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I understand that some women could be 'programmed' to respond in a specific way. It's undeniable that generally, human beings follow the masses.

I'm not one of those people considered general or 'normal'. I pride myself in understanding things and digging for reasons behind people's behaviour.

If I am doing something that I don't think is lame but I slowly start to realize that almost everyone thinks it is lame, I will then start to question and ask for the reasons why it is considered lame. It's kind of like interrogating them to see if they really know what the hell they're talking about. If I 'expose' them to be shallow drones, I will then know that it is not me that has a problem but the general population that has a problem. It sucks, but at least I'm content that I'm more enlightened than a lot of other people.

The way I look at it, if I don't think of myself as being lame but all the girls do, then sex for money should suffice. Heck, sex for money should be the best choice if that would to happen. If girls want to degrade themselves to such a level of childish thinking and behaviour, they're not gonna get any from me. They may get it from some other guy but I don't really give a damn. Why? Because I will never compromise myself for some hair-brained slut's pvssy.

And that is why this sort of thing will never get to me. Girls that want to call me lame for stupid reasons will never get me thinking about her.
 

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lol Wow my post inspired a thread

Anyway I'm cool with reading **** on the net, just as girls are cool with reading stuff in Dolly and Cosmo. However, to go to a little society that demonstrates how to pick up women? Do you want them to demonstrate how to eat food as well?

Go out and pick up women yourself. It's not about male vs female. If women went to underground societys on how to deal with men, we would give them the same treatment.

My point is simple: reading this stuff is cool, but becoming a DJ is about having a life and becoming the best man you can be. The men who would go to these workshops are men who:
- Have nothing better to do than to go to something so.. well.. its pretty homo
or
- Base their lives around women. I mean you're going out to learn from others on how to pick-up women? Something wrong with that idea...
 

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Quote : JonJack
It's kind of like interrogating them to see if they really know what the hell they're talking about. If I 'expose' them to be shallow drones

we have alot in common :)

i like getting chicks that i know are programmed hard and messing with the wiring

usually chick will have blank stare on face body frozen as brain scrambled to make sense of control inputs

chick : "omg i'm so confused what do you mean"

translated : my brain has just got the windows blue screen of death and locked up. please rephrase input commands and press the reset button so i can re-boot"

yeah i know i am easily amused :p

Quote : JonJack
If girls want to degrade themselves to such a level of childish thinking and behaviour, they're not gonna get any from me.

i agree with all your post

but to be fair to the dixie chicks

they don't degrade themselves as such

they are programmed to be a certain way

they are too weak to resist and the opposition is too great

many men can say i don't watch tv. but women have a harder time giving up EMOTIONAL sources of programming.

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Because I will never compromise myself for some hair-brained slut's pvssy.

And that is why this sort of thing will never get to me. Girls that want to call me lame for stupid reasons will never get me thinking about her.


i agree

but it creates a dilema when the majority of young women fall into that category


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Originally posted by Lost In Translation

And any man who uses the Jedi arts is a LOSER

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Damn right! Preach it, brother!
Oh... You meant...
Well, preach it anyway.


Jedi = Don Juan

the chick is saying that anyone who uses seduction techniques ( jedi arts ) is a loser

Star wars is cool

but these are not the droids you're looking for thederekeffect1

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Anyway I'm cool with reading **** on the net, just as girls are cool with reading stuff in Dolly and Cosmo. However, to go to a little society that demonstrates how to pick up women? Do you want them to demonstrate how to eat food as well?

Go out and pick up women yourself. It's not about male vs female. If women went to underground societys on how to deal with men, we would give them the same treatment.


women do have underground societies and agendas

look at the feminist movement

you are young and have much to learn

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I mean you're going out to learn from others on how to pick-up women? Something wrong with that idea

when a women reads dolly/cosmo/cleo she LEARNS how to pickup men

you read souave you LEARN how to pickup women

moving your physical body to a room and listening to a speaker on the subject is no different

the brain processes the information and you LEARN

you argument is flawed


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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
i agree

but it creates a dilema when the majority of young women fall into that category
Yeah! It sucks. But that's the price intelligent people and people with conviction have to pay some times. But one thing is for sure though, people will respect you more for it. Even if they disagree with you, they will be aware that it's not that easy to 'get' you. I'm pretty sure too that girls will cling on to a strong personality if you manage to get a chance to 'interrogate' her. Even if she doesn't cling, she'll be fascinated by it.
 

