The Logbook of an Aspiring Casanova
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[look]aRhino
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Awesome man. You're an inspiration.
Keep posting. I'd like to know how you're doing with it.
rhino
Keep posting. I'd like to know how you're doing with it.
rhino
THURSDAY, JULY 22 2004
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Went out with HBConcert again. Played some pool then headed to my place for the night. We're now officially FB. I'm gonna train her as a female wingman. This should be interesting to say the least.
FRIDAY, JULY 23 2004
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It was Friday afternoon and i still hadn't slept since waking up on Thursday morning. I was still slightly hung over from the night before and just got off work. Still, for some reason, i felt energetic so i went to the beach for some volleyball. Ran into the Asian beach bum mentioned in July 15th update.
She agreed to have a game this time. Funny girl but she wasn't wearing shades this time and her face turned out to be 7 tops. Her guy friend ****blocked me by jokingly calling me a stalker but i was so disinterested at her at this point that i didn't even bother with a smart-ass comeback like 'quit trying to blow my cover, a$$hole'
Talked to a few more girls but they're not really noteworthy.
Drove downtown to grab a bite, then stopped by the square, where some crappy band was holding a free public performance. Scoped out the targets and saw two opportunities - two separate girls sitting by themselves. Picked the Asian one (surprise surprise) - just walked up, sat beside her and said 'hey, you look bored.' Talked for a bit then extracted to an Xbox stand nearby. Good practice but she was only 7.5 so i didn't # close when her cell rang and she said she had to run cuz the friends she was waiting for are finally here. Come to think of it, i shoulda joined her in case her friends were any good. She seemed really interested and woulda made em jealous. Making a mental note to stop being an idiot
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Went out with HBConcert again. Played some pool then headed to my place for the night. We're now officially FB. I'm gonna train her as a female wingman. This should be interesting to say the least.
FRIDAY, JULY 23 2004
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It was Friday afternoon and i still hadn't slept since waking up on Thursday morning. I was still slightly hung over from the night before and just got off work. Still, for some reason, i felt energetic so i went to the beach for some volleyball. Ran into the Asian beach bum mentioned in July 15th update.
She agreed to have a game this time. Funny girl but she wasn't wearing shades this time and her face turned out to be 7 tops. Her guy friend ****blocked me by jokingly calling me a stalker but i was so disinterested at her at this point that i didn't even bother with a smart-ass comeback like 'quit trying to blow my cover, a$$hole'
Talked to a few more girls but they're not really noteworthy.Drove downtown to grab a bite, then stopped by the square, where some crappy band was holding a free public performance. Scoped out the targets and saw two opportunities - two separate girls sitting by themselves. Picked the Asian one (surprise surprise) - just walked up, sat beside her and said 'hey, you look bored.' Talked for a bit then extracted to an Xbox stand nearby. Good practice but she was only 7.5 so i didn't # close when her cell rang and she said she had to run cuz the friends she was waiting for are finally here. Come to think of it, i shoulda joined her in case her friends were any good. She seemed really interested and woulda made em jealous. Making a mental note to stop being an idiot
SATURDAY, JULY 24 2004
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Was feeling pretty sick so i decided to stay home, but of course people started calling and trying to convince me to go to this big club event. Just past midnight, i finally gave in. Then i remembered that i've been meaning to introduce my lone FB HBConcert to clubbing and make her my wingwoman, so i called her up and she agreed to go. But when we got there, the bouncer wouldn't accept her id and she didn't have another one so we crashed at her place with a DVD and a bottle of Polar Ice. Turned out to be a great night (and morning!)... she's a quick learner
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Was feeling pretty sick so i decided to stay home, but of course people started calling and trying to convince me to go to this big club event. Just past midnight, i finally gave in. Then i remembered that i've been meaning to introduce my lone FB HBConcert to clubbing and make her my wingwoman, so i called her up and she agreed to go. But when we got there, the bouncer wouldn't accept her id and she didn't have another one so we crashed at her place with a DVD and a bottle of Polar Ice. Turned out to be a great night (and morning!)... she's a quick learner
SUNDAY, JULY 1 2004
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Looking back at the week, i'd have to say i spent way too much time with one girl and way too little time being out there and getting to know others. I've only spent one day with her, but when you've only got free time during 2-3 days, that's a lot. So naturally, when i hit the beach with one of my wingmen today, i realized that my skills have gotten a little rusty. I'm starting to realize that someone who's as new to the game as me has to constantly practice to stay in the zone. Anyway, i did my usual warmup where i'd say random silly one-liners to people i pass by and make em laugh. Then we hit the sand strip by the water and i did a few interesting openers.
1. A two-set of Asian HB8 and 8.5. They were laying there and talking to eachother. I walked up, sat down right next to them and opened them with my very own Fake Directions opener. It's basically the directions opener with a twist. The twist is that you make it so very obviously fake and laugh at the sillyness of using such a canny approach to pick up girls. It projects the 'i make no excuses for being a man' attitude and makes em laugh. Killer stuff. Talked for about 10 minutes and # closed.
2. Awhile later, i saw an HB7.5 checking me out. She wasn't particularly hot, but she was laying down with three guys so i went for it because of the challenge. I made myself crash and burn on purpose to kill of fear of rejection. Basically went in there with complete caveman style and opened with "what do i have to do to steal you away from these three?" You shoulda seen their faces! Priceless. I've never opened an HB with three guys before and i feel great knowing that i've finally done it.
3. Approached a girl who was reading her book. Short convo because i realized that she doesn't turn me on at all.
Plus a buncha other small approaches i can't think of right now. Not bad for a total of about 15 minutes of my time. We spent the rest of the day playing volleyball, but the girls we played with were only 7's and i didn't bother # closing.
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Looking back at the week, i'd have to say i spent way too much time with one girl and way too little time being out there and getting to know others. I've only spent one day with her, but when you've only got free time during 2-3 days, that's a lot. So naturally, when i hit the beach with one of my wingmen today, i realized that my skills have gotten a little rusty. I'm starting to realize that someone who's as new to the game as me has to constantly practice to stay in the zone. Anyway, i did my usual warmup where i'd say random silly one-liners to people i pass by and make em laugh. Then we hit the sand strip by the water and i did a few interesting openers.
1. A two-set of Asian HB8 and 8.5. They were laying there and talking to eachother. I walked up, sat down right next to them and opened them with my very own Fake Directions opener. It's basically the directions opener with a twist. The twist is that you make it so very obviously fake and laugh at the sillyness of using such a canny approach to pick up girls. It projects the 'i make no excuses for being a man' attitude and makes em laugh. Killer stuff. Talked for about 10 minutes and # closed.
