The Logbook of an Aspiring Casanova

[Krassus]

It's time i started being honest with myself when it comes to seduction, and while i'm at it, i might as well let you guys in on it too. Over the winter months, i've allowed myself to slowly wander off the path i took in early 2003 when i found this site and started paying serious attention to seduction for the first time in my life.

Now it's time for me to get back on track, and stay there for good. So i've made the promise to put the best possible effort into seduction, and do everything in my power to seduce every girl i run into that i happen to want. I'm leaving no room for excuses, such as lack of opportunity. If there isn't one, i'll create it, regardless of what it takes. But enough talking, let's get started.


FRIDAY, JUNE 18, 2004
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- went into an company's office with the intention of picking up a check and asking the receptionist (whom i nicknamed Leeloo because of her resemblance to the Fifth Element girl) out to lunch. Unfortunately, i found her talking to the company's co-owner, and since i didn't want to risk our (mine and his) business relationship by making myself look like a playboy, i decided that lunch can wait until the next time i see her in a few weeks.
- stopped by downtown to grab a pita and walked around for 15 minutes while eating it without seeing a single attractive girl. Stumbled onto a square where some guy was doing a live act with fire and a chainsaw. Asked him if he needed a volunteer and he agreed. Made the entire crowd laugh a couple of times and noticed a cute asian girl checking me out. Was gonna approach her after, but the people she was apparently waiting for arrived and she left.
- walking off the parking lot and ran into another asian girl, who was walking past me in the opposite direction, so i had to stop her. Chatted very briefly because i was in a hurry to the bank, tried to number close, but didn't get it because i rushed the whole thing and asked for the digits after only 20 seconds or so. She looked like she would have definitely went for it had i put more effort into her. Made a mental note to spend at least 2-3 minutes talking to the girl before going for the number, even if i'm in a hurry.
- buying groceries at the store, purposely picked the lineup that had a cute portugese cashier, and when my turn came, asked her a couple of questions and went for the number. Utter lost cause, probably taken, or really hates players - would have never went for it regardless of what other approaches i may have used instead.


SATURDAY, JUNE 19, 2004
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- went out to a club last night, but arrived after midnight, so it was technically saturday Had an absolutely fantastic time dancing for about 4 hours. Johan Gielen (hard house / trance) from Holland dropped some incredible tunes that night. The crowd was great, and i probably knew two dozen people there so that made it even more fun! Did some really daring approaches just for the hell of it, but most girls were with their boyfriends or AFC friends so dancing is about as far as we got. There were some single hotties in the R&B room, but i can't stand commercial hip hop and no pvssy on earth could make me spend the night there Absolutely fantastic night though, i'm going clubbing again next week!
- a friend of mine and i were driving around downtown this afternoon and noticed that several streets were blocked off and a large area prepared for an outdoor concert. So we parked and went at it. They were only practicing today for tomorrow night's show, but the crowd was huge. I have never, EVER, seen a higher concentration of gorgeous women anywhere. It was exhillerating - i felt like a kid in a candy store! Since my friend isn't into seduction, i practiced solo approaches on groups of women groups of women and men. Dammit, i was on fire! Approached a total of at least a dozen groups. C&F was flowing smoothly and my humor seemed to infect the crowd. The number of people i made laugh out loud there was well over a hundred. Got tons of hungry looks from girls and number closes too. On the side, i also played the rejection game while going to and from the concert area, by approaching random women with silly one-liners. Surprisingly enough, i got nearly a dozen positive reactions and only about 2-3 girls ignored me. All in all, that experience can be summed up with three words: colossal fvcking success. We're going back tomorrow night for the actual show! My god, i can only imagine...

 

[[look]aRhino]

Good for you. I'll be reading your reports and I'll join you in 3 weeks after I move. Good luck.

Rhino

 

[neobrood]

I understand. Thats the problem when it comes to pickin up girls in public places... from complete stranger to getting their number... omg...

You REALLY need to have some skillz to pull that off.

 

[Diggs]

Krassus, I need some motivation, give me some assignments to become a cassanova. I fell this is the best way to get me goin. I need a trainer.

What you use as an opener. Do you use one or do u wing it. I am in the same boat as you as i want to become a DJ bigtime, having trouble getting out there. Thanks again.