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I am TOTALLY with this man right here. Sometimes I'll ***** a woman out for her feminist hypocrisy and double-standards. Then I usually end up with them in bed, but then again, that just proves my point. The most feminist women are the ones that are the most insecure and choose to follow a media formula of over feminism instead of making her own personality.

Girls have their girl talk about Men. Men have places like Sosuave.

Girls have Cosmo and Seventeen. Men have Playboy, Maxim, and All those newsletters you get from guys like David Deangelo and such.

Girls take their things for granted and set a double standard for men because they are insecure and afraid of a true level playing field.

A real woman, on the other hand, is secure enough in her own capabilities that she will respect a MAN. And that is what this forum has allowed us to develop.

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did you people like, not even read my post, get a grip.
 

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Yeah! It sucks. But that's the price intelligent people and people with conviction have to pay some times. But one thing is for sure though, people will respect you more for it. Even if they disagree with you, they will be aware that it's not that easy to 'get' you. I'm pretty sure too that girls will cling on to a strong personality if you manage to get a chance to 'interrogate' her. Even if she doesn't cling, she'll be fascinated by it.

yes and this is certainly an interesting topic i am still investigating and haven't formed a solid opinion on

people will respect you

but alot of the weaker ones will fear you

which can result in sabotage attempts in various forms

now to focus on young women in particular something else happens

as will all brainwashing/manchurian candidate programming the controllers create passwords(triggers) to access control of the person

it is a defense mechanism to protect the controllers investment

this can best be viewed in the open with the corporate version of mind control

brand loyalty

now alot of young women will actually physically resist getting dressed unless it is an "in brand" clothing item

the corporation spends millions of dollars taking market share

( usually using guerilla mind control tactics and tricks )

such and investment cannot be lost

the programming becomes valuable so does it's host

alot of time and money was spent

manchurian candidates are the same their handlers don't want to lose their investment

so they create passwords ( triggers ) so the person only listens to them

the next thing they do is create defensive programming

and this is an alarming trend i have noticed in young women

their brain REJECTS logic and reason if it threatens the programming

i am not talking about logic in general i know men are logical and women are emotional

i am talking about logic that thier brain interprets as SOMEONE TRYING TO ALTER THE PROGRAMMING

i see another program spring to life

a similar example would be a women's b*tch shields going up fast

women are subject to so much programming from so many different sources it is no wonder so many suffer from some form of mental illness

i know alot of it has to do with them living out of sync with their true nature and DNA

ie. sleeping with 100 men

but i think alot of it is corporate programming to trying to jump on or hack in using a backdoor/trojan into their minds

when you keep laying down code over code over code you are going to get some scambled sh*t

this in manifest in young women having so many mental problems and being so confused

DRONES PROGRAMMING DRONES :

the snowball effect

very well executed programming of a human can result in that person becoming a programmer/propagandist

for example.

in Australia a young man goes to vote

i ask him who is he voting for

he says labour

i say why

he says cause my dad voted Labour and my dads dad voted Labour

i ask him if he knows anything about the policies of issues of the day

he gives me an evil look like he would like to kill me

that is the defense mechanism coming into play

i asked him a question

his brain then questined the programming

he feels pain and discomfort in his head and becomes angry

the program says i am trying to hurt him and blocks all input to his brain from his senses shutting out any discussion on the issue

THE PROGRAMMING IS SAFE

who programmed him ? his father

who programmed his father ? his grandfather

why was the programming successful when neither the father nor grandfather are professional handlers using mind control techniques

BECAUSE THE YOUNG MAN WAS PROGRAMMED FROM BIRTH


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Actually... a damn good thread... may well have changed my opinion of workshops eh... F U LIT :p
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I go to sleep for a couple hours . . .

and this is what I fvcken get!!! I need to sleep less. It is an amazing post and well worth my read. I must personally thank you for this post. If you are ever in Northeast Pennsylvania LIT and I'm 21. I'll buy you a round :p

Hello my Austrailian friend who I always imagine as riding on that giant kangaroo devirginizing all the girls ;)

But on with your post LIT.