2. Awhile later, i saw an HB7.5 checking me out. She wasn't particularly hot, but she was laying down with three guys so i went for it because of the challenge. I made myself crash and burn on purpose to kill of fear of rejection. Basically went in there with complete caveman style and opened with "what do i have to do to steal you away from these three?" You shoulda seen their faces! Priceless. I've never opened an HB with three guys before and i feel great knowing that i've finally done it.
3. Approached a girl who was reading her book. Short convo because i realized that she doesn't turn me on at all.
Plus a buncha other small approaches i can't think of right now. Not bad for a total of about 15 minutes of my time. We spent the rest of the day playing volleyball, but the girls we played with were only 7's and i didn't bother # closing.
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Awesome man! You're making me miss the thrill of the hunt! Keep inspiring our new DJs bro with your excellent reports.
MONDAY, JULY 9 2004
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Spotted a blonde HB9 with an UG5 friend chilling by themselves in a 'loungy' part of a pool hall on my way to the washroom. Figured i'd open them on my way back to the pool table after the washroom. Perfect opportunity to test out the 'Brush or Floss' (trust me, its better than it sounds) opener. Two other guys were in the washroom though, and i thought to myself that they better not be with those two girls i saw outside. Surely enough, when they walk out, i hear em go 'alright ladies, it's time.' Arggh dammit! In other news, i called up a girl i recently met and got "this number has not been assigned." WTF? She called me from this number too, so it's legit. Damn women forgetting to pay their bills!
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Spotted a blonde HB9 with an UG5 friend chilling by themselves in a 'loungy' part of a pool hall on my way to the washroom. Figured i'd open them on my way back to the pool table after the washroom. Perfect opportunity to test out the 'Brush or Floss' (trust me, its better than it sounds) opener. Two other guys were in the washroom though, and i thought to myself that they better not be with those two girls i saw outside. Surely enough, when they walk out, i hear em go 'alright ladies, it's time.' Arggh dammit!
In other news, i called up a girl i recently met and got "this number has not been assigned." WTF? She called me from this number too, so it's legit. Damn women forgetting to pay their bills!SATURDAY, AUGUST 14, 2004
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Me and my wingman hooked up with a bunch of Korean girls on the beach for a game of volleyball. I had my game down solid that day. My target was laughing hysterically at even my weakest jokes and jumping at any attempt to ask me questions and get to know me. Eventually, their friends wandered off, leaving my target, her friend, me and my wingman alone. Things were going great up until another buddy of mine showed up with his friend. Then a series of mistakes followed from both me and him that completely ruined everything. Ah well, lesson learned. On the downside, every Korean girl on that beach thinks we're players now.
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Me and my wingman hooked up with a bunch of Korean girls on the beach for a game of volleyball. I had my game down solid that day. My target was laughing hysterically at even my weakest jokes and jumping at any attempt to ask me questions and get to know me. Eventually, their friends wandered off, leaving my target, her friend, me and my wingman alone. Things were going great up until another buddy of mine showed up with his friend. Then a series of mistakes followed from both me and him that completely ruined everything. Ah well, lesson learned. On the downside, every Korean girl on that beach thinks we're players now.
FRIDAY, AUGUST 20 2004
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The weather was terrible, but i decided to be a soldier and went to play volleyball with a wingman anyway. Man, i've NEVER seen people on the beach this unfriendly! It musta been the gloomy weather or something, but wow. The captain of one of the teams we asked to join us for a game responded with raising his palm towards us and going 'it's fine.' Man, what a contrast to all the smiles and laughter i'm used to on the beach! Never in hell am i going there during the rain again.
Was supposed to go clubbing later that night with a wingman and some friends, but he couldn't make it so i just went with them instead. Oh how i needed a good wingman that night! Girls were pretty damn friendly and i talked to many. One target that stood out was a blonde in a stunning blue dress. To give you an idea of how hot she was: that was the only white girl i've ever bothered approaching in a club since i've got a serious case of Asian fever, LOL!
Anyway, i opened with 'so what do guys usually say when they hit on you,' she laughed and said she wouldn't know since it's her first time here. Cracked a few more jokes, made her laugh, then did a takeaway and went back to my friends, started laughing and dancing with them. With my peripheral vision, I saw her moving closer and closer to us and slowly starting to face us during the next several minutes, but as it turns out, i overdid the takeaway. Just when (after ten minutes) i finally decided to start acknowledging her presence again, i turned around and realized she was gone!
Next i opened a 4-set of Asian girls and the three of my buddies joined me. I was doing great with my target, but these guys were complete AFCs, and one of them (who was completely drunk) said something to her friend that just ruined the whole thing. Ah well, lesson learned!
SATURDAY, AUGUST 21 2004
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Got up bright and early (alright, more like around noon lol) and hit up the beach with another wingman. Pure natural style, opening whatever strangers i saw on the way. Ironically enough, i later realized that the first girl i opened that day was one i've previously #closed. Guess that explains why she said hey to me first. Man, she musta been pretty weirded out when i just walked off on her after making her laugh (that was one of those approaches without a hidden agenda to #close or whatever).
Small world, huh? It gets better! Later that day, i ran into my fvckbuddy. I shook her hand.. and only when she told me her name did i RECOGNIZE her! OMG! I have no idea how i managed to play it off with C&F because i was SHOCKED inside! I tried to pick up my own fvckbuddy! LOL!
Approached a two-set of girls who were laying down and tanning later on but it came off really un-natural and their reaction was understandable. Not that it was negative, but it was a far cry from what i usually get. Ah well, good practice anyhow!
Got home, changed and met up with some buddies of mine. It was a friend's birthday and we headed to a bar to watch the big UFC fight between Belfort and Couture. I managed to convince the owner to let us use the VIP room, so we got to watch it on a 19-foot projection screen. Had an absolutely amazing time hanging out with the guys, drinking beer and eating chicken wings No cuties at that bar except for the bartender. Funny girl! I neg-hitted her and then asked for water with no ice. She put a glass of water WITH ice in front of me and went 'here you go.. water, NO ice." Hahah!
SUNDAY, AUGUST 22 2004
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Woke up so late that by the time i got to the beach, it was already almost 6PM! It was still packed, but most people were in the process of... packing Found one group with a buncha guys and a cute Asian girl. Joined em for a few games and had a blast! Played doubles with her versus the two other guys and then switched around. Somehow ended up beating everyone there even though they had 4-5 years experience and i have 4-5 weeks. Such a showoff, aren't i?