 

[Duke]

First off, props to you Krassus. Field experience is the most fundamental and necessary aspect of becoming a REAL DJ. The beginning preface to your post is very similar to the preface of my Duke Progress Journal. I slacked off and got pissed at myself for letting my skills wane so much. So now I am back in action!

Nice job volunteering for the street act. Shows you have guts and are adventerous . You're willing to let a dude with fire and a fukkin' chainsaw mess with you? Well damn! You shouldn't have ANY trouble with HBs.

About your approaches:
Yeah, you need to display some value before she is willing to give you her number. 30 seconds really isn't enough time to do this.

As for the second approach...
Originally posted by Krassus

"Utter lost cause, probably taken, or really hates players - would have never went for it regardless of what other approaches i may have used instead."

Why do you believe that she is a "lost cause"? Why do you believe that she is probably taken? I'm confused about this. You shouldn't sell yourself short or assume that she's taken based on looks alone (not saying you are). But explain this more.

In response to neobrood:
Yeah, cold approaches are tough at first. That's why it's good to take baby-steps. Start off with the goal of just making eye contact. Then proceed to eye contact-smile-"Hi". Then proceed to eye-contact-smile-"Hi"-convo opener. Once you've got all this down, things get much easier.

Find something relatable about the environment.

Restaurant example:

*You walk over to HB who is eating*
DJ: Hey, how's it going? I see you're eating (whatever food). That happens to be one of my favorite dishes at this place. But it's pretty much all I eat over here and I want to get your opinion on WHAT ELSE is good at this place.

HB: Oh (whatever food) is good too!

DJ: Really? I sure hope so. If take a bite and I'm like "This is nasty!!" then I'm never gonna talk to you again!

HB: Hahaha, okay.

*start to walk away*

DJ: Oh yeah, I almost forgot. I'm (your name).

*offer hand*

HB: I'm ___.

DJ: Okay, (name), I'll take your word for it! This better be good!
If it IS, then I might want to talk to you again. How can I reach you?

*HB gives digits*

If she tells you that it's ALSO the only thing that she eats...

DJ: Hahaha, wow that's weird! You and I have really good taste! Tell you what, I will pick out something new. I'll let you know how it is...


In a checkout line and PU the girl in front of you... comment on an item in her basket

If PU a store cashier, EMPATHIZE. Reading Senor Fingers' posts on EMPATHY really helped me out a lot. For those who remember, he talked about how his friend got free shyt from K-mart just by empathizing. Fingers himself made the bartender his friend by putting himself in the bartender's shoes and going, "Woo, crazy night tonight, huh?".

That's how I approached a cashier at a grocery store. A kid was crying nonstop in another checkout line.

Duke: Wow! I CANNOT see how anyone could stand an entire day of this!!

HB: Haha, don't you love it?

From there an entire conversation about grocery stores broke out. At the time, I was ignorant of conversation leading, but I got her to open up to me just by empathizing. Actually, empathy works on anyone, regardless of whether or not they are doing a particular job.

For example, you see an HB rushing around the mall with bags of clothes.

You make eye contact, smile, and "Hey"

DJ: Haha, you are doing some major power-walking!

HB: Haha, yeah.

DJ: Are you in a hurry, or do you just like the exercise?

Budda bing! You flow with what she gives you.

HB: No, haha, I'm not in a hurry.

DJ: Cool. I'm NEVER gonna knock a chick if she makes the effort to exercise. What's your name?
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HB: Yeah, actually I am in a hurry.

DJ: What for?

HB: Blah blah blah

DJ: Ah, now I understand why you've got so much pep in your step. Well hey, my name's (your name). I'd like to talk to you about something later. How can I reach you?

HB: What do you want to talk to me about?

DJ: You're in a hurry and I am, too. So I really don't have time to explain it now.
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Of course when she GIVES you her number, you call her. She will be dying to know why you wanted to talk to her. At which point you tell her that whenever you saw her, you knew that there was just "SOMETHING" about her (keep it vague ) that persuaded you to stop her and talk to her. And that you'd like to get to know her on (action date).

Cheers
Duke

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by [look]aRhino
Good for you. I'll be reading your reports and I'll join you in 3 weeks after I move. Good luck.