If a woman wants to be a witch about PUA's. Then my answer would be one of two things.
A.)
Me: "Sad? Do you read cosmo?"
Her: "Yes... Why?"
Me: "Oh wow, thats sad. You go to learn how to pick up men!"
Her: "well whats sad about that? everyone does it."
Me: "Are you using these tricks of the trade on me right now?"
Her: "Well *confused and disgruntled* no"
Me: "Good, if you did then I would have to use my own tricks of the trades"
Her: "What?!?"
Me: "Yeah, I'm one of those 'losers.'"
Her: "Your disgusting!!!"
Me: "And your not? How? You do the same things that I do only on the opposite sex. Or am I reading something wrong"
Her: "Its just wrong"
Me: "Your calling yourself wrong as well too"
Her: "Uhh... uhh... *brain shorted out*"
Me: "Whats your number" *hands pencil and pen to get the number*

This was just an interesting writing. Now I digress.

Originally posted by Lost In Translation you read souave you LEARN how to pickup women
Really? Of course I learned it but I never used the techniques on women. Why? Because I just self-improved myself until women started approaching me. Did change myself to fit the role women want? Absolutely not! I integrated myself into what I wanted to become. I never became a female getting robot. I still wear gym shorts and a t-shirt even though my girlfriend asked me to wear jeans and a hoody. why? because it is not me. I choose to wear my own clothes and be myself. If she doesn't like it, there is the door. All it takes is a simple pull, walking, and push of that door but she knows that she can't control me on my mindset. She can offer suggestions all she wants.

My girlfriend found out that I was a player. I was very obvious back in the day (no, I was not cheating on her but I got a lot of numbers in front of her).
Convo Time:
Her: "Were you always this good with women?"
Me: "No, I learned from the best"
Her: "What?"
Me: *notices the cosmo* "Yeah, I had to learn it from the best"
Her: "What"
Me: "Yeah I frequent websites that teaches you how to pick up women. Now I'm giving advice at different websites."
Her: "Don't you think that is wierd?"
Me: "No, I got you didn't I?"
Her: ":eek: "Yeah, but its wrong"
Me: :cool: "really? and you got a cosmo in your hand?"
Her: "Ummm... Yeah"
Me: "your doing the same exact thing"
Her: "Ummm..."
Me: "Anywho... [fill in new convo]"

See how easy it is, no games or bullsh!t. I told her that I was and a basically you-can-go-fvck-yourself-if-you-don't-like-it attitude. We have been going out for almost three months and she doesn't bring it up at all to me because she knows its who I am and she knows that she can't change me to stop visiting websites like these.

I'm an ex-player and I am pretty damn proud of it. I got a great girl that is very good.

I have decided that whenever I start dating women that I will be telling them very early in the relationship that I visit websites like these because if they got a bad attitude about it then they are very closed minded and not worth my time. If she is intrigued by this prospect then I say "what you doing on Friday night? :) "

Although the war (I barely notice it), but I did notice how the news medias treat it is pretty damn sad. they make it seem like we are all criminals that should be hunted down. Let them put us all in jails. Let them put the real men in jails. Within three months all the girls will have gotten tired of all the AFC's and want some real men.

We would be sitting there talking about girls and telling stories. The woman would run amok and get us out of there.

Hey if I am considered a criminal then I would use it to my advantage. "Hello women, I am a criminal. Women love the bad boys!" and they say in their devilish tongues "Ooooo comic_relief!!!"

In all honesty though, I came to this website looking how to pick up women but then found a life that was better then my own. I am now here for mainly dispensing advice and self-improvement. Women come with the self-improvement if you wait long enough. They now approach me. I don't do the leg work of starting the relationship. They do it for me. It's how my current relationship worked.

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oh btw, let them try and ruin the DJ's. It will get rid of the fake DJ's and the real DJ's.

The real DJ's wouldn't let this bother them at all because they don't use tricks or tactics. They are true to themselves and follow their own gut.

Fake DJ's use tricks and tactics. they didn't self improve or anything they just wanted to get women and put up a fake facade. They are still an AFC at heart only with a new facade and getting women.

If this post insults you, then maybe you need to look into your own soul at why this insults you. Maybe it will give you your own answers.

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Here's my take on this whole thing:

I believe that regardless of what we are told to think, what type of programming the media is forcing upon us; we are still slaves to our Human Nature.
Even the feminists, underneath it all, are still attracted to the same things that all the other girls are attracted to. They just refuse to accept this as the truth and will say anything to the contrary, but they are only fooling themselves.