After the game, got some really solid group entertaining / center of attention practice. There were four of them and i kept their attention focused on me, kept them interacted and laughing for at least 10-15 minutes. Dropped a bunch of stories and built up interaction and rapport. Unfortunatley, i ended up finding out that the girl turned 16 three days ago, and since i'll be 21 in a few weeks, i decided to pass on the number close.
Met up with three wingmen and went to play pool right after. Briefly talked to the barista on my way past the bar to the washroom. Some girl who was playing at the table next to us tried talking to me, but since she was only about a 6, i just introduced myself and then ignored her for the rest of the night. She used the weirdest opener ever. "Are you Jack?" Haha, come to think of it, it's not that bad. I'll spice it up a little and try using it as a discreet opener that looks like you're not opening at all. Not my style at all, but could work with really shy girls who would get scared off by a guy who actually does have the balls to approach. Then again, i don't really like their type. Ugh, nevermind
Later on, we hit the streets and pretty much opened every set we saw. Single girls, girls in groups, girls with guys. Whatever. Great fun, i love opening strangers and doing cold pickups! Gotta do this again during the daytime. On the way to the car, we ended up at a bar talking and taking pictures with a bunch of chicks who were promoting some kinda event sponsored by a beer company. It was almost 1AM and i was still in my volleyball shorts, so i decided to jet. They did too, though they really shoulda stayed - the chicks seemed to be digging us. Ah well, only a million others out there
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The weather was terrible, but i decided to be a soldier and went to play volleyball with a wingman anyway. Man, i've NEVER seen people on the beach this unfriendly! It musta been the gloomy weather or something, but wow. The captain of one of the teams we asked to join us for a game responded with raising his palm towards us and going 'it's fine.' Man, what a contrast to all the smiles and laughter i'm used to on the beach! Never in hell am i going there during the rain again.
Was supposed to go clubbing later that night with a wingman and some friends, but he couldn't make it so i just went with them instead. Oh how i needed a good wingman that night! Girls were pretty damn friendly and i talked to many. One target that stood out was a blonde in a stunning blue dress. To give you an idea of how hot she was: that was the only white girl i've ever bothered approaching in a club since i've got a serious case of Asian fever, LOL!
Anyway, i opened with 'so what do guys usually say when they hit on you,' she laughed and said she wouldn't know since it's her first time here. Cracked a few more jokes, made her laugh, then did a takeaway and went back to my friends, started laughing and dancing with them. With my peripheral vision, I saw her moving closer and closer to us and slowly starting to face us during the next several minutes, but as it turns out, i overdid the takeaway. Just when (after ten minutes) i finally decided to start acknowledging her presence again, i turned around and realized she was gone!
Next i opened a 4-set of Asian girls and the three of my buddies joined me. I was doing great with my target, but these guys were complete AFCs, and one of them (who was completely drunk) said something to her friend that just ruined the whole thing. Ah well, lesson learned!
SATURDAY, AUGUST 21 2004
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Got up bright and early (alright, more like around noon lol) and hit up the beach with another wingman. Pure natural style, opening whatever strangers i saw on the way. Ironically enough, i later realized that the first girl i opened that day was one i've previously #closed. Guess that explains why she said hey to me first. Man, she musta been pretty weirded out when i just walked off on her after making her laugh (that was one of those approaches without a hidden agenda to #close or whatever).
Small world, huh? It gets better! Later that day, i ran into my fvckbuddy. I shook her hand.. and only when she told me her name did i RECOGNIZE her! OMG! I have no idea how i managed to play it off with C&F because i was SHOCKED inside! I tried to pick up my own fvckbuddy! LOL!
Approached a two-set of girls who were laying down and tanning later on but it came off really un-natural and their reaction was understandable. Not that it was negative, but it was a far cry from what i usually get. Ah well, good practice anyhow!
Got home, changed and met up with some buddies of mine. It was a friend's birthday and we headed to a bar to watch the big UFC fight between Belfort and Couture. I managed to convince the owner to let us use the VIP room, so we got to watch it on a 19-foot projection screen. Had an absolutely amazing time hanging out with the guys, drinking beer and eating chicken wings
No cuties at that bar except for the bartender. Funny girl! I neg-hitted her and then asked for water with no ice. She put a glass of water WITH ice in front of me and went 'here you go.. water, NO ice." Hahah!SUNDAY, AUGUST 22 2004
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Woke up so late that by the time i got to the beach, it was already almost 6PM! It was still packed, but most people were in the process of... packing
Found one group with a buncha guys and a cute Asian girl. Joined em for a few games and had a blast! Played doubles with her versus the two other guys and then switched around. Somehow ended up beating everyone there even though they had 4-5 years experience and i have 4-5 weeks. Such a showoff, aren't i? After the game, got some really solid group entertaining / center of attention practice. There were four of them and i kept their attention focused on me, kept them interacted and laughing for at least 10-15 minutes. Dropped a bunch of stories and built up interaction and rapport. Unfortunatley, i ended up finding out that the girl turned 16 three days ago, and since i'll be 21 in a few weeks, i decided to pass on the number close.
Met up with three wingmen and went to play pool right after. Briefly talked to the barista on my way past the bar to the washroom. Some girl who was playing at the table next to us tried talking to me, but since she was only about a 6, i just introduced myself and then ignored her for the rest of the night. She used the weirdest opener ever. "Are you Jack?" Haha, come to think of it, it's not that bad. I'll spice it up a little and try using it as a discreet opener that looks like you're not opening at all. Not my style at all, but could work with really shy girls who would get scared off by a guy who actually does have the balls to approach. Then again, i don't really like their type. Ugh, nevermind
Later on, we hit the streets and pretty much opened every set we saw. Single girls, girls in groups, girls with guys. Whatever. Great fun, i love opening strangers and doing cold pickups! Gotta do this again during the daytime. On the way to the car, we ended up at a bar talking and taking pictures with a bunch of chicks who were promoting some kinda event sponsored by a beer company. It was almost 1AM and i was still in my volleyball shorts, so i decided to jet. They did too, though they really shoulda stayed - the chicks seemed to be digging us. Ah well, only a million others out there
SATURDAY, AUGUST 27 2004
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FR: Dancefloor, patio and street pickup madness!
IN THIS FIELD REPORT:
- An intro to make myself look cool
- dancefloor approaches
disqualifying AFCs
stealing girls away from guys
humor and takeaways
- patio approaches:
opening sets of 2-6
opening mixed sets of 4-8
- using dynamic openers
two new openers included
- street approaches sets 2-3
- street approaches mixed sets
opening mixed sets on street
stealing girls out of mixed sets
Goddamn, what a night! For the first time ever, i can honestly say that i have deep, unshakable faith in the fact that I’m on the way to attaining mastery of the game. Some may say that i'm just getting started, but i say the train is flying down the tracks and nothing in this world can stop it! It’s only a matter of time now, dammit!