Rhino

Moving to Toronto? Awesome!

Originally posted by neobrood
from complete stranger to getting their number... omg...

Stranger trying to get their number, huh? Damn, you're right, thanks for the insight. Personally, i don't see people as strangers, but rather potential friends/lovers, but i've forgotten that most girls don't see the world in that light. I can't change the way they see the world, but i can change the image of myself i project to them when i approach so that it falls within their acceptable spectrum of values/principles.

Originally posted by Diggs
Krassus, I need some motivation, give me some assignments to become a cassanova. I fell this is the best way to get me goin. I need a trainer.

What you use as an opener. Do you use one or do u wing it. I am in the same boat as you as i want to become a DJ bigtime, having trouble getting out there. Thanks again.

Effort is the one thing that stands between where you are now and where you want to be. Once you put in the required number of hours, you'll achieve what you want. It's that simple, provided that you spend those hours doing the right things - DOING, not READING.

Before you can really start seducing, you must be comfortable with women, because no matter what skills you have, if you're the least bit nervous, they'll feel it and become nervous too and that's when you crash and burn. So you gotta focus on your number one enemy, fear of rejection and wipe it out. It doesn't take months or years to do, if you really want to, you can do it in a day. You can literally be someone who's too chicken to approach a girl in the morning to someone who feels like he's spent his entire life around women by the evening.

Walk out of your house and approach a girl. When you see her, make your feet walk over to her and then it'll be too late and you'll have to say something. No matter what happens, you'll realize that you actually feel GOOD after. That's right, even if that was a complete crash and burn, you're gonna feel great because you had the balls to pull it off. Now rinse and repeat a few dozen times. Just walk off in any direction and approach every beautiful girl.

I had to do this when i first started clubbing - if you dig around in my post history, you'll see a field report about a night where i approached about 40 women in a club in one night. After that, my fear of rejection was gone. I can now pick any girl, in any situation in a club, do anything, say anything, and absolutely not care. I'm trying to get to that same level with street approaches but it's harder because i can't FIND 40 hot women to approach in a couple of hours. So i have to do one or two at a time. Slowly but surely though, i'll get there!

Don't worry about what you say, worry about the fact whether you say it or not. You can just say 'hi' or if you feel like being a smartass, pull off something like 'hey you, did you really think i was just gonna let you walk by me without something?' Doesn't matter, leave that for later. Focus on doing, not thinking of doing.

 

[Krassus]

You're willing to let a dude with fire and a fukkin' chainsaw mess with you? Well damn! You shouldn't have ANY trouble with HBs.

Hahah, at one point in time he pointed at me and went "REMEMBER EVERYONE... THIS... THIS COULD HAVE BEEN YOU!" Holy sh1t, i almost died of laughter.

Why do you believe that she is a "lost cause"? Why do you believe that she is probably taken? I'm confused about this. You shouldn't sell yourself short or assume that she's taken based on looks alone (not saying you are). But explain this more.

Body language. You can tell when a girl absolutely, positively, doesn't want to meet you.

Thanks for the tips man, that's some solid stuff. I remember reading Fing's post ages ago, but i'll give it another look. I remember it being a good one!

 

[Krassus]

SUNDAY, JUNE 27
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Well, that was one uneventful week, female-wise anyway! If i've learned anything from reading the entries (or rather, noticing the lack of them) in my own logbook, it's that i should start putting myself in their way a hell of a lot more often! I literally didn't meet a single hot girl this whole week. Granted, my standards are pretty high, but still!

On Saturday, i wanted to hit up that downtown area i spoke to highly of last week, but we ended up going to an amusement park instead, hoping it would be even better. Sadly, although there were tons of cute girls there, they were all 14-15 tops. In six hours, we didn't find a single cutie our age, let alone a group of em! Next Saturday, i'm definitely heading downtown!

Called a girl up earlier tonight and talked for 10 minutes or so. I've gotten a lot better at phone convos in the last several weeks, and can now fluff talk and make girls laugh effortlessly - she really sounded like she was loving every minute of it. Practice is paying off, but i still gotta learn how to learn even more about them while revealing even less about myself.