I think it's good that some of these things are being exposed. I disagree with the feminist agenda that you described so well, but I think nature will take it's course and this is all a part of a natural Self-Correction, in the dating world.

The PUA's are mostly geeks (or former geeks) who use methods and tactics to pick up women. Alot of these "tricks" are being used over and over and have become stale, and I see the secret society's cover being blown as a neccessity to get them to develop some more covert methods.

The Don Juan mindset will survive through all this, no matter what... because we don't use any tricks. It's all about being a real man, and acting accordingly. Anyone can put on a facade and get laid..... very few men can adopt this lifestyle and mindset we endorse for the longterm. Many of the guys on here are still AFC's and will forever be that way... they just find ways to sidestep their weaknesses for a short while, but always end up back to square one.

The guys need to stop relying on parlour tricks and NLP, and kino and all this stupid jargon and get back to what it's all about. The Real Man will always survive against the feminist agenda. They can fool themseleves into thinking that they are controlling us, but we know better.
 

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
The Don Juan mindset will survive through all this, no matter what... because we don't use any tricks. It's all about being a real man, and acting accordingly. Anyone can put on a facade and get laid..... very few men can adopt this lifestyle and mindset we endorse for the longterm.
bravo, encore encore

This was what I was trying to say in that big mess of jumbled words of the above posts.

very nice post

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I'm going to give some brutally honest feedback on this topic. It's likely to make some of you very angry...but those who listen carefully and value my honesty stand to learn and grow from what I'm going to say.

IF you guys really act as many of you claim to act with women/girls you can't be having anywhere near the level of success many of you claim to be having.

Most of you come off as posers and fakes...trying to be something or someone you just aren't. You come on here insulting each other, ripping each other apart and trying to one up each other in order to give some lame ass impression of being "alpha" on this web site. You aren't competing with each other for the same girls, so being that way with each other is not only ignorant, it's counterproductive. You're wasting the space here that could be much better utilized if you would all just drop the act and be REAL with each other. Some of you do that, but most of you are faking it with each other. It makes you come off as being frauds, weak and to be quite frank...rather pathetic.

If you truly want to turn things around for yourself and be more successful with the opposite sex you MUST make REAL changes. You can't make those changes if you put on an act and fake it here. You don't grow that way and all your actions out in the field look forced, unnatural and sharp women will spot that a mile away and reject you because of it.

You guys have to work on YOU and learn some social skills with EACH OTHER and grow as men. That's not really happening here. Men who have their act together don't act like victims, blame others for their own mistakes or bad choices. Men don't act like women. Women are emotional, catty, hysterical, complain, and obsess over stupid little things. Most of them do, anyway. The majority of the men on here are behaving like women. You've got to get beyond that and become mature men who act like men. No, that doesn't mean acting "alpha" or being a jerk or ass. It means being dignified, having a life of your own, goals, setting yourself up for success in all areas of life.

The mind set here is bad for all of you. Most of you just want to go out and use and hurt women to "get even". It's retarded. Karma is a biotch and doing that will come back and bite you in the ass hard. That's what's happening. Too many of the guys in the "seduction community" are out there behaving badly. The media is telling women what the men are up to and those who hear it have their guard up. Why? Because they are getting treated badly by guys in your community.

You guys need to remember how important it is to treat girls and women the way you would like them to treat you...because in the end, it's all going to come back to you.

Use this site to become better men, not bigger jerks.

Over the past few months the crap I read on here has lowered my view of men in general. I actually look for signs of a guy being involved in the seduction community and if I see the signs I want nothing to do with them. Why? Because what I have been seeing on this site tells me that men in this community are assh0les who lie, cheat, mistreat and aren't worth my time or energy. Is that how you want women to view you? I would hope not. Unfortunately, that is exactly how I view MOST of you. You could have all the money in the world and be perfect in every way but I still wouldn't date any of you because you talk, act and think like jackasses. Again...not all of you...but far too many.

Somewhere along the way the goal of becoming better men got lost. You need to get that back.

I've been here to try to help you guys since I joined back in 2001. This site used to have high quality men who were using this community to help each other better themselves in all areas. They weren't hateful and mean to each other and didn't hate on women like happens here now. The quality of posts was much higher too.