But enough of that, let's get to the juicy stuff! For so long, i've been reading and hearing about the well-known PUA masters pulling off stuff like this, and have managed to do it myself here and there, but never so many times in a single night!
And to think i actually considered staying home because i hadn't slept the night before. To hell with excuses! If you’re awake and not doing something to get you closer to attaining your goals, whatever they may be, you’re wasting your damn time!
The night started when i got together with three of my wingmen. We hit up an Asian nightclub in the heart of Toronto's entertainment district. Me and one of the wingmen ended up being the only white guys in the entire club, and since we both have Asian fever, I think I speak for both of us when I say we felt like a couple of kids in a ToysRUs!
Upon entering, we hit the dancefloor! It was pretty small so during our stay on this level of the club, we pretty much mixed and matched the entire time. I’d open a few sets with one wingman, then go solo for awhile, then hook up with another one or chill with some insta-friends I made in the club or the lineup.
Something I wanted to practice was taking girls away from guys. I accomplished this in many ways. They ranged from simply telling the hovering AFCs that she’s my girlfriend to grabbing the girl’s arm, spinning her and pulling her away from them. “You owe me for saving you from that guy! Bigtime! How are you gonna make it up to me?” This was fun as hell. But man, I pissed a lot of guys off!
The dancefloor contained the usual mix of hot and cold reactions, lots of dancing, grinding, screaming off the top of our lungs, stealing girls away all that other fun stuff. About an hour after entering, I observed that most of the girls over HB7.5 were in places other than the dancefloor, so me and a wingman excused ourselves from a 3-set we were grinding and moved on.
As I walked up to the bar, I immediately noticed a really tall, well-dressed SHB. It’s not often that you see a 6-foot Asian girl, so she really stood out. We’ll call her HBModel. I was walking solo at this point and noticed another wingman of mine hovering around her. I gave him a minute to approach, but when he didn’t, I went for it. I decided to pretend that I assumed they know each other since they’re standing so close to each other. So I put one hand on his shoulder, the other on hers:
Me: Hey Ryan, are you gonna introduce me to your friend?
Her: Oh.. we don’t know eachother J
Me: Ahh! Well, I’m Max, this is Ryan.
<we shake hands and exchange greetings, then Ryan turns away for some reason, so I decided to snatch her up. Didn’t feel like saying anything fancy because it was too loud, so I got right to the point and took her hand>
Me: We’re gonna go dance
Her: I have a boyfriend! He’s right over there *points at group of AMOGs*
Me: No way? My boyfriend’s there too! He says I should have fun and meet new people tonight!
Her: Blah blah blah
<I realized this wasn’t a ****-test and she really did have a boyfriend>
Me: OMG, you’re so shy! Later, chicken! Hahah!
Remember this girl, as we’ll come back to her later. Anyway, somewhat social-proofed by my association with the SHB, I approached a 3-set about 5 meters away. Got the girl to lean in and told her she looks too serious and should try smiling more. She started giggling. We talked briefly, and I did a takeaway. As I walked off, I ran into another wingman and completely forgot about the 3-set when he said that this place has a rooftop patio! Off we went!
Finally, air! It was so hot and humid downstairs! I felt so alive and went right at it! We immediately walked up to a 6-set of HB8+ and opened with Mystery’s Brush or Floss Opener for the first time:
Me: What’s happenin guys?
Them: *greetings, neutral faces*
Me: We need your opinion on something, this’ll only take a minute. Me and my friend here were having an argument and we need a female perspective.
Them: *very focused, some smiling*
Me: Its actually pretty serious stuff. A matter of life and death! You see, your answers could potentially change our entire lives!
Them: *some start giggling*
Me: Are you ready for this? Here goes… Do you brush before flossing… or floss before brushing?
Them: *start cracking up, some start answering when the alpha female interrupts and answers me*
<At this point, my wingman should have engaged the rest of the group, but he didn’t and they noticed that she’s going after me and I’m engaged in convo with her, and turned somewhat away>
We fluffed for a bit, then I did a takeaway. I was planning to return to her later, but something happened that I didn’t expect. But before that, I ran into another really tall well-dressed girl that reminded me of HBModel downstairs.
Me: Hey, lemme ask you something. What do guys usually say when they hit on you here?
Her: It’s actually only my second time here so I don’t really know
<we fluffed for a bit and then HBModel walks up to us! It turned out they were friends. No wonder, they looked similar enough to even be sisters!>
But this is where the unexpected event I mentioned earlier occurred. A scuffle broke out. I did a takeaway with the 2-set of SHBs, immediately came up with the Tickets Opener and started approaching more sets and jokingly trying to sell them front-row tickets to a big fight that was obviously brewing.
Then all hell broke loose! The bouncers jumped in and one of them who was new, got freaked out and started spraying people with pepper-spray left and right! At least a half-dozen people got hit, including 2-3 bouncers who came running up to the bar I was standing beside and screaming “WATER! WATER!” Naturally, I didn’t wait for the bartender to help and handed over my bottle so they could pour it into their eyes.
After things settled down and the instigators got dragged away, I came up with the Bodyguard Opener and put it to use! I field-tested it solo and then duo on at least a half-dozen sets right then and there. Worked great especially since me and my wingman were both dressed pure black. Here’s the opener: “With all the stuff going on here tonight, I think you guys could use some bodyguards! We’re freelancers and for a flat-rate fee of $10 a head, we’ll follow you around looking really mean and serious, and fight off any guys with pepper spray.” I’ll use this in the future, but replace the ending with ‘any guys who try to hit on you.’
Our success rate was 100% with this opener as far as initial reactions go. Actually, we had no negative/neutral reactions on the patio at all. The people in this club were incredibly friendly. People on the dance floor seemed a lot friendlier and more receptive than usual as well. This may have something to do with the fact that they’re from a different culture, and there aren’t as many AMOGs pissing girls off and grabbing their asses. About 20 minutes after the fight, the security closed down the club and we hit the streets.
I spotted a 3-set walking in the opposite direction down the street, ran up to them, and started walking backwards with my face turned towards them. The set turned out to be made up of HB8+:
Me: Man, you guys have such a cute group dynamic going here! You’re just like the Powerpuff Girls!
Them: *start cracking up hysterically*
<first time using this opener.. woah, talk about good reaction>
Me: I’m serious! Which one of you is Bubbles?
HB8Spanish: *starts doing kungfu moves and claiming she’s Bubbles*
Me: Awesome! You’re tough, I’m gonna have you watch my back since I’m walking backwards and am bound to run into something!