In the end though, she flaked when i asked her to meet me next week. I screwed up that part though, so i've got no one to blame but myself. When asking her out, i momentarily lost my 'i don't give a fvck' attitude and sounded just a bit needy, which she surely felt. She said she'd call, but we all know what that means. Called two more, but their cell phones were off. Saving one for tomorrow.

 

[Krassus]

MONDAY, JUNE 28
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I met a girl at the mall about a month ago; i'll refer to her as HBTennis from now on, since that's what she's into, just like me. Called her two weeks later, but she had exams and couldn't meet. That was two weeks ago, and i finally called her again today. We're gonna meet for a game this Thursday. Finally, a chick to play tennis with... She's better be good!

 

[Krassus]

THURSDAY, JULY 1 2004
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It's Canada Day, so everyone's off. I was supposed to meet HBTennis for a game, but she said she got a cold from swimming in the lake and couldn't play. To her credit, she did sound pretty sick. So i headed down to the courts solo, as there are always plenty of people there who would play. But they had a tournament going, so all the courts were in use. Walked around for 10 minutes and watched them play, hoping a blonde girl who seemed hot from far away would get off the court so i could meet her. She finally did, but she didn't look nearly as good up-close. A buddy dropped by and we went for a walk by the beach, since that's where the courts are. The place was absolutely packed. Saw 2-3 cute girls during our 10-minute walk, but since they were 8 tops, didn't bother doing the 'stop girls who are walking in the opposite direction' pickup. Now that i think back to it, i should have done it just for practice, even though they weren't hot enough to be worth the effort.

We finally arrived to an area of the beach where people were playing volleyball on the sand. My god! Hundreds of nets, thousands of people! Countless cute girls in tiny bikinis everywhere. We ran into some friends of his, who introduced me to the game and taught me how to play. Had an awesome time there for two hours. Definitely heading back as soon as possible. This time, i'll just pick the net that has the cutest girls, walk up to them and invite myself in for a game. This is gonna be awesome - my advice to everyone who lives near the beach is to get into this sport. It's incredibly fun, you get a great tan and meet lots of beautiful women. Nothing else i can think of can compare to this.

CONTINUED

Went back to the same area later tonight, this time to watch fireworks with three friends. On the way, ran into an HB9 who was with a guy and his girlfriend. Since i was in a hurry, i just said 'hey, love the top' in a very suggestive voice. Later on that night, realized that i always meet the hottest and most interested women when i'm ON THE WAY to a place where i plan to pick up, not while actually there. Next time, i'll stop and get to know her. So i met up with the guys and we chilled and tried to pick up some girls, but quickly realized what a bad idea it is to approach groups of 2-3 girls with 4 guys. They end up getting smothered and scared off. No more of this. On the way back, i was so bored that i yelled out "I WANT SOME ASS" off the top of my lungs in a crowd. Surprisingly enough, some girl yelled back "WHATS YOUR NAME?" But it was dark and she was lost in a crowd pretty far off, so that was it. Shoulda looked for her.

 

[Krassus]

FRIDAY, JULY 02 2004
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More volleyball! We don't have our own net, so we had to join another group at the beach. After awhile, i spotted a few girls about 75 feet away, walked over to them and pointed at our group. "Alright, i've walked THIS far to invite you to play, now you GOTTA join us!" Then just turned around and left. They gathered their stuff and went over to join us. Later on, their guy friends came over and they went to play with them for awhile, but then we got kicked off our net (their friends came) so we went to play with them again. One of the girls was digging me, but you could tell her anti-slut defense was up because of all her friends being there. I was almost certian i'd crash & burn, but i went for a # close in front of all of em (couldn't isolate) and needless to say, she flaked. Had an awesome time playing nonetheless!

 

[Krassus]

SUNDAY, JULY 04, 2004
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Hit up the beach for two hours of volleyball with a buddy of mine. Got a killer tan and met a Thai HB8.5 who plays volleyball and, gasp, tennis too. Funny because just hours earlier, i was telling that same friend how much i want to meet a Thai girl. Met a Romanian girl too, but she was only a 7. @closed both nonetheless.

 

[Krassus]

TUESDAY JULY 6, 2004
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Detailed report on solo beach sarging mission to be found here:

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/read?163153,24

 

[Krassus]

TUESDAY, JULY 06 2004
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Field report reposted from fastseduction by request.







