The importance of height for men

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Trouble is 5' 7-9 Is the average male height

Only 14% of the global male population is over 6ft ......you can knock another 10+% of that to account for 6ft + men that are actually single and on dating apps within specific areas and looking for a partner

And Lets be honest the the novelty of dating apps for a lot of men has well and truly run out

It doesn't take a math genius to work out if 75% of women want 4% of what's available theres a serious fvcking problem :rofl:

I mean women can say they want tall men as much as they want .....if they were actually capable of getting a man over 6ft they would have one simple as that

these 6ft 3+ outlier men are not going to settle for 32 year old stacey in marketing who's overweight with a stinking attitude

It makes absolutely no sense

I fear by the time a lot of these women accept they will never actually get this gigantic type of man they dream of to sweep them off their feet it will be too late for them
 

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I'm 5'8".

I put 5'10" on OLD sites. 1 out of maybe 200 women I met said anything about it. Some were the same height as me as women will usually put an inch or two shorter than than actual height.

Caused me no issues.

Stop buying into this nonsense.

What people say matters doesn't actually matter when it comes down to it if they actually like the man. Women will turn whatever "flaws" others see into positives to justify why she likes them if she is into you.

This is the type of stuff men who don't actually date women worry about and use it as excuses for why they don't get dates.

Trust me that's not it.
 

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I'm 5'8".

I put 5'10" on OLD sites. 1 out of maybe 200 women I met said anything about it. Some were the same height as me as women will usually put an inch or two shorter than than actual height.

Caused me no issues.

Stop buying into this nonsense.

What people say matters doesn't actually matter when it comes down to it if they actually like the man. Women will turn whatever "flaws" others see into positives to justify why she likes them if she is into you.

This is the type of stuff men who don't actually date women worry about and use it as excuses for why they don't get dates.

Trust me that's not it.
I put 5’8”. 2” boost. Was never a problem.
 

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That's bs and excuses. If you are really short - that can be your motivation to be successful. You have plenty of examples in the world and history of the world..
 

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This is the type of stuff men who don't actually date women worry about and use it as excuses for why they don't get dates.
The interesting thing (for me) is when this 'men have to be over 6ft' started. Before OLD went mainstream, men's height was rarely an issue unless a man was literally a dwarf and even then he could 'own it'. Women were still attracted to men who were taller than they were, but a couple of inches taller would be enough.

OLD taught women how to select men. Not on things like intelligence or wit or even ambition, but checking boxes with possible criteria. So when women would checkmark their profile, they get asked 'what age' 'how tall' et cetera to be 'matched' with their 'ideal'. And women being women, they would enthusiastically start checking boxes like 'has to be over 6ft and earn more than 6 figures and have abs' while they themselves sleep in sour sheets in a sub-let mess of an apartment, working sh!tty jobs for nickels and dimes, dreaming to get swept off their feet like a Disney princess.

And of course, these statistics are gleefully harvested by producers of status symbols that cater to men's insecurity about measuring up to these silly demands. Buy lifts for your shoes. Get hair-plugs to cover your bald patch. Get an impressive car. Get an impressive watch and bespoke suit. Spend hundreds on grooming products. All to show these low value women how thirsty guys are for their validation.

"OLD changed the game". No, gullible guys allowed the game to become skewed against them. OLD is a misrepresentation of the dating market and tries to get members because they don't care about matching guys who want to conveniently select a future partner from a portfolio. Match dot com knows that low value men will try to match with high value women they can never get, and low value women will not be interested in men at their own level because they hope to snare a hunk. So both of them will not choose their actual matches and Match dot com can use those statistics to make men and women even more insecure and thirsty.

OLD is a sham and while some 'lucky' guys may hook-up with some desperate women, OLD breeds contempt and dissatisfaction, which is great for business. Imagine if people would become realistic and stop buying shyte they don't need and be satisfied with what they got. Despite the feminist push to get women into the workplace, many women are not really happy employees and become disillusioned about finding the white picket fence prince.

This world revolves around greed, which is the real root of all evil. The eternal dissatisfaction that drives people to get more and more and more resources so they can feel superior over others. Join the rat race and become a good little consumer so the greedy can fill their pockets with your money. Work so hard that you cannot spare the time to socialise and find a partner > we conveniently listed all potential partners on a website and just fill out this questionnaire so we can fuel your dissatisfaction by giving you hope on someone who would never match with you in real life.