HB8Spanish: *agrees enthusiastically*
Me: Wait, but how do I know that I can trust you? I just met you!
HB8Spanish: *starts qualifying herself and saying she’s a good, trustworthy person*
Me: Is she talling the truth? Can you guys vouch for her?
Man, I HAD this 3-set by the (proverbial) balls! And then my cell rang! Arghh! One of the wingmen I lost just exited the club and was waiting for me back at the entrance. So I had to jet. Come to think of it, I shoulda went for #close anyway - HB8Spanish seemed real interested!
So the four of us reunited outside the club and one of my wingmen went home. The remaining trio hit the streets, approaching every girl we saw. Some fairly ordinary approaches here, so I’ll more right on to what I think is the coolest pickup of the night. We walked by a set of 3 guys and 2 girls who were chilling by a building, when my wingman stopped me and said we should have approached. He’s right, we should have! I turned around, walked back to them and opened with Floss or Brush.
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FR: Dancefloor, patio and street pickup madness!
IN THIS FIELD REPORT:
- An intro to make myself look cool
- dancefloor approaches
disqualifying AFCs
stealing girls away from guys
humor and takeaways
- patio approaches:
opening sets of 2-6
opening mixed sets of 4-8
- using dynamic openers
two new openers included
- street approaches sets 2-3
- street approaches mixed sets
opening mixed sets on street
stealing girls out of mixed sets
Goddamn, what a night! For the first time ever, i can honestly say that i have deep, unshakable faith in the fact that I’m on the way to attaining mastery of the game. Some may say that i'm just getting started, but i say the train is flying down the tracks and nothing in this world can stop it! It’s only a matter of time now, dammit!
But enough of that, let's get to the juicy stuff! For so long, i've been reading and hearing about the well-known PUA masters pulling off stuff like this, and have managed to do it myself here and there, but never so many times in a single night!
And to think i actually considered staying home because i hadn't slept the night before. To hell with excuses! If you’re awake and not doing something to get you closer to attaining your goals, whatever they may be, you’re wasting your damn time!
The night started when i got together with three of my wingmen. We hit up an Asian nightclub in the heart of Toronto's entertainment district. Me and one of the wingmen ended up being the only white guys in the entire club, and since we both have Asian fever, I think I speak for both of us when I say we felt like a couple of kids in a ToysRUs!
Upon entering, we hit the dancefloor! It was pretty small so during our stay on this level of the club, we pretty much mixed and matched the entire time. I’d open a few sets with one wingman, then go solo for awhile, then hook up with another one or chill with some insta-friends I made in the club or the lineup.
Something I wanted to practice was taking girls away from guys. I accomplished this in many ways. They ranged from simply telling the hovering AFCs that she’s my girlfriend to grabbing the girl’s arm, spinning her and pulling her away from them. “You owe me for saving you from that guy! Bigtime! How are you gonna make it up to me?” This was fun as hell. But man, I pissed a lot of guys off!
The dancefloor contained the usual mix of hot and cold reactions, lots of dancing, grinding, screaming off the top of our lungs, stealing girls away all that other fun stuff. About an hour after entering, I observed that most of the girls over HB7.5 were in places other than the dancefloor, so me and a wingman excused ourselves from a 3-set we were grinding and moved on.
As I walked up to the bar, I immediately noticed a really tall, well-dressed SHB. It’s not often that you see a 6-foot Asian girl, so she really stood out. We’ll call her HBModel. I was walking solo at this point and noticed another wingman of mine hovering around her. I gave him a minute to approach, but when he didn’t, I went for it. I decided to pretend that I assumed they know each other since they’re standing so close to each other. So I put one hand on his shoulder, the other on hers:
Me: Hey Ryan, are you gonna introduce me to your friend?
Her: Oh.. we don’t know eachother J
Me: Ahh! Well, I’m Max, this is Ryan.
<we shake hands and exchange greetings, then Ryan turns away for some reason, so I decided to snatch her up. Didn’t feel like saying anything fancy because it was too loud, so I got right to the point and took her hand>
Me: We’re gonna go dance
Her: I have a boyfriend! He’s right over there *points at group of AMOGs*
Me: No way? My boyfriend’s there too! He says I should have fun and meet new people tonight!
Her: Blah blah blah
<I realized this wasn’t a ****-test and she really did have a boyfriend>
Me: OMG, you’re so shy! Later, chicken! Hahah!
Remember this girl, as we’ll come back to her later. Anyway, somewhat social-proofed by my association with the SHB, I approached a 3-set about 5 meters away. Got the girl to lean in and told her she looks too serious and should try smiling more. She started giggling. We talked briefly, and I did a takeaway. As I walked off, I ran into another wingman and completely forgot about the 3-set when he said that this place has a rooftop patio! Off we went!
Finally, air! It was so hot and humid downstairs! I felt so alive and went right at it! We immediately walked up to a 6-set of HB8+ and opened with Mystery’s Brush or Floss Opener for the first time:
Me: What’s happenin guys?
Them: *greetings, neutral faces*
Me: We need your opinion on something, this’ll only take a minute. Me and my friend here were having an argument and we need a female perspective.
Them: *very focused, some smiling*
Me: Its actually pretty serious stuff. A matter of life and death! You see, your answers could potentially change our entire lives!
Them: *some start giggling*
Me: Are you ready for this? Here goes… Do you brush before flossing… or floss before brushing?
Them: *start cracking up, some start answering when the alpha female interrupts and answers me*
<At this point, my wingman should have engaged the rest of the group, but he didn’t and they noticed that she’s going after me and I’m engaged in convo with her, and turned somewhat away>
We fluffed for a bit, then I did a takeaway. I was planning to return to her later, but something happened that I didn’t expect. But before that, I ran into another really tall well-dressed girl that reminded me of HBModel downstairs.
Me: Hey, lemme ask you something. What do guys usually say when they hit on you here?
Her: It’s actually only my second time here so I don’t really know
<we fluffed for a bit and then HBModel walks up to us! It turned out they were friends. No wonder, they looked similar enough to even be sisters!>
But this is where the unexpected event I mentioned earlier occurred. A scuffle broke out. I did a takeaway with the 2-set of SHBs, immediately came up with the Tickets Opener and started approaching more sets and jokingly trying to sell them front-row tickets to a big fight that was obviously brewing.
Then all hell broke loose! The bouncers jumped in and one of them who was new, got freaked out and started spraying people with pepper-spray left and right! At least a half-dozen people got hit, including 2-3 bouncers who came running up to the bar I was standing beside and screaming “WATER! WATER!” Naturally, I didn’t wait for the bartender to help and handed over my bottle so they could pour it into their eyes.