I've recently been introduced to beach volleyball by a friend of mine, and have been hooked since. The combination of sand, sunshine, competition and women is hard to beat, after all. I've only been a couple of times, but always with friends. Today, i was driving home from work, and figured i'd see who's at the beach and have a few games.

I arrived to find several games in progress, but all of the teams were even (2v2, 3v3, etc) so i couldn't join. Perfect excuse to pick up women! If i could find 1 or 3 to join me, we could get into any game and keep the teams balanced. I spotted three Asian girls (UG5Chinese, HB8Japanese, HB9Filipino) sitting and smoking on the sand, and immediately went up to them.

I didn't waste any time and immediately asked them if they wanted to play. They seemed enthusiastic, even asked me if i wanted to lie down with them, but i said i felt like playing and we started looking around for a game. All the while, i was talking to all three of them, and that went along perfectly. Aloof, confident, funny, all the good stuff. Also had a quick chat with a few guys who passed by, asking them if they had a net and such - they didn't and were in the same shoes as me.

Anyway, I knew better than to ignore UG6Chinese, so i gave her equal attention and she didn't stand in my way. However, when i first asked HB8Japanese how old she was, she said 20 and winked at her friends. I grinned and told her she wasn't 20, and when she asked why, i told her that i saw her wink, to which she replied that the sun was in her eyes. Then HB9Filipino pointed out that the sun was behind her and we all started cracking up.

Finally i spotted some people setting up a new net about 200 feet away, left my shoes with the girls (to give me a reason to come back there if anything), who were now laying down on their towels, and went over there to ask if we could join. There were two guys and two girls at the new net and they said we're welcome to join. So i looked in the girls' direction, and noticed HB9Filipino sitting up and watching me. I waved to her and she waved back. I figured they'd start packing up now, so i started watching the game, but when i turned around, they were still laying there.

So i walked over there and told them that if they didn't get up immediately, i'd drag them there down by one by their ankles. They started cracking up and the other two started getting up, while HB8Japanese continued laying there. So i proceeded to call her a pampered little princess and splashed a few drops of cold water on her legs, which made her get up pretty quickly. She seemed the least enthusiastic of all of em the entire time, and now said she'll just watch since she can't play because of asthma. I called her on her **** because i saw her smoking, which she tried denying but stopped mid-sentence when she realized i saw her. Her friends started giggling.

So they all finally got up and started walking, but i walked on ahead and started playing. They finally got there, stood around watching and hotly debating something, then went to sit at another place 30 meters away. After a few minutes, i walked up to them and asked what's up, but at that point they all said they can't play for whatever stupid reasons. So i got tired of listening to their bull****, turned around and went to play.

The two girls on the net i joined were HB7Blondie and HB9Portugese, both with their guy friends. I talked to all of em for awhile, but the opportunity to isolate HB9Portugese never turned up, so i couldn't really get anything going. After an hour, i called it quits and walked to my car, quickly saying bye to the three Asians, who were still sitting there, on the way.

Alright, so what do you guys make of all this? I think my initial approach was smooth as silk, easily one of the best i've ever done, but i made some serious mistakes later on. HB9Filipino was definitely interested in me and i should have found a way to get her alone? (*TELL ME HOW?*) The mistakes i managed to find myself are as follows, please point out more if you see any, as that's the reason i'm posting this in the first place:

1) I shouldn't have bothered pointing out that HB8Japanese was bull****ting, even playfully and lightheartedly. All that accomplished was letting her know that i think she's a liar, and that her chances to get with me are now significantly lower than HB9Filipina's, who was a lot cuter as well, and seemed like a sweetheart.
2) I shouldn't have found a group with 2 guys and 2 girls for us to join. When the 3 Asians arrived, they probably thought the two guys are already taken, which once again leaves HB9Filipino to me, and the other two with nothing to do. That could have been the reason they went to sit at a different place instead of playing. After all, they DID come over to that net for a reason?

3) I should have asked HB9Portugese if she and the guy were a couple, even though they would both be present while i asked. If not, then i could go for @ or #close. Worst case, she'd get her anti-slut defense up and i'd get shot down.