Anyway...you guys can turn it around if you really want to...but you'll have to drop the fake puffery and posturing with each other and just be real for that to happen.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I've been here to try to help you guys since I joined back in 2001. This site used to have high quality men who were using this community to help each other better themselves in all areas. They weren't hateful and mean to each other and didn't hate on women like happens here now. The quality of posts was much higher too.

That part is the mindset I adopt and have been talking about. I agree 100% with what you're saying. Some guys on here are bitter and just want to get even.

I miss the old days when there was no bickering, and there was a real sense of community.


Excellent post, Wyld.
 

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
That part is the mindset I adopt and have been talking about. I agree 100% with what you're saying. Some guys on here are bitter and just want to get even.

I miss the old days when there was no bickering, and there was a real sense of community.


Excellent post, Wyld.
Thanks...I've been doing all the arguing and harsh posting as of late because I have seen these problems for a very long time now and am trying to do my part to turn it around. This site would be phenomenal IF all the posers, fakers and frauds would just stop that crap and be REAL with each other. All the anger and bitterness sucks the place down into a self-destructive cesspool, too. More people need to see it, acknowledge the problem and do their part to fix it. Hopefully enough people will care enough to do that. If not...well, it's only going to get worse.
 

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So... Let's say I'm a jedi and the feminist's are the storm troopers...

(Friend in background: Get over the f*cking line about Jedi's already! *throws shoe at me*)
 

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Re:

You guys have to work on YOU and learn some social skills with EACH OTHER and grow as men. That's not really happening here. Men who have their act together don't act like victims, blame others for their own mistakes or bad choices. Men don't act like women. Women are emotional, catty, hysterical, complain, and obsess over stupid little things. Most of them do, anyway. The majority of the men on here are behaving like women. You've got to get beyond that and become mature men who act like men. No, that doesn't mean acting "alpha" or being a jerk or ass. It means being dignified, having a life of your own, goals, setting yourself up for success in all areas of life.

THAT's where I agree.

Men.
Boys.

First, being a victim IS not manly. And fvck being manly, it's not even positive. It's not productive.

PLEASE, someone tell me something I do not know? That there might be an agenda? That men go unappreciated by all but the close few people in their lives? That newspapers report nothing but BAD news and BAD emotions?

It's like doing a report, but offering no suggestions, no conclusions, no improvements. Perhaps the main reason most guys here was the symptoms of the preceeding 20 posts or so.

The victim mentality IS not attractive. The blame mentality will not get you ANY girl. The "get-even" or "fvck-chicks" mentality is negative. Do you realize, that to harbor bad attitudes REQUIRES you to be negative?? That you must be bitter?? You cannot be POSITIVE (happy) and be NEGATIVE (pissed, upset, depressed) in the same state. You can achieve anything, while being hamstrung by issues with women, secret corporate agendas, or a hoe that hurt you 5 years ago.

THAT is my point. Wyldfire pointed it out, i'm driving it home. That...maybe you're right...say you are in fact 1000% right. What now? Reenact fight club and dismantle society? Overthrow the country? Out of 300,000,000 who'd move it an inch. CHANGE COMES FROM WITHIN.

That's not just some NEW AGE MUMBO JUMBO. That's real. Because your positive or negative vibes are INFECTIOUS. Right now the post you wrote, the negative connotations surrounding this issue must create negative feelings and energy in you. So as I said, YES karma DOES come around.

How?

To be negative, to spit virtriolic posts at others REQUIRES you to be negative. And negative likes negative. Negative people like negative people. Therefore, you don't elevate your energy levels, you drag them down and keep them down. And it becomes a vicious cycle that YOU GET WHAT YOU WANT.

ON the surface, you might SAY "I want hot chicks, good friends, and blah, blah" but if you're deeper energy level, and deeper feelings speak differently, you'll get what those deeper feelings hide.

It's said, because most people can't see it unfolding...they can't see that IT's THEY who are their worst enemy. While it may or may not occur, it only matters WHO it bothers. We're all guys part of 1 site and many others. Yet some of us are getting results, and other's aren't. Why is that?

Attitude. Not some fake self-defense shield that you carry around you along with your "Don Juan Membership" firmly entrenched in your brain giving you greater heights of arrogance, BUT a positive attitude that you KNOW YOU CONTROL YOUR OWN EMOTIONAL STATE. That's control.