After things settled down and the instigators got dragged away, I came up with the Bodyguard Opener and put it to use! I field-tested it solo and then duo on at least a half-dozen sets right then and there. Worked great especially since me and my wingman were both dressed pure black. Here’s the opener: “With all the stuff going on here tonight, I think you guys could use some bodyguards! We’re freelancers and for a flat-rate fee of $10 a head, we’ll follow you around looking really mean and serious, and fight off any guys with pepper spray.” I’ll use this in the future, but replace the ending with ‘any guys who try to hit on you.’
Our success rate was 100% with this opener as far as initial reactions go. Actually, we had no negative/neutral reactions on the patio at all. The people in this club were incredibly friendly. People on the dance floor seemed a lot friendlier and more receptive than usual as well. This may have something to do with the fact that they’re from a different culture, and there aren’t as many AMOGs pissing girls off and grabbing their asses. About 20 minutes after the fight, the security closed down the club and we hit the streets.
I spotted a 3-set walking in the opposite direction down the street, ran up to them, and started walking backwards with my face turned towards them. The set turned out to be made up of HB8+:
Me: Man, you guys have such a cute group dynamic going here! You’re just like the Powerpuff Girls!
Them: *start cracking up hysterically*
<first time using this opener.. woah, talk about good reaction>
Me: I’m serious! Which one of you is Bubbles?
HB8Spanish: *starts doing kungfu moves and claiming she’s Bubbles*
Me: Awesome! You’re tough, I’m gonna have you watch my back since I’m walking backwards and am bound to run into something!
HB8Spanish: *agrees enthusiastically*
Me: Wait, but how do I know that I can trust you? I just met you!
HB8Spanish: *starts qualifying herself and saying she’s a good, trustworthy person*
Me: Is she talling the truth? Can you guys vouch for her?
Man, I HAD this 3-set by the (proverbial) balls! And then my cell rang! Arghh! One of the wingmen I lost just exited the club and was waiting for me back at the entrance. So I had to jet. Come to think of it, I shoulda went for #close anyway - HB8Spanish seemed real interested!
So the four of us reunited outside the club and one of my wingmen went home. The remaining trio hit the streets, approaching every girl we saw. Some fairly ordinary approaches here, so I’ll more right on to what I think is the coolest pickup of the night. We walked by a set of 3 guys and 2 girls who were chilling by a building, when my wingman stopped me and said we should have approached. He’s right, we should have! I turned around, walked back to them and opened with Floss or Brush.
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*CONTINUED*
Awesome reaction from the girls, and the guys were friendly too, though obviously not overly excited about what we were doing. We fluffed for a bit and I found out all of them just met. The game was on! Ten minutes later, we HAD this! The guys walked away discouraged and one of the girls was on my wingman’s lap as he was kissing her neck. I didn’t want the other girl, so he #closed and we walked off. I hope everyone can learn something from this. NEVER let the presence of guys stop you from going after what you want!
All in all, this was an incredible night. It gave me a taste of what’s possible when you act like you own the dancefloor, the patio, the street, or wharever you are.. and really believe in it too! Your targets get infected with your aura and let you get away with just about anything. I mean sh1t, my wingman ended up teaching some girl how to Salsa on a Chinatown street at 5AM to give you an example. I can’t wait to do this all over again and take it further!
Awesome reaction from the girls, and the guys were friendly too, though obviously not overly excited about what we were doing. We fluffed for a bit and I found out all of them just met. The game was on! Ten minutes later, we HAD this! The guys walked away discouraged and one of the girls was on my wingman’s lap as he was kissing her neck. I didn’t want the other girl, so he #closed and we walked off. I hope everyone can learn something from this. NEVER let the presence of guys stop you from going after what you want!
All in all, this was an incredible night. It gave me a taste of what’s possible when you act like you own the dancefloor, the patio, the street, or wharever you are.. and really believe in it too! Your targets get infected with your aura and let you get away with just about anything. I mean sh1t, my wingman ended up teaching some girl how to Salsa on a Chinatown street at 5AM to give you an example. I can’t wait to do this all over again and take it further!
[look]aRhino
Don Juan
Nice man. its good to know that its all coming together for you.
Solid excursion on your part.
What club did you hit up? I remember you saying you really didn't like the clubbing scene.
Rhino
Solid excursion on your part.
What club did you hit up? I remember you saying you really didn't like the clubbing scene.
Rhino
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 01 2004
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Car-based Cold Approaches
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=509166#post509166
I was driving out of a parking lot, and waiting for cars to pass before making a left onto a street, when i saw a cute Asian girl walking towards me on the sidewalk. She was about 20 meters away, so i waved but got no response. Not sure as to whether she didn't see me wave or ignored me, but that's irrelevant.
A spot finally opened up, and i turned into the street, driving her by. Wait a minute, i did what? FVCK! I pussied out and missed an opportunity to approach! FVCK! I REFUSE TO ACCEPT ANY CIRCUMSTANCE THAT LEADS TO FAILURE! Autopilot engaged!
BRAKES. U-TURN. GAS. BRAKES. PARK. EXIT.
"Hey! Listen, i really hate letting opportunities pass me by."
There, i fvcking did it! She was speechless. Just stood there with her mouth wide open, facial expression going from shocked to smiling and back again several times in a matter of seconds.
Approaches like this are some of the hardest i've ever done. This is only my second. The good news is that my anxiety level dropped from the first time. The bad news is that it was still too high.
What i realized is this: this is one daring way to approach. And she knows it too. She's never been approached like this in her life. She's shocked. I'm 180, she's 100. I'm over 6 feet, she's barely over 5. I look 24 (even though i'm 21), she looks 17. What state do you think that puts her in?
You must be absolutely comfortable, cool and laid-back in order for this to work. It's critical for you to bring her down from a state of anxiety into a state of relaxation and comfort. And the only way to do that is to be relaxed and comfortable yourself. Oh how i look forward to being able to do that!
I like to think that i can read body language fairly well, and hers told me that if i pulled it off correctly, i would have number closed. So when i asked her if she was single, she said "no" in a "i have no idea how to react, what to say or do, so i'm gonna say the one thing that will return things back to normal" way.
Why did i even ask if she was single? Because i was admittedly far too anxious to pull off a proper approach and develop rapport. So i just said the first thing that came to mind, just like she did, for the same reason as she did.
"Ah well, it was nice meeting you anyway," i replied and started walking back to my car. I was already near it when she finally responded with "it was nice meeting you too!" I turned around and she was still standing there, watching me. Then she turned and slowly started walking away. I got the feeling she regretted her anwer.