4) I should have found a way to isolate HB9Filipino. I allowed HB8Japanese to get to me and when i said bye to them in the end, i didn't even realize she was no longer there. The way HB9Filipino said bye back sounded kinda sad (presumably because she knew that this was it), and only in the car did i realize that i should have sat down and talked to her.

5) In general, i think i sometimes come off as a little too strong and/or too jerk-like sometimes. My C&F may be a little too hard on chicks with very low self-esteem, like HB8Japanese. I always smile while using C&F to make sure they understand i'm not being serious, but i just realized that because of how busy the background is on the beach, they sometimes miss my facial expression and only hear what i said, causing them to get slightly offended.

 

[Krassus]

SATURDAY, JULY 10 2004
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Went clubbing with a couple of mates. The music was fantastic - DJ Dan and Bad Boy Bill (house) rocked the club to the ground. But unfortunately, there was a severe lack of beautiful women at that party. This is often the case in Toronto clubs, but this was just pushing it. I should give myself a hifive for effort though - since the only hotties at that club were employed by it, i actually approached and had some laughs with nearly every one of them. Hell, i even got to know most of the bouncers and security. And a few drug dealers Had a blast dancing for several hours: sometimes solo, sometimes with girls, and on a raised platform both solo and with girls.

SUNDAY, JULY 11 2004
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Woke up and went to play volleyball on the beach. Met up with a few beach buddies of mine and had a few games. Noticed some girls checking us out from far off, waved to them, and then after the game ended, went up to them and asked them to play. Now here's a little something i learned: a girl you meet at the beach will ALWAYS give you a reason she can't join you (and) your friends because she doesn't wanna seem like the kinda girl who goes to the beach to get picked up, even if she is. It's usually something really stupid like "i'm afraid of the ball" or "i didn't bring my shades." Just laugh at the sillyness of their excuse and tell them you expect them to join you anyway. This is the way it ALWAYS goes. I always get a stupid excuse, always laugh at it, and they always join me anyway.

I finally got around to calling the Filipina i met on June 18 (read that day's entry). Damn, i've been sitting on her number for three weeks Everything went smooth as silk. I asked her how she's doing, made her laugh a few times and asked her to go see a movie with me next week. She agreed immediately. I love Filipinas

 

[Hollowpoint]

Good stuff, now keep up the good work and post more success stories.

Originally posted by Krassus
FRIDAY, JULY 02 2004
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More volleyball! We don't have our own net, so we had to join another group at the beach. After awhile, i spotted a few girls about 75 feet away, walked over to them and pointed at our group. "Alright, i've walked THIS far to invite you to play, now you GOTTA join us!" Then just turned around and left. They gathered their stuff and went over to join us. Later on, their guy friends came over and they went to play with them for awhile, but then we got kicked off our net (their friends came) so we went to play with them again. One of the girls was digging me, but you could tell her anti-slut defense was up because of all her friends being there. I was almost certian i'd crash & burn, but i went for a # close in front of all of em (couldn't isolate) and needless to say, she flaked. Had an awesome time playing nonetheless!

That was good stuff noticing them man. And getting them to come over.

That volleyball thing worked.....except those "pricks" had to kick us out. Maybe next time we should jump around a bit, go in this area, go in that area. Build sand castles like FuzzX?
( http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=54629 )

I was able to convince those two girls to come play with us again, said "hi again!", then I started to turn back to our game, but stopped and acted spontaneous and brightened up while saying "hey! why don't you two come play with us again!"

They said they were tired, and "didn't know"
A bit of teasing, then saying how good they were.
They should come and have some fun.

Then ordering them saying "Ok, let's go!" And they started getting their stuff. Then those "pricks" (who were nice, prick is a joking endearment...) kicked us out. So one of them said "hey why don't you guys come play with us!?!"

Well.......not gonna turn that down.



It was nearing closing time for both our groups anyways. Hard to chat up women who are dehydrate when you are dehydrated yourself. ARGHHHH!!!!

Anyways I've worked on that, becoming more interesting with conversations.

 

[Hollowpoint]

"not if you dump the body!"