And now I'm going to brew myself a cappuccino on my 25-year old espresso machine. Have a great day, gentlemen.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The interesting thing (for me) is when this 'men have to be over 6ft' started. Before OLD went mainstream, men's height was rarely an issue unless a man was literally a dwarf and even then he could 'own it'. Women were still attracted to men who were taller than they were, but a couple of inches taller would be enough.

OLD taught women how to select men. Not on things like intelligence or wit or even ambition, but checking boxes with possible criteria. So when women would checkmark their profile, they get asked 'what age' 'how tall' et cetera to be 'matched' with their 'ideal'. And women being women, they would enthusiastically start checking boxes like 'has to be over 6ft and earn more than 6 figures and have abs' while they themselves sleep in sour sheets in a sub-let mess of an apartment, working sh!tty jobs for nickels and dimes, dreaming to get swept off their feet like a Disney princess.

And of course, these statistics are gleefully harvested by producers of status symbols that cater to men's insecurity about measuring up to these silly demands. Buy lifts for your shoes. Get hair-plugs to cover your bald patch. Get an impressive car. Get an impressive watch and bespoke suit. Spend hundreds on grooming products. All to show these low value women how thirsty guys are for their validation.

"OLD changed the game". No, gullible guys allowed the game to become skewed against them. OLD is a misrepresentation of the dating market and tries to get members because they don't care about matching guys who want to conveniently select a future partner from a portfolio. Match dot com knows that low value men will try to match with high value women they can never get, and low value women will not be interested in men at their own level because they hope to snare a hunk. So both of them will not choose their actual matches and Match dot com can use those statistics to make men and women even more insecure and thirsty.

OLD is a sham and while some 'lucky' guys may hook-up with some desperate women, OLD breeds contempt and dissatisfaction, which is great for business. Imagine if people would become realistic and stop buying shyte they don't need and be satisfied with what they got. Despite the feminist push to get women into the workplace, many women are not really happy employees and become disillusioned about finding the white picket fence prince.

This world revolves around greed, which is the real root of all evil. The eternal dissatisfaction that drives people to get more and more and more resources so they can feel superior over others. Join the rat race and become a good little consumer so the greedy can fill their pockets with your money. Work so hard that you cannot spare the time to socialise and find a partner > we conveniently listed all potential partners on a website and just fill out this questionnaire so we can fuel your dissatisfaction by giving you hope on someone who would never match with you in real life.

And now I'm going to brew myself a cappuccino on my 25-year old espresso machine. Have a great day, gentlemen.
OLD appears to be incredibly polarizing.
Love or Hate. Rarely a middle ground.
I agree that OLD probably wouldn’t do well if most men were successful on it. For me. Tinder worked exactly as promised. And. I was off it in 6 months due to it working successfully. I Had a fantastic time on Tinder.

And. i’m well below 6’.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Another height thread. It never stops.

I am a tall guy and I do see the looks girls give me. But I have seen shorter guys with consistent hotter women around me. They had a bit of money and suave to back themselves, so it gave them an edge that a lot of awkward tall guys do not have. But height is not really that important. The average only went down because of an influx of foreign men whose heights are on average shorter than the typical western height. I tower over hispanics and indians all day for instance.
 

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Here's a story that happened one nite in a bar....I was with a group of friends. One of the guys in the group was tall, dark, and handsome, with a full head of hair. Probably 6'2". Big build, good shape. Most would probably consider him a Chad in the looks department. The girl pretty much leads the entire conversation and isn't getting anywhere. He add's very little to the conversation. I'm kind of embarassed that he is so lame, so I insert myself into the conversation because I know this girl is about to bail.

So me....5'10", bald head, regular size guy gets the conversation going. We end up talking by ourselves, and dancing. Later that night she invites me to her house and we end up having some hot sex.

This chic was fresh off a divorce and wanted dihked down good. But it was important that the guy had some conversation skills because she wanted some sort of a connection as most women do. My friend couldn't do that.

I ended up seeing this girl for a few months. Our relationship was all about going out and having sex. Great fun. We barely even communicated outside of when we were physically together. Super easy relationship.

The great thing about women, is once you start connecting with one, the physical attributes become less of an issue. I think its men that care what the opposite sex looks like more than women do.

Don't let your lack of height or whatever physcial deficiency keep you from having success. If you lack height, or hair, make up for that in other areas and you will be fine. Excuses are for LOSERS.

I've beat out guys that were much taller and better looking than me many times. My confidence, conversation skills, and the ability to connect with women will seal the deal for me most all the time. Its what I've always relied on.
 
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You guys need to stop with these height threads. You can’t change your height. But you can change everything else in your life. I’m short and I’ve never had an issue finding a woman.
I'm average but I'm also Asian I'm five eight
 
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