All i have to say is that afterwards, i felt awesome! I drove away with a HUGE grin on my face and couldn't stop smiling for 15 minutes! For a brief moment, i knew what it felt like to be God. So where does this bring me? I'm DEFINITELY doing that again! If anything, the rush alone makes it worth while! And eventually the anxiety will disappear and i'll be able to do it right. Gotta keep practicing!
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Car-based Cold Approaches
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=509166#post509166
I was driving out of a parking lot, and waiting for cars to pass before making a left onto a street, when i saw a cute Asian girl walking towards me on the sidewalk. She was about 20 meters away, so i waved but got no response. Not sure as to whether she didn't see me wave or ignored me, but that's irrelevant.
A spot finally opened up, and i turned into the street, driving her by. Wait a minute, i did what? FVCK! I pussied out and missed an opportunity to approach! FVCK! I REFUSE TO ACCEPT ANY CIRCUMSTANCE THAT LEADS TO FAILURE! Autopilot engaged!
BRAKES. U-TURN. GAS. BRAKES. PARK. EXIT.
"Hey! Listen, i really hate letting opportunities pass me by."
There, i fvcking did it! She was speechless. Just stood there with her mouth wide open, facial expression going from shocked to smiling and back again several times in a matter of seconds.
Approaches like this are some of the hardest i've ever done. This is only my second. The good news is that my anxiety level dropped from the first time. The bad news is that it was still too high.
What i realized is this: this is one daring way to approach. And she knows it too. She's never been approached like this in her life. She's shocked. I'm 180, she's 100. I'm over 6 feet, she's barely over 5. I look 24 (even though i'm 21), she looks 17. What state do you think that puts her in?
You must be absolutely comfortable, cool and laid-back in order for this to work. It's critical for you to bring her down from a state of anxiety into a state of relaxation and comfort. And the only way to do that is to be relaxed and comfortable yourself. Oh how i look forward to being able to do that!
I like to think that i can read body language fairly well, and hers told me that if i pulled it off correctly, i would have number closed. So when i asked her if she was single, she said "no" in a "i have no idea how to react, what to say or do, so i'm gonna say the one thing that will return things back to normal" way.
Why did i even ask if she was single? Because i was admittedly far too anxious to pull off a proper approach and develop rapport. So i just said the first thing that came to mind, just like she did, for the same reason as she did.
"Ah well, it was nice meeting you anyway," i replied and started walking back to my car. I was already near it when she finally responded with "it was nice meeting you too!" I turned around and she was still standing there, watching me. Then she turned and slowly started walking away. I got the feeling she regretted her anwer.
All i have to say is that afterwards, i felt awesome! I drove away with a HUGE grin on my face and couldn't stop smiling for 15 minutes! For a brief moment, i knew what it felt like to be God. So where does this bring me? I'm DEFINITELY doing that again! If anything, the rush alone makes it worth while! And eventually the anxiety will disappear and i'll be able to do it right. Gotta keep practicing!
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Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 01 2004: CONTINUED
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Walked down a busy street in search of a particular record store later that day. It was absolutely packed with Asian hotties! But they were all in sets of 2 and up! The only opposite-direciton-walking approaches i've done solo were 1-sets, so i must admit i lacked the balls to do this. I'm pissed off at myself, but tomorrow it's payback time! I'm going back there with a wingman and won't rest until my fear of approaching walking sets is fvcking dead! And so, Operation Autopilot was born!
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Walked down a busy street in search of a particular record store later that day. It was absolutely packed with Asian hotties! But they were all in sets of 2 and up! The only opposite-direciton-walking approaches i've done solo were 1-sets, so i must admit i lacked the balls to do this. I'm pissed off at myself, but tomorrow it's payback time! I'm going back there with a wingman and won't rest until my fear of approaching walking sets is fvcking dead! And so, Operation Autopilot was born!
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THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 02 2004
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Hahah, a day after i my horrible attempt at a car-based approach, i successfully pulled off TWO! Plus a whole bunch of other crazy sh1t! Check it out:
FR: Operation Autopilot
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Hahah, a day after i my horrible attempt at a car-based approach, i successfully pulled off TWO! Plus a whole bunch of other crazy sh1t! Check it out:
FR: Operation Autopilot
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 03 2004
Went sarging at an amusement park with a wingman and his buddy. Serious lack of targets. I think i only found about 3 hot single girls that i'd want to close. Did a bunch of other throwaway approaches on hot girls with boyfriends though!
APPROACH: [X]SOLO [_]WING [3F2M]SET [NA]CLOSE
Set walking in opposite direction. C&F opener: "hey, you wanna try to win me one of those toys?" Fluffed for a bit, she was great at C&F and i couldn't keep up cuz it was the first approach of the day and i was a bit anxious. Didn't go for close. Missed opportunity.
APPROACH: [X]SOLO [_]WING [2F3M]SET [NO]CLOSE
Approached who i thought was an Asian girl, but she ended up being around 30! Went for the digits anyway, even though she's a decade older and was there with her older relatives. I have NO shame! But she said she was taken.
APPROACH: [X]SOLO [_]WING [1F1M]SET [NO]CLOSE
Approached a girl working at a food stand who kept checking me out from afar. Turns out the guy working with her was the boyfriend. From the way she was looking at me, i could tell she'd have given me the digits if he wasn't there. No surprise, he looked like a real chump!
Went sarging at an amusement park with a wingman and his buddy. Serious lack of targets. I think i only found about 3 hot single girls that i'd want to close. Did a bunch of other throwaway approaches on hot girls with boyfriends though!
APPROACH: [X]SOLO [_]WING [3F2M]SET [NA]CLOSE
Set walking in opposite direction. C&F opener: "hey, you wanna try to win me one of those toys?" Fluffed for a bit, she was great at C&F and i couldn't keep up cuz it was the first approach of the day and i was a bit anxious. Didn't go for close. Missed opportunity.
APPROACH: [X]SOLO [_]WING [2F3M]SET [NO]CLOSE
Approached who i thought was an Asian girl, but she ended up being around 30! Went for the digits anyway, even though she's a decade older and was there with her older relatives. I have NO shame!
But she said she was taken.APPROACH: [X]SOLO [_]WING [1F1M]SET [NO]CLOSE
Approached a girl working at a food stand who kept checking me out from afar. Turns out the guy working with her was the boyfriend. From the way she was looking at me, i could tell she'd have given me the digits if he wasn't there. No surprise, he looked like a real chump!
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SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 04 2004
Street sarging at 3AM with a wingman! Fun fun!