 

[Krassus]

WEDNESDAY, JULY 14 2004
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LAY REPORT

Remember the Filipina i met at the street concert and finally called three weeks later? I'm starting to like her. Back when we met, asked her a few questions then waited for her to reinitiate (we were both in a crowd watching the concert) and she did. When i asked her out, she was very flexible and agreed right away. When i called and left a message the day of the date, she called back as soon as she got it. And she followed up with an excellent first date too. I picked her up and we drove to catch a flick at 10. C&F flowed well as she's got a kickass sense of humor. When we were on the escalator at the theatre, i jokingly accused her of checking out my ass, etc. Heavy, heavy kino during the movie. I had my hands under her shirt and played with her bra strap. When she asked me what the hell i was doing, i said 'boys will be boys' and went at it again. When the movie ended, we went to this little place at the park. It's got all these huge rocks and a waterfall. I sat on a rock by the water, she got on top, took off her shirt and the rest is history.

 

[Krassus]

FRIDAY, JULY 15 2004
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Hit up the beach for volleyball solo. Joined a group with HB7. Didn't really want her, but for the sake of practice, hit her with some in-game C&F and during breaks, set myself apart from the other AFCs who kept talking about their jobs, and did my own thing with her. When one of the guys left and our teams ended up being unbalanced, i spotted a cute Asian girl who was sitting with a guy about 2 minutes away, and went straight towards her. Did my standard opener: "I've walked THIS far just to ask you to play, now you HAVE to go," completely ignoring the guy. But she said she's just there to chill and doesn't even play. When i got back to the group, one of the guys confirmed that she's lazy as hell and always just sits there. She kept staring at me from far-off after, but i didn't feel like putting in the effort to go over there again. And besides, if she wanted to get to know me, she had the chance. I played for two hours and called it quits. Hit the streets and did some solo sarging. Saw a girl using an ATM inside the bank, walked in and introduced myself. Seemed friendly, but we didn't get anywhere since she was 'traditional' Asian who are scared of my type like fire. Saw another girl working inside a salon and walked right in. Opened with C&F, telling her not to worry because i wasn't there to buy a wig (they had a bunch on the wall.) Made no excuses and said i was passing by and she caught my eye. Turned out she had a boyfriend, but we had a good convo anyway. Got some practice with eliciting values and reflecting values.

 

[Krassus]

FRIDAY, JULY 17 2004
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Spotted a Filipino HB8.5 with an UG5 friend watching a live fire act on a small street. Ignored the 3s rule, which would have meant walking right up to them, in favor of slowly trying to walk over to them unnoticed. Acted like a damn pvssy and paid the price - about 8 seconds later, the act was over and they walked away. I wished someone was there to kick me in the balls for that right there and then. What the fvck was i thinking, especially after the kind of approaches i pulled off yesterday?!

Went to play volleyball again. Spotted a four-set of HB8-9s, but couldn't invite em over because the owner of the net didn't want to do 6v6. Lesson learned: buying my own damn net next week.

On the way home, i was still pissed off for not picking up the Filipina, so when i saw some girl walking down the sidwalk, i slammed the breaks, got out of the car, and went up to her with the directions opener. My failure earlier that day made me anxious and my delivery took a huge hit. As a result, i didn't even get a @/# close, which is pretty rare for me. Regardless, this put me back on track and paved the way for what happened next. While we're on the subject: THIS is how fear is handled. Instead of sitting there and trying to analyze it, grab it by the fvcking balls and tear em off! Do something audacious like what i just described and you'll be free of it.

So after getting shot down, and feeling like a million bucks because i had the balls to try, i went off to grab dinner. Recently, i learned what a good idea it is to minimize driving and maximize walking. The more time you spend on the streets, and the less time in the car, the more opportunities you'll get. So whenever i go somewhere, i purposely park as far as possible. I did it again this time and boy did it pay off! After walking three blocks without seeing a single target, all of a sudden i saw HB9Indian who also saw me and... TRIPPED! So i walked right up to her and started busting her balls about it. She laughed it off and... used the same damn directions line on me as i used on the sidewalk girl earlier. Oh, the irony! We walked together for a few minutes and i @closed her. She was definitely into me, even inviting me to join her at a book store (the directions to which i gave her) right then and there, but i was starving, and passed it up.