traits.

It's like a lion and a rabbit, doesn't matter how its brought up or where, it will always revert to its inborn traits.

 

[death_wish. .]

No.

U r born with it, if u r born as a dominant, even if ur entire family is passive, even if ur entire community is passive, u will always display dominant personality traits.

Same goes for those being born a passive, doesn't matter if u r born into an aggressive family or an aggressive society, you will display passive traits.

It's like a lion and a rabbit, doesn't matter how its brought up or where, it will always revert to its inborn traits.

i disagree , everything that happens is up to you. we all have a choice being passive is an action , or better yet a lack thereof.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

As an individual I've never had an issue giving complements, it's because i'm secure in myself. I know a few characters who wouldn't give a complement or positive affirmation if you even put a gun to their head. I used to not understand their view, but now i really do. Those same types are likely to be quick to neg you especially behind your back.

The vast majority of those people that neg, blow away like dust in the wind when confronted, any man who speaks ill on my name will hear about it from either me or my buddies, never have I sat idle.

The problem is that men who are raised by single mothers, don't understand the concept of respect, so when they are faced with conflict, they have no will to resolve the conflict, they just want to escalate the situation further because that is all they know.

Another example youll see on this forum, when ideas are challenged, they go straight to insulting you, because they have no concept of respect or how to manage discourse, it's important to call those people out as well, because they are deficient in their ability to have discourse and were raised that way, it's not their fault, but all the same, it needs to be pointed out and corrected, even if just so other members see how new ideas and ways of thinking can be adopted.

This also comes full circle to purpose, as you said, it's never a problem to give out a compliment, because people are the most powerful resource that we have access to, in terms of fulfilling or meeting your purpose, people are the #1 goal, those that lash out, they do themselves no favors and end up actually hurting their purpose, hindering themselves.

The thing is, I know you know all this, yet you persist to offer resistance and I'm not sure why, but I figured I would continue my banter with you, since you are actually going to engage, rather than insult or try to have this attitude of "I don't need to explain myself".

It is also difficult, because many users here probably have great ideas, or experiences, but articulating them is difficult, finding the right words, but I have saw @stringpuller articulate himself very well in other threads, yet offers little opposition, same with OP, I've saw both of them be very articulate, yet they offer nothing here, other than to be idle or not care, so I know they are full of it when I poke at their responses and get no concrete answers.

Maybe you could articulate this idea.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Its interesting, I believe that would require a thread itself.

While Im sure that you are born a leader and that leaders are not made, Im not sure about the fact that you are born either dominant or not and if the answer is yes or not to which degree one could consciously change his direction.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Its interesting, I believe that would require a thread itself.

While Im sure that you are born a leader and that leaders are not made, Im not sure about the fact that you are born either dominant or not and if the answer is yes or not to which degree one could consciously change his direction.

You can be as dominant as you like if unchallenged, anybody can be dominant, not everybody can be challenged, stand their ground and hold onto that dominance.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The vast majority of those people that neg, blow away like dust in the wind when confronted, any man who speaks ill on my name will hear about it from either me or my buddies, never have I sat idle.

The problem is that men who are raised by single mothers, don't understand the concept of respect, so when they are faced with conflict, they have no will to resolve the conflict, they just want to escalate the situation further because that is all they know.

Another example youll see on this forum, when ideas are challenged, they go straight to insulting you, because they have no concept of respect or how to manage discourse, it's important to call those people out as well, because they are deficient in their ability to have discourse and were raised that way, it's not their fault, but all the same, it needs to be pointed out and corrected, even if just so other members see how new ideas and ways of thinking can be adopted.

This also comes full circle to purpose, as you said, it's never a problem to give out a compliment, because people are the most powerful resource that we have access to, in terms of fulfilling or meeting your purpose, people are the #1 goal, those that lash out, they do themselves no favors and end up actually hurting their purpose, hindering themselves.