A crisis only gets worse because people run around with their heads cut off and their emotions loose.

Fights get worse because someone elevates it. Things get worse when we counter negative emotions, engage in them, and act back with them.

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I'm sure it was a well-written post, well-researched, too. But tell me, pointing out the flaws about society or movements or women, don't advance us 1 bit. In fact, it drops us several levels in positive energy, AND drops the respectability of the site.

NOT all girls are bad...you guys are so stuck in your own mess and mud and excuses that you can't get out of your own way. Plus, if you're following the TRUE pua community into bars and clubs, WHAT DO YOU EXPECT TO GET?

You think a girl who CARED about her body would waste 5+ hours boozing, smoking, and doing drugs? I mean CARES...

FARK no. She might SOCIALLY drink, but she's no booze-aholic that spends hours @ those places, otherwise she'll look like a beat pair of leather shoes.

You think a girl who's into TRADITIONAL RELATIONSHIPS or MAN-in-charge type stuff would be found there?

HECK no! You may luck out and strike the lottery and find her...but you're elusive HB10 , or even 9, or maybe even 8 will be there. She WILL have SOME fvcked up problem with her. Believe me. Some turn off, or some character flaw that will be the DOWNFALL of your relationship. Mark that down.

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Clubs and bars require 1 thing of a woman: looks. That's it. So tell me, any woman who invests heavil in her looks, does she have any OTHER redeeming qualities that balance her out? Make her worthwhile?

Eh, no. She's investing in looks, and KNOWS guys accept women on looks, so she can weigh that out. Guys...if you know you could get the girl of your dreams but just being @ the gym. No decent job. No personality. No money. Just your appearance...what would you do with yourself?

You'd get some 'roids, get a crappy part-time job to pay for them, and live at the gym and tanning salon. You'd buy inexpensive designer clothes @ Marshalls and just go to places where lots of women are.

Isn't this what women, a good portion of them are REACTING to? I mean...for as long as I know, women have always been what they thought men liked. Otherwise, they'd probably go out in sweat pants and t shirts. For real. But they don't. Magazines and tv shows SHOW women how to be like the stars we oggle over, and then they got, dress like them, and WALLA! They're empty, vapid, but beautiful! Yay! Get your rocks off, then you find out she's a mistrusting, asset-stealing, lying, cheating, useless, talentless, bytch. OF COURSE! Any woman who ONLY works on her outerself will have no inner self worth being with!

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The SUMMARY of all posts, from 00kevin, Rollo, Westcoaster, and myself is as thus....


You CONTROL your emotional state. Nobody else does. Negative begets negative. Positive begets positive. You can only be one emotion at one time. The longer you're one, the less likely you'll be the other.

Empty, vapid, useless, beautiful women exist, and most men are trained to go after them, BUT USE CAUTION! You claim to be a better man, a DJ, but who cares if you score, if the game, or prize is meaningless??

Picking women up represents EVERYTHING wrong with it. That alone should motivate you NOW, to not only get off the site for awhile, but get a life. Stop obsessing OVER women. You can't THINK and DO at the same time. You can't be working your game and USING it.

Gaming people is philosophically and spiritually OPPOSITE of universal law. Meaning, if you're trying to "one up" me, like you would getting a woman, you just imbalanced EVERYTHING. Energies. Power. Respect. That'd be like God screwing with your life, when he already has immense power. It'd just be wrong. That's what men do and they wonder WHY. How can you simultaneously try to score a GOOD woman with BAD emotions inside? You know it, you feel it, you sense the evil and the bad, yet you act, and wonder why nothing good is born. OF COURSE...good only comes from good!

The purity of life is to NOT be motivated by past actions. Do NOT let past BAD gf's or flings or FWB's motivate you to become someone you're not. That's paying it BACKWARD. What kind of progression exists if you're hurt, and you seek to hurt people, too? Who have you become? Are you better than who you were? Are you better than the person that hurt you?

The focus is on you...UNTIL you committ, then it's on US (You/she). Right now, it's you. Most guys make it on her...well from now, because isn't that why the site exists? Most of you guys BYTCH about no results, not enough PUA...but that's all about HER. Being about you is doing your own thing, and if a woman seeks to make plans, or seems worth your time AND committs, she won't beat around the bush! You guys tolerating flakes are dumb. Sure, you might reschedule, but come on...she flakes now, what happens in a year? In a month? During a holiday? SEE IT COMING!