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 2SET, CLOSE UNATTEMPTED
Approached two traditional Asian cuties who were asking some drunk guy for directions. Dynamic opener: "Noo he got it all wrong! Here's what you do: make a left, then right left right left left left right right left" *with a big grin*. Blank faces. As previously discussed, traditional Asian girls have NO sense of humor! The drunk guy ****blocking us by telling them we're liars didn't help either. They just walked away from all of us. God, they're so stupid and gullible! We were nicely dressed and sober, he was drunk and asking for change on the corner. And they believed what he said about us!
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 3SET, CLOSE UNATTEMPTED
Walkind 3-set of pretty wasted party girls one of whom actually opened us, but her friends kept dragging her away and walking so it was a complete disaster.
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 3SET, #CLOSE FAILED
Sitting 3-set. Properly done. Neg-hits, C&F, fluffing, routines, you name it! Unfortunately, i over-negged the b1tchy chick and she ****blocked us by just coming out and saying "we're waiting for our boyfriends" while i was having some great fluff talk with one of the other girls, who seemed to be digging my style. Tried to #close anyway, but no go.
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 2SET, #CLOSE SUCCEEDED
We came out way late, so the streets were getting empty. Finally, we were the only ones left. And that's when we ran into a 2-set who were waiting for their ride. I opened by busting the girl for stealing my style cuz she was also wearing white jeans. She loved it. Talked for 15 mins and # closed the Indian HB8. She just came here from a small town to start university. My wingman didn't bother closing her HB6.5 friend. To show what liars girls are though: these two kept saying how disgusted they are with men in Toronto and trying to get us to start qualifying ourselves. Of course, i did no such thing and agreed with them, assuring that we're two of the very worst In the end of the night, i noticed she had FIVE phone numbers written on her arm! And they were saying that the two of us are the only two cool guys they've met. Ha! There goes her LTR potential - she's now officially FB material.
Street sarging at 3AM with a wingman! Fun fun!
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 2SET, CLOSE UNATTEMPTED
Approached two traditional Asian cuties who were asking some drunk guy for directions. Dynamic opener: "Noo he got it all wrong! Here's what you do: make a left, then right left right left left left right right left" *with a big grin*. Blank faces. As previously discussed, traditional Asian girls have NO sense of humor! The drunk guy ****blocking us by telling them we're liars didn't help either. They just walked away from all of us. God, they're so stupid and gullible! We were nicely dressed and sober, he was drunk and asking for change on the corner. And they believed what he said about us!
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 3SET, CLOSE UNATTEMPTED
Walkind 3-set of pretty wasted party girls one of whom actually opened us, but her friends kept dragging her away and walking so it was a complete disaster.
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 3SET, #CLOSE FAILED
Sitting 3-set. Properly done. Neg-hits, C&F, fluffing, routines, you name it! Unfortunately, i over-negged the b1tchy chick and she ****blocked us by just coming out and saying "we're waiting for our boyfriends" while i was having some great fluff talk with one of the other girls, who seemed to be digging my style. Tried to #close anyway, but no go.
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 2SET, #CLOSE SUCCEEDED
We came out way late, so the streets were getting empty. Finally, we were the only ones left. And that's when we ran into a 2-set who were waiting for their ride. I opened by busting the girl for stealing my style cuz she was also wearing white jeans. She loved it. Talked for 15 mins and # closed the Indian HB8. She just came here from a small town to start university. My wingman didn't bother closing her HB6.5 friend. To show what liars girls are though: these two kept saying how disgusted they are with men in Toronto and trying to get us to start qualifying ourselves. Of course, i did no such thing and agreed with them, assuring that we're two of the very worst
In the end of the night, i noticed she had FIVE phone numbers written on her arm! And they were saying that the two of us are the only two cool guys they've met. Ha! There goes her LTR potential - she's now officially FB material.
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SUNDAY, AUGUST 29 2004
(old entry)
I forgot to type up this entry, so i'm gonna do it before i forget. It was an important day because it was my first time doing approaches that involved sitting down at tables with girls without asking them to.
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 2SET, CLOSE UNATTEMPTED
At a food court, we sat down with these two girls and talked for about 10 minutes. They were a little too "fobbish" for me, although kinda cute. Didn't bother # closing. Very good practice though!
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 1SET, CLOSE UNATTEMPTED
Dragged my wingman into a store that sells female accessories and made him try on a wig. That was hilarious! We both talked to the cute sales clerk for about 10 minutes, and i took a picture of him in the wig with his arm around her. It's now one of my regular routines/stories that i use in convos with chicks. That girl looked 15, so i didn't bother closing. Later on my wingman said she mentioned going to college this year, so i went back to #close her, but her shift already ended and she was gone!
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 3SET, CLOSE UNATTEMPTED
We were walking down the street and saw a 3-set walking in our direction. I just stopped in my tracks, held my palm out and said STOP! Haha, i've always wanted to try that! And it worked! Used a creative opener, but then couldn't transition from it and lost em.
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 3SET, CLOSE FAILED
Sat down at a table with ah HB8.5 and two UG4s. My wingman gave her all his attention, while i gave/took attention and threw in some C&F, as well as occupied her friends. In the end, she seemed a lot more interested in me, i suspect because my wingman came off needy. Tried to #close, but she said she was married. Even showed me the ring. What the hell, she was 20!
(old entry)
I forgot to type up this entry, so i'm gonna do it before i forget. It was an important day because it was my first time doing approaches that involved sitting down at tables with girls without asking them to.
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 2SET, CLOSE UNATTEMPTED
At a food court, we sat down with these two girls and talked for about 10 minutes. They were a little too "fobbish" for me, although kinda cute. Didn't bother # closing. Very good practice though!
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 1SET, CLOSE UNATTEMPTED
Dragged my wingman into a store that sells female accessories and made him try on a wig. That was hilarious! We both talked to the cute sales clerk for about 10 minutes, and i took a picture of him in the wig with his arm around her. It's now one of my regular routines/stories that i use in convos with chicks. That girl looked 15, so i didn't bother closing. Later on my wingman said she mentioned going to college this year, so i went back to #close her, but her shift already ended and she was gone!
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 3SET, CLOSE UNATTEMPTED
We were walking down the street and saw a 3-set walking in our direction. I just stopped in my tracks, held my palm out and said STOP! Haha, i've always wanted to try that! And it worked! Used a creative opener, but then couldn't transition from it and lost em.
APPROACH: DUO APPROACH, 3SET, CLOSE FAILED
Sat down at a table with ah HB8.5 and two UG4s. My wingman gave her all his attention, while i gave/took attention and threw in some C&F, as well as occupied her friends. In the end, she seemed a lot more interested in me, i suspect because my wingman came off needy. Tried to #close, but she said she was married. Even showed me the ring. What the hell, she was 20!