The thing is, I know you know all this, yet you persist to offer resistance and I'm not sure why, but I figured I would continue my banter with you, since you are actually going to engage, rather than insult or try to have this attitude of "I don't need to explain myself".

It is also difficult, because many users here probably have great ideas, or experiences, but articulating them is difficult, finding the right words, but I have saw @stringpuller articulate himself very well in other threads, yet offers little opposition, same with OP, I've saw both of them be very articulate, yet they offer nothing here, other than to be idle or not care, so I know they are full of it when I poke at their responses and get no concrete answers.

Maybe you could articulate this idea.

The ones who would NEVER issue a complement even if you put a gun to their heads, but would quick to neg especially behind your back are competitive with you and don't want any facet of yourself to be further "ahead" than themselves, even if we are two distinct people. They don't do much at all that might even "accidentally" help you or your case... And any "help" that is appear to have been given usually benefits themselves much more than you.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

The ones who would NEVER issue a complement even if you put a gun to their heads, but would quick to neg especially behind your back are competitive with you and don't want any facet of yourself to be further "ahead" than themselves, even if we are two distinct people. They don't do much at all that might even "accidentally" help you or your case... And any "help" that is appear to have been given usually benefits themselves much more than you.

If you "need" help, I could see you being in this situation, but when you "want" help, you will always have time to shop around for the best deal and it is something you gotta put a lot of time into, but having a network vs. Not having a network, your not even competitive to begin with.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If you "need" help, I could see you being in this situation, but when you "want" help, you will always have time to shop around for the best deal and it is something you gotta put a lot of time into, but having a network vs. Not having a network, your not even competitive to begin with.

I'm not sure how your response had to do with what I was saying. "Having a network" vs "not having a network"?

 

[death_wish. .]

The vast majority of those people that neg, blow away like dust in the wind when confronted, any man who speaks ill on my name will hear about it from either me or my buddies, never have I sat idle.

The problem is that men who are raised by single mothers, don't understand the concept of respect, so when they are faced with conflict, they have no will to resolve the conflict, they just want to escalate the situation further because that is all they know.

Another example youll see on this forum, when ideas are challenged, they go straight to insulting you, because they have no concept of respect or how to manage discourse, it's important to call those people out as well, because they are deficient in their ability to have discourse and were raised that way, it's not their fault, but all the same, it needs to be pointed out and corrected, even if just so other members see how new ideas and ways of thinking can be adopted.

This also comes full circle to purpose, as you said, it's never a problem to give out a compliment, because people are the most powerful resource that we have access to, in terms of fulfilling or meeting your purpose, people are the #1 goal, those that lash out, they do themselves no favors and end up actually hurting their purpose, hindering themselves.

The thing is, I know you know all this, yet you persist to offer resistance and I'm not sure why, but I figured I would continue my banter with you, since you are actually going to engage, rather than insult or try to have this attitude of "I don't need to explain myself".

It is also difficult, because many users here probably have great ideas, or experiences, but articulating them is difficult, finding the right words, but I have saw @stringpuller articulate himself very well in other threads, yet offers little opposition, same with OP, I've saw both of them be very articulate, yet they offer nothing here, other than to be idle or not care, so I know they are full of it when I poke at their responses and get no concrete answers.

Maybe you could articulate this idea.

caps i dont have any problem with you or the fact that you challenged my point, i like it.
i like being sht tested by men and women , because it gives me another chance to show im willing to stand my ground or to prove my point. (which is hey man dont care about the **** you cant change, focus on what you can)not caring doesnt mean bein a punk and letting ppl walk all over you that wasnt it
unless a guy is really trying to take it there and put me or my family or close friends that i care about in danger i dont stress it

my guy mrgoodstuff had a very solid point , why go out and buy **** to try and ''compete''? that social status is gonna take a huge dive if you have to live outside ,all because you wanted to compete.. wisdom trumps all ,
the only ppl out there trying to actively and aggressively compete with me for no reason get no respect, they attract nothing but bad energy , why would you go around picking a fight? cause if you pick the wrong person it can be over.