He might have been scripted well and played by a decent actor, but Van Wilder's ATTITUDE and IMAGE is a perfect ideal of a DJ (at least for the young). He wasn't a gamer. He didn't one up anyone. He was pure to the moment. He was honest and genuine and laid-back. Isn't a book the same way? Don't they seek to paint ideals? Haven't we done the same with relatively UNPROVEN DJ methods? A DJ method isn't even a method.

A group of you guys should be able to get together, go out have fun, and meet chicks OR NOT meet chicks and be ok. You know how many times I went out with friends and they met someone, or I met someone, or we both did?? TONS of times. But I never went out with the explicit purpose of GAMING anyone. For me, that's when it happened most. Buy into it or don't. Maybe there are positive PUA's with sophisticated skills that make women feel things they want to feel, and don't fvck up the universe in the process...I've yet to me one and I hear nothing but BAD things about dudes like that.



Done.


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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
why was the programming successful when neither the father nor grandfather are professional handlers using mind control techniques

BECAUSE THE YOUNG MAN WAS PROGRAMMED FROM BIRTH
I can relate as to many other men who have been programmed from birth and are trying to de-program ourseleves. T.V IS EVIL!!EVIILLLLL I TELL YOU ( I sound like grandpa Simpson I know lol).

When you hear the same constant message over and over again you eventually accept it as the truth. To try and question that message will only lead to confusion and discomfert and thus when you "get with the program" everything will be ok.

One message that has stuck to me over the years was Husband-Wife relationship in marriage. We know what the message is: "When a husband is dissatisfied with Marriage he is obviously a jerk and too lazy to fix it and its his fault". "When a woman is dissatified with her marriage it is the HUSBAND's FAULT!!" - I don't know where I got this but for some reasons I believed this message throughout my life! I don't know how it got there but it did and I am sure most of us know this message pretty well. The message only accept a woman's fault when she confesses to her actions.

Is it any wonder that men are running to the hills when they hear the word "marriage"?? The message clearly states that it will be our fault if a relationship or a marriage goes sour and we must be like A WOMAN by surrendering our balls and become castrated. Women also believe that message and they believe that guys need to get with the program and become "more enlighten and new age" so they can finally understand woman and become better husbands. We all know its a double edged sword. If you don't act like the message says, your porgrammed wife will start to b1tch and complain that you are not "intune with her needs and that you are a caveman" but once you start to be what she wants you to be, her interest rate in you will drop and she will think of you as "pathetic, loser who can't do anything right"!!! - THE MESSAGE IS FAKE! THE MESSAGE IS MEANT TO DESTORY NOT TO CREATE HAPPINESSS!! IT IS THE OUTCOME!!

Look at t.v shows like Operah and Dr Phil. The audience is like 99% women with only 2-4 guys in the audience (2 of them are gay). What does a man suppose to do when he hears stuff like "women's violence on the rise! women are being raped every day! men make up 90& of all violent crimes!! ...... slowly the message is being translated = ALL MEN ARE EVIL. When ever there is an accusation of minority of men doing something bad to women, the message comes out to say that : ALL MALE GENDER ARE EVIL".

Our institutions such as colleges and universities are also corrupt. More and more male professors are calling themesleves "feminists" and more lesbian and feminists professors are teaching the class through the feminist agenda. Every female professor I ever had gave me a hard time. I remember standing in line outside one female feminist proff office waiting for her to explain to me why I got such a low mark on the exam. I see a guy in there talking to her, he was a thin frail metrosexual with a lisp (could have been gay as well, its hard to tell them apart sometimes) and she was in a very joyful mood, talking and laughing with him (it seems like he was able to change his mark). He walks out and I come in and her smile turned upside down and she was cold towards me and did not agree with me that my mark should have changed, because my views were different then hers . THEY ARE NOT HAPPY TO SEE WHEN A MALE STUDENT DOES NOT GET WITH THE PROGRAM AND DOES NOT BECOME MORE FEMININE AND REJECTS HIS MASCULINITY! IT IS THEIR DUTY TO SEND OUT THE MESSAGE SO THAT THEY CAN MOLD US AND CONTROL US VIA MATRIARCHAL SOCIETY